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The 13 best anal sex toys for backdoor beginners, tried and tested by a sex writer
Down butt not out
It's a common question in the group chat: why are our penis-owning partners so interested in sticking it in our backside?
A quick survey of five willing participants revealed there are some common reasonings, including A) it's the forbidden fruit and B) it feels *really* damn good.
But did you know that the final reason in that very short list also applies to you? Yep, anal play can feel pretty great, whatever your gender.
For those with a penis, it's no secret that up the back channel is their P-spot, the equivalent of our C- and G. For vagina and vulva owners, it's not such common knowledge but the clitoris (a bit like an iceberg and mostly hidden under the surface) actually extends all the way down to the anus.
One way to explore if you'd dig having something shoved up the back passageway is playing with an anal sex toy, whether that be a butt plug, anal beads or a vibrating massager.
Luckily, we've road-tested 13 of the very best, so read on for our no-holes-barred findings.
The best anal toys for beginners, at a glance
Ready to take your sex life from the bottom to the top?
- Best budget butt plug: Bondara Anchor Vibrating Butt Plug, £15.99
- Best anal sex toy kit: Lovehoney Get Started Beginner's Anal Kit, £34.99
- Best budget anal beads: Lovehoney BASICS Anal Beads, £8.99
- Best premium anal beads: LELO SORAYA Anal Beads Massager,
£199£149.25 - Best prostate massager: LELO HUGO 2 App-Controlled Prostate Massager, £159
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No ifs or buts; we really did trial every plug, bead and prostate massager in this line-up, along with some others that didn't quite make the podium.
If you're wondering who 'we' are, it's Cosmo's team of sex writers, alongside some willing volunteers (AKA enthusiastic colleagues, friends and extended family).
At the time of testing, all identified as either male, female or gender neutral, were aged between 23 and 45, plus had varying levels of experience with sex toys — yep, we roped in everyone from total beginners to experienced backdoor players.
All took home a variety of vibrating butt toys to experiment with in the comfort of their own homes, our only request being that they pair their toy with an appropriate lubricant.
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From remote and app-controlled prostate massagers to textured butt plugs to help you get your fill, here's what we'd recommend to a friend.
Pros
Whether playing with your A or P-spot, it works for shes, hes and theys
8 pulsing patterns
Cons
Spicy but pricey
This one's a newer offering from premium pleasure purveyor LELO and guuurl, we're excited.
With four beads, each a little larger than the last, these anal beads are built with both booty beginners and experienced players in mind. Simply load them up with your favourite lube and slide on in.
Although the absolute best part? The cutting-edge Bow-Motion Technology (named after a violin bow) means the vibrations travel up and down its length. Essentially, it simulates the feeling of authentic penetration, even if you're only comfortable inserting the tip, making it the perfect way to dip your toe into the world of anal play.
Details
In the box | USB-charging cord, satin storage pouch, warranty registration card and a detailed instruction manual |
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Material | Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic |
Length | 9.2 inches |
Insertable length | 6 inches |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Waterproof | 100% |
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Pros
3.5 insertable inches
Super lightweight at just 66g
Cons
You'll need a stash of N batteries
If you'd rather not fork out on your first time, this budget-friendly offering from Bondara should be top of your hit list.
Made from silky soft silicone and with an extra wide base, this couldn't be easier to remove at a moment's notice. Plus, if your partner with a penis fancies a go, the crescent extends those delicious vibrations onto his perineum too.
Just load it up with your favourite water-based lube and take it slow. After all, there are 10 vibey settings to explore.
Details
In the box | Removable bullet vibrator, 1 x N battery |
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Material | Silicone |
Length | 4 inches |
Insertable length | 3.5 inches |
Power | Battery powered |
Waterproof | Splashproof |
Pros
Removable bullet vibe for added C-spot fun
Works for shes, hes and theys
Cons
Not the most flexible offering
Back it up, back it in, let me begin... to tell you why this Ann Summers offering is going to make the ideal bedmate.
With three insertable inches of silky soft silicone, a 10-speed removable bullet and a flared base that makes for an easy exit, this was built with beginners in mind. We just wouldn't recommend jumping around with it in.
While not the prettiest offering, the fairly simple design does mean you could probably slip this unnoticed in your carry-on. Just don't blame us if you end up joining the Mile High Club.
Details
In the box | Removable bullet vibrator and 3 x LR44 batteries |
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Material | Silicone |
Length | 3.5 inches |
Insertable length | 2.5 inches |
Power | 3 x LR41 batteries (included) |
Waterproof | Totally, as long as you leave out the bullet vibe |
Pros
Power play appropriate
USB rechargeable for endless Os
Cons
Doesn't look or feel the most luxe
Whether playing alone or with your partner, Bondara wanted to make sure you had options when using this remote-control anal plug.
Not only does it have a curved three-inch shaft, 10 rumbly vibration modes, a waterproof exterior and a wireless remote control, but it also has been designed with a rounded rocker base to treat his gooch/your entire vulva.
One bum fun fan shared, "It left my body shaking even before I came." Jel.
