READY FOR A BETTER RELATIONSHIP?
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Intimacy and Relationship Coaching with Renée Hilliard, M.D.
Welcome!
I’m Renée, an intimacy and relationship coach and healer. I believe in a somatic approach to healing which supports the mind, body and spirit.
What does all of that even mean?
Most of us want to have deeply fulfilling and harmonious relationships with our partners. We want to experience satisfying intimacy. But many of us run outdated beliefs in our minds about ourselves and the world.
We may carry unhealed wounds from our early lives and our past relationships. This can all stand in our way of being able to trust others enough to develop the type of close connections we desire, and to get our needs met.
We may get so burned out from the busy lives we’ve created that we struggle to even be intimate with our partners. We may be in constant conflict with our partner and struggle to communicate peacefully. Our feelings about our partner may have dulled so much after being in a long term relationship that we no longer feel drawn to them.
Maybe we have given up on partnership altogether and we figure there’s no one out there for us, believe that finding love is not worth the risk, or that we are a lost cause.
I work with men and women who are experiencing these and other relationship challenges and I help them get to a place where they are truly thriving in their intimate relationships and living a life they love.
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I support my clients to:
- Resolve conflict peacefully
- Restore their sex drive
- Reignite their attraction to their partners
- Magnetize the type of partner they have been searching for
- Develop greater self confidence
And so much more.
I help clients get the results they want by listening deeply, asking powerful questions that help them illuminate subconscious thoughts and patterns carried in the body that stand in their way. I then support them to update these patterns so they free themselves and truly heal. They can step into feeling fully alive and empowered and are able to create the relationships they truly desire. This somatic approach sets people up to succeed and create lasting transformation.
About Me
I am a trained physician. I hold a degree in psychobiology from U.C.L.A. I received my M.D. from University of Michigan. I am certified in plant medicine from Cornell University. I practiced medicine for 20 years in the field of sexual health before becoming certified in sex, love and relationship coaching.
My résumé and achievements may seem super impressive, and don’t get me wrong, I am proud of all that I’ve accomplished. But, I am told again and again that I am warm, approachable, compassionate and down to earth. People say that I truly get them, that I have a unique ability to get to the root of their struggles and help them solve issues that they may have endured for years. I help people build lives they love and partnerships that feel fulfilling to them. That is what makes me feel most proud.
I have done a lot, I mean a LOT of my own inner work. I’ve healed my own crippling shyness, perfectionism and people pleasing tendencies. I’ve learned to get out of my incessant monkey mind and drop into my own heart and body to heal my own stuff and develop the intuition and wisdom that guides my coaching process. I probably would have been too embarrassed to admit that at one time, but it’s true. That is why I am so passionate about this work. I want people to experience more joy in life than they may even realize is possible.
I worked hard to cultivate the gifts that allow me to say confidently that I can help my clients get results and that’s what matters most to me.
Of course, people I coach have to do their part. I can’t do the work for them. I offer accountability and I support my clients to make this process as easy and fun as possible. I have a youthful spirit and I love helping people reconnect with their playful side and infuse more fun and joy into intimacy and their relationships. Life is meant to be fun and sex is not supposed to feel like a chore.
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Coaching With Me
Option 1
You and I meet 1:1 over Zoom for 75 minutes weekly for 4 sessions.
I’ll provide you with customized practices use between our session. We will keep these simple and so you can fit them into your busy and actually want to do them. I will be available between sessions to support you should challenges arise. I’ll offer you accountability so you get what you want out of this experience.
Option 2
We will meet 1:1 over Zoom for 12 75-minute deeply transformative healing sessions. This is a deeply life changing experience. I will provide you with follow up emails and written and recorded practices, which will give you an amazing comprehensive personalized library of tools you can use whenever you wish. Former clients have told me that they continue to use these practices to support them way beyond our last session together. I will support you in opening your heart and mind and step out of your comfort zone so that you can step into the greatest version of yourself.
Please note that I limit the number of clients I work with so I can give each client the care and attention they need and deserve and also have the time and energy to care for myself well. At times I may be fully booked until I wrap up with an existing client. The wait is typically as brief as 1-3 weeks.
Consider coaching with me if you:
- Are exhausted after having tried everything you can think of
- Are curious about a somatic approach to healing
- Are ready to prioritize yourself and your primary relationship and invest what it takes to create a lasting transformation
Ready?
Feel free to book a complimentary pressure-free call with me now. We will meet, make sure we are a good fit. I’ll get a better understanding of the obstacles you face and determine if what I offer fits your specific needs. You can then decide if you are ready to begin this journey.