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The best silent and quiet vibrators that are still super powerful
Silent vibrators, for the next time you need peace and quiet
Sex toys are amazing and obviously, we love them. But still... using them when you think someone might be able to hear you is kinda awkward. Your fave vibrator has plenty of pros – from helping you feel really, really good to helping with pain and improving the function of your pelvic floor (or so research suggests).
But if you live with flatmates or with your family at home, the tell-tale buzzing sound of your rampant rabbit is a dead giveaway that you’re having some ‘me time’ – which can make bumping into anyone in the hallway afterwards a little uncomfortable. We know, we know, it’s 2024, we shouldn’t be embarrassed about pleasure. But let’s face it people, sometimes, despite our best efforts, masturbation is embarrassing.
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If you’re an exhibitionist, the fact that everyone in the house can hear the noise from your trusted wand vibrator probably isn’t too much of an issue. But for everybody else out there, we’ve got just the thing: quiet vibrators, silent sex toys, and discreet vibes.
Some of them just don’t make much noise (especially if they’re bullet vibrators or smaller toys), while others have a ‘whisper quiet’ mode to muffle the sound. Either way, they’ll help you enjoy your solo time, undetected.
As expert sex therapist Ammanda Major, head of clinical practice at Relate puts it: “Sex – whether it’s with someone or on your own, usually helps people to feel safe and connected. Using quiet sex toys might help, as some people get worried about feeling overheard or distracted. But whether it’s quiet or letting rip, whatever makes it work for you – then do more of it.”
So there you have it, silent vibrators may be the answer to your problems. Read on, and discover our pick of the best silent vibes out there.
Pros
USB rechargeable
Fully submersible (hello, bath night)
Cons
Buttons can be fiddly during play
Voted the best sex toy many times, Lovehoney’s Desire clit vibrator is whisper-quiet and a great toy to have in your bedside drawer.
Its shape adds another element of subtlety – it could easily be mistaken for a skincare tool, saving you some embarrassment if you accidentally leave it in your mum’s bathroom after cleaning...
It fits perfectly in the palm of one hand – leaving your other hand free to do whatever it needs to. And while it *is* a clitoral stimulator, it doesn’t make direct contact with your clit – perfect for those of us with high-sensitivity, but might not work for those of use who need direct-clit contact to get off.
The Desire Luxury Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator has 8 vibration setting and 12 levels of intensity. The first few setting are very quiet, but the higher setting do make a bit more noise.
Features | Subtle pebble vibrator with eight vibration setting and 12 levels of intensity |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Fully submersible |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Light-weight and portable
Low price point
Cons
Battery powered - with a short run time
Not waterproof
Only three settings
Wand vibrators are known for their power… which means they’re usually loud AF. But this mini wand vibrator from Lovehoney is an exception to the rule: a scaled-back, battery-powered version of their infamous magic wand, which is quiet but still packs a punch.
Due to its mini size, it’s not remotely as intimidating as most wands and you can keep it discreetly in your bedside drawer. It has three speeds and feels great when held against the clitoris or moved around your entire vulva.
Because of it’s mini size, it’s not rechargeable (it requires AAA batteries) and isn’t waterproof. But you can hide it away in your luggage to add to those good holiday vibes...
Features | Mini travel wand with three intensity settings |
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Materials | Hard Plastic |
Waterproof | No :( |
Power | 2 x AAA batteries (not included) |
Pros
2 x whisper-quiet
Waterproof
USB rechargeable
Cons
Cleaning can be a little tricky thanks to the design
Hello retro! This Lovehoney Happy Rabbit Thrusting plays on the design on the classic rabbit vibe, but with a twist: it thrusts.
Despite looking like the intimidating and noisy vibe your big sister brought at an Ann Summers’ party, the Lovehoney Thrusting Rabbit is surprisingly quiet. Unlike other rabbits, the internal part of this toy doesn’t vibrate.
This bunny has has 15 settings, 12 different ear vibrations, and 3 thrusting. The ears are nice and firm, providing a good amount of pressure on your clit.
Features | Thrusting vibrator with 15 settings |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Submersible (hellooo shower sex) |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Great option for beginners
Low price point
Cons
Battery powered
Not waterproof
External use only
This Lovehoney bullet is powerful and a really great affordable sex toy option. It’s very straightforward to use, and at its low price point, is a great choice for beginners.
The tapered tip makes it great for clitoral stimulation but can also be used all over the vulva to ramp-up arousal. But, given its short length, we wouldn’t recommend it for internal stimulation.
It has 10 functions to choose from and explore, while still being extra quiet. The best of both worlds!
Features | Precision tip bullet vibrator with 10 settings |
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Materials | Hard plastic |
Waterproof | You betcha! |
Power | 1 x AAA battery (not included) |
Pros
Waterproof
Remote
Cons
Required batteries (and you need to get special batteries)
The Desire Love Egg has been designed to be as quiet as possible so you can use it at home without being overheard or be as discreet as possible when wearing it out in public.
