Amazing! Okay, the author is my son. However, set that aside. This book is one of a kind. For sure, it’s written with improvisers in mind. NotwithstanAmazing! Okay, the author is my son. However, set that aside. This book is one of a kind. For sure, it’s written with improvisers in mind. Notwithstanding, anyone can learn much about being human from reading this book. Parents, teachers, mental health professionals. Enough said....more
Laps with Lemon (2023) is a one-day read (93 pages) about love. IDepression, Grief, Love, Mental health, Pets
Read in a day, remember for a lifetime.
Laps with Lemon (2023) is a one-day read (93 pages) about love. It was written in real time during the summer of 2023. I cannot recommend it enough. Let’s get into it.
To love. To love and be loved is to eventually experience loss, pain, and grief. Overwhelming at times. Unpredictable, too. Just when will the waves come? Additionally, there is no escape – except to shut down and never let love in.
This is what happens to children – more often than not. [see The Loneliness Of Children (1980) John Killinger] Most often, now, because of divorce. Sometimes, however, from a parent’s death, or a grandparent’s. It could also come as a result of a friend or sibling’s death. Even moving. It is always an undeniable consequence of war.
None of these tragedies happen to everyone (the lucky ones); but almost everyone – at least in the West – loses a pet.
Why death? Why and what is death is a mystery for which there is no satisfactory explanation. For a child, anyway.
There is just time. And a replacement. And lies. Lies we tell our children, and lies we tell ourselves.
This book, Laps with Lemon, rejects that. It tells the truth about death, and love, and loss. And attachment.
About the author. The author, Jake Jabbour, is my son. He’s my child, my kid. However, he’s not a child, he’s a man. A grown man of forty years. He lives alone (with pets) and has battled depression and loneliness for most of his life. He lives in Los Angeles and has an Improv school.
I could not be more proud of him and what he has done with his life.
To get a copy of this book, track down Jake. It’s free.
The BASEBALL 100 is a book by Joe Posnanski, my brother's favorite baseball writer.
Brother Jack gifted me the book last Christmas. I just finished it The BASEBALL 100 is a book by Joe Posnanski, my brother's favorite baseball writer.
Brother Jack gifted me the book last Christmas. I just finished it and will say this: The Baseball 100 might have to move into my top five books' list. Of all time! Because it checks all the boxes of what makes a book great. Let's get into it.
My Top Five Books: War and Peace (1868) Leo Tolstoy The Call of The Wild (1903) Jack London Gone With the Wind (1936)Margaret Mitchell Sometimes A Great Notion (1963) Ken Kesey Infinite Jest (1996) David Foster Wallace
The Boxes: or, what makes a book great (in my opinion).
Aesthetically well written Historically informative Complex characterization Thought provoking thematically Subjectively interesting (to me)
In other words, the book must be about something I'm very interested in and well written (with language, and structurally). It must be honest and true (even though fictional). Additionally, the characters have to be realistic (no super or magical powers).
Posnanski's book hits a home run. :-) This book is about baseball, American history, and different personalities. All subjects that fascinate me. Moreover, Joe P is a great story teller. Furthermore, his research regarding the 100 ballplayers that make his list is incredible.
Do I agree? No. My list would be different. However, I'm not, in the least, qualified to cover the subject and time frame. Like I said, it's a history book of America. Starting from the 1880's. There is racism for sure. And alcoholism, child abuse, greed, meanness, kindness, lying, cheating, and just about everything else that makes up the human condition. With the exception of romance - there's not much about that. Mothers, wives, sisters, and girlfriends, it turns out, don't have much influence on what makes a great baseball player.
Dominating, perhaps, is the Father-Son relationship. Which plays such a big part in baseball. (As it did in my life.) However, there is not one type of, or style, of a father that precipitates making a boy into a great baseball player - a superstar. Regardless of the time or place in history.
There is no formula. It appears, as with most everything, it is a confluence of factors. You could say - a perfect storm.
My Top Five vs. Joe's greatest-of-all-time baseball players is different from Posnanski's; but not by a lot. Here's my top five with Joe P's rank in parenthesis:
Babe Ruth (2) Mickey Mantle (11) Ted Williams (6) Willie Mays (1) Roger Clemens (13)
As you can see, we're in the ballpark. One stand-out difference is Posnanski's top five has four of the five - black players. (I'm not going to disclose his because, well ... . He doesn't list them either, you have to read the book page by page.) Joe is aware of his bias, and speaks to it in the chapter on Oscar Charleston. (One of his writer techniques that make this such a great read.)
Who? Yeah.
In Conclusion I can't recommend this book enough. Even if you're not a fan of baseball. It is such a fascinating look at the last 150 years of American history - through the lens of baseball and the men who play the game.
My one complaint is so many stats. Posnanski lives in Kansas City, as does his good friend Bill James. James changed the game in 1985 with his analysis and book BASEBALL ABSTRACT (1985). Which, by the way, was a gift from my father to my brother, who then gifted it to me. :-)...more
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