Details
In the box | USB-charging cable and a wireless remote control |
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Material | Silicone |
Length | 4 inches |
Insertable length | 3.2 inches |
Insertable diameter | 1.1 inches |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Waterproof | Sure thing |
Pros
Works for shes, hes and theys
Avoid unexpected turbulence with the travel lock
Charges to full in as little as 1.5 hours
Cons
Stock up on water-based lube as it's not the smallest
Are you ready for a backstage pass to an evening of P-spot pleasure? Smile Makers' newest release is this pretty-in-purple anal vibrator, designed to send sweet nothings deep inside you.
But did you know playing with an anal toy can also result in a G-spot orgasm? Yep, this plug will push against your vaginal wall and your perineal sponge, which with continued use, could result in a tighter feel for your plus-one.
Simply load it up with lube and head south.
Details
In the box | USB-charging cable, your user manual, a free sticker and your 2-year warranty |
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Material | FDA-approved, body-safe silicone |
Length | 4.4 inches |
Insertable length | 3 inches |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Waterproof | Yes, so go deep P diving |
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Pros
Take it to the tub, it's waterproof
Silent but (delightfully) violent
Cons
5-button interface, so have a go before putting it in his backside
Really this is one for your other half with a penis, but we can confirm that watching your partner roll around in ecstasy is rather fun.
Swedish sex toy purveyor LELO offers a premium route to pleasure, and the LOKI is no exception. With two ergonomically-designed arms each housing a powerful motor, 10 pulsing patterns and the whole thing being covered in ultra-soft silicone, this is kitted out to pleasure perfection.
One of our trusted testers claimed it felt 'wayyyy' better than his GF's finger. We appreciate the honesty.
Details
In the box | USB-charging cord, satin storage pouch, warranty registration card and a detailed instruction manual |
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Material | Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic |
Length | 7.7 inches |
Insertable length | 3.9 inches |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Waterproof | Absolutely |
Pros
Up to 6 insertable inches
Budget friendly
Get down and damp, they're waterproof
Cons
The motion's all on you as this one doesn't vibrate
These might look like the latest alien accessory, but if you're after out-of-this-world pleasure, listen up.
Anal beads are a great introduction to bum fun as you can pop them in one by one, and only go as far as you feel comfortable. But these baby blue beads from Lovehoney's Basics range graduate in size (up to a circumference of three inches), meaning they'll work for experienced players too.
The added bonus of a finger loop makes for easy control, whether they're going up your pleasure hole or your partner's. Just load up with lube and await your orgasmic orbit.
Details
In the box | Teal plastic anal beads |
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Material | PVC plastic |
Length | 8 inches |
Insertable length | 6 inches |
Waterproof | Sure thing |
Pros
Comes with a USB charging cord, satin storage pouch and a detailed instruction manual
One review raved: 'Best orgasms in my 64-years'
Cons
Might take a few goes to get it in the right spot
They say it's what's inside that counts... and that's why LELO's latest prostate massager is set to be a bestseller.
Not only will it look luxe laying on their bedside (yeah, it's one for your penis-owning partner), but will send them spinning from the inside out. That's due to the two ergonomically-designed arms packed with 16 rolling and rumbling vibration settings. Mmm.
With up to 60 minutes of play and the ability to control this remotely via your phone, this is a firm (oops) favourite of ours.
Details
In the box | USB-charging cord, satin storage pouch, warranty registration card and a detailed instruction manual |
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Material | Body-safe silicone, ABS plastic |
Length | 4.2 inches |
Insertable length | 2.83 inches |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Waterproof | Shower sex approved |
Pros
7 pulsing paces
Doubles up as a finger vibe (just remove the bullet)
Cons
Some shoppers said it was a little difficult to get in
If you're looking for a sweet treat for your backside, this pink offering from Rocks Off is berry nice.
While the tapered tip makes easy work of finding the right spot, the textured head ensures the journey's pretty enjoyable too. Plus, thanks to that flared base, there's no chance of it travelling any further than you'd like.
Again, the bullet vibe (costing £17.99 on its own) is removable, meaning total-body teasing is a straw(berry) thing on your next date night in. Plus, who doesn't want a plug they can proudly leave on their bedside?
Details
In the box | Removable bullet vibrator and 1 x N battery |
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Material | Silicone |
Length | 4.5 inches |
Insertable length | 2.5 inches |
Power | 1 x N battery (included) |
Waterproof | Submersible |
Pros
Includes toys with 3.5, 4 and 7 insertable inches
One fan shared, 'Let me tell you, these are soul taking'
Cons
Stick to dry land, these aren't waterproof
They say variety is the spice of life, and nothing will season up your next sweaty sesh like this four-pack of anal toys. Yep, you get a butt plug, probe, vibrating anal beads and a pulsing butt plug, and now for under £25.
Each plastic plaything comes with a tapered tip and flared base, meaning they're super simple to use. Your biggest concern will be trying to clear your calendar...
