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Rites of Passage
Sam McKenna’s never turned down a dare. And she's not going to start with the last one her brother gave her before he died.
So Sam joins the first-ever class of girls at the prestigious Denmark Military Academy. She’s expecting push-ups and long runs, rope climbing and mud-crawling. As a military brat, she can handle an obstacle course just as well as the boys. She's even expecting the hostility she gets from some of the cadets who don’t think girls belong there. What she’s not expecting is her fiery attraction to her drill sergeant. But dating is strictly forbidden and Sam won't risk her future, or the dare, on something so petty... no matter how much she wants him.
As Sam struggles to prove herself, she discovers that some of the boys don’t just want her gone—they will stop at nothing to drive her out. When their petty threats turn to brutal hazing, bleeding into every corner of her life, she realizes they are not acting alone. A decades-old secret society is alive and active… and determined to force her out.
At any cost.
Now time's running short. Sam must decide who she can trust... and choosing the wrong person could have deadly consequences.
So Sam joins the first-ever class of girls at the prestigious Denmark Military Academy. She’s expecting push-ups and long runs, rope climbing and mud-crawling. As a military brat, she can handle an obstacle course just as well as the boys. She's even expecting the hostility she gets from some of the cadets who don’t think girls belong there. What she’s not expecting is her fiery attraction to her drill sergeant. But dating is strictly forbidden and Sam won't risk her future, or the dare, on something so petty... no matter how much she wants him.
As Sam struggles to prove herself, she discovers that some of the boys don’t just want her gone—they will stop at nothing to drive her out. When their petty threats turn to brutal hazing, bleeding into every corner of her life, she realizes they are not acting alone. A decades-old secret society is alive and active… and determined to force her out.
At any cost.
Now time's running short. Sam must decide who she can trust... and choosing the wrong person could have deadly consequences.
416 pages, Hardcover
First published September 9, 2014
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Joy N. Hensley
1 book276 followersJoy N. Hensley is a former middle school teacher. She used to spend her twenty-minute lunch breaks hosting author Skype chats for her students. Once upon a time she went to a military school on a dare. She lives in Virginia with her husband and two children, finding as many ways as she can to never do another push-up again.
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August 24, 2014
“Jonathan is the cadet colonel. You can’t be all female around him... As if being female is somehow a sickness Mom and I can get over.”
Readers! Psst, come over here. You haven't read this book yet, have you? I'm going to bet you haven't and I'm also willing to bet that I know the reason. So... maybe you saw this book floating around on the internet. You saw it was called Rites of Passage and you saw the dog tags on the cover image and, let's face it, your interest was probably already waning, right?
But you don't like to judge a book by its cover so you decided to check out the blurb. "Blah blah, girl goes to military school, blah blah" snooze. And then you remembered all those other books that promised epic fantasy, fast-paced drama and hot guys (or girls) and this book was suddenly forgotten, right? Then step right up here because you belong in the same club as me. The "I judged Rites of Passage completely wrong" club.
It was a close call. I so very nearly passed up this well-written, well-paced, completely moving contemporary in favour of some (probably terrible) paranormal and fantasy. The thing is: this book is just good. The cast of characters is large but each one is well-drawn and feels very real; the relationship dynamics are complex and realistic but no less engaging; the plot moves along at a perfect pace, telling multiple stories of family, friendship, love and loss. And, of course:
“The Corps may not think it’s ready for females, but you and your companions have the power to change that if you’ll just believe it.”
I didn't know this until I read about the author at the end of the book but apparently Hensley was a female student in military school herself... and frankly, it shows. She doesn't skimp on the details of the rough training the students must face. Nor does she serve up a watered down version of the sexism and homophobia present amongst many young males in the military.
I don't know about you, but there's just something so damn compelling about books that piss me off. As a woman, it was almost impossible to not care about and root for Sam in this book. I've never wanted to go to military school - if you know me, the idea is really quite laughable - but hell, this book made me desperate for Sam to prove everyone wrong and make it through. I raged. There was so much unfairness and misogyny balanced out by Sam's determination and badassery (but still realistically so) that I was unable to look away.
This is one of those books that doesn't get picked up unless some annoying person on the internet fangirls like crazy and tells you to give it a chance! So, fellow readers, here I am: give it a chance :)
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February 15, 2021
"They can get into my room. Whenever they want. Oh God. They're not going to stop. Not ever. Not until I'm gone."
4.5 stars. Rites of Passage left me on such a high, I'm jumping around at 5AM like a crazy person when I should have been tucked up in bed like the reasonable adult I'm supposed to be. Yet as I've been flirting on a slump all summer, I wasn't going to stop reading such a captivating story : the unfairness of everything Mac had to go through because of misogynic assholes ensured to drive me furious, and I couldn't look away.
The thing is, it would have been so easy to write Mac in an unrealistic way, to make her so successful that her kickass personality would have reeked of unbelievability, and I'm so glad it wasn't the case. She fails, she doubts, she needs HELP, and that's okay - no, that's GREAT. I admire her all the same. I've never understood why kickass female leads had to fight alone to be strong - "valuable". What the fuck is that?! It's the working woman fighting to the top all over again, and that's so sad. Why are we accepting that? Why are we condoning the wicked message that we need to be alone to deserve our success? FUCK THAT.
In my opinion Rites of Passage's message is way more important : don't let anyone destroy your dreams, and don't let your pride refuse help - your achievements won't be diminished because you trusted others. I loved the complicity and friendship between Mac and some of her classmates. I loved that she found people to stand up for her and yet kept making her own decisions. Girl power, but not only - let's not put all men in the same basket, alright? I also have the biggest crush on the love interest, which is a shock, because men in uniforms give me the CREEPS (I know how irrational that is, trust me - one of my close friends was in the military and he teased me about it endlessly, but what can I say, I am weird). But YUM. I loved this adorable guy.
Military : 1 Anna : 0
About the romance : I need to stress it because I've read it a lot and HUH, WHAT : this is in no way a love triangle. Granted, there are two boys, but never at the same time, and the first one is already history when the second one (YUM) steals the show. If that's a love triangle, then we've all been in one once in our life (what a frightening thought, I know).
I'll end this night rambling by saying that I wasn't completely satisfied with the ending because of two opposite reasons :
- The general plot is wrapped up in a neat bow and everything felt too rushed to be entirely believable.
- The romance aspect is, WELL, we'll say open to stay optimistic (I AM) and sadly realistic (WHY THOUGH??) but in that case I didn't want it to be realistic (I'm so unfair, right?) (also, I feel betrayed). Aw hell, I don't care. In my head everything goes well in the end OKAY?! Okay.
Nearly perfect as far as I'm concerned : some issues weren't completely dealt with , some parts seemed a bit over the top to me (but what do I know?), and I had to suspend my disbelief pretty hard sometimes (the hacking), but if Joy N. Hensley can interest me in anything military related, I'd say that she's a pretty damn good author (a sequel, THOUGH?).
PS. I'm still cracking up about the alarm people thing. Oh goodness.
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July 14, 2017
3.5 stars rounded up
Meet Sam Mc Kenna, the G.I. Jane of the Young Adult world as she embarks on a dare her brother Amos challenged her with- to enroll at Denmark Military Academy (DMA) . It sounds prestigious if only Sam weren’t two things: a Mc Kenna (a military brat) and a girl.
The originality of the premise is what convinced me to buy the book as I haven’t read anything like this that isn’t dystopia or fantasy. I have to be honest about the first chapters though because they didn’t do much for me. If it weren’t for the excellent, realistic writing and if I didn’t buddy read it with one of my favorite buddies, I doubt I’ll reach the middle part of the book.
The events at the beginning felt repetitive and I was doubting the plot’s going somewhere but thankfully I didn’t stop because when the real conflicts came in clear view and real $#!% started happening, I could no longer stop reading. Sam’s troubles are more than just a result of some man-boy’s power tripping. .
But Sam is an incredibly impressive and strong character-physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. With the help of her brothers in the DMA who believe in her especially Oh, Sergeant, my Sergeant Drill, *blushes* read how she does her best to prove herself deserving of a place in the DMA and eventually in the military world.
My biggest complaint is the rushed ending. Even though it’s a happy ending, it’s not enough and I want more! Also as pointed out by my friend, Tammy, there were some stuff in the story that are quite unrealistic like Jax (an outsider) being able to freely go in and out of the DMA. But overall, I enjoyed the entire book. The inspiring messages in the story would certainly linger and I would definitely recommend this to anyone looking for a unique YA contemporary read. ;)
Meet Sam Mc Kenna, the G.I. Jane of the Young Adult world as she embarks on a dare her brother Amos challenged her with- to enroll at Denmark Military Academy (DMA) . It sounds prestigious if only Sam weren’t two things: a Mc Kenna (a military brat) and a girl.
The originality of the premise is what convinced me to buy the book as I haven’t read anything like this that isn’t dystopia or fantasy. I have to be honest about the first chapters though because they didn’t do much for me. If it weren’t for the excellent, realistic writing and if I didn’t buddy read it with one of my favorite buddies, I doubt I’ll reach the middle part of the book.
The events at the beginning felt repetitive and I was doubting the plot’s going somewhere but thankfully I didn’t stop because when the real conflicts came in clear view and real $#!% started happening, I could no longer stop reading. Sam’s troubles are more than just a result of some man-boy’s power tripping. .
But Sam is an incredibly impressive and strong character-physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. With the help of her brothers in the DMA who believe in her especially Oh, Sergeant, my Sergeant Drill, *blushes* read how she does her best to prove herself deserving of a place in the DMA and eventually in the military world.
My biggest complaint is the rushed ending. Even though it’s a happy ending, it’s not enough and I want more! Also as pointed out by my friend, Tammy, there were some stuff in the story that are quite unrealistic like Jax (an outsider) being able to freely go in and out of the DMA. But overall, I enjoyed the entire book. The inspiring messages in the story would certainly linger and I would definitely recommend this to anyone looking for a unique YA contemporary read. ;)
November 1, 2014
I did a discussion review with one of my bestest bloggy friends ever, Jaz. Check out the review and AUS ONLY giveaway here.
A quick summary of what we discussed:
- How freaking amazing Sam was. She's brave and a hard worker. And she kicked everyone's asses.
- The misogyny ._.
- HOW THE ROMANCE WAS ALL KINDS OF AWESOMEEE.
- The plotline was fabulous. Never read anything set in military school and you can tell the author knows A LOT about it.
- WE FELT ALL THE EMOTIONS.
- The family aspect was truly fascinating too
- We didn't really love how the book ended though. WE DEMAND A SEQUEL!
A quick summary of what we discussed:
- How freaking amazing Sam was. She's brave and a hard worker. And she kicked everyone's asses.
- The misogyny ._.
- HOW THE ROMANCE WAS ALL KINDS OF AWESOMEEE.
- The plotline was fabulous. Never read anything set in military school and you can tell the author knows A LOT about it.
- WE FELT ALL THE EMOTIONS.
- The family aspect was truly fascinating too
- We didn't really love how the book ended though. WE DEMAND A SEQUEL!
April 15, 2014
Yes! Yes, yes, yes! This is how it's done!
Wow! What a wonderful book!
