Rachel Varina
Rachel Varina is a full-time freelance writer covering everything from the best vibrators (the Lelo Sona) to the best TV shows (The Vampire Diaries). She has over 10 years of editorial experience with bylines at Women's Health, Elite Daily, Betches, and more. She lives in Tampa, Florida, but did not feed her husband to tigers. When she's not testing out new sex toys (100+ and counting so far!), she's likely chilling with her dogs or eating buffalo chicken dip. Ideally at the same time. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter.
Bumble vs. Tinder: How to Decide Which One to Download, According to Dating Professionals
Consider this your everything-to-know guide to two of the most popular dating apps.
Everything You Need to Know About Love Bombing and Why Itās So Dangerous
Beneath the whirlwind romance lies a dangerous form of emotional abuse.
25 Homemade Sex Toys You Probs Already Have Lying Around
No need to splurge when you have a fully-stocked kitchen, trust.
How to Tell Someone You Love Them with Both Words *and* Actions
Because everyone processes differently, and sometimes a sweet gesture can be just as effective as saying it out loud.
41 Male Erogenous Zones You Should Definitely Know About
Letās hit all those sweet spots, shall we?
50 Spicy Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend
Better turn down the AC, bc it's about to get scorching. š„µ
25 BDSM Movies You'll Wanna Stream Right Now
Prepare thy vibrator!
35 Porn Sites for Women That Are Safe, Ethical, and Extremely Hot
These sites ensure the fair and safe treatment of their performers and prioritize feminist content that will one hundred percent get you right off.
When to Say āI Love Youā in a New Relationship
According to 30 guys who've done it, and relationship experts who weigh in on how soon really is *too* soon.
This 21 Questions Game Is the Key to Getting to Know Your Crush
Ask these now, thank us later.
18 Audio Porn Options That Are Just as Hot as Watching It Onscreen
Welcome to the wonderful world of audio erotica.
110 Relationship Questions to Ask Your Partner, Even If You Think You Know Everything About Them
Because people change, and so might their answers!
What Do All the Different Heart Emojis Mean?
Hereās exactly when and how to use all 27 of them. (And when not to use āem.)
30 Sexiest Movies and TV Shows on Amazon Prime
In case you thought Prime was only good for bulk TP deliveries. š
How to Take an Actually Good Dick Pic, According to Experts
Thereās a lot more to it than just snapping a shot of your schlong, okay?
10 Relationship Green Flags That Might Just Mean Youāve Found a Keeper
Great communicator with a willingness to grow? Immediately yes. ā
What Does It Mean to Be Pansexual? Experts Explain the (Often Misunderstood) Definition
Starting with: No, it's not exactly the same thing as being bisexual.
Unpacking the Term āQueer,ā Its History, and What It Really Means
Yes, itās an identity, but it also conveys a sense of community.
100 Hinge Prompt Answers Thatāll Make Your Profile as Strong as Possible
We won't tell if you copy these. š
135 Questions to Ask Your Crush When You're Getting to Know Each Other Better
Because every good "talking phase" includes honest convos about the things that matter to you both.
How to Really, Truly Love Yourself, According to Therapists
Because there's a little more to it than just face masks and self-care.
105 Sex Bucket List Ideas Youāre Going to Want to Try ASAP
Like, right TF now.
Unpacking the Four Attachment Styles and What, Exactly, They Say about You
Think of your attachment style as your emotional blueprint for relationships.
What's the Difference Between Pansexual and Bisexual?
Experts weigh in on the often-misunderstood sexuality labels, and what the difference between them *actually* looks like.
The Super Sexy Meaning Behind the Upside-Down Pineapple Might Surprise You
Get in the know about this very flirty fruit...
How to Have Lesbian Sex for the First Time
All aboard the train to Sapphic Sex Land.
24 Best Hinge Prompts to Actually Help Your Matches Get to Know You
And maybe even tell you a little something about them in the process. Win-win!
150 Dirty Pickup Lines Thatāll Filth Up *Any* Convo
āIs your body a map? Because I love to travel." š
110 Best Tinder Pickup Lines for When You Need a Little Inspo
Never wrack your brain for an opener ever again!
Hereās How to Tell If Youāre in a Rebound Relationship
And how to know if it'll last. š
21 Safe Porn Sites for Legitimately Better, More Ethical Content
Safety first, folks.
What Is Lovesickness, and How Do You Actually Cure It?
The prescription calls for watching "The Notebook." On repeat.