21 of the most highly anticipated kisses in TV history

From "Bates Motel" to "The X-Files" and "Gilmore Girls," these are the shows that made shippers wait forever for that first kiss.

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Scott Patterson and Lauren Graham on 'Gilmore Girls'; Nathan Fillion and Stana Katic on 'Castle'; Ian Somerhalder and Nina Dobrev on 'The Vampire Diaries'. Photo:

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When two characters who clearly have a lot of chemistry don't seal their connection with a kiss, it can be excruciating for the fanbase. And showrunners certainly count on viewers tuning in every episode/season/year, hoping to finally see it happen. Some shows wait three seasons or more to finally get certain couples together to affirm their love with a kiss, whether it be Luke (Scott Patterson) and Lorelai (Lauren Graham) on Gilmore Girls or Joyce (Winona Ryder) and Hopper (David Harbour) on Stranger Things.

Alas, sometimes the anticipation is exactly what makes the kiss that much sweeter. Here are our favorite long-awaited kisses in TV history.

01 of 21

Booth and Brennan, Bones (season 3, episode 9)

Emily Deschanel and David Boreanaz on 'Bones'
Emily Deschanel and David Boreanaz on 'Bones'. FOX

Caroline Julian (Patricia Belcher) gave Bones fans a Christmas miracle in the series' second holiday outing. The federal prosecutor used her influence to blackmail Booth (David Boreanaz) and Brennan (Emily Deschanel) into a mistletoe kiss, forcing the partners to stop bantering their way from crime scene to crime scene and confront their chemistry — even if only for a few minutes. Brennan's gum was in Booth's mouth by the end of the lip-lock, but it took another two seasons for the pair to admit that they'd had some practice: They actually kissed on their first case. We couldn't have just opened the show there? —Kelly Connolly

02 of 21

Oliver and Felicity, Arrow (season 3, episode 1)

Stephen Amell and Emily Bett Rickards on 'Arrow'
Stephen Amell and Emily Bett Rickards on 'Arrow'. The CW

From the moment Oliver (Stephen Amell) and Felicity (Emily Bett Rickards) met in Arrow's first season, fans were clamoring for a union. But Ollie wasn't quite done with the other women in his life. Plus, he had this idea that he couldn't be the Arrow and be with Felicity. It wasn't until the season 2 finale that he first confessed his love for Felicity, and, even then, it was all part of a ploy to beat Deathstroke (Jeffrey C. Robinson).

But thankfully, when season 3 premiered, fans learned that not only had Oliver's confession come from a genuine place, but he was ready to prove his feelings with a kiss. Sadly for them, it took a few more ups and downs before they'd fully commit to each other at the end of that season. —Samantha Highfill

03 of 21

Ben and Leslie, Parks and Recreation (season 3, episode 14)

Amy Poehler and Adam Scott on 'Parks and Recreation'
Amy Poehler and Adam Scott on 'Parks and Recreation'. NBC

Leslie Knope (Amy Poehler) hardly needed a man to complete her life, which was spent fulfilling her dream of serving Pawnee — the best town in the world — hanging out with her beautiful tropical fish of a best friend Ann Perkins (Rashida Jones), and chowing down on waffles at JJ's Diner. But then, Ben Wyatt (Adam Scott) entered the picture at the end of Parks and Recreation's second season. Forbidden fruit due to his position as an auditor evaluating Pawnee's budget, Ben went from being a source of frustration for Leslie to a tempting romantic option.

Though they tried to keep the relationship at bay throughout the third season, they kissed in the episode "Road Trip." While traveling to exotic Indianapolis for work together, they were physically interrupted by then-acting city manager Chris Traeger (Rob Lowe) — and ethically interrupted by Chris' rule about workplace relationships. Upon their return to Pawnee, Leslie went to drop off receipts from the trip to Chris, but he'd already left for the day. When she handed the receipts to Ben, he kissed her. Leslie immediately kissed him right back, thus officially launching the show's public service power couple.

They went on to try to keep their budding romance a secret, with Leslie even going through a trial because of the relationship, but the two eventually tied the knot in a department-worthy ceremony, complete with Ron Swanson (Nick Offerman) walking Leslie down the aisle. —Madeline Boardman

04 of 21

Damon and Elena, The Vampire Diaries (season 3, episode 10)

Ian Somerhalder and Nina Dobrev on 'The Vampire Diaries'
Ian Somerhalder and Nina Dobrev on 'The Vampire Diaries'. The CW

The buildup to Damon (Ian Somerhalder) and Elena's (Nina Dobrev) first kiss was, quite frankly, one of the best maneuvers of a love triangle on television. For three seasons, The Vampire Diaries perfected the art of giving fans what they want while staying true to its characters.

