fix: add pyarrow version check for range support

[Linchin]

• adds a version check for pyarrow
• consolidates warning messages
• use a constant in _versions_helper.py for checking range support in both pandas and pyarrow

TODO: add nox test session for the case when a newer pandas is installed, but pyarrow is very old.

Fixes #1912 🦕

[tswast]

Thanks!

[tswast]

TODO: add nox test session for the case when a newer pandas is installed, but pyarrow is very old.

Since we unit test on multiple versions of Python, we could use one of the middle constraints files for this. That said, I think we usually just mock out the version mismatches in unit tests.