Having the Talk About Car Keys with Elderly Parents

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A metro Detroit family is going through something many may relate to as their parents grow older: What’s the best way to take away an elderly person’s car keys?

Vivian Heap, 91, of Redford Township, told The Detroit News she has no plans to stop driving.

“You’d think I killed someone,” she said, explaining her children’s reaction after she ended she ended up in Bay County after a wrong turn that sent her 115 miles out of her way and left her at the mercy of strangers overnight.

The kids filed a missing persons report during her absence, then demanded she stop driving once they finally got her home from the unplanned 18-hour excursion.

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Linda Grenier says her headstrong, fiercely independent mother has no mental infirmities other than normal forgetfulness. She was still going bowling last year and only gave up golfing when she was 89.

“She’s not your typical 91-year-old,” Grenier told The Detroit News. “She doesn’t like old age. She can’t do what she’s used to.”

But after Heap’s detour home from a bridge game five miles away Wednesday, her adult children want the car keys. Read how that’s working out on The Detroit News. But we’d like to know:

• Have you had the driving talk with your elderly parents? Do you have any tips that might help others going through the same thing?

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