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60 Summer Date Ideas That'll Make the Sexiest Season Even Better

Whether you're craving an outdoor adventure or your style is more "AC at full blast," there's something for you here.

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Everyone knows that summer is the sexiest season, thus making it the best time to date and meet new people. The weather is perfect, the clothing is minimal, and there's no limit to what you can do, both indoors and out. The season is practically begging you to grab a hottie date, your long-term lover, or your BFF (or even just your d*mn self if you're craving some solo time) for summer date ideas you'll absolutely love. Which is where we conveniently come in with this expertly-curated list of activities, from wine-tastings, to hikes, to fun indoor things if you're more of a stay-inside-with-the-AC-blasting type of person. You're so welcome.

One of the best things about summer date nights (or day dates because, this is prime time to soak up the sun) is that there are So. Many. Options. When the weather is nice and the vibes are right, even the simplest of outdoor activities suddenly seem date-worthy. Sexy beach days? Check. Fresh cocktails somewhere (anywhere!) outside? Check. Actually…doing anything outside because the weather is so nice you can’t stand to be indoors for even one second?! Triple check! Yes, winter may have the monopoly on coupled-up cuffing season cuteness, but trust us: Summer is *the* time to really turn up the heat on your dating life.

Oh, and if your vibe is more Hot Girl Summer Sliving than cutesy summer lovin’, feel free to go ahead and adopt these summer date ideas for your ultimate bestie summer bucket list. Just make sure you get out there and live your best damn life, no matter who you’re with. Hell, go ahead and take yourself on the best solo, treat-yourself date of all time. Either way, the time to get out there and slay in the sun is now, friends. So, without further ado, the very best summer date ideas for your enjoyment, right this way.

1

Paint some ceramics

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Craving a wholesome indoor activity? Find your nearest ceramics studio and paint a few items together! How cute would matching coffee mugs look in your home? Or a special set of plates you *only* use on date nights in? The only con: You often have to leave your products at the studio so they can be glazed and then go pick them up a few days later. But for such a sweet memento, it's worth it!

2

Find a board game bar

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Did you know there are bars solely dedicated to board games? We're talking shelves and shelves of nostalgic fun. Take your honey to the one closest to you and bond over Candy Land or Operation and a few beers or mocktails.

3

Take a cooking class

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For a romantic date night and a learning experience, take a cooking class together. Learn to make fresh pasta or a complicated kitchen technique you're determined to master.

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4

Head to a county fair

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Summer is the season for outdoor festivities, county fairs included! Tickets for these usually run pretty affordably, and you're guaranteed hours of delicious foods (hello funnel cakes!) and cute games. (Bonus points for your date if they win you a giant teddy bear.)

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Or an arcade

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Let your competitive sides come to life with an arcade date! Pros: It's indoors, there's AC, it's on the affordable side, and with enough tickets, you might just win a prize. (Up the stakes by making it a sexy one the winner can claim later. 😉)

6

Visit a botanical garden

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Embrace being outdoors with a trip to your nearest botanical garden. Even if neither of you has a green thumb, botanical gardens are beautiful places to spend an afternoon, and who doesn't enjoy looking at gorgeous flowers?!

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Go bowling

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Another handy indoor and air-conditioned date, have a cute bowling date! Order snacks and drinks to your table and bet on how many strikes you'll both have in the end—winner decides on the next date night activity.

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Or rock climbing

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Looking to try something new? Visit your local rock climbing gym. They'll likely have set-ups for both beginners and pros alike, so you don't have to be a professional rock climber to enjoy this kind of adventure. Plus, it's an excellent arm workout too. Cheer each other on as you reach the top!

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Go tubing down a river

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One of the biggest joys of summer: Spending time in water, of course! If you live near a natural lazy river, find a tubing company that offers excursions. They'll have tube rentals and professionals nearby to guide you along. Some even let you bring your own snacks and drinks, so you can float along the river sipping on your fave bevs.