Ranging from three to just over seven insertable inches, this is a great kit for both beginners and the experienced. Just make sure you've stocked up on AA and LR44 batteries before getting started.
Details
In the box | Four anal sex toys and 3 x LR44 batteries |
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Material | Soft plastic |
Insertable length | 3.5, 4 and 7.5 inches |
Circumference | 3, 3.5 and 3.75 inches |
Power | 3 x LR44 batteries, 2 x AA batteries |
Wateproof | Not these ones |
Pros
Cock ring almost guarantees a stronger, longer erection for him
Bullet vibe and rabbit ears = C-spot fun for you
One review raved, 'I honestly enjoyed every minute of this'
Cons
Made for heterosexual matches
You'll leave few erogenous zones untouched with this double penetration cock ring.
Let's start with the treats for your C-spot. As well as a (removable) bullet vibe fitted with two speeds and five vibration patterns, you'll also find aptly placed bunny ears to ramp up your pleasure during missionary, doggy or a horizontal hug.
Then there's the cock ring, designed to apply a little extra pressure about his shaft or balls, and a six-inch silicone shaft to send you over the edge from the inside.
The definition of a triple threat — and we're totally here for it.
Details
In the box | Strapless strap-on with a removable bullet vibrator |
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Material | Silicone |
Length | 8 inches |
Insertable length | 6 inches |
Power | 6 x LR44 batteries |
Waterproof | Submersible |
Pros
Adjustable to suit all shapes and sizes
2 year warranty
Cons
Not the longest battery life
We-Vibe’s very cute Vector is designed to stimulate the prostate and perineum at the same time. Can we get an Amen?
The insertable arm is super flexible, meaning it'll fit no matter your shape and size. That bulb shape, though? That’s for extra pleasure.
But the best part about this petite vibe is that it can be controlled remotely via the We-Vibe app — even across continents. That's your next long-distance date night sorted.
Details
In the box | USB-charging cable, quick-start guide, a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube and a cotton storage bag |
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Material | Silicone |
Length | 4.5 inches |
Insertable length | 4 inches |
Circumference | 3.5 inches |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Waterproof | Submersible |
Pros
Removable bullet vibe worth £17.99
Get wet and wild, it's 100% waterproof
Cons
Has a habit of sliding out
If you're yet to let even a finger in the tradesman's entrance, this slim-yet-sturdy butt plug might be your best bet.
Measuring up at just four inches long and with a circumference of a little over two inches, this streamlined plug should slide in rather easily. Just lather it in your favourite water-based lube (we're big fans of LELO's Personal Moisturiser, packed with moisturising aloe vera).
With seven vibration settings, and the ability to take this to the tub, the pleasurable possibilities are endless.
One fan shared, "The vibration modes are the key to an orgasm in seconds." Challenge accepted.
Details
In the box | Removable bullet vibrator and 1 x N battery |
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Material | Silicone |
Length | 5 inches |
Insertable length | 4 inches |
Circumference | 2.25 inches |
Power | 1 x N battery (included) |
Waterproof | Absolutely |
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The benefits of using an anal toy
Aside from the fact that trying something new is always a fun way to spice up your (sex) life, there are major benefits to playing with your back entrance.
“Most important benefit: it feels amazing,” says Evan Goldstein, sex and wellness expert, founder of anal surgery practice Bespoke Surgical and sex-care brand Future Method.
“People think only those with prostates benefit from anal penetration, but that’s simply not true. The anal canal to the internal rectum is thin-walled, leading to stimulation of other surrounding structures.” AKA, your G-spot.
But before trying any kind of play, front or back, Goldstein believes everyone should understand the anatomy they're dealing with.
“The anus is not overly complicated – it’s made of skin and muscle, which both need to be elastic enough to withstand the pressures of anal sex,” he explains.
“The anal sphincters are composed of three muscles, all of which need to fully relax in unison to open the anal canal, which will allow you to have successful (read: pleasurable) anal play.
“An important thing to keep in mind too is that women’s skin is naturally thinner and more prone to tearing.” And what he means by that is load up your finger/partner/plaything with lube.
Top tips for your first-time
Okay, you've decided that anal toys are something you'd like to give a go. But where do you start?
If flying solo, Goldstein recommends diving in with a dilator set — a multi-pack designed to slowly increase in size. Again you'll need to be generous with the motion lotion and take your time. If coupled up, consider letting your partner slide a finger in, before graduating to a butt plug.
Once you’ve mastered using palm-sized pocket rockets, Goldstein suggests exploring dildos and more lifelike toys, again increasing slowly the length and girth over time. Only then consider going all the way / hitting the final hurdle / attempting a home run.
“If anal sex with a partner is next, use the toys before or during as foreplay,” he suggests. “This will open you up and relax the muscles.”
As for positions, Goldstein recommends cowgirl for first-timers: “This allows you to be in full control of the depth and speed of penetration, as well as easily communicate with your partner.
“Use the penis as a dilator at first, similar to how you progressed with the dilation exercises. The first few times are definitely more mechanical than sexual, but will provide you with the benefits of why we all do this."
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