In February I was checking out new catalogs from Harper Teen and saw the cover for Rites of Passage. Since it seemed like a 'boy' book I decided to check out the blurb as well. It's not a 'boy' book! It's about something I've never read. I had to get it! I prayed to God, Jesus, Buddha, Zeus and Loki the lovely peeps from Harper Teen would grant me the wish to read it before everybody else. haha Well, my wish was granted and I couldn't be more happier because the book rocked!
Sam joins the first class of girls to attend the Denmark Military Academy or DMA. Her brother dared her to do it before he killed himself so Sam felt she had to do it. Her father's in military, her two brothers as well so it was obvious she would follow in their footsteps. After her brother killed himself everything changed; her mother started popping pills, father wasn't around and her brother who's with her in the DMA wasn't talking to her. Aside from the family drama, Sam had to deal with hazing from the members of the school's secret society who want her and 3 other girls gone. She's not sure who to trust and who her real friends are.
Throughout the whole book I was on the edge of my seat. It was as if I was Sam and I was being hazed every day for 9 months. I felt her pain and anger. I wanted to reach out and help her out somehow or at least punch the bastards who were abusing her daily. Some of the scenes were hard to watch. It just made me wonder how many people go through the same thing in real life. You'd think being a soldier is something to be proud of but just like in every other job there are good and bad people. The world is not black and white.
I don't want to talk too much about the plot since the blurb already covered that part but you should know this book is worth the time. I think I'm going to persuade my friends to read it once it gets out because they can't miss this outstanding debut and you shouldn't either!
Wow! What a wonderful book!
In February I was checking out new catalogs from Harper Teen and saw the cover for Rites of Passage. Since it seemed like a 'boy' book I decided to check out the blurb as well. It's not a 'boy' book! It's about something I've never read. I had to get it! I prayed to God, Jesus, Buddha, Zeus and Loki the lovely peeps from Harper Teen would grant me the wish to read it before everybody else. haha Well, my wish was granted and I couldn't be more happier because the book rocked!
Sam joins the first class of girls to attend the Denmark Military Academy or DMA. Her brother dared her to do it before he killed himself so Sam felt she had to do it. Her father's in military, her two brothers as well so it was obvious she would follow in their footsteps. After her brother killed himself everything changed; her mother started popping pills, father wasn't around and her brother who's with her in the DMA wasn't talking to her. Aside from the family drama, Sam had to deal with hazing from the members of the school's secret society who want her and 3 other girls gone. She's not sure who to trust and who her real friends are.
Throughout the whole book I was on the edge of my seat. It was as if I was Sam and I was being hazed every day for 9 months. I felt her pain and anger. I wanted to reach out and help her out somehow or at least punch the bastards who were abusing her daily. Some of the scenes were hard to watch. It just made me wonder how many people go through the same thing in real life. You'd think being a soldier is something to be proud of but just like in every other job there are good and bad people. The world is not black and white.
I don't want to talk too much about the plot since the blurb already covered that part but you should know this book is worth the time. I think I'm going to persuade my friends to read it once it gets out because they can't miss this outstanding debut and you shouldn't either!
February 2, 2017
A wonderful gift!!! And thanks to Anna for recommending I ask for this for Xmas....I loved meeting the sexy, forbidden Colonel.
Like all my posts lately, review to come.
January 27, 2015
I stayed up until 1:30 last night because I couldn't go to bed until I finished this book! I was completely hooked on this story from start to finish. I would never survive a military school, especially everything Sam faced at DMA. She could definitely give any dystopian heroine a run for her money. Sam is fierce and determined to survive at all cost and never gives up, even when faced with constant pressure from people who will do anything to see her gone. Drill was pretty amazing and swoony as well. I love how he supported Sam. I'd pick him for my team any day. I'm hoping we get a sequel! There's definitely more story that could be told. But this is a great standalone if not.
Full review to come.
Full review to come.
September 20, 2014
4.5 STARS
You know, every reader has a time in their reading life when they pick up a random book not expecting much, perhaps some entertainment, but not much more. And instead they get the most wonderful treat in the form of a paperback.
That’s what happened with Rites of Passage. Two main reasons why I loved this:
* First, I don’t usually enjoy Military books, but here, I could not stay indifferent. The amount of detail is stunning. The beginning was somewhat boring to me, I admit, because it starts right away with endless descriptions of drills and practices they were forced to do. But, soon it picks up, and oh well, you get used to it.
* Second, the emotions! Oh boy, I can’t remember the last time I was so anxious while reading a book. Somewhere around the 90% mark, I had to take a break, it was so intense. Of course, that’s just me, I get so involved; I felt like I was there with Sam the whole time, like I was experiencing everything. And even though at times it was tough, I loved every second of it. There’s nothing better than when a book gets me so immersed I forget real world.
And, Sam, oh you brave girl. I wanted to hug her at times, because she was obviously missing affection. As a person who hates working out, or anything sports-related, I truly admired her. Well, not just her, but everyone courageous enough to do what Sam did. God knows I would never do it.
However, I realize now I have not mentioned what the story is about (there’s the blurb though). Basically, Sam has come to DMA (Denmark Military Academy) as one of the first four females to ever apply. The whole school wants her out, because apparently we live in the 1950s and girls are considered weaklings and just can’t do all the stuff big bad boys can. I say, screw you all, Sam you show them. And did she ever. Not only is she not wanted, daily abused but also has a secret society called The Society working with full force trying to make her quit.
I think the author did a great job, not only in portraying what life in a military school looks like, but in giving a voice to Sam, who is an awesome female heroine, IMO.
I’ve seen that some readers are not satisfied with the ending, which I think is quite perfect for the story. The epilogue would have been fine, but it’s all good without it. Rites of Passage succeeded in what it was trying to portray, and that is Sam’s hardships and getting recognition. I loved everything the way it was. Now, I don’t think the book is perfect, but – if a book plays on my emotions, you know I’m gonna love it.
So I’d conclude with a sincere recommendation, Rites of Passage is a book worth reading. Go meet Sam and live through a hell year at DMA. ;)
You know, every reader has a time in their reading life when they pick up a random book not expecting much, perhaps some entertainment, but not much more. And instead they get the most wonderful treat in the form of a paperback.
That’s what happened with Rites of Passage. Two main reasons why I loved this:
* First, I don’t usually enjoy Military books, but here, I could not stay indifferent. The amount of detail is stunning. The beginning was somewhat boring to me, I admit, because it starts right away with endless descriptions of drills and practices they were forced to do. But, soon it picks up, and oh well, you get used to it.
* Second, the emotions! Oh boy, I can’t remember the last time I was so anxious while reading a book. Somewhere around the 90% mark, I had to take a break, it was so intense. Of course, that’s just me, I get so involved; I felt like I was there with Sam the whole time, like I was experiencing everything. And even though at times it was tough, I loved every second of it. There’s nothing better than when a book gets me so immersed I forget real world.
And, Sam, oh you brave girl. I wanted to hug her at times, because she was obviously missing affection. As a person who hates working out, or anything sports-related, I truly admired her. Well, not just her, but everyone courageous enough to do what Sam did. God knows I would never do it.
However, I realize now I have not mentioned what the story is about (there’s the blurb though). Basically, Sam has come to DMA (Denmark Military Academy) as one of the first four females to ever apply. The whole school wants her out, because apparently we live in the 1950s and girls are considered weaklings and just can’t do all the stuff big bad boys can. I say, screw you all, Sam you show them. And did she ever. Not only is she not wanted, daily abused but also has a secret society called The Society working with full force trying to make her quit.
I think the author did a great job, not only in portraying what life in a military school looks like, but in giving a voice to Sam, who is an awesome female heroine, IMO.
I’ve seen that some readers are not satisfied with the ending, which I think is quite perfect for the story. The epilogue would have been fine, but it’s all good without it. Rites of Passage succeeded in what it was trying to portray, and that is Sam’s hardships and getting recognition. I loved everything the way it was. Now, I don’t think the book is perfect, but – if a book plays on my emotions, you know I’m gonna love it.
So I’d conclude with a sincere recommendation, Rites of Passage is a book worth reading. Go meet Sam and live through a hell year at DMA. ;)
April 6, 2016
4.5 Stars
Rites of Passages is one of those books that stayed on my to-be-read list for a long time, buried under newer releases and more hyped books. And what a shame! I loved this book! From the first page it sucked me in and didn’t let go until I closed the last page. Joy N. Hensley’s writing flows easily and has this addictive quality. I’ve read this book in two sittings which is rare for me.
I don’t think I’ll write a full review on this book. I didn’t make one single bookmark or highlighted anything, because I was so engrossed in the story. But I’ll tell you this:
• Rites of Passage is enjoyable and addictive read.
• Plot is interesting; there wasn’t a dull moment in this book.
• Sam McKenna was a strong-willed likable heroine. I’m sure many readers will connect with her and relate to her.
• Love interest is amazing! He goes on my “awesome-hero” shelf.
• While the romance took back seat to the main story, it was absolutely swoon-worthy.
• The book feels very authentic. The author went to a military school on a dare and her personal experience is evident throughout the book.
• There is strong message in this book, that every girl can accomplish so much in male-dominated world.
My only complaint is the ending romance-wise. Romantic in me couldn’t be satisfied with it. That’s why I gave it 4.5 Stars.
I loved this book. Highly recommended.
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Rites of Passages is one of those books that stayed on my to-be-read list for a long time, buried under newer releases and more hyped books. And what a shame! I loved this book! From the first page it sucked me in and didn’t let go until I closed the last page. Joy N. Hensley’s writing flows easily and has this addictive quality. I’ve read this book in two sittings which is rare for me.
I don’t think I’ll write a full review on this book. I didn’t make one single bookmark or highlighted anything, because I was so engrossed in the story. But I’ll tell you this:
• Rites of Passage is enjoyable and addictive read.
• Plot is interesting; there wasn’t a dull moment in this book.
• Sam McKenna was a strong-willed likable heroine. I’m sure many readers will connect with her and relate to her.
• Love interest is amazing! He goes on my “awesome-hero” shelf.
• While the romance took back seat to the main story, it was absolutely swoon-worthy.
• The book feels very authentic. The author went to a military school on a dare and her personal experience is evident throughout the book.
• There is strong message in this book, that every girl can accomplish so much in male-dominated world.
My only complaint is the ending romance-wise. Romantic in me couldn’t be satisfied with it. That’s why I gave it 4.5 Stars.
I loved this book. Highly recommended.
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January 27, 2023Highly recommend for fans of Tamora Pierce's Protector of the Small series. Loved how powerful Sam was as a protagonist who refused to give up against all odds -all so she could pave the way for other girls to join the same military academy.
June 17, 2017
Initial Review: Whoa... this was pretty wonderful! Definitely exceeded my expectations, I'd definitely recommend this ;) Review to come.
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I went into this book hoping to enjoy it after all the rave reviews I had seen. I didn't expect to be blown away by this truly fantastic plot and feel so empowered by the words and in tune with the theme and ideas. Yet it happened. Hensley reminds me why writers write: to explain their views and persuade readers. She reminds me how powerful a tool writing can be and how much it can convey and incite in a reader.
The characters in this book are so dynamic and inspiring. They were so descriptive and realistic, I felt strongly about each and every one of them. Sam was an incredible and admirable main character. She's so strong and willful and passionate and determined. Drill was so sweet and thoughtful and smart. I loved him. Kelly, Bekah, and Matthews were great side characters. I felt they all brought the story to a whole and were just as developed as the main character.