For example, the season 1 finale had Damon kiss Elena's doppelgänger, Katherine Pierce, only to later realize it wasn't actually Elena. The season 2 finale saw Elena, who was still in a relationship with Stefan (Paul Wesley), offer Damon a sweet peck on the lips as his dying wish. But it wasn't until 10 episodes into season 3 that Stefan's time away caught up to Damon and Elena. With both of them determined to get Stefan back from Klaus (Joseph Morgan), Damon knew his window of opportunity was closing. As he figured, if he was going to feel guilty for loving his brother's lady friend, he might as well give himself something real to feel guilty about.

And after those two locked lips — twice — in season 3, Elena admitted her heart was still with Stefan. (But everything changed in season 4 when Elena became a vampire...and so began the second big love story of her life.) —S.H.

05 of 21

Stiles and Lydia, Teen Wolf (season 3, episode 11)

Dylan O'Brien and Holland Roden on 'Teen Wolf'
Dylan O'Brien and Holland Roden on 'Teen Wolf'.

MTV

From the pilot of Teen Wolf, it is evident that Stiles (Dylan O'Brien) is in love with Lydia (Holland Roden)...mostly because he almost instantly talks about his obsession with her when he and Scott (Tyler Posey) arrive at school. But the feeling isn't mutual. At least not at first, as the oh-so-popular Lydia is in a relationship with the equally as popular Jackson (Colton Haynes). And despite Stiles' obvious interest, the two end up being the longest will-they-won't-they of the series — not even locking lips until the 11th episode of season 3, which happens because Lydia is trying to help Stiles through a panic attack (and she once read that holding your breath can help). It might not have been for the reasons fans wanted, but that kiss was still worth the wait...as was Stiles' love confession in season 6. —S.H.

06 of 21

Castle and Beckett, Castle (season 3, episode 13)

Nathan Fillion and Stana Katic on 'Castle'
Nathan Fillion and Stana Katic on 'Castle'. Adam Taylor/ABC via Getty Images

Ever the writer, Castle (Nathan Fillion) took the old "kiss as a diversion" trick to new heights when he planted one on Beckett (Stana Katic) to lower a guard's defenses. The smooch started out romantic enough, but it really heated up when Beckett pulled back, decided that they weren't quite done, and went in for more, throwing two-and-a-half seasons of tension into the ruse. It's no surprise that the partners' make-out session fooled the guard; by that point, they were fooling themselves. —K.C.

07 of 21

Eric and Sookie, True Blood (season 3, episode 2)

Anna Paquin and Alexander Skarsgård on 'True Blood'
Anna Paquin and Alexander Skarsgård on 'True Blood'. HBO

When True Blood started, it was the love story of Sookie (Anna Paquin) and Bill (Stephen Moyer). But, from the moment "bad boy" Eric Northman (Alexander Skarsgård) showed up, there was a sense that Sookie was, well, intrigued. But it wasn't until season 3 that fans got an actual payoff to all the sexual tension building between the characters. After episodes filled with dream kisses and longing looks, it's when Eric believed he was headed to his true death that he decided he couldn't die without ever having kissed the woman he loves. And although it wouldn't be their last kiss, mostly thanks to an amnesia storyline, in the end, Sookie didn't end up with Eric…or Bill. —S.H.

08 of 21

Norma and Romero, Bates Motel (season 4, episode 3)

Nestor Carbonell and Vera Farmiga on 'Bates Motel'
Nestor Carbonell and Vera Farmiga on 'Bates Motel'. A&E

In the beginning, Sheriff Romero (Nestor Carbonell) was a pain in Norma's (Vera Farmiga) side, constantly accusing her sons of committing various crimes. (Some of which he was probably right about.) But it didn't take long for Romero to fall victim to the charm of Norma Bates, and yet, despite numerous almost-kisses, the couple didn't actually lock lips until their wedding day.

Let's back up: In order to get her son Norman (Freddie Highmore) checked into a mental hospital, Norma and Romero lied about being married so that they could use Romero's insurance for Norman's care. Cut to the next episode, and not only were they following through on their lie, but their first kiss as husband and wife only led to more romance. After all, they'd been wanting to do this for four seasons by then. —S.H.

09 of 21

Donna and Harvey, Suits (season 7, episode 10)

Sarah Rafferty and Gabriel Macht on 'Suits'
Sarah Rafferty and Gabriel Macht on 'Suits'.

