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People Who Moved From A Major US City To A Small Midwestern Town Are Opening Up About What Gave Them Culture Shock
There are various parts of small-town life in the Midwest that really stood out to city transplants...
There are various parts of small-town life in the Midwest that really stood out to city transplants...
"I do harbor some resentment. He makes less because he works his dream job and I gave up mine to work a corporate job."
"Expressing one's feelings may not lead to the outcome you want, but it's better to speak about things now than to hold it in and have it explode 10 times worse."
Does it impact how you split bills or balance your lifestyle?
"Sometimes, I feel like his opinions are 'outdated,' but it's because he grew up in a different time than me, so I have learned to be more understanding of where he is coming from because things changed A LOT between his childhood/teen years and mine."
"To me, it reads: 'I don't think the things you say are important enough to remember.'"
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"I do harbor some resentment. He makes less because he works his dream job and I gave up mine to work a corporate job."
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"Sometimes, I feel like his opinions are 'outdated,' but it's because he grew up in a different time than me, so I have learned to be more understanding of where he is coming from because things changed A LOT between his childhood/teen years and mine."
"She literally got so jealous and told me I had to choose between her and her sister. I told her that this was childish, but she wouldn't hear it. I haven't talked to her for a couple years, and there's so much less drama in my life now."
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"I would find no joy in raising a child, but I am finding joy by living the life I want without kids."
"He admitted to me that the reason why he never took our kids anywhere, or went out with us, was because they were all girls. I hadn't provided him with a 'son and heir.'"