Reviewed in the United States on November 19, 2015
Note: going to give all the honest and gory details just to be helpful :)
This is my first cup and I was brand new to this concept. I have friends who use softcups and went to investigate, and wasn't too wild about how they were disposable. I wanted something reusable, for both greenness and convenience - you never run out! It seems there are several different reusable cups, but the Diva Cup seemed extremely popular and got mostly good reviews, so I figured I'd give it a shot. I research a lot before I buy things, so I was pretty well informed on how it works, watched you tube videos, etc. I think that helped with product use. A few thoughts for those considering:
SIZE: I am a 35 year old who hasn't had children, and while it recommended the larger size, I figured I would start with the smaller and go larger if needed. The size of the product can be intimidating as it is, so figured start small and move up vs. the alternate. The smaller size is working fine for me.
VOLUME: I also have very heavy periods the first 2 days, and the next 3 are extremely light, so was hoping this would handle it. I mean, we're talking super plus tampons being changed every few hours on the first few days. I was really hoping for something like this that would hold more and be less leaky. My periods are also pretty regular, so I know to about 24 hours when they will start, so a huge bonus of this was that it could be put in ahead of time to be ready.
PRODUCT ITSELF: I love how little space this entire contraption takes up. I had a huge drawer devoted to all sorts of tampons and pads, and this is just a tiny corner of it. Which is awesome for storage both at home and when traveling, but also makes me happy to think about how many tampons I won't be throwing away anymore. The cup itself surprised me at how "firm" the silicon is. It's thicker and less flexible than I expected, but that makes it durable and didn't give me problems using it. Reading said it will get more flexible over time too, so that's just something to note.
USE: It's a little intimidating, as is anything new, but when my period arrived, figured it was time to give it a shot. I recommend trying this at home when you've got time, just so you can keep an eye on things and have the freedom and privacy to mess with it later if needed. I read about two different ways to fold it when inserting, and definitely think the "push down" method is better. That makes the top much smaller to insert vs. the C fold. Have a good grip on it though, as it wants to pop open. I also had boiled it for safety when it first arrived, and had wet it in the sink before trying to insert. I had read that this takes time/several cycles for people to get the hang of it, and also heard horror stories of people not able to get it out, and I prepared for the worst. So here goes:
Day 1 - Watched the DivaCup video one more time before using, just to refresh my memory. Did the push down method, put it in, and it wanted to pop open before I even had it in all the way. I actually got it in with little problem, and was surprised. Gripped the base like you are supposed to and did a full turn, also tried to feel around the outside to see if it was open. Aside from the stem being slightly uncomfortable, it was in! I was shocked, I did it! I'd read you could trim the stem to make it more comfortable, but figured I'd give it a few tries before doing that. Sweet! I was now inspired by my future of minimal period products. Aside from the stem, I also couldn't feel it, so it was comfortable. This is going to work!
Day 1 - a few hours later - welp, we've got some leaks. I'm disappointed. Is it too small? Should I have gotten the bigger size? Will I be one of those people that can't use these? I tried to shove the negativity aside and focused on the daunting task of getting it out. Pulled down slightly on the stem so I'd have better access to the base, gripped the base and tried to "break the seal" people talk about, and surprisingly again, didn't have a problem pulling it out. If you have longer fingernails, or even moderate fingernails, be extra careful. Things can get pinched and it's unpleasant. The cool thing about the cup is it has measurements inside, and I could see it wasn't like I was overflowing at all, there wasn't even much in there. I rinsed it out and figured I would make attempt number 2. This time, I tried to insert less like a tampon and more towards the tailbone (like the video talks about). Again, was able to get it in, 360 degree turn, and gave it a little tug down to try and put the seal in place, as some reviews said. I also put on a pad to block any leaks/spotting. This time the stem seemed at a more comfortable angle and slightly farther in.
Day 1 - evening - NO LEAKS. I'm in shock - it can't be working this well already, can it? I decide to do the recommended empty in the shower this time. Yes, it can look like a murder scene if you've got a heavier period, but the shower process was fantastic and I decided to do all changes there when possible. It's much easier to get "everything" clean, and then you can put the cup back in before getting out.
Day 2 - I'm sort of amazed. While the first attempt had leaked, I haven't had a leak since. It's comfortable/unnoticeable when I have it in, and I rode my bike with it just fine. I took a pantyliner pad with me when I went out, just in case, but didn't need it at all. Left in the full 12 hours, no problem. Over night, no problem. I'm not going to bother trimming the stem either, I can't even feel it when I'm wearing it anymore.
Day 3 & 4 - same as above. I hope I'm not abnormal, but I haven't had an issue since.
I've been so pleased that I ordered the Divawash to wash it between cycles as I think this is a keeper. I'm also noticing I'm not as "dry" feeling - like tampons suck every last bit of moisture out, and I definitely haven't experienced that the last few days. Also makes me happy I'm not putting bleached things in myself, nor creating waste, and have gotten rid of the risk of TSS.
If you are considering trying a cup, I really recommend it. It's definitely going to be some trial and error, but I'm really pleased with how it's been working. I've also read that some ladies who didn't get it to work tried other brands and had success, so I'd say don't give up if you really do struggle. But honestly I was expecting a LOT worse, for this to be a huge ordeal, and it's actually been quite simple. Some people worried (including me) about getting it lost, however I found it stays in place really well, but I can actually move it slightly up or down if needed. Another big concern is getting it stuck. I definitely gripped the bottom and tried to break the seal/push in the sides, and honestly had no issues with it coming undone. Now that I'm on day 4, I'm going to leave it out at night to give things a little break in there, but don't really need it overnight at this point anyway. I'm really excited to think I haven't used one single tampon this entire week, and only went through three pantyliner pads as precaution (didn't need any of them). Amazing.
My biggest problem now is what am I going to do with all these extra tampons I hope to never have to use again? :)