USA Network

A great example of the boss/secretary to husband/wife pipeline: attorney Harvey Specter (Gabriel Macht) and his loyal-to-a-fault secretary Donna Paulsen (Sarah Rafferty), whose tight relationship over the first seasons of the series had many fans wondering when they would finally take it a step further. They did — a little over halfway into season 7, appropriately in the episode titled "Donna," after Donna had a chat with Louis (Rick Hoffman) about not expressing his feelings to Sheila (Rachael Harris). This inspired Donna to plant a kiss on her boss. While everything eventually worked out in the end, the aftermath of the kiss provided some high drama in the following episode, considering Harvey just so happened to be in a relationship at the time. —Kevin Jacobsen

10 of 21

Rick and Michonne, The Walking Dead (season 6, episode 10)

Danai Gurira and Andrew Lincoln on 'The Walking Dead'
Danai Gurira and Andrew Lincoln on 'The Walking Dead'. AMC

Although the women in Rick Grimes' (Andrew Lincoln) life had a nasty habit of ending up dead, it was still exciting to see Rick and Michonne (Danai Gurira) kiss in "The Next World." (And, at least thanks to Michonne's skill with the katana, there was less concern about her longevity.) The show had been setting up their friendship for seasons, with the two staying in the same house in Alexandria. And, with the weeks of relative quiet the group faced — which the show skipped over — in season 6, there was plenty of time for that friendship to grow into something more. —Jonathon Dornbush

11 of 21

Luke and Lorelai, Gilmore Girls (season 4, episode 22)

Lauren Graham and Scott Patterson on 'Gilmore Girls'
Lauren Graham and Scott Patterson on 'Gilmore Girls'. The WB

Quite literally the first scene of Gilmore Girls was an interaction between Luke and Lorelai: She asked him for coffee and he judged her for her extreme caffeine addiction. Their chemistry was undeniable from day one, even to the folks within Stars Hollow. And yet, somehow the show found a way to stretch out their love story for four seasons. There were fiancés, boyfriends, and even wives in their way, but, thanks to a self-help book, season 4 was when Luke could no longer deny his affection for Lorelai. So, on the night of the Dragonfly Inn's test run, he made his move, and Lorelai wasn't about to stop him. —S.H.

12 of 21

Joel and Maggie, Northern Exposure (season 4, episode 16)

Rob Morrow and Janine Turner on 'Northern Exposure'
Rob Morrow and Janine Turner on 'Northern Exposure'. CBS via Getty Images

Joel (Rob Morrow) and Maggie (Janine Turner) heated up small-town Alaska with their (literal) roll in the hay, which came after nearly four seasons of push and pull between the city doctor and the bush pilot. Over the course of a single episode, the all-or-nothing pair went from violence — she broke his nose twice — to a kiss, to a fling in a barn, then blamed their tryst on the Coho winds. Their relationship never quite worked out in the end, but at least Joel met a better fate than the rest of Maggie's boyfriends. —K.C.

13 of 21

Joyce and Hopper, Stranger Things (season 4, episode 8)

Winona Ryder and David Harbour on 'Stranger Things'
Winona Ryder and David Harbour on 'Stranger Things'.

Netflix

Joyce and Hopper were thrust together to investigate the disappearance of her son Will (Noah Schnapp), which would prove to be the first of multiple brushes with the demons of the Upside Down. After Hopper was presumed dead at the end of season 3, Joyce learned that he was still alive and being held at a Soviet prison camp (it's a long story). Season 4 followed Joyce on her dangerous mission to save Hopper, culminating in the finale, when they finally alleviated their sexual tension and locked lips. —K.J.

14 of 21

House and Cuddy, House (season 5, episode 6)

Lisa Edelstein and Hugh Laurie on 'House'
Lisa Edelstein and Hugh Laurie on 'House'. FOX

Gregory House (Hugh Laurie) caused Lisa Cuddy (Lisa Edelstein) no less than three separate headaches every week on House, but their mutual respect (though House would never admit that) and attraction to one another eventually caused their professional tension to become something more. Even as difficult as House could be to work with, the two eventually kissed (in the heat of arguing whether House thinks she'd be a good mother) in season 5's "Joy." While things inevitably went south, it was a moment in the making from the show's start, and left fans as shocked at the time as it did House and Cuddy. — J.D.

15 of 21

Spike and Buffy, Buffy the Vampire Slayer (season 6, episode 7)

Sarah Michelle Gellar and James Marsters on 'Buffy the Vampire Slayer'
Sarah Michelle Gellar and James Marsters on 'Buffy the Vampire Slayer'. UPN

Even though he was a major villain at the start of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, fans were speculating about a possible romance between punk rock vampire Spike (James Marsters) and duty-bound fighter of evil Buffy (Sarah Michelle Gellar) several seasons before they actually got together. The show threw the Spuffy fans a small bone in the season 4 episode "Something Blue" when a botched magic spell caused the pair to temporarily fall in love, but it wasn't until season 6 that they truly locked lips of their own free will. The long-awaited kiss came at the very end of one of the series' most memorable episodes, the original musical "Once More With Feeling." Unfortunately, it was far from smooth sailing for the Buffy-Spike romance after that: Spike proved his love for her by undergoing torment to gain a soul and then sacrificed his life to save her and the rest of the world. —Dylan Kickham

