How Much, And Who, Do You Tip During The Holidays?

By Kasandra Brabaw (Patch Staff):

As much as we don’t like to admit it, gifts are a huge part of the holidays and gift-giving can be stressful.

Holiday tips are customary for the people who drop your Washington Post subscription at your door and take care of your children so you and your partner can have a night out on the town.

But deciding who gets how big of a holiday tip can be difficult; you want to show appreciation — without going overboard or, for that matter, underboard.

Patch can’t help you choose which candle your mother-in-law will love, but we can help you figure out those pesky end-of-the-year tips no one quite knows how to handle. Take a look at the guide below for holiday tipping advice from The Emily Post Institute:

Paper carrier: Cash or a small gift: $10-$30

Babysitter: Cash and a gift: One evening’s pay and a small gift from your children.

• Real Simple suggests a tip worth two night’s pay and a handmade gift for exceptional babysitters.

Barber/Hair Stylist: Cash or gift: Up to the cost of one haircut

Gardener: Cash or a gift: $20-$50.

• Real Simple agrees, but suggests more if your garden needs frequent care: up to a week’s pay.

Housekeeper: Cash and/or a gift: One week’s pay

Nursing Home Employees: A Small, Sharable Gift: Flowers or baked goods

• Real Simple suggests checking the company policy first as some may prohibit employees from accepting gifts

Pet Groomer: Cash or a gift: Up to the cost of one visit

Doorman: Cash: $15-$80 depending on how well you know the doorman

• CBS New York suggests a wider range: $25-$150 for each doorman at your building. A box of candy in addition is nice for your favorites, CBS says.

Pool Cleaner: Cash: Up to the cost of one cleaning, to be split among all workers

Handyman: Cash or a gift: $15 to $40 for your regular handyman

• CBS New York says $20-$30 depending on how much he’s worked throughout the year and whether or not you tip at the time of service

See a service provider not on our list? Check out Real Simple’s list of 23 service providers you should tip during the holidays.

But before you take out your checkbook, the Institute suggests the following considerations for holiday tipping:

• Your budget: First and foremost, you shouldn’t feel obligated to go beyond your personal budget.
• If your budget does not allow for tips, consider homemade gifts; and if you’re not good with crafts or in the kitchen, remember that words are always a great way to express your thanks for a year of good service.
• Any gift or tip should always be accompanied by a short handwritten note of appreciation. (Two or three sentences will be enough.)
• Do you already tip regularly? If you tip at the time of service, you may forego an end of the year tip, or give a more modest holiday thank you. You may also choose to give a small gift instead.

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