Celebrity Celebrity Relationships Celebrity Married Life Lily Allen Jokes That She Turns Down Husband David Harbour’s Requests in Bed: 'Babe, It's Not Happening' Allen has been married to Harbour since 2020 By Gabrielle Rockson Gabrielle Rockson Gabrielle Rockson is a staff writer-reporter for PEOPLE. She joined PEOPLE in 2023 and covers entertainment and human interest stories. She's interviewed David Beckham, Zendaya, Timothée Chalamet and many others. Her previous work can be found in OK! Magazine, MyLondon, GRM Daily, and more. People Editorial Guidelines Published on June 24, 2024 09:58AM EDT Lily Allen (left) and David Harbour in New York City on June 10, 2024. Photo: Sean Zanni/WireImage Lily Allen is sharing her bedroom secrets. Speaking on the “Listen Bitch! The Sex Stool” episode of her podcast Miss Me?, the singer, 39, and her co-host Miquita Oliver took a deep dive into questions regarding sexual preferences. After revealing that she had previously been promiscuous at the end of her marriage to Sam Cooper - who she was with from 2011 until 2018 - Allen admitted that she sometimes rejects her husband David Harbour’s, 49, requests in bed. Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. “I wonder if I kink-shame my husband,” she said. “Because he often quite asks for things, and I’m like, ‘No, babe, it’s not happening.’ ” Lily Allen (left) and David Harbour. Sean Zanni/WireImage Lily Allen's 2 Kids: All About Ethel and Marnie “I’m not like, ‘You piece of s---, how dare you ask me to do that!'” Allen joked. “I’m just like, ‘Hmm, headache. Little headache, got a bit of a headache — maybe not tonight.’ ” The PEOPLE Puzzler crossword is here! How quickly can you solve it? Play now! Allen's comments come after she revealed that her husband controls which apps she has on her phone. "I now have a kids’ phone called Pinwheel. It has no browsing capability and no social media, but you can still have Uber and Spotify," she told The Sunday Times last month. "My husband is the caregiver on it, so he controls what I’m allowed to have as an app on my phone. I’m the controller of his as well." Allen and Harbour were first rumored to be dating in 2019. By September 2020, the “Not Fair” artist and Stranger Things actor tied the knot in Las Vegas. Lily Allen and David Harbour Celebrate Christmas with Trip to India The ceremony saw the couple marry alongside an Elvis impersonator, who officiated the union. Allen's daughters, Marnie Rose, 11, and Ethel Mary, 12, whom she shares with Cooper, 46, were also in attendance. "I'm so grateful that I'm not alone anymore, and that I have someone that I can tell everything to and who can tell me everything," Harbour told PEOPLE about his relationship with Allen in 2021. "We can share this experience of walking through life together," he continued. "I'm always so overcome with gratitude for that, because I've been alone for most of my life."