16 of 21

Mulder and Scully, The X-Files (season 7, episode 4)

David Duchovny and Gillian Anderson on 'The X-Files'
David Duchovny and Gillian Anderson on 'The X-Files'. FOX

The real meaning of Y2K? You two kiss. While the rest of the world worried about systems crashing in the countdown to the year 2000, The X-Files was busy quietly moving Mulder (David Duchovny) and Scully (Gillian Anderson) to the next level, bringing into focus the tension that had hummed in the background of the show since she dropped her robe for him in the pilot. The partners' New Year's kiss, chaste and sweet, served less as a breakthrough than as confirmation of what they already meant to each other. After seven years, what changed between Mulder and Scully was less important than what didn't: "The world didn't end." —K.C.

17 of 21

Josh and Donna, The West Wing (season 7, episode 13)

Janel Moloney and Bradley Whitford on 'The West Wing'
Janel Moloney and Bradley Whitford on 'The West Wing'. NBC

Shippers found Josh Lyman (Bradley Whitford) and Donna Moss (Janel Moloney) early on in The West Wing's 2000s run. The flirting, sexual tension, and charming banter were evident after just a few episodes of the show's first season. It only grew from there, evolving as they each dated other people, had individual brushes with death, and saw President Bartlet (Martin Sheen) through his term in office.

Seven seasons and nearly seven years after the Sept. 22, 1999 premiere, Josh and Donna finally had their first real kiss. The two got together following a victory for the Santos campaign, celebrating the good news with a smooch. They went on to hook up repeatedly and struggled to define their relationship, leaving the future open as they closed the series jetting off on a vacation together. —M.B.

18 of 21

Daphne and Niles, Frasier (season 7, episode 23/24)

David Hyde Pierce and Jane Leeves on 'Frasier'
David Hyde Pierce and Jane Leeves on 'Frasier'. NBC

From the moment Niles (David Hyde Pierce) laid eyes on Daphne (Jane Leeves) in the Frasier pilot, it was evident that he was infatuated with his father's physical therapist. But it took the show seven seasons before the couple locked lips for the first time. However, it was a kiss worth waiting for, because not only did it bring the couple together, but they stayed together, eventually getting married in season 10 when they eloped in Reno. — S.H.

19 of 21

Stabler and Benson, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit…NEVER

Christopher Meloni and Mariska Hargitay on 'Law & Order: Special Victims Unit'
Christopher Meloni and Mariska Hargitay on 'Law & Order: Special Victims Unit'. Virginia Sherwood/NBC

Law & Order: Special Victims Unit is the TV definition of a tease. For 12 seasons (12!) they built the relationship between Elliot Stabler (Christopher Meloni) and Olivia Benson (Mariska Hargitay). Yes, Elliot was married for some of it, but not all of it! And the love between Elliot and Olivia was not only evident, but it was the foundation of the show. Those two would do anything to save each other, and they often did. And yet, all fans ever got in the way of romance was a few, albeit very passionate, hugs.

Then, Elliot returned for a recurring role in season 22, leading to...an almost kiss in the season 24 episode "Blow Out." We're still waiting, Dick Wolf. —S.H.

20 of 21

Mrs. Hughes and Carson, Downton Abbey (season 6, episode 1)

Phyllis Logan and Jim Carter on 'Downton Abbey'
Phyllis Logan and Jim Carter on 'Downton Abbey'.

ITV

Downton Abbey fans were treated to numerous blossoming romances over the course of its six seasons, some of which were cut cruelly short (We'll never forget you, Matthew Crawley). But one of the sweetest relationships to watch unfold was head butler Mr. Carson (Jim Carter) and housekeeper Mrs. Hughes (Phyllis Logan), whose dedication to serving the lords and ladies of Downton Abbey prevented them from fully giving in to their love for each other until the first episode of the final season. The pair got engaged and sealed their eternal bond with a kiss that had fans squealing with delight. —K.J.

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Otis and Maeve, Sex Education (season 3, episode 5)

Emma Mackey and Asa Butterfield on 'Sex Education'
Emma Mackey and Asa Butterfield on 'Sex Education'. Netflix

From the start of Sex Education, it was clear that Otis (Asa Butterfield) liked Maeve (Emma Mackey), but he was convinced she was out of his league. But over the course of season 1, Maeve, too, started to develop feelings for Otis. And yet, the two of them spent two and a half seasons showing us exactly what bad timing looked like. Then, in season 3, all it took was a terrible field trip for them to finally hash things out and for Otis to tell Maeve what she missed on his voicemail: That he loves her. She couldn't not kiss him after that! —S.H.

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