Celebrity Celebrity Relationships Celebrity Breakups Christina Milian & Husband The-Dream on the Rocks "Whatever you think, believe it," Christina Milian Tweets after The-Dream is seen with another woman By Dahvi Shira Dahvi Shira Dahvi Shira is a former staff writer and reporter at PEOPLE. She left PEOPLE in 2014. People Editorial Guidelines Published on July 12, 2010 04:15PM EDT Photo: Bill Davila/Startraks Christina Milian’s life with The-Dream is turning into a nightmare. After photos surfaced of the music producer, 32, sans wedding ring, being straddled on a Caribbean vacation by his female assistant, new mom Milian, 28, took to her Twitter: “Whatever you think, believe it,” she wrote. There was already trouble brewing after Milian’s husband of 10 months told Essence magazine that he doesn t go out of his way to help Milian raise their 5-month-old daughter Violet. “I don’t [help out] because my ‘helping out’ turns into expectations,” he said. “I’ll get Violet on a late night maybe one or two times, but after that, no. If Christina’s tired, call the nanny, call Violet’s granny. We got people.” Their reps didn’t immediately respond for comment. Christina Milian Welcomes a Daughter