The pacing was perfect. I really enjoyed the twists and turns of this novel. It wasn't too predictable. I couldn't stop reading! I attempted to read this book throughout November for a read-along. Instead I ended up finishing it in nearly three days. Some of the things that happen in this book are brutal. There are some scenes where I literally gasped out loud or stared dumb-founded at the page. Hensley holds nothing back and I admire that.
What I really loved about this book was the themes. Hensley had such a classy touch to it so the themes weren't thinly veiled, it was worked into the story and it made sense. She discussed topics that I usually avoided or didn't think of much like the treatment of women in the military and the women's stereotypes and women's inequality in general. She really made me think and brought out all the emotional responses to certain scenarios. She made me think which is the sign of a great writer.
This was a fantastic YA debut that was only slightly damaged by the ending. It was not what I wanted! I'd highly recommend this book to anyone, and yes. I'm going to push this book on EVERYONE.
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I went into this book hoping to enjoy it after all the rave reviews I had seen. I didn't expect to be blown away by this truly fantastic plot and feel so empowered by the words and in tune with the theme and ideas. Yet it happened. Hensley reminds me why writers write: to explain their views and persuade readers. She reminds me how powerful a tool writing can be and how much it can convey and incite in a reader.
The characters in this book are so dynamic and inspiring. They were so descriptive and realistic, I felt strongly about each and every one of them. Sam was an incredible and admirable main character. She's so strong and willful and passionate and determined. Drill was so sweet and thoughtful and smart. I loved him. Kelly, Bekah, and Matthews were great side characters. I felt they all brought the story to a whole and were just as developed as the main character.
The pacing was perfect. I really enjoyed the twists and turns of this novel. It wasn't too predictable. I couldn't stop reading! I attempted to read this book throughout November for a read-along. Instead I ended up finishing it in nearly three days. Some of the things that happen in this book are brutal. There are some scenes where I literally gasped out loud or stared dumb-founded at the page. Hensley holds nothing back and I admire that.
What I really loved about this book was the themes. Hensley had such a classy touch to it so the themes weren't thinly veiled, it was worked into the story and it made sense. She discussed topics that I usually avoided or didn't think of much like the treatment of women in the military and the women's stereotypes and women's inequality in general. She really made me think and brought out all the emotional responses to certain scenarios. She made me think which is the sign of a great writer.
This was a fantastic YA debut that was only slightly damaged by the ending. It was not what I wanted! I'd highly recommend this book to anyone, and yes. I'm going to push this book on EVERYONE.
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October 2, 2014
Don't write this off because of the cover and title. I experienced so much anger reading this - in all the right ways.
You wanna read about a girl fighting the patriarchy in an all-boys' military academy with badassery and a smidgen of cute yet forbidden romance? When most of the guys want her out of there (even resorting to kicking her in the side, OY) and her military family won't help her? When she wants to succeed to make it easier for other females to come in, even when the other girls with her don't want to stay? Then pick this up!
You can't help rooting for Sam throughout the book, even when you're raging inside over the blatant sexism. I had to sit in bed turning pages on my Kindle just to witness her comeuppance. It was so worth it. Plus, the author went to military school and it shows. The setting feels authentic; the drills and routine are so hardcore you want to hug them all.
Also, reading this reminds me just how out of shape I am. Time to do some jumping jacks.
Totally recommended! Need a sequel with Sam in junior year, please?
You wanna read about a girl fighting the patriarchy in an all-boys' military academy with badassery and a smidgen of cute yet forbidden romance? When most of the guys want her out of there (even resorting to kicking her in the side, OY) and her military family won't help her? When she wants to succeed to make it easier for other females to come in, even when the other girls with her don't want to stay? Then pick this up!
You can't help rooting for Sam throughout the book, even when you're raging inside over the blatant sexism. I had to sit in bed turning pages on my Kindle just to witness her comeuppance. It was so worth it. Plus, the author went to military school and it shows. The setting feels authentic; the drills and routine are so hardcore you want to hug them all.
Also, reading this reminds me just how out of shape I am. Time to do some jumping jacks.
Totally recommended! Need a sequel with Sam in junior year, please?
July 29, 2016
Everything was going great... until the romance started kicking in. It just seemed to pop out of nowhere, and I couldn't feel the connection between Sam and her main love interest (I'm saying main because she technically has two) at all.
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Full review to come soon!
August 24, 2014
4.5 stars
Sometimes, though not nearly often enough, a book grabs my attention from start to finish and refuses to let go. Rites of Passage is one of those books that make you experience and react strongly to everything that happens, but also forces you to realize some harsh truths about yourself, truths you could have kept hidden and unacknowledged otherwise.
In other words, it made me face the fact that I’m a wuss.
Watching Sam McKenna go through hell at the military school she chose to attend on a dare – not only physical hell, but emotional as well – made me realize that I might just be a quitter somewhere deep inside. However, while I can’t finish a year (or even a day) of training at DMA, I can certainly finish a book in one sitting. Or, you know, several. Hah! Take that, Mac! You can do a gazillion push-ups, but I can turn those pages like nobody’s business.
And turning the pages frantically is exactly what I did. Unexpectedly… shockingly even, Rites of Passage was very emotionally draining. It had been a long time since a book really made me cry, but watching Sam being ostracized, completely rejected not only by her peers, but by her dysfunctional family as well, broke my little heart into a million pieces. I admired this girl’s bravery and persistence the entire time. She never once faltered, not even when she was left all alone, beaten and abused.
I was also more than a little surprised by the quality of Hensley’s writing. Her language is simple and clear, but the level of emotions that permeate every sentence of her narrative is extremely high. I have, unfortunately, learned not to expect much when picking up something entirely unfamiliar, but my low expectations made this whole experience that much more thrilling.
The ending, however, was less than satisfactory, which broke my heart in a different way altogether. This was going to be a perfect five-star read until things started to unravel. When they did, they went in two different directions: some were resolved far too neatly and suddenly, and some felt completely unfinished. The romance especially, after a whole lot of build-up, didn’t leave me with a warm and fuzzy feeling like I expected and needed it to after the emotional turmoil this book put me through. There is talk of a sequel, however, so hopefully things won’t be left like this permanently.
Sometimes, though not nearly often enough, a book grabs my attention from start to finish and refuses to let go. Rites of Passage is one of those books that make you experience and react strongly to everything that happens, but also forces you to realize some harsh truths about yourself, truths you could have kept hidden and unacknowledged otherwise.
In other words, it made me face the fact that I’m a wuss.
Watching Sam McKenna go through hell at the military school she chose to attend on a dare – not only physical hell, but emotional as well – made me realize that I might just be a quitter somewhere deep inside. However, while I can’t finish a year (or even a day) of training at DMA, I can certainly finish a book in one sitting. Or, you know, several. Hah! Take that, Mac! You can do a gazillion push-ups, but I can turn those pages like nobody’s business.
And turning the pages frantically is exactly what I did. Unexpectedly… shockingly even, Rites of Passage was very emotionally draining. It had been a long time since a book really made me cry, but watching Sam being ostracized, completely rejected not only by her peers, but by her dysfunctional family as well, broke my little heart into a million pieces. I admired this girl’s bravery and persistence the entire time. She never once faltered, not even when she was left all alone, beaten and abused.
I was also more than a little surprised by the quality of Hensley’s writing. Her language is simple and clear, but the level of emotions that permeate every sentence of her narrative is extremely high. I have, unfortunately, learned not to expect much when picking up something entirely unfamiliar, but my low expectations made this whole experience that much more thrilling.
The ending, however, was less than satisfactory, which broke my heart in a different way altogether. This was going to be a perfect five-star read until things started to unravel. When they did, they went in two different directions: some were resolved far too neatly and suddenly, and some felt completely unfinished. The romance especially, after a whole lot of build-up, didn’t leave me with a warm and fuzzy feeling like I expected and needed it to after the emotional turmoil this book put me through. There is talk of a sequel, however, so hopefully things won’t be left like this permanently.
October 22, 2014
A copy of the audiobook version of this novel was provided by the publisher in exchange for an honest review. My thoughts are my own.
This review can also be found at The Starry-Eyed Revue.
When I first saw this book pop up on Edelweiss, I passed on it. I saw my friends snagging it and I saw it mentioned on Goodreads again and again, and still I passed. I just didn't think this was going to be my kind of book. The cover did nothing to disprove that theory, either. I even think that the first time I read that summary, I was under the impression that the story was a dystopian, what with the mention of a secret society and such.
Boy, was I ever wrong. I should have guessed that it was more military-geared based on the cover, but even that alone wouldn't have piqued my interest the way all of the reviews from my fellow bloggers did. So, when I was offered a chance to review the audio for this novel, I jumped at the chance, especially when I realized that Khristine Hvam was the narrator. She's one of my very favorites, having narrated many, many of the audiobooks I've listened to over the last few years, and it would have to be one terrible story for me not to enjoy her portrayal. As it stands, I loved this book that much more because of Hvam's narration. I felt everything as Sam experienced it: the betrayals, the injustice, the pull toward Drill. I don't think I could love this story more because of her excellent performance.
I enjoyed the military aspect of this story, though it wasn't my favorite part. I actually considered going into the Air Force right out of high school, but school had already been so regimented for me that I decided I needed a break and a chance to be a normal teenager, at least for a little while. Sam, on the other hand, was raised in a military family. She ate, slept, and drank the military regimen from the time she could walk, and she's still doing it. After a family tragedy and a dare that she couldn't back down from, she's joining Denmark Military Academy as part of the first class to allow females into their program. And not many are happy about this development.
Sam is such a fierce, determined character, not badass in that she's perfect at everything she attempts. But every time she doesn't succeed or doesn't do her best, she picks herself back up and tries again. I think that's the sign of a true heroine...one who doesn't have an easy go of it but continues just the same. That determination of Sam's instantly booted her to my list of favorite characters. Sam is constantly bombarded with reminders that very few people want her at the DMA and many will go to great lengths to see her fail or to get her to quit. She's pretty stiff competition for a lot of the male recruits, and that does nothing to help her situation.
But not everyone and not every recruit is against Sam. There are three other female recruits in the program, though the allusions to female solidarity that I've seen in some reviews kind of boggle my mind. These girls should have stuck together and rooted for each other's success, but instead, some are no-shows, some give up, some let the bullies win, and some join the other side. She did have one true female supporter along the way, and she was probably the most important to begin with. However, Sam has a few male friends in the academy, too, ones who understand unity and working as a company and not for their own advancement, and they make the experience slightly less taxing for Sam.
Rites of Passage is pretty brilliant. The author takes the military experience, feminism, and a secret society and meshes them to create this absolutely intriguing story. And then she goes and creates this totally swoon-worthy romance that is scorching hot, not because it's forbidden but because it's so genuine and the love interest has Sam's best interests at heart. He's not a bad boy. He's not a douche. He's just her Drill Sergeant, and he's not afraid of a strong female who's willing to prove herself, no matter what.
My only complaint about this book is that I think part of my copy was missing. I am usually a fan of an open ending, but after all these characters had suffered -- for their own dreams and for each other -- well, I just hoped for more of a resolution for them. Not necessarily a happy ending, mind you, but at least a real hint at what their future held.