After covering it in water-based lube, you insert the egg and then you (or a partner) can control its many vibration settings and patterns via the remote.
It has an 8-metre range from the controls, as well as 8 vibration modes and 12 speeds for you to explore.
Features | Remote-controlled love egg vibrator with eight vibration modes and 12 speeds |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yessir |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Waterproof
Extremely quiet
Low price point
Cons
Limited amount of settings
Battery powered
Not sure what vibrator style you like? This affordable Silencer Classic Vibrator is a great place to start.
Not only is it whisper-quiet, it’s ridged to give extra stimulation. This toy is designed to stimulate the G-spot, but you can use it on your entire vulva area, your nipples, and even your thighs – whatever gets you going.
On the downside, it only has 3 speeds and 4 settings – so not a huge variety to choose from. It’s also battery-powered, which does put it at risk of it dying mid-sesh.
Features | G-spot vibrator with three speeds and four settings |
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Materials | Hard Plastic |
Waterproof | Fully submersible, baby! |
Power | 2 x AA batteries (not included) |
Pros
USB rechargeable
Waterproof
Cons
Limited settings
Setting can be awkward to change
High price point
If oral sex is your fav, there are plenty of vibrators that aim to recreate that feeling – but if you need one that won’t wake up your roommate, the LELO ORA™ 3 is a great shout (or rather, whisper).
The LELO ORA™ 3 provides direct clitoral stimulation via the firm and precise nub (their word, not ours) which uses a rotating motion to recreate the feeling of a tongue.
Like a lot of LELO toys, it’s whisper quiet. The toy is also small, fitting snuggly into your hand, and, like the Soraya 2, also allows you to loop your fingers through it for a better grip.
The ORA™ 3 has three settings, which can feel a little awkward to change while using it (there are some very in-depth instructions in the box) and should be used with plenty of lube. Luckily, it’s also waterproof.
Features | Luxury suction toy with three settings |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Deeeefinitely |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
G-spot stimuation
USB rechargeable
Waterproof
Cons
Short length means it might not reach *all* G-spots
This one is interesting! An amazing beginner’s bullet, made from seriously soft silicone which works for external clitoral stimulation.
The twist: it’s suitable for internal insertion and is curved to give your G-spot some stimulation. As it’s a trusty, discreet bullet, it is way more quiet than bigger toys on the market.
The toy has 5 speeds and 7 patterns and is also made from all-vegan materials.
Features | Insertable bullet vibrator with curved tip for G-spot stimulation |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Shower and bath-ready |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Waterproof
Rechargeable
Cons
Ear design might not fit all clits
If thrusting rabbits aren’t really your thing and you’d rather a simple, good quality rabbit, this one from Desire is a great choice.
It’s made from body-safe silicone which feels wonderfully soft against the skin. The rabbit ears vibrate against your clit and can be controlled independently of the vibrating shaft – which can stimulate you internally at the same time (or not, it’s up to you).
It’s also fully waterproof and has 8 settings for its 12 different vibration speeds – so lots of choice.
Features | Rabbit vibrator with eight settings and 12 vibration speeds |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | You betcha |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
*Lots* of settings
Waterproof
Premium silicone that feels warm to the touch
Rechargable
Cons
High price point
What sound does a rabbit make? Well, this one doesn’t make any at all.
The LELO SORAYA™ 2 is an update on the popular LELO SORAYA™ (1), with a few new design features including a reduced angle on the clitoral arm – meaning it will suit more vulvas – and a longer and thicker internal shaft for a more satisfying experience.
The updated version also has more settings – there are now 12 different speeds and 12 patterns; meaning you can choose from *144* combinations, including just clitoral vibrations or just internal vibrations.
Even better, no matter what setting you use, it’s incredibly quiet. And the very best part? The LELO SORAYA™ 2 is an incredibly pretty piece of tech, but it’s also practical – the loop on the end of the shaft allow for better grip which you, or a partner, can loop a finger through.
Features | Luxury rabbit vibrator with 12 speeds and 12 patterns |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | You'd better believe it! |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Can be used solo or with a partner
Waterproof
USB rechargeable
Cons
You shouldn’t have to bend over backwards for pleasure, which is why Satisfyer’s new toy is made to do the bending for you.
Made from soft silicone with an internal flexible wire and two motors, it can work as a lay-on vibrator, a penis ring or a partner vibrator.
The Satisfyer Elastic Game has 10 modes, including a handy whisper mode. 2 separate controls means you can enjoy different sensations if you’re using it with a partner.
Features | Flexible and versatile vibrator with two motors and 100 possible vibration combinations |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yup! |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Waterproof
Great for newbies
Cons
Limited speeds and settings
Requires batteries (AA)
This sleek and powerful classic vibrator is great for both external or internal stimulation, and according to Lovehoney, it’s one of the quieter options from the Fifty Shades range.
The smooth tip is designed to target the G-spot, but you can also use it against your clit or entire vulva if that’s what you prefer.
The Charlie Tango comes with 3 speeds and 4 patterns of vibration and its 100% waterproof, so you can explore your favourite combos in the bath.
