Celebrity Celebrity Relationships Celebrity Breakups Cheryl Burke on 'Starting Over' as an Adult 'Trauma Survivor' Who's Divorced, Sober and Retired In an emotional Instagram post, the Dancing with the Stars alum addressed some of her biggest obstacles in life — and the "fear" they spark in her about moving forward By Kelly Wynne Kelly Wynne Kelly Wynne has been a TV writer at PEOPLE digital since 2021. Her work has been seen in Newsweek, where she acted as a reality TV and true-crime writer, Atwood Magazine and her mental health blog, The Chronically. People Editorial Guidelines Published on April 19, 2023 10:39AM EDT Close Photo: Tiffany Rose/Getty Images Cheyrl Burke is opening up about her hardest moments. The Dancing with the Stars alum shared a bit about her past "trauma" in an emotional Instagram post on Tuesday night. Burke, 38, shared a video of herself with text about her life across the screen. "I'm 38. I'm a trauma survivor. I'm 5 years sober. I'm recently divorced. I retired from my career last year. I feel like in many ways I'm starting over," she wrote. "While letting go of the past is helpful, new beginnings scare me and are often overwhelming. I try to stay grateful, but sometimes I get stuck in fear." Cheryl Burke Wants to Avoid 'Stagnant' Dynamic in Next Relationship: 'I'm Not About to Live That Again' Burke concluded, "I know life will sort itself out, it always does." Her caption echoed the point of life's nuances. "Life can be so simple but so complicated at the same time," she wrote with hashtags, "#healingjourney #selflovejourney #gratitudeattitude." Cheryl Burke Says She's 'Not in a Rush' to Date Again After Matthew Lawrence Divorce cheryl burke/instagram Her DWTS friends chimed in with messages of support, with Peta Murgatroyd writing, "Onwards and upwards babe! You got this ❤️" Emma Slater encouraged, "You can do anything." Cheryl Burke 'Very Proud' of Her Sobriety Journey, Hopes to Be Sober the 'Rest of My Life' Burke has previously opened up about how childhood trauma impacted her adult relationships, as well as an allegedly abusive high school relationship and about childhood. In a 2022 episode of the Red Table Talk, she revealed that her teenage boyfriend whipped her with a belt as his parents looked on. "And it wasn't like he was hitting me, he was whipping me," she claimed. Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. In 2022, Burke confirmed she was leaving Dancing with the Stars after 26 seasons. The career shift came shortly after Burke and ex-husband Matthew Lawrence divorced in 2022.