Rites of Passage will go down as one of my very favorite debuts of 2014, one of my favorite audiobooks of the year, and probably the best representation of the military experience I've read to date. I'm really hoping there will be a sequel or some kind of novella, at least, to provide a more resolute ending, but as it is, this is still one of the best books I've read all year. I absolutely loved this story. Many thanks to all the bloggers who reviewed it and pushed me to give it a chance!
GIF it to me straight:
Book, I salute you!
This review can also be found at The Starry-Eyed Revue.
When I first saw this book pop up on Edelweiss, I passed on it. I saw my friends snagging it and I saw it mentioned on Goodreads again and again, and still I passed. I just didn't think this was going to be my kind of book. The cover did nothing to disprove that theory, either. I even think that the first time I read that summary, I was under the impression that the story was a dystopian, what with the mention of a secret society and such.
Boy, was I ever wrong. I should have guessed that it was more military-geared based on the cover, but even that alone wouldn't have piqued my interest the way all of the reviews from my fellow bloggers did. So, when I was offered a chance to review the audio for this novel, I jumped at the chance, especially when I realized that Khristine Hvam was the narrator. She's one of my very favorites, having narrated many, many of the audiobooks I've listened to over the last few years, and it would have to be one terrible story for me not to enjoy her portrayal. As it stands, I loved this book that much more because of Hvam's narration. I felt everything as Sam experienced it: the betrayals, the injustice, the pull toward Drill. I don't think I could love this story more because of her excellent performance.
I enjoyed the military aspect of this story, though it wasn't my favorite part. I actually considered going into the Air Force right out of high school, but school had already been so regimented for me that I decided I needed a break and a chance to be a normal teenager, at least for a little while. Sam, on the other hand, was raised in a military family. She ate, slept, and drank the military regimen from the time she could walk, and she's still doing it. After a family tragedy and a dare that she couldn't back down from, she's joining Denmark Military Academy as part of the first class to allow females into their program. And not many are happy about this development.
Sam is such a fierce, determined character, not badass in that she's perfect at everything she attempts. But every time she doesn't succeed or doesn't do her best, she picks herself back up and tries again. I think that's the sign of a true heroine...one who doesn't have an easy go of it but continues just the same. That determination of Sam's instantly booted her to my list of favorite characters. Sam is constantly bombarded with reminders that very few people want her at the DMA and many will go to great lengths to see her fail or to get her to quit. She's pretty stiff competition for a lot of the male recruits, and that does nothing to help her situation.
But not everyone and not every recruit is against Sam. There are three other female recruits in the program, though the allusions to female solidarity that I've seen in some reviews kind of boggle my mind. These girls should have stuck together and rooted for each other's success, but instead, some are no-shows, some give up, some let the bullies win, and some join the other side. She did have one true female supporter along the way, and she was probably the most important to begin with. However, Sam has a few male friends in the academy, too, ones who understand unity and working as a company and not for their own advancement, and they make the experience slightly less taxing for Sam.
Rites of Passage is pretty brilliant. The author takes the military experience, feminism, and a secret society and meshes them to create this absolutely intriguing story. And then she goes and creates this totally swoon-worthy romance that is scorching hot, not because it's forbidden but because it's so genuine and the love interest has Sam's best interests at heart. He's not a bad boy. He's not a douche. He's just her Drill Sergeant, and he's not afraid of a strong female who's willing to prove herself, no matter what.
My only complaint about this book is that I think part of my copy was missing. I am usually a fan of an open ending, but after all these characters had suffered -- for their own dreams and for each other -- well, I just hoped for more of a resolution for them. Not necessarily a happy ending, mind you, but at least a real hint at what their future held.
Rites of Passage will go down as one of my very favorite debuts of 2014, one of my favorite audiobooks of the year, and probably the best representation of the military experience I've read to date. I'm really hoping there will be a sequel or some kind of novella, at least, to provide a more resolute ending, but as it is, this is still one of the best books I've read all year. I absolutely loved this story. Many thanks to all the bloggers who reviewed it and pushed me to give it a chance!
GIF it to me straight:
Book, I salute you!
November 1, 2014
4.5 stars
You guys!! This book was amazing and I fail at putting my full review together to tell you why, mostly because it was just that good! I feel like I’ll miss something!
I think what was most intriguing for me with this book was the setting. Sure, we get boarding schools and dystopian books that are frequently set at times in a military type setting, but this one is straight up a military academy. And Sam is among the first group of girls to petition in order to attend. With that comes the requisite group of men/boys who feel that women don’t belong in their setting. But Sam is determined to prove them wrong.
I really loved Sam as a character here and I think Hensley did an amazing job with her. She is strong, and determined and loyal to her friends and family, even when it sometimes wasn’t necessarily warranted.
Those of you looking for a romance… there’s a bit of one here that I felt was really well done and just enough to provide a few swoons but definitely nothing that overtakes the actual plot of the story.
In a world of pretty dresses and dystopian books, Rites of Passage was a breath of fresh air and something completely different that I hope you’ll enjoy just as much as I did.
You guys!! This book was amazing and I fail at putting my full review together to tell you why, mostly because it was just that good! I feel like I’ll miss something!
I think what was most intriguing for me with this book was the setting. Sure, we get boarding schools and dystopian books that are frequently set at times in a military type setting, but this one is straight up a military academy. And Sam is among the first group of girls to petition in order to attend. With that comes the requisite group of men/boys who feel that women don’t belong in their setting. But Sam is determined to prove them wrong.
I really loved Sam as a character here and I think Hensley did an amazing job with her. She is strong, and determined and loyal to her friends and family, even when it sometimes wasn’t necessarily warranted.
Those of you looking for a romance… there’s a bit of one here that I felt was really well done and just enough to provide a few swoons but definitely nothing that overtakes the actual plot of the story.
In a world of pretty dresses and dystopian books, Rites of Passage was a breath of fresh air and something completely different that I hope you’ll enjoy just as much as I did.
September 23, 2014
***This review has also been posted on The Social Potato
This book was not a joy to read but will definitely be a highlight of my year, and something I will continuously push to people to try out. It’s a well-written book that deals with an important issue in today's world: sexism.
No matter how much people want to bury their heads in the sand, sexism is a thing and many women suffer the consequences of the ideals certain people refuse to let go. Joy highlights those so very well in her debut. She doesn’t brush over things, she doesn’t sugar coat them. She gives us the hard truth.
Sam was a wonderful character. I LOVED her strength, but I also loved that she wasn’t portrayed as a complete hard-ass. The things that were done to her HURT her. She was too scared to stand up to her bullies and that hurt her, too. I loved that she did her best to be strong so that her enemies wouldn’t be proven right, but she wasn’t perfect, either. There were times she refused to understand the troubles her fellow females were going through, because she didn’t want them as a whole to appear weak. Not that I blame her; I am pretty sure that under the same circumstances, I would have acted the same way, but I don’t think I would have been able to remain half as strong as she did.
I also loved that Sam wasn't actually alone; there was a small assemble of people who actually believed in her and wanted her to succeed. They didn’t turn on her when they didn’t get initiated. They could see that she was working harder than the rest of them because of the pressure on her and they supported her. Then there was Jax and I was really happy to see another female with such a positive role in the book. There was also the swoon-worthy Dril,l and, let’s not forget, Reverend.
Going back to the sexism bit, it’s important to see that not even her own family supported her decision. Her brother turned into a douche, her father didn’t think of women highly in the first place, and if it were up to her mom, she would be safely stuffed inside a closet. Sam didn’t give up, though. Not when she was spat out on her first day there. Not when during one of the marches, people openly yelled at her to quit and go home and ‘leave the hard work to the rest of us’.
Some of the actions of her bullies, although I don’t want to call them that because that word doesn’t even start to encompass them, were so extreme and it was hard to read about how their actions affected Sam. As a feminist, it made me want to scream and I had to take breaks at certain points just so that I wouldn’t become overwhelmed as a result of all the emotions I was feeling.
All that overwhelming stuff aside, I loved how the author structured the military school. It felt realistic, which isn’t surprising because from what I understood, the author attended one too.
I also adored the romance. It was a slow burn and I loved watching Sam and Drill work and just be cute together. I was definitely not happy with the way things ended, though. Reviewers said that the romance ended openly but I had no idea it would be THAT open. It makes me even sadder because it was done realistically. Unfortunately, as much as I love realistic, I’d also rather my romances not be that up in the air.
The one thing I really want to give kudos to Joy on, everything else wonderful about this book aside, was her decision to redeem Sam's family. Considering their actions, it was a risk. I mean, how do you forgive your family for behaving like assholes and being completely unsupportive? Joy handled it in a great way because she didn't excuse their actions, but instead took a different route and I think it worked very well. There was also the redemption of a few other characters and I also liked seeing that.
With all the good things I just said about this book, what I didn’t like was how some things were kind of forgotten about and not dealt with. It wasn’t anything major, but I thought that if some of those bits had been expanded on, it would have undoubtedly contributed to the novel.
This is most certainly a book that you wouldn't want to miss out on. It’s beautifully written and it deals with such an important issue in today’s world, one that isn't dealt with nearly enough. It can be intense and overwhelming and so painfully hard to read at times (you will be in constant need of hugs) but it is just a book everyone needs to read.
Fun fact: I am a wuss but a couple of hours after finishing this book, I told my mom I wanted to attend a military school. She laughed. I laughed. You can laugh at me, too.
This book was not a joy to read but will definitely be a highlight of my year, and something I will continuously push to people to try out. It’s a well-written book that deals with an important issue in today's world: sexism.
No matter how much people want to bury their heads in the sand, sexism is a thing and many women suffer the consequences of the ideals certain people refuse to let go. Joy highlights those so very well in her debut. She doesn’t brush over things, she doesn’t sugar coat them. She gives us the hard truth.
Sam was a wonderful character. I LOVED her strength, but I also loved that she wasn’t portrayed as a complete hard-ass. The things that were done to her HURT her. She was too scared to stand up to her bullies and that hurt her, too. I loved that she did her best to be strong so that her enemies wouldn’t be proven right, but she wasn’t perfect, either. There were times she refused to understand the troubles her fellow females were going through, because she didn’t want them as a whole to appear weak. Not that I blame her; I am pretty sure that under the same circumstances, I would have acted the same way, but I don’t think I would have been able to remain half as strong as she did.
I also loved that Sam wasn't actually alone; there was a small assemble of people who actually believed in her and wanted her to succeed. They didn’t turn on her when they didn’t get initiated. They could see that she was working harder than the rest of them because of the pressure on her and they supported her. Then there was Jax and I was really happy to see another female with such a positive role in the book. There was also the swoon-worthy Dril,l and, let’s not forget, Reverend.
Going back to the sexism bit, it’s important to see that not even her own family supported her decision. Her brother turned into a douche, her father didn’t think of women highly in the first place, and if it were up to her mom, she would be safely stuffed inside a closet. Sam didn’t give up, though. Not when she was spat out on her first day there. Not when during one of the marches, people openly yelled at her to quit and go home and ‘leave the hard work to the rest of us’.