Features | A discreet bullet vibrator with three vibration speeds and four patterns |
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Materials | Hard plastic |
Waterproof | Submersible |
Power | 2 x AA batteries (not included) |
Pros
Discreet
Great for beginners
Rechargeable
Waterproof
Cons
Limited amount of settings
This extra-quiet clitoral vibrator is a great tool for beginners, thanks to a precision tip, 4 speeds and 3 patterns of vibrations.
Easy to use and waterproof, it’s shaped like a finger – in short if you already enjoy some, er, manual clit stimulation you’ll be able to instinctively guide the toy to where it needs to go...
Features | Precision tip vibrator with four speeds and three vibrations |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | 100% |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Medical-grade silicone
Great for using alone or with a partner
USB rechargeable
Waterproof
Cons
Only one whisper mode
The Satisfyer Signet Ring Connect App is a great choice for coupled sex, to give as a gift, or for anyone with a penis.
This vibrating cock ring is made from soft silicone, gently restricting blood flow which delays orgasm. The vibrations can be enjoyed by both the wearer and their partner.
If the name didn’t give it away, this toy is app controlled which opens up the possibilities for all sorts of partnered play. It can also be used without the app if you want to keep things hands-free.
It has 10 vibrations modes including ‘whisper mode’.
Features | App-controlled vibrating cock ring with 10 vibration programmes |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | You better believe it! |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Easy to hold
Almost silent air pressure
USB rechargeable
Cons
Charging can be slow
It’s quiet, it’s rumbly, it’s easy to hold... It’s the Pro 2 and it’s one of our editors’ favourite vibes.
Using patented air pressure instead of vibration, this sex toy is a classic clit sucker-style with a lay-on mouth and 11 different pressure waves to choose from.
Available in three different colours, it’s stylish, totally waterproof (FYI it feels even better underwater), and USB rechargeable. Get it while it’s hot!
Features | Clitoris suction toy with 11 suction modes |
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Materials | ABS plastic and silicone |
Waterproof | Yep |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Rechargeable
Comes with storage pouch
Precise, hands-free stimulation
Cons
Only compatible with water-based lube
This cute little vibrator by Ann Summers was created in collaboration with none other than Charlie Brooks – aka Janine Butcher of Eastenders fame. Which, in our opinion, makes it a must-buy.
But if you’re not yet convinced, here’s some more details: the tapered tip is designed for pressure and pinpointed vibration for ultimate clit stimulation (or nipple stimulation – versatile!), it’s super quiet, and is totally hands-free.
Just put it into place, lie back, and enjoy.
Features | Clitoral vibrator with five levels of intensities and patterns |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | You got it! |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Waterproof
Rechargeable
Customisable settings
Cons
High price point
If you like internal and G-spot stimulation, this fancy LELO vibrator is luxurious and seriously powerful. It’s curved to put pressure against your G-spot and is made from a really nice-feeling silicone – classic LELO.
It also comes complete with an anti-bacterial storage pouch which is great for travelling or storing this vibe in your bag on your way to a sleepover.
The controls are a little more complex than most of LELO’s offering with a control pad that features four buttons for mixing and matching speed and functions. But then again, if you like to customise these things, the additional buttons won’t bother you at all!
Gently curved with a squishy tip to hit that sweet spot, the LIV™ 2 delivers sweet, mixed sensations with a powerful motor and a long run time.
Features | Vibrator designed for clitoral or G-spot stimulation boasting eight settings |
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Materials | Silicone and ABS plastic |
Waterproof | Yes! |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Waterproof
USB rechargable
Cons
Lack of flexibility means it might not fit all bodies
This hands-free (!) clitoral vibrator is as great IRL as it sounds. The adorable little ‘arms’ tuck into your vulva, so you can enjoy the vibrations without having to raise a finger. Great orgasms with zero effort...
For an even more hands-free experience, the Rocks-Off Rock Chick Diva 10 Function Remote Clit and G-Spot Vibe comes with a remote control app, meaning you can put your orgasm completely in your partners hands.
The dual motors also means you can enjoy different kinds of G-spot or clitoral stimulation and there are – as the name suggests – 10 different functions.
Features | Flexible C-shape vibrator with 10 modes and remote control option |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Uh-huh |
Power | USB rechargeable |
Pros
Super squishy silicone
Tapered tip
Amost silent
Cons
Can’t be used with silicone lube
A silky-soft lipstick vibrator that’s capable of delivering the most delicate of feel-good flutters, this vibe was created in collaboration with people who know what it’s like to feel a *little* uncomfortable when it comes to sex.
Created with Mumsnet, the Whisperer is the world’s quietest vibe and it’s also one of the softest – made to be quiet, gentle, and still deliver those feel-good sensations.
We can confirm it is almost silent, but still delivers a great set of speeds and functions to get the job done. It’s a (whispered) yes from us.
Features | Discreet lipstick vibrator with three speeds and two pulsation modes |
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Materials | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes, enjoy shower time! |
Power | USB rechargeable |
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