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10

Visit your nearest water park

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Another beloved summer activity: Water parks! Get your adrenaline pumping with giant slides and make it your mission to check off every single one on the park map. Don't forget your sunscreen and you're guaranteed a fun (thrilling!) date.

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Visit your local brewery

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There are breweries everywhere! Find one close enough to drive or Uber to and spend the afternoon sampling a flight or learning how beer is made.

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Check out an aquarium

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Want to get indoors? Visit the nearest aquarium for something different (unless you already see sharks every day, in which case, hi, cool!)! Plus, what better way to soft launch your partner on Instagram than with an ~aesthetique~ shot of them in front of a giant blue tank?

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Or the nearest zoo

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Just make sure you're giving your money to a credible zoo that treats their animals with respect, mkay?

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Have a summer cocktail-off

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Whatever your summer drink of choice—Aperol spritz, limoncello martini, or classic summer sangria—sharpen your at-home mixologist skills and challenge each other to a summer cocktail competition. In need of a little inspo? Here are the summeriest, spritziest beverages we’ll be sipping all season long.

15

Bake some sweet, summery treats together

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While you may think of fall and winter as prime-time for baking, summer actually has some of the best sweet treats, in our opinion. I mean, lemon bars? Key lime pie? Literally anything blueberry? Bonus points if you make a day of it by picking your own produce at a farm (or hitting up a nearby farmer’s market) and bringing it home to bake your dessert together.

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16

Get railed in a sundress

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I mean, what can we say? ’Tis the damn season, folks, and TikTok’s “sundress challenge” is a seasonal fave for a reason. Full permission to buy that cute lil sundress you’ve had your eye on for your next date—and keep it on for any, uh, post-date activities, if you catch my drift. (And if you don’t know what I’m talking about, feel free to educate yourself here. You’re welcome.)

17

Have a summer sex marathon

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There’s night sex and there’s morning sex, but allow me to introduce you to all-day sex. This is the hottest time of the year (literally and figuratively). Take advantage of it by setting aside a full day for the summer sex marathon of your horniest dreams—from the comfort of your air-conditioned home, of course.

18

Do something on a boat

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Like, literally anything, on literally any boat. Harbor cruise, dinner and/or drinks on a docked ship—hell, even just catching the ferry somewhere instead of driving or hopping on the subway can be a fun way to spend a sunny day with your summer love/crush. Life (and love) is just better on the water, you know?

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19

Play dress-up at the mall

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Hear us out: When they're not crowded or packed with screaming toddlers, malls are the perfect summer refuge because 1) they're cold, hello, and 2) there's tons you can do there. Have an event coming up, or always wanted to see your partner in a certain kinda 'fit? (They'd look amazing in plaid, they just don't know it yet!) Make it A Thing and pick out one outfit for each other. And don't forget to stop for a food court pretzel at the end.

20

Do the TikTok Target challenge

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Remember those viral TikToks about the Target challenge? No? Allow us to fill you in: You and your partner take a trip to Target (or whichever all-purpose store you have close-by!), separate, and buy each other the following: your/their favorite drink, snack, something that's their favorite color, something that reminds you of them, and an everyday thing (think: toothbrush, pillow case, new pair of shoes, etc). Feel free to mix up the categories, too! Maybe you go for an activity to do together, instead of one of the above, or a book you want them to read. Either way, you regroup at home and show 'em what you got!

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Veronica Lopez

Veronica Lopez is the sex and relationships editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers and edits stories about single life, dating, relationships, sex, identity, and more. Previously, she was the sex and dating editor at Elite Daily. Follow her on Instagram here and on Twitter here.

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Kayla Kibbe (she/her) is the Associate Sex and Relationships Editor at Cosmopolitan US, where she covers all things sex, love, dating and relationships. She lives in Astoria, Queens and probably won’t stop talking about how great it is if you bring it up. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram. 

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