Some of the actions of her bullies, although I don’t want to call them that because that word doesn’t even start to encompass them, were so extreme and it was hard to read about how their actions affected Sam. As a feminist, it made me want to scream and I had to take breaks at certain points just so that I wouldn’t become overwhelmed as a result of all the emotions I was feeling.
All that overwhelming stuff aside, I loved how the author structured the military school. It felt realistic, which isn’t surprising because from what I understood, the author attended one too.
I also adored the romance. It was a slow burn and I loved watching Sam and Drill work and just be cute together. I was definitely not happy with the way things ended, though. Reviewers said that the romance ended openly but I had no idea it would be THAT open. It makes me even sadder because it was done realistically. Unfortunately, as much as I love realistic, I’d also rather my romances not be that up in the air.
The one thing I really want to give kudos to Joy on, everything else wonderful about this book aside, was her decision to redeem Sam's family. Considering their actions, it was a risk. I mean, how do you forgive your family for behaving like assholes and being completely unsupportive? Joy handled it in a great way because she didn't excuse their actions, but instead took a different route and I think it worked very well. There was also the redemption of a few other characters and I also liked seeing that.
With all the good things I just said about this book, what I didn’t like was how some things were kind of forgotten about and not dealt with. It wasn’t anything major, but I thought that if some of those bits had been expanded on, it would have undoubtedly contributed to the novel.
This is most certainly a book that you wouldn't want to miss out on. It’s beautifully written and it deals with such an important issue in today’s world, one that isn't dealt with nearly enough. It can be intense and overwhelming and so painfully hard to read at times (you will be in constant need of hugs) but it is just a book everyone needs to read.
Fun fact: I am a wuss but a couple of hours after finishing this book, I told my mom I wanted to attend a military school. She laughed. I laughed. You can laugh at me, too.
April 25, 2015
If you guys are looking for a contemporary read with a fierce heroine, look no further. Not only does Rites of Passage tell a great story, it tackles serious issues like sexism very well.
By the time I got around to finally reading this one, I had forgotten most of the details in the synopsis, so a lot of the plot was a pleasant surprise. I was initially hesitant about this society that was going after her (mentioned in the synopsis) because I felt the story was strong enough without that particular plotline, but I was overall pretty pleased with the book.
All of the characters in Rites of Passage are extremely well written, whether it be the ones that make you just want to rip your hair out in frustration or the ones you just can’t help but swoon over. They all have really unique personalities and I found myself quickly growing attached to Sam and her friends. Sam was my favorite character of all, not only can she hold her own with the men, she even surpasses some of them with her hard work and determination.
The setting of this book is part of the fun-it takes place at a military school and while this usually wouldn’t be my thing, I absolutely loved it in this. The experience is written vividly and realistically, and I felt like I was there right alongside Sam as she went through it all. (Although I could never do anything like this in real life, I’m way too lazy!) So don’t be afraid of this book just because of the setting, I promise it’s good!
Even though Rites of Passage is no small chapter book, I was really happy it didn’t have any serious pacing issues. I was immediately drawn into Sam’s story, shocked by the hardships she has to endure throughout the book, and I couldn’t wait to see if everything would work out for her in the end.
Speaking of the end, some things weren’t wrapped up as well as I would have liked: but it’s not a deal-breaker. I’m definitely going to check out Hensley’s next book, The Harder You Fall.
By the time I got around to finally reading this one, I had forgotten most of the details in the synopsis, so a lot of the plot was a pleasant surprise. I was initially hesitant about this society that was going after her (mentioned in the synopsis) because I felt the story was strong enough without that particular plotline, but I was overall pretty pleased with the book.
All of the characters in Rites of Passage are extremely well written, whether it be the ones that make you just want to rip your hair out in frustration or the ones you just can’t help but swoon over. They all have really unique personalities and I found myself quickly growing attached to Sam and her friends. Sam was my favorite character of all, not only can she hold her own with the men, she even surpasses some of them with her hard work and determination.
The setting of this book is part of the fun-it takes place at a military school and while this usually wouldn’t be my thing, I absolutely loved it in this. The experience is written vividly and realistically, and I felt like I was there right alongside Sam as she went through it all. (Although I could never do anything like this in real life, I’m way too lazy!) So don’t be afraid of this book just because of the setting, I promise it’s good!
Even though Rites of Passage is no small chapter book, I was really happy it didn’t have any serious pacing issues. I was immediately drawn into Sam’s story, shocked by the hardships she has to endure throughout the book, and I couldn’t wait to see if everything would work out for her in the end.
Speaking of the end, some things weren’t wrapped up as well as I would have liked: but it’s not a deal-breaker. I’m definitely going to check out Hensley’s next book, The Harder You Fall.
July 20, 2017
Maybe 3.5 stars. I haven't decided yet.
Buddy read with Aj the Ravenous Reader. Open the link to read her perfectly described review.
Sam McKenna is our main character, not heroine like most of the books I typically read. She is a head strong, daring, and a determined person. As his last dare, Amos, Sam's late older brother, dares Sam to join the first class of women in the DMA. Sam couldn't not complete this dare, so she, as a McKenna, joins this particular military school, known to have graduated past McKenna's into important figures within the military as well as the school itself. But that's not the problem, this school is full of men-boys-who don't believe women belong in the DMA. Throughout the novel, Sam is trying to survive the anger of the sexist members of a secret society trying to eliminate her and the other girls from the DMA, as well as boys believing they have a shoot at joining the Society, as they call themselves.
An original and well written book, yet one that didn't bring excitement to the reading. Even though the written compelled me to continue reading, the story itself did not. Though I was happy to read something outside of my usual taste in novels, that thanks belongs to Aj po (did I use that right??)
I'm also an awful buddy read partner... I was reading too fast and then I was over a week behind in uploadign this review, Sorry Aj
Buddy read with Aj the Ravenous Reader. Open the link to read her perfectly described review.
Sam McKenna is our main character, not heroine like most of the books I typically read. She is a head strong, daring, and a determined person. As his last dare, Amos, Sam's late older brother, dares Sam to join the first class of women in the DMA. Sam couldn't not complete this dare, so she, as a McKenna, joins this particular military school, known to have graduated past McKenna's into important figures within the military as well as the school itself. But that's not the problem, this school is full of men-boys-who don't believe women belong in the DMA. Throughout the novel, Sam is trying to survive the anger of the sexist members of a secret society trying to eliminate her and the other girls from the DMA, as well as boys believing they have a shoot at joining the Society, as they call themselves.
An original and well written book, yet one that didn't bring excitement to the reading. Even though the written compelled me to continue reading, the story itself did not. Though I was happy to read something outside of my usual taste in novels, that thanks belongs to Aj po (did I use that right??)
I'm also an awful buddy read partner... I was reading too fast and then I was over a week behind in uploadign this review, Sorry Aj
September 26, 2014
Love love loved it!!!!!
This was addicting, I need more books with military settings.
Great ending too! Leaves possibility for a sequel *crosses fingers*
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REVIEW
It's really hard for me to write this review and i've been putting it off because I find it really really hard to express my thoughts on a book I loved so much. However it's 12:40am right now and enough is enough, this review is getting written and I hope it does Rites of Passage justice.
Let me start off by writing that if you are a 90s kid and watched Disney, then you probably have seen the tv movie Cadet Kelly. This was one of my favorite movies because I was so fascinated by the military school and all the training and, yes I have to admit, all the cool clothes Hilary Duff wore. As soon as I found out Rites of Passage existed, I put it on my wish list and priority TBR. I'm mentioning this to let you know I had more than average expectations for it.. honestly? they were pretty high expectations. BUT, Rites of Passage didn't just meet them, but totally exceeded them all. Everything about this book was exciting, fast paced, and addicting. Everything was working for this book, starting with the unique setting and plot line.
Sam is a military brat, what that means is that she grew up in a family of military people. In her case, her dad, and her two older brothers are in the military. However, one of her brothers is dead but before he passed away, he dared her to enroll at the DMA, short for the Denmark Military Academy. You see, the DMA finally *eye roll* opened up its doors to females. We are in the 21st century and women are still discriminated against. sheesh. Don't throw a party yet though because barely anyone is happy about this huge change at the prestigious military academy, because women are going to bring down your standards *snorts*. Anyways, Sam enrolls along with four other girls. The book opens up with her traveling in the car with her parents to the school. That chapter will hook you, I guarantee it. One of the welcome military upperclassmen tries to flirt with her before he knew who she was and he got burrrrrnt (her dad is very high up in the military).
Sam's attitude was what made most of this book for me. She's kick butt, brave, strong, smart, and an all around awesome person. She obviously knew what she was getting into by signing up at the DMA and she never once complaint, even through monologues, about how hard or unfair she was getting treated. And she was.. getting treated unfairly even compared to the girls. Ever heard of people trying too hard to NOT show favoritism but end up discriminating instead? yea that happened to her. The hazing and harsh treatment of some upperclassmen gets so bad I would wince sometimes during some scenes. Still, I loved her comradeship and her "never give up" attitude. The secret society mystery is also very interesting and I was on my toes trying to figure out what their next move is against the girls and their tries at kicking them out.
Lastly is the romance, and we hit the jackpot with this book! I've mentioned in earlier reviews how I've started to ignore the romances in YA books because many are cliches and made from the same typical mold? well, the romance in Rites of Passage breaks that mold *hallelujah*. I loved everything about the love interest, Drill, and ah, I had my own swoon moments thinking of him! Hensley never let the love interest become the typical YA savior. There was a sense of equality between him and Sam's relationship that I really appreciated. One thing I must mention is the ending. I know many people say it is too open ended to their liking since there isn't a sequel (as of yet, go buy the book!!), however I loved it. It gave me enough closure but at the same time, hinted at what is to come. The lives of people don't stop after the end of the book so it would seem weird that a corrupt secret society would get cleaned up and the people would get over their sexism. That hasn't even happened in the real world!
If you want a unique setting with a kick butt protagonist, a mystery, a secret society, hazings, and witnessing military training life, then Rites of Passage is just the book for you. I am already itching for a reread but I'm going to wait until my beautiful finished copy is in my possession before reading it again (hint: it is worth buying even though I've already read it).
This was addicting, I need more books with military settings.
Great ending too! Leaves possibility for a sequel *crosses fingers*
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REVIEW
It's really hard for me to write this review and i've been putting it off because I find it really really hard to express my thoughts on a book I loved so much. However it's 12:40am right now and enough is enough, this review is getting written and I hope it does Rites of Passage justice.
Let me start off by writing that if you are a 90s kid and watched Disney, then you probably have seen the tv movie Cadet Kelly. This was one of my favorite movies because I was so fascinated by the military school and all the training and, yes I have to admit, all the cool clothes Hilary Duff wore. As soon as I found out Rites of Passage existed, I put it on my wish list and priority TBR. I'm mentioning this to let you know I had more than average expectations for it.. honestly? they were pretty high expectations. BUT, Rites of Passage didn't just meet them, but totally exceeded them all. Everything about this book was exciting, fast paced, and addicting. Everything was working for this book, starting with the unique setting and plot line.
