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The moment I knew

The moment I knew is a series exploring romantic love and the moments we realise we have fallen in love.

  • The couple

    The moment I knew: I said ‘I’d marry you tomorrow’ and that was it

    After a chance encounter in Malaysia, it took only a week of camping with Pernille for Geoff Powell to decide he wanted to spend his life with her.
  • Two women embracing in front of a colourful striped beachhouse

    The moment I knew: ‘It was so joyful being home, gay and with the girl of my dreams’

    A road trip and a shared fascination for lighthouses illuminated Danielle Scrimshaw about her true feelings for her girlfriend
  • Wedding Day

    The moment I knew: we were ‘just friends’. Then we watched Sharknado with our elbows touching

    Throughout her twenties Eloise Snape was a chronic relationship-phobe. When she met Sam, she had to double down on self-denial
  • Collage of Feryal Ozdemir and Baykal

    The moment I knew: in Goa, we had no money, no nothing, but I was so content

    When Feryal Ozdemir and her new boyfriend Baykal realised they couldn’t stay in Istanbul, but couldn’t leave each other, they hatched a plan to run away
  • Marianne Navon and Andrew Clancey outside their cafe, Little Dove, in Nelson, New Zealand, in March 2023

    The moment I knew: the second I heard her voice again, the planets realigned

    Andrew Clancey fell in love with Marianne in the early 1990s – then the pair didn’t see each other for 23 years
  • Keren and Jonathan attending All Points East together in the early days of their relationship.

    The moment I knew: ‘I told her my dream was to become an author. She didn’t laugh’

    New to London and ready to party, the last place Jonathan Seidler expected to spend Notting Hill Carnival was indoors discussing books with his future wife
  • Todd and Jeff arm in arm in front of a Christmas tree

    The moment I knew: I thought two dates meant I was in a long-term relationship. Then we went on a third

    Todd Alexander’s parents were teenage sweethearts who’d been together for decades. He thought he didn’t stand a chance – until he met Jeff
  • Frank Magree and Jenny Valentish have trade vacation vows in Bali with ‘celebrant’ Yianni Warnock

    The moment I knew: as he towed a stranger out of a rip, my reaction was selfish but primal

    Watching her partner perform an act of heroics stirred something in Jenny Valentish she had not felt since childhood: the fear someone she loved might die
  • Doris and Andrew at the Carlton Festa, 1980.

    The moment I knew: there was a backyard dope crop; she was more interested in the apricot tree

    On paper, Andrew Herrick was never going to be a good match with Doris. But after years of subtle flirtation, an office romance started to bloom
  • ‘He accepted my friend request immediately and sent a funny message’: Catherine and Brendan, finally together.

    The moment I knew: I was walking home hoping to bump into him. It’s a really long walk

    A brief acquaintance became something more when Catherine McQuade added Brendan on Facebook years later. But she was in a relationship, and he was shy
  • A woman in a pink striped button shirt and bowtie, holding a glass of champagne, smiling and posing with friends.

    The moment I knew: after my first sexual encounter with a man, I realised I only loved women

    For eight years, Maeve Marsden identified as bisexual. Then a one-night stand with Ben – or was it Steve? – cemented her identity as a lesbian.
  • Woman lying down on bed and using smart phone at night.

    The moment I knew: we met on Bumble; weeks later, I wrote him into my memoir

    After meeting on a dating app, Sita Walker checked into a gaudy hotel with her new partner. Despite the ugly carpet and even worse furnishings, love flourished in Room 403
  • Haylee Penfold with her fiancé Kye

    The moment I knew: I was 19 and not quite a widow. He respected my need to grieve

    A year after her boyfriend’s death, Haylee Penfold was used to expressions of sympathy or pity. But Kye’s reaction was different
  • Two women standing with their heads pressed together, surrounded by candles.

    The moment I knew: I was on a quest to figure out exactly how gay I was. But I kept coming back to her

    Turning up at a party in the same outfit as someone else can be awkward, but one summer in New York, a sartorial coincidence blossomed into romance
  • A wide shot of a beach in Bali with visitors walking along the sand, with a blue sky in the background.

    The moment I knew: his big toenail was hanging by a bloody thread, and so was our relationship

    A romantic trip to Bali was proving anything but for Chloe Elisabeth Wilson and her boyfriend. Then an incident with a scooter sealed their fate
  • Josie and Chris on vacation.

    The moment I knew: ‘I pledged I would go to mass for 30 days to understand what I was feeling’

    After years of friendship, Josie still wasn’t sure whether she was into Chris. So she struck a deal with God
  • Serge and Freya on holiday in New York

    The moment I knew: ‘A buffet of international men couldn’t sway me’

    When she set out for a long international trip, Freya Bennett knew she liked Serge. But it took 10,427 miles of distance for her to realise how much
  • Author Zoya Patel with her partner Chris

    The moment I knew: ‘Talking about religious marriage after a few dates is a lot – but he understood’

    Dating was strictly forbidden in Zoya Patel’s family. But it was Chris’s openness and maturity, at just 22, that convinced her he was worth the risk
  • Abram and Cesia in their early days together

    The moment I knew: ‘She reached out and squeezed my hand. Happiness washed over me’

    As Auschwitz survivors from the same home town, Abram Goldberg knew he and Cesia had a lot in common. But it wasn’t until they were alone that he discovered she shared his feelings
  • Jasper and their partner in the early days

    The moment I knew: ‘After months of emailing every thought we ever had back and forth, we met for a walk’

    On a Saturday shift, looking for something to do, Jasper Peach signed up for a dating site. That led to a free-flowing conversation that started and never stopped
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