What Men and Women Look for in A.I. Companion Bots
Do Men & Women Seek Out Different Things From A.I. Companion Chatbots?
The Story
If you’re feeling lonely because you don’t get messages on dating apps, would getting messages written by robots cheer you up?
That’s a question that My.club, an OnlyFans-style digital fan platform, may have an answer for.
My.club started rolling out A.I. companion bots this year to chat with people looking for friendly or flirtatious interactions. While this concept may raise fascinating ethical and philosophical questions, it’s also an opportunity for learning. Specifically, what are people looking for when it comes to the conversations they have with these chatbots?
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The Snapshot
AskMen spoke to My.club’s CMO, Ana Levy, about what men and women respond to the most when chatting with their bots.
“We have found, since offering AI Digital Twins, that men seek an experience without judgment,” Levy says. “They want to be able to say things that they normally may be too shy to say to another human. They want to live out their wildest fantasies.”
Women, on the other hand, Levy notes, “prefer deeper emotional connections” on My.club.
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“With AI, they appreciate that they’re being heard and understood, whilst also not being judged. They love it when the AI listens and shows them that they’re actually listening and understanding their problems.”
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Despite these perceived gender differences, Levy also notes similarities between the two.
“I think deep down there are actually a lot of similarities between men and women,” she says. “They both seek adventure and fantasy. Neither of them wants to be judged, and both want to be heard and made to feel important.”
The Lesson
When large language models started demonstrating the ability to produce incredibly human text outputs in recent years, it was only a matter of time before they would begin to be used in a dating context.
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Some of the texts that humans most love receiving are words written in a romantic or sexual context. This has been the case for as long as humans have been writing love letters; it’s no surprise that it continues to be the case today.
Because there’s so much interest, there is necessarily an economic reasoning for producing text that makes people feel sexy, romantic, or otherwise desirable, so of course it’s not surprising that so-called A.I. technologies are being used to mimic messages from would-be digital suitors.
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