Dick Van Dyke Opens Up on His 46-Year Age Gap with Wife Arlene Silver: ‘Fortunate That I Didn’t Grow Up'

"I had no idea she was half my age," the 98-year-old actor recalled of meeting his now-wife in 2006

Arlene Silver and Dick Van Dyke at the CBS Original Special DICK VAN DYKE: 98 YEARS OF MAGIC, scheduled to air on the CBS Television Network.
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Dick Van Dyke and his wife Arlene Silver are opening up about their 46-year age difference.

While speaking to Entertainment Tonight, Van Dyke, 98, recalled meeting Silver, 52, at the SAG Awards in 2006, where she was working as a makeup artist.

"I never approached a strange woman in my life," Van Dyke told the outlet while speaking from his and Silver's home in an interview published Tuesday, July 16. "And she walked by and I jumped up and I said, 'Hi, I'm Dick.' I had no idea she was half my age. Beautiful."

"She had one [business] card left, which I took and hired her," the Mary Poppins actor, who was previously married to the late Margie Willett from 1948-1984, recounted.

Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver attend Carol Burnett's Hand and Footprint in the Cement Ceremony at TCL Chinese Theatre on June 20, 2024 in Hollywood, California.
Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver attend Carol Burnett's Hand and Footprint in the Cement Ceremony at TCL Chinese Theatre on June 20, 2024.

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The couple started off as friends before their relationship developed into more, and they eventually tied the knot in 2012.

"I had never seen the Dick Van Dyke Show, I never saw anything he was in," Silver said with a laugh while speaking about meeting the icon for the first time.

Dick Van Dyke (L) and his wife, makeup artist Arlene Silver arrive at the Professional Dancers Society Presents Gypsy Award To Julie Andrews
Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver pictured in 2012.

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Telling ET how she and Van Dyke were friends first, she shared, "We were friends for so long that when I told people that I know, they were happy about [our relationship], and I was scared."

"I mean, the facts, our age difference. But it's so irrelevant. I think when you see us together, it's like you don't even think about it," she added.

"We don't think about it, we just meet in the middle," Silver told the outlet, while Van Dyke added, "I was fortunate that I didn't grow up ... It was meant to be." 

Dick Van Dyke and wife Arlene Silver attend the Premiere Of Disney's "Mary Poppins Returns"
Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver pictured in 2018.

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"It was so far-fetched, I thought, 'There's no way.' We got along almost immediately," Silver said of when she knew Van Dyke was her "guy."

"I'd never met anybody like him," Silver told the outlet of their relationship. "He was always happy and just positive. Always singing," calling the actor "the most joyful person" and "the best human being."

"I would never sing in public," Silver, who regularly sings with her husband, told the outlet. "He got me to sing. He got me to sing up on a stage and sang in front of 1,500 people for the first time."

Actor and dancer Dick Van Dyke, 85, and his 39-year old girlfriend Arlene Silver attend the premiere of the motion picture comedy "Mr. Popper's Penguins", at Grauman's Chinese Theatre in the Hollywood section of Los Angeles on June 12, 2011.
Dick Van Dyke and Arlene Silver pictured in 2011.

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Van Dyke's latest comments come after he told the Malibu Times of Silver in a 2022 interview, "She is the best wife. She's made me the happiest man in the world. Our life is so good together."

Meanwhile, Silver spoke to the Huffington Post about their age difference back in 2013, sharing of Van Dyke at the time, "He is a lot of fun. He's not immature in a bad way. He's immature in a good way with the wonder of a child."

"He's just fun, he's open minded. He's not stuck in his ways at all," she added.

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