Sam is a military brat, what that means is that she grew up in a family of military people. In her case, her dad, and her two older brothers are in the military. However, one of her brothers is dead but before he passed away, he dared her to enroll at the DMA, short for the Denmark Military Academy. You see, the DMA finally *eye roll* opened up its doors to females. We are in the 21st century and women are still discriminated against. sheesh. Don't throw a party yet though because barely anyone is happy about this huge change at the prestigious military academy, because women are going to bring down your standards *snorts*. Anyways, Sam enrolls along with four other girls. The book opens up with her traveling in the car with her parents to the school. That chapter will hook you, I guarantee it. One of the welcome military upperclassmen tries to flirt with her before he knew who she was and he got burrrrrnt (her dad is very high up in the military).
Sam's attitude was what made most of this book for me. She's kick butt, brave, strong, smart, and an all around awesome person. She obviously knew what she was getting into by signing up at the DMA and she never once complaint, even through monologues, about how hard or unfair she was getting treated. And she was.. getting treated unfairly even compared to the girls. Ever heard of people trying too hard to NOT show favoritism but end up discriminating instead? yea that happened to her. The hazing and harsh treatment of some upperclassmen gets so bad I would wince sometimes during some scenes. Still, I loved her comradeship and her "never give up" attitude. The secret society mystery is also very interesting and I was on my toes trying to figure out what their next move is against the girls and their tries at kicking them out.
Lastly is the romance, and we hit the jackpot with this book! I've mentioned in earlier reviews how I've started to ignore the romances in YA books because many are cliches and made from the same typical mold? well, the romance in Rites of Passage breaks that mold *hallelujah*. I loved everything about the love interest, Drill, and ah, I had my own swoon moments thinking of him! Hensley never let the love interest become the typical YA savior. There was a sense of equality between him and Sam's relationship that I really appreciated. One thing I must mention is the ending. I know many people say it is too open ended to their liking since there isn't a sequel (as of yet, go buy the book!!), however I loved it. It gave me enough closure but at the same time, hinted at what is to come. The lives of people don't stop after the end of the book so it would seem weird that a corrupt secret society would get cleaned up and the people would get over their sexism. That hasn't even happened in the real world!
If you want a unique setting with a kick butt protagonist, a mystery, a secret society, hazings, and witnessing military training life, then Rites of Passage is just the book for you. I am already itching for a reread but I'm going to wait until my beautiful finished copy is in my possession before reading it again (hint: it is worth buying even though I've already read it).
November 13, 2014
I wasn't overly excited about Rites of Passage. To be honest, I don't think I have even read the description when I first saw it. But then a few of my friends read it and loved it. Since I got an eARC copy of it, I finally read what is it about. The first thing I thought about was: "Well, this actually sounds interesting. I've never read anything with military school". Then again, I forgot about the book, and few days ago, I saw that the publication date is pretty close and I decided finally to give it a try and read it. I'm so glad I did, because, Rites of Passage is pretty damn brilliant! I devoured the book! I was reading in my 5 minute breaks even, I just needed to know what is going to happen next. You know it's an amazing book when you can't wait to finally read some more, and when the book is the only thing you can think about.
Rites of Passage starts with Sam going to the Denmark Military Academy. Until then, it was an all boys school, but that's changed because this year, there are also going to be 5 girls attending the school. To say that some of the boys are not liking it is an understatement. The first week was as bad as Sam imagined it would be, but the pressure and a killing tempo does not stop there. There are people who want her gone and they are working her a lot harder then the others. But she's holding up good, she's even better then some of the boys. But what will she do when everything becomes a lot more serious, would she be willing do endanger her life?
I loved Sam right from the start. She's an amazing character. She's one of the toughest girls I read about. She's strong, she's fierce, she's determined and I loved it. She's going to a military school, which is supposed to be hard for boys, and she's nailing it. Even if they are working her extra hard, she's proving them wrong. She's proving them, that girls deserve a place in a school like that too, and that they're not that superior.
The thing I was really surprised with is the story itself. There is much more to it then what you get just from the blurb. The whole politics, the scheming, the secrecy, it all was a great addition to the book. There were moments where I could connect it with The Skulls, and I LOVE The Skulls. The secret society, but in military. The romance itself was a great addition, even though it was in the second plan and it never really interfered much with the main plot, it was still present and sweet. *Go Drill Sergeant Stamm!*
The book ended with a kinda open ending, I guess. There were still a lot of things left that weren't clear, but I think that's what the author was aiming for. Well, it worked for me. Even if there won't be a sequel (which I am hoping there will be), I would be perfectly happy with how it ended.
So to sum it all up, Rites of Passage is one amazing book! It definitely goes straight to my 2014 debut favorites! I will be definitely keeping my eyes open for Joy N. Hensley's next books, I am sure they will be just as great as this one!
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Rites of Passage starts with Sam going to the Denmark Military Academy. Until then, it was an all boys school, but that's changed because this year, there are also going to be 5 girls attending the school. To say that some of the boys are not liking it is an understatement. The first week was as bad as Sam imagined it would be, but the pressure and a killing tempo does not stop there. There are people who want her gone and they are working her a lot harder then the others. But she's holding up good, she's even better then some of the boys. But what will she do when everything becomes a lot more serious, would she be willing do endanger her life?
I loved Sam right from the start. She's an amazing character. She's one of the toughest girls I read about. She's strong, she's fierce, she's determined and I loved it. She's going to a military school, which is supposed to be hard for boys, and she's nailing it. Even if they are working her extra hard, she's proving them wrong. She's proving them, that girls deserve a place in a school like that too, and that they're not that superior.
The thing I was really surprised with is the story itself. There is much more to it then what you get just from the blurb. The whole politics, the scheming, the secrecy, it all was a great addition to the book. There were moments where I could connect it with The Skulls, and I LOVE The Skulls. The secret society, but in military. The romance itself was a great addition, even though it was in the second plan and it never really interfered much with the main plot, it was still present and sweet. *Go Drill Sergeant Stamm!*
The book ended with a kinda open ending, I guess. There were still a lot of things left that weren't clear, but I think that's what the author was aiming for. Well, it worked for me. Even if there won't be a sequel (which I am hoping there will be), I would be perfectly happy with how it ended.
So to sum it all up, Rites of Passage is one amazing book! It definitely goes straight to my 2014 debut favorites! I will be definitely keeping my eyes open for Joy N. Hensley's next books, I am sure they will be just as great as this one!
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September 30, 2014
Wow, this book evoked so many emotions out of me that I'm still thinking about it a week after I finished it. This was a book I wanted to read because I thought it sounded cute. A girl in the military? Girl power! But it wasn't that high on my TBR until the gorgeous finished copy arrived on my doorstep and I really paid attention to the summary. (You guys know I hardly pay attention to summaries the first time around) When I saw that Khristine Hvam was narrating this one, it went at the very top of my TBR. This book was nothing like the cute story that I was expecting. It was intense and so very powerful. I looooooved Rites of Passage so much even though it made me angry so many times. I was hooked on the story but I also didn't want it to end.
Sam McKenna comes a military family. Her dad and brothers are in the army and she knows more about the army then most guys. When her older brother dared her to join the Denmark Military Academy, they mostly laughed it off. But when her brother kills himself and the Academy starts allowing girls to enlist, Sam feels like this is one dare she has to do. Her family isn't too happy with her choice, but Sam is one determined and stubborn girl. She knows that it won't be easy, but she also knows that not only can she do it, but she deserves to be able to attend. Holy shit balls, was this story intense! I love the way Hensley described the Academy life. The brutal parts and the good parts. It's clear from day one that Sam and the rest of the girls are not wanted at the academy. Some of the guys start making their life hell, Sam specifically since she's the one who shows the most promise. When the attacks on her start getting more serious and cruel, and with Matthews on a personal vendetta against her, it gets harder and harder for Sam to stay. But despite them purposely picking on her and setting Sam up at every opportunity to fail, Same won't give up. Even when it seems like no one is on her side, not even her own family.
This is the part of the story where the emotions will kick in high gear. Matthews and the rest of the guys do horrible things to Sam, things that make you start hoping for maiming of certain body parts. Some of these scenes where tough to read/listen to, but it also made you feel proud of Sam for her courage to know when to back down and when to fight back. I did have a few moments of confusion at the beginning. There were too many names thrown at me at once and it was hard (for me) to sometimes keep track of who was who. I spent a few chapters thinking Kelly was a girl. And the summary mentions that Sam starts falling for her drill sergeant, but for a chunk of the first half, we get a maybe romance with this Kelly guy which confused me a bit since he wasn't her drill sergeant. But, things cleared up quickly and I learned people's names and the romance between Sam and Drill Stamm started to slowly develop. This story centered around the romance, which I actually liked because Sam already had too much going on. But I did love how the romance part plaid out. It had that forbidden element with a good friends-first slow burn. I loved how Stamm was always there for Sam when she needed it the most.
I spent most of the book angry and hating most of these characters and plotting revenge in my head. I loved how with so many characters to hate, we also have some very good characters to love. I loved Sam, Drill Stamm, Reverend and Tim. Rites of Passage was such a beautiful story with a powerful message. It might not have been the cute Girl Power story I was expecting but it definitely was a 'Girl Power' kind of story in a totally different kick-ass way. Such an intense book, I loved everything about it...except for the ending. Because please tell me there's going to be another book!!! There has to be another book! I need to know what happens to Sam and Drill and most of all those assholes that were so terrible to Sam. As of now, GR doesn't have a book 2 listed, but I'm crossing my fingers that there will be one. Hensley does have another book releasing in 2015 about a girl in the world of mixed martial arts and I can't freaking wait to read it. The Harder You Fall is already on my 2015 highly anticipated reads! Such a great book, I can't recommend Rites of Passage enough.
Audiobook Comments: I've been wanting to read a book by Khristine Hvam for a long time and I'm so glad this was my first experience by her. Now I know why she has so many books under her name. She was an amazing Sam and she did a perfect job of bringing this story to life. Since we experience so many of Sam's training exercises with a lot of shouting and 'Sir yes Sir!', this was such a great book to listen to on audio. I read some of it but listened to the majority of it and loved every single second of it. I highly recommend the audiobook version of this story.
4.5 out of 5 stars!
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Sam McKenna comes a military family. Her dad and brothers are in the army and she knows more about the army then most guys. When her older brother dared her to join the Denmark Military Academy, they mostly laughed it off. But when her brother kills himself and the Academy starts allowing girls to enlist, Sam feels like this is one dare she has to do. Her family isn't too happy with her choice, but Sam is one determined and stubborn girl. She knows that it won't be easy, but she also knows that not only can she do it, but she deserves to be able to attend. Holy shit balls, was this story intense! I love the way Hensley described the Academy life. The brutal parts and the good parts. It's clear from day one that Sam and the rest of the girls are not wanted at the academy. Some of the guys start making their life hell, Sam specifically since she's the one who shows the most promise. When the attacks on her start getting more serious and cruel, and with Matthews on a personal vendetta against her, it gets harder and harder for Sam to stay. But despite them purposely picking on her and setting Sam up at every opportunity to fail, Same won't give up. Even when it seems like no one is on her side, not even her own family.
