Ben Affleck has been leaning on his ex-wife Jennifer Garner amid his split from Jennifer Lopez, and apparently, her boyfriend, Cali Group CEO John Miller, isn’t completely on board with the dynamic.

A source tells the Daily Mail, “John doesn’t like sharing Jen and there is a divide when it comes to her and Ben. He wishes it wasn’t like that because he understands they are a family, but it gets to him like it would anyone.”

The insider also stresses the following: “John doesn’t have any fears that they are getting back together—but it has been tough coping with her support for Ben during his split from J.Lo”

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Now that Bennifer is officially getting divorced after months of back-and-forth, John is said to be “looking forward to Ben and J.Lo’s split being done so he can start focusing on Jen.”

“Bumpy roads recently are looking to be smoothed out,” the person close to the sitch (who notes that Jen and John are very much still together) explains. “Both Jen and John are hoping for that. It is just going to take a little time. They both want to be in a better place, but some work needs to be done.”

Meanwhile, Jen Garner reportedly appreciates how patient her boyfriend has been during this whole saga. As the source puts it, “The relationship that Ben and Jen have is different, and where that bothers John, Jen actually likes that it is different because that is what attracted her to John in the first place.”