Entertainment TV Ramona Singer Says She's 'Happier' Since Exiting 'RHONY' : 'I Don't Miss It At All' Ramona Singer appeared in the first 13 seasons of RHONY, which aired from 2008 to 2021 By Kelly Wynne Kelly Wynne Kelly Wynne has been a TV writer at PEOPLE digital since 2021. Her work has been seen in Newsweek, where she acted as a reality TV and true-crime writer, Atwood Magazine and her mental health blog, The Chronically. People Editorial Guidelines Published on January 27, 2023 10:00AM EST Photo: Theo Wargo/Getty Ramona Singer is ready to introduce her real self to the world. In a conversation with The Daily Mail, The Real Housewives of New York alum opened up about how her time away from the Bravo show has changed her life. She said the best part of life off-screen is being able to "control my own narrative." "I'm happier now and actually I'm calmer,' said Singer, 66. "I don't miss it at all. It was a great experience and I wouldn't trade it for anything." Singer also explained why the role of a TV persona just doesn't fit her life anymore. "I'm 60 something now, I worked hard my whole life," Singer added. Ramona Singer Is Hesitant to Join RHONY's 'Loser Legacy' Spin-Off After Spotlight Made Her 'Unhinged' "It's time for me just to enjoy myself. And doing the show is not easy," she continued. "I mean, people think it's easy. Very stressful, very stressful." Additionally, she said the version of Ramona Singer seen on TV wasn't her true form, either. "They didn't tell me what to do, I just knew how to create [drama]," Singer added. "'Was that the real me? Not really. Was it me on steroids? Absolutely." Karolina Wojtasik/Bravo/NBCU Photo Bank via Getty Singer appeared in the first 13 seasons of RHONY, which aired from 2008 to 2021. She announced her departure in November, telling Page Six: "I do not want to do the show any longer. It's not for me at this time." The announcement came shortly after Bravo announced its intention to revamp the entirety of RHONY with a brand-new cast. The original stars were expected to move to a "Legacy" series, which would continue the OG RHONY story while paving a new path for the next generation. Luann de Lesseps Would Be 'Surprised' If Ramona Singer Wasn't Asked to Be in New RHONY Series In October, Singer expressed her hesitancy over an RHONY all-stars series. "I've been there for a long time. I mean, never say no, never say never," Singer said on an episode of the Reality with the King podcast. "But I also feel like the Legacy, how can it be really good? The people who they're going to bring back are people they didn't want to renew anyway." Never miss a story — sign up for PEOPLE's free daily newsletter to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. "So now, what are you gonna call it?" she asked. "The Loser Show? The Loser Legacy?"