This is the part of the story where the emotions will kick in high gear. Matthews and the rest of the guys do horrible things to Sam, things that make you start hoping for maiming of certain body parts. Some of these scenes where tough to read/listen to, but it also made you feel proud of Sam for her courage to know when to back down and when to fight back. I did have a few moments of confusion at the beginning. There were too many names thrown at me at once and it was hard (for me) to sometimes keep track of who was who. I spent a few chapters thinking Kelly was a girl. And the summary mentions that Sam starts falling for her drill sergeant, but for a chunk of the first half, we get a maybe romance with this Kelly guy which confused me a bit since he wasn't her drill sergeant. But, things cleared up quickly and I learned people's names and the romance between Sam and Drill Stamm started to slowly develop. This story centered around the romance, which I actually liked because Sam already had too much going on. But I did love how the romance part plaid out. It had that forbidden element with a good friends-first slow burn. I loved how Stamm was always there for Sam when she needed it the most.
I spent most of the book angry and hating most of these characters and plotting revenge in my head. I loved how with so many characters to hate, we also have some very good characters to love. I loved Sam, Drill Stamm, Reverend and Tim. Rites of Passage was such a beautiful story with a powerful message. It might not have been the cute Girl Power story I was expecting but it definitely was a 'Girl Power' kind of story in a totally different kick-ass way. Such an intense book, I loved everything about it...except for the ending. Because please tell me there's going to be another book!!! There has to be another book! I need to know what happens to Sam and Drill and most of all those assholes that were so terrible to Sam. As of now, GR doesn't have a book 2 listed, but I'm crossing my fingers that there will be one. Hensley does have another book releasing in 2015 about a girl in the world of mixed martial arts and I can't freaking wait to read it. The Harder You Fall is already on my 2015 highly anticipated reads! Such a great book, I can't recommend Rites of Passage enough.
Audiobook Comments: I've been wanting to read a book by Khristine Hvam for a long time and I'm so glad this was my first experience by her. Now I know why she has so many books under her name. She was an amazing Sam and she did a perfect job of bringing this story to life. Since we experience so many of Sam's training exercises with a lot of shouting and 'Sir yes Sir!', this was such a great book to listen to on audio. I read some of it but listened to the majority of it and loved every single second of it. I highly recommend the audiobook version of this story.
4.5 out of 5 stars!
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November 23, 2014
Review also posted at Young Adult Hollywood.
Sometimes all you really need is a good contemporary book and here comes Rites of Passage. It is refreshing and intense. I had to put it down numerous times because I couldn’t handle the twists. A 10 / 10 badassery story narrated by a fierce, relatable protagonist.
April 6, 2015
I was loving this but WHAT THE HELL, ENDING?! I refuse.
Edit: it was a solid 4 stars but I might make it 3.5 after that weird ending. I still really enjoyed it though, and I was VERY emotionally invested.
Edit: it was a solid 4 stars but I might make it 3.5 after that weird ending. I still really enjoyed it though, and I was VERY emotionally invested.
September 7, 2015
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June 3, 2015
I read this book in one sitting, it was that great!
April 30, 2020
BOOK TAGS⇣
⇢ 4 ✰STARS✰
⇢ NARRATION 4.5 ✰STARS✰
⤏ MILITARY ACADEMY
⤏ MISOGYNY
⤏ MYSTERIOUS SECRET SOCIETY
⤏ YOUNG LOVE
⤏ CONTEMPORARY
MY THOUGHTS⇣
First off, you can really tell that this Author knows about Military School, being a Military Brat, and how it feels to be one of the only girls in something that men/boys feel is only for them and not for the "weaker sex". The misogyny is strong in this one. If you read the author's bio it says she once went to military school on a dare, even. So maybe that's why so much of this story feels genuine.
How one feels about this book would probably depend on what they were looking for from the story itself. If you're looking for a super swoony romance with a military school backdrop...than you might be disappointed because the romance really takes a backseat to the trials of making it through her first year at the Acadamy. For me, I thought it was easy to invest in the story because you really want to see Sam prove to these boys that she can do it and that she can take all their BS and still come out on top.
I only had a couple of issues, one with trying to keep track of all the characters and their many names they were referred to...I got confused a number of times. Another was with how things played out in the end, not all of the guilty parties got their comeuppance and it was disappointing to have it end like that.
BOOK DETAILS⇣
AUDIO PERFORMED BY⇢ KHRISTINE HVAM
SOURCE⇢ LIBBY AUDIOBOOK (LIBRARY)
AUDIOBOOK LENGTH⇢ 10 HOURS, 28 MINUTES
BREAKDOWN⇣
Plot⇢ 4.3/5
Characters⇢ 3.5/5
The Feels⇢ 4.5/5
Pacing⇢ 4.7/5
Addictiveness⇢ 4.5/5
Theme, Tone or Intensity⇢ 4.2/5
Originality/Believability⇢ 5/5
Flow (Writing Style)⇢ 4.5/5
Romance/Chemistry⇢ 3.8/5
Ending⇢ 2.5/5
⇢ 4 ✰STARS✰
⇢ NARRATION 4.5 ✰STARS✰
⤏ MILITARY ACADEMY
⤏ MISOGYNY
⤏ MYSTERIOUS SECRET SOCIETY
⤏ YOUNG LOVE
⤏ CONTEMPORARY
MY THOUGHTS⇣
First off, you can really tell that this Author knows about Military School, being a Military Brat, and how it feels to be one of the only girls in something that men/boys feel is only for them and not for the "weaker sex". The misogyny is strong in this one. If you read the author's bio it says she once went to military school on a dare, even. So maybe that's why so much of this story feels genuine.
How one feels about this book would probably depend on what they were looking for from the story itself. If you're looking for a super swoony romance with a military school backdrop...than you might be disappointed because the romance really takes a backseat to the trials of making it through her first year at the Acadamy. For me, I thought it was easy to invest in the story because you really want to see Sam prove to these boys that she can do it and that she can take all their BS and still come out on top.
I only had a couple of issues, one with trying to keep track of all the characters and their many names they were referred to...I got confused a number of times. Another was with how things played out in the end, not all of the guilty parties got their comeuppance and it was disappointing to have it end like that.
BOOK DETAILS⇣
AUDIO PERFORMED BY⇢ KHRISTINE HVAM
SOURCE⇢ LIBBY AUDIOBOOK (LIBRARY)
AUDIOBOOK LENGTH⇢ 10 HOURS, 28 MINUTES
BREAKDOWN⇣
Plot⇢ 4.3/5
Characters⇢ 3.5/5
The Feels⇢ 4.5/5
Pacing⇢ 4.7/5
Addictiveness⇢ 4.5/5
Theme, Tone or Intensity⇢ 4.2/5
Originality/Believability⇢ 5/5
Flow (Writing Style)⇢ 4.5/5
Romance/Chemistry⇢ 3.8/5
Ending⇢ 2.5/5
August 26, 2014
Actual Rating: 4.5 stars
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I cannot remember the last time a book made me feel so incredibly, incandescently, indescribably enraged. Seriously, I was filled with anger for most of the book. Loathing. Unadulterated loathing. Right now, I can see you looking at the rating and wondering whether I slipped up. No, I didn’t. This book pissed me off more than most any other, but it MEANT to make me feel that way. This review will involve a good deal of ranting, but that’s not directed at the book. Rites of Passage is an intense read about gender and the military, which made me want to go on a nutpunching rampage.
My expectations going into Rites of Passage were something along the lines of Cadet Kelly, the Disney Channel Original Movie where Hilary Duff is sent to a military academy. It’s fluffy and fun and there’s romance. On the one hand, they’re definitely ripe for comparison, but there’s nothing fluffy about Rites of Passage. The key difference is that there were other women in positions of power at the military academy Hilary Duff went to (most notably Ren Stevens as a badass drill sergeant). Sam McKenna is one of five girls to attend Denmark Military Academy, and they are not wanted.
Sam McKenna is from a military family. She knows the regulations and has lived them for most of her life. Her father’s a colonel and both her brothers followed in his footsteps. Before he died, her favorite brother, Amos, dared Sam to attend the DMA. After his death, she had no choice but to follow through, because she owes it to her love of him. Plus, she’s as ready as anyone can be for the challenges of a military academy. She knows what will be asked of her and she’s both strong and determined.
In fact, Sam IS ready. She’s basically a model recruit. She’s able to bear up for the physical challenges. Though she doesn’t usually finish first, she’s generally near the front of the pack. The rules of the academy are already drilled into her. A military academy is tough and not remotely fluffy. Recruits are not allowed to walk on the sidewalks, even though sidewalks are literally made for walking. They have to sandwich the rank of anyone above them, like “Drill Sergeant Stamm, yes, Drill Sergeant Stamm,” which to my mind is a completely pointless and idiotic waste of time. Pretty much every single rule is there to dehumanize the recruits. While I will never ever understand any of this being necessary on an emotional level, it’s intended to bring the class of recruits together and make them 1) work hard and 2) work as a team.
Still, that’s what Sam signed up for and she could handle that. Unfortunately, this DMA is populated by misogynistic shitbags and from day one everyone has been telling her to go home and stop polluting the academy. Sam responds not by acting out but by holding herself to ever higher standards of excellence. Meanwhile, she’s consistently berated for holding her company back and for being weak and inferior, even though she’s much better than many of the other recruits. Watching this is agony. People abuse her verbally and physically in an effort to make her leave. Clearly, these dickwad arsehole shitheads are aware that, if women come to the academy, the females might just excel. If they truly believed women were inferior, they could have just left the women alone and waited for them to inevitably fail. Secretly, these boys know women are strong enough and that’s why they’re so afraid. FUCK THE PATRIARCHY.
What happens to Sam is completely disgusting, not because she’s a girl, but because she’s being held to a different standard because she’s a girl. Sam doesn’t need or want special treatment. She does all the same physical activity as everyone else. The only reason they claim she can’t hack it is because her genitals are on the inside. It’s such fucking bullshit. And all she can do is either drop out or accept the abuse quietly, because the military will always believe people of higher rank. I FEEL SO MUCH RAGE.
For a lot of the book, Sam’s completely alone. No one is on her side and it is painful to watch. The way her family doesn’t stand by her is what really kicked me in the emotional kidneys. Her mom, especially, who is completely outside the military academy and draws away for non-political reasons. Losing one child is a shitty reason to push away the rest of them. What kills me about this book is how plausible it seems. I want to be able to say, “this book is unrealistic because there’s no way people would have allowed the vendetta against Sam to get this far,” but I really just can’t. Removing prejudice is an incredibly slow process and I think the military, by its nature, is probably even slower.
There is a bit of a romance and, at first, I wasn’t a fan of that. Sam is such a rule-follower and so set on making it through this year to ease the path for other female recruits to follow that I couldn’t see her risking her place on kissing. However, I think Hensley handled it perfectly. There’s a ship there for you to enjoy, but Sam’s pretty careful about what she does. Despite the hormones, she cares about her military career first. It fits with Sam’s personality and I won’t complain about adding shippy moments that make sense.
The one thing that didn’t ring true for me was Jax. During her first days, Sam gets an email from an account called jaxhax telling her to quit the DMA. Eventually, you learn who Jax is and that she wants to help Sam. Conveniently, Jax is a hacker and has exactly the skills needed to make the plot possible. Her presence is too convenient and her character’s rather inconsistent, I find, in order to fit the demands of the plot. Honestly, the whole larger plot that Jax is needed for really didn’t do much for me anyway. I don’t feel like things needed to be conspiracy theory intense.
Rites of Passage is an intense consideration of gender roles and expectations in a military academy. It might make you want to feminist smash some stuff, but it’s a really great, worthwhile read. Now, I think I need to watch Cadet Kelly to recover.
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I cannot remember the last time a book made me feel so incredibly, incandescently, indescribably enraged. Seriously, I was filled with anger for most of the book. Loathing. Unadulterated loathing. Right now, I can see you looking at the rating and wondering whether I slipped up. No, I didn’t. This book pissed me off more than most any other, but it MEANT to make me feel that way. This review will involve a good deal of ranting, but that’s not directed at the book. Rites of Passage is an intense read about gender and the military, which made me want to go on a nutpunching rampage.
My expectations going into Rites of Passage were something along the lines of Cadet Kelly, the Disney Channel Original Movie where Hilary Duff is sent to a military academy. It’s fluffy and fun and there’s romance. On the one hand, they’re definitely ripe for comparison, but there’s nothing fluffy about Rites of Passage. The key difference is that there were other women in positions of power at the military academy Hilary Duff went to (most notably Ren Stevens as a badass drill sergeant). Sam McKenna is one of five girls to attend Denmark Military Academy, and they are not wanted.
Sam McKenna is from a military family. She knows the regulations and has lived them for most of her life. Her father’s a colonel and both her brothers followed in his footsteps. Before he died, her favorite brother, Amos, dared Sam to attend the DMA. After his death, she had no choice but to follow through, because she owes it to her love of him. Plus, she’s as ready as anyone can be for the challenges of a military academy. She knows what will be asked of her and she’s both strong and determined.
In fact, Sam IS ready. She’s basically a model recruit. She’s able to bear up for the physical challenges. Though she doesn’t usually finish first, she’s generally near the front of the pack. The rules of the academy are already drilled into her. A military academy is tough and not remotely fluffy. Recruits are not allowed to walk on the sidewalks, even though sidewalks are literally made for walking. They have to sandwich the rank of anyone above them, like “Drill Sergeant Stamm, yes, Drill Sergeant Stamm,” which to my mind is a completely pointless and idiotic waste of time. Pretty much every single rule is there to dehumanize the recruits. While I will never ever understand any of this being necessary on an emotional level, it’s intended to bring the class of recruits together and make them 1) work hard and 2) work as a team.
Still, that’s what Sam signed up for and she could handle that. Unfortunately, this DMA is populated by misogynistic shitbags and from day one everyone has been telling her to go home and stop polluting the academy. Sam responds not by acting out but by holding herself to ever higher standards of excellence. Meanwhile, she’s consistently berated for holding her company back and for being weak and inferior, even though she’s much better than many of the other recruits. Watching this is agony. People abuse her verbally and physically in an effort to make her leave. Clearly, these dickwad arsehole shitheads are aware that, if women come to the academy, the females might just excel. If they truly believed women were inferior, they could have just left the women alone and waited for them to inevitably fail. Secretly, these boys know women are strong enough and that’s why they’re so afraid. FUCK THE PATRIARCHY.
What happens to Sam is completely disgusting, not because she’s a girl, but because she’s being held to a different standard because she’s a girl. Sam doesn’t need or want special treatment. She does all the same physical activity as everyone else. The only reason they claim she can’t hack it is because her genitals are on the inside. It’s such fucking bullshit. And all she can do is either drop out or accept the abuse quietly, because the military will always believe people of higher rank. I FEEL SO MUCH RAGE.
For a lot of the book, Sam’s completely alone. No one is on her side and it is painful to watch. The way her family doesn’t stand by her is what really kicked me in the emotional kidneys. Her mom, especially, who is completely outside the military academy and draws away for non-political reasons. Losing one child is a shitty reason to push away the rest of them. What kills me about this book is how plausible it seems. I want to be able to say, “this book is unrealistic because there’s no way people would have allowed the vendetta against Sam to get this far,” but I really just can’t. Removing prejudice is an incredibly slow process and I think the military, by its nature, is probably even slower.
There is a bit of a romance and, at first, I wasn’t a fan of that. Sam is such a rule-follower and so set on making it through this year to ease the path for other female recruits to follow that I couldn’t see her risking her place on kissing. However, I think Hensley handled it perfectly. There’s a ship there for you to enjoy, but Sam’s pretty careful about what she does. Despite the hormones, she cares about her military career first. It fits with Sam’s personality and I won’t complain about adding shippy moments that make sense.
The one thing that didn’t ring true for me was Jax. During her first days, Sam gets an email from an account called jaxhax telling her to quit the DMA. Eventually, you learn who Jax is and that she wants to help Sam. Conveniently, Jax is a hacker and has exactly the skills needed to make the plot possible. Her presence is too convenient and her character’s rather inconsistent, I find, in order to fit the demands of the plot. Honestly, the whole larger plot that Jax is needed for really didn’t do much for me anyway. I don’t feel like things needed to be conspiracy theory intense.
Rites of Passage is an intense consideration of gender roles and expectations in a military academy. It might make you want to feminist smash some stuff, but it’s a really great, worthwhile read. Now, I think I need to watch Cadet Kelly to recover.
June 13, 2014
Holy moly. It's been a while since I've read a book that's basically kept me up all night for two nights in a row and obsessed me during my work day. This is why I read. For books like these.
Rites of Passage by Joy N. Hensley stars Sam, an unusual YA protagonist who decides to go to military school following her two older brothers. She comes from a military family, but this particular school is still backwards and anti-female-- and will do anything to get all the five girls who have enrolled to quit. But Sam is not a quitter, and no matter what they throw her way, she's determined to survive the year and pave the road for women to come. Quickly, she realizes there is something more sinister going on, and that bruised muscles may not be the only thing she needs to worry about. Who can she trust? Where can she turn? Even her own brother seems to turn against her. Will Sam be able to figure out the conspiracy and find out who her true friends are before it's too late?
This was a pulse pounding read from start to finish. The first thing I noticed was how well versed Hensley is in military school. I wasn't surprised to find that she has been there herself. The details made me believe I was there, and I never thought I'd be interested to learn more about military school, but Hensley makes it approachable and fascinating. Sam as the the protagonist is strong willed, likeable, and believable. She's the perfect YA protagonist, and it's like she lives in a dystopia but instead lives in a YA contemporary. There are some love angles, but I like how it takes backstage to what she's going through. The pace is wicked fast, and people are not going to be able to put this book down.
You may wonder why I didn't rate this 5 stars. I really really wanted to because this book needs to be read by everyone desperately. That said, there was one particular issue that was big enough for me to not do that. I felt that Sam's family was really integral to this story, and really shaped her to be the person she is in this book, but we barely learned anything about them. In particular, there's Amos, one of her brothers, that I learn three facts about in the entire book, but it's clear he meant... everything to her. The book is long already and I don't know how she could have fit this in too, but I just wanted to feel more connected to Amos, Jonathan, and her parents. That way some of the final scenes would have made more sense to me emotionally.
In any case, regardless of this, this book is going to be a huge hit. I can't wait to see what else she writes, and I'll definitely be picking up her next book!
Rites of Passage by Joy N. Hensley stars Sam, an unusual YA protagonist who decides to go to military school following her two older brothers. She comes from a military family, but this particular school is still backwards and anti-female-- and will do anything to get all the five girls who have enrolled to quit. But Sam is not a quitter, and no matter what they throw her way, she's determined to survive the year and pave the road for women to come. Quickly, she realizes there is something more sinister going on, and that bruised muscles may not be the only thing she needs to worry about. Who can she trust? Where can she turn? Even her own brother seems to turn against her. Will Sam be able to figure out the conspiracy and find out who her true friends are before it's too late?
This was a pulse pounding read from start to finish. The first thing I noticed was how well versed Hensley is in military school. I wasn't surprised to find that she has been there herself. The details made me believe I was there, and I never thought I'd be interested to learn more about military school, but Hensley makes it approachable and fascinating. Sam as the the protagonist is strong willed, likeable, and believable. She's the perfect YA protagonist, and it's like she lives in a dystopia but instead lives in a YA contemporary. There are some love angles, but I like how it takes backstage to what she's going through. The pace is wicked fast, and people are not going to be able to put this book down.
You may wonder why I didn't rate this 5 stars. I really really wanted to because this book needs to be read by everyone desperately. That said, there was one particular issue that was big enough for me to not do that. I felt that Sam's family was really integral to this story, and really shaped her to be the person she is in this book, but we barely learned anything about them. In particular, there's Amos, one of her brothers, that I learn three facts about in the entire book, but it's clear he meant... everything to her. The book is long already and I don't know how she could have fit this in too, but I just wanted to feel more connected to Amos, Jonathan, and her parents. That way some of the final scenes would have made more sense to me emotionally.
In any case, regardless of this, this book is going to be a huge hit. I can't wait to see what else she writes, and I'll definitely be picking up her next book!
September 8, 2014
Review also posted at Ja čitam, a ti?
When my friend Zemira read this one and couldn't suppress her excitement about this book it was my cue to go and request it as I knew I'd enjoy this one too. I did, which is not a surprise. But what surprised me was that all this military talk didn't bother me the slightest.
Our main character in this story is Sam, who finds herself in men's world. Being raised in a military family it was a surprise and not to see her taking the same steps as her bothers before her and joining the military. A bit controversial move for some members of Denmark Military Academy but for some highly offensive. Even though she knew that the training and living up with high expectations would be hard for her, she couldn't even dream that not only military officers but rather her mates will try to turn her life into a living hell. Not only try, but rather succeed in that.
It would be insane but not to admire Sam on her persistence and strength which she showed in this book. How even in the worst moments she didn't give up and kept going, fighting and going forward, never backward. Even though at moments it was cruel, it really made her stronger and fierce. But Rites of Passage is not just cruel and dark, but it has a rather nice romance. Which starts as a simple crush Sam has on her drill sergeant and grows and develops into a nice romance, which is persistent and fierce like both of them are.
Only reason why I couldn't think of this book as a perfection is its ending. I really wish it was a bit more closed as this was it leaves space for a possible sequel which in my opinion feels unnecessary.
Rating: 4.5 stars.
When my friend Zemira read this one and couldn't suppress her excitement about this book it was my cue to go and request it as I knew I'd enjoy this one too. I did, which is not a surprise. But what surprised me was that all this military talk didn't bother me the slightest.
Our main character in this story is Sam, who finds herself in men's world. Being raised in a military family it was a surprise and not to see her taking the same steps as her bothers before her and joining the military. A bit controversial move for some members of Denmark Military Academy but for some highly offensive. Even though she knew that the training and living up with high expectations would be hard for her, she couldn't even dream that not only military officers but rather her mates will try to turn her life into a living hell. Not only try, but rather succeed in that.
It would be insane but not to admire Sam on her persistence and strength which she showed in this book. How even in the worst moments she didn't give up and kept going, fighting and going forward, never backward. Even though at moments it was cruel, it really made her stronger and fierce. But Rites of Passage is not just cruel and dark, but it has a rather nice romance. Which starts as a simple crush Sam has on her drill sergeant and grows and develops into a nice romance, which is persistent and fierce like both of them are.
Only reason why I couldn't think of this book as a perfection is its ending. I really wish it was a bit more closed as this was it leaves space for a possible sequel which in my opinion feels unnecessary.
Rating: 4.5 stars.
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