Pro makeup artist reveals what you should NEVER wear on a first date, plus how to use makeup to attract your ideal partner online and in real life
- According to celebrity makeup artist, Lora Arellano, makeup isn't just a confidence-booster, it can be a tool for getting what your heart desires
- When using a dating app, the expert believes the makeup in your profile photo should appear natural, and slams the use of filters
- She says never to wear lip gloss on a first date and suggests enhancing eyes with false under lashes
You've heard the adage over and over again that says 'dress for the job you want,' but what about 'apply the right makeup to attract your dream partner?'
According to celebrity makeup artist and Melt Cosmetics co-founder, Lora Arellano, makeup isn't just a confidence-booster, it can be a tool for getting what your heart desires.
Lora, who has worked with high-profile clients such as Rihanna, Serena Williams, Iggy Azalea, and Christina Aguilera, champions the refreshing message of letting your true colors shine when dating online.
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According to celebrity makeup artist and Melt Cosmetics co-founder, Lora Arellano, makeup isn't just a confidence-booster, it can be a tool for getting what your heart desires
How to elevate your dating-app profile pics
When using one of the many apps like Chispa, Bumble or Hinge to look for love, the expert believes your profile photo should appear natural, and slams the use of filters, saying 'they're so obvious.'
Lora admits that it actually takes a lot of work to look natural, but says there's a way to create 'natural glam' to reflect a confident woman to potential suitors.
According to the acclaimed makeup artist, a dating profile should showcase different sides of your personality.
'If your profile pic is you at the beach looking super natural and beautiful, follow it up with a photo in a bold lip so it's not so startling when they see you with one in person.' (a look she reserves for date 3).
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When using an app to look for love, the expert believes your photos should appear natural, and slams the use filters, saying 'they're so obvious'
On her Instagram @lora_arellano the stunning entrepreneur shares helpful tutorials for creating dramatic makeup looks, but says when crafting an online profile you should present an approachable version of yourself.
'Some makeup can be intimidating to a guy,' she reveals.
Prior to meeting her husband, she tested out her theory by debuting a subtle look on the Latin dating app Chispa.
'I was trying to attract a different kind of person. I was a mom of two and I had my own business, so I toned down my look to appear as soft and subtle as possible so I could attract a man like that.'
![On her Instagram @lora_arellano the stunning entrepreneur shares helpful tutorials for creating dramatic makeup looks, but says when crafting an online profile photo you should present an approachable version of yourself, that includes subtle eye makeup](https://i.dailymail.co.uk/1s/2024/04/10/18/83436423-13289683-image-m-25_1712771357698.jpg)
On her Instagram @lora_arellano the stunning entrepreneur shares helpful tutorials for creating dramatic makeup looks, but says when crafting an online profile photo you should present an approachable version of yourself, that includes subtle eye makeup
She adapted the same concept to her hairstyles.
'I always had colorful hair, it was bright pink or blue, and I thought I can't walk into a date like this because they're not going to want to introduce me to their mom.
'So I went for softer, less intimidating hair, and also did the same with my makeup.'
First date look - soft and subtle
The most important aspect of natural makeup is foundation, Lora is a fan of About Face foundation.
'After applying, I set it with powder and then spray Urban Decay's "All Nighter" setting spray on top so it looks like skin, and it doesn't look like you're wearing makeup.'
If your base looks too caked-on, your quest for a barely-there look will fall flat.
'Women often make the mistake of applying too much of a heavy foundation, even though everything else might be natural.
'You don't want the focus to be how much makeup you're wearing on your skin.'
To get a natural glam look, Lora suggests prepping your skin with moisturizer and setting it with a setting spray.
She's a fan of Tatcha's Luminous Dewy Skin Mist for its moisturizing formula, instant hydration, and luminescent glow.
'It doesn't have any longwear properties, it just sets your makeup so it doesn't look like you're wearing makeup; I use it every day.'
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If you're going on multiple dates with same person, the expert recommends a more dramatic look in the form of a bold lip after the second date
On a first date Lora says to avoid lipgloss.
'Even though it looks really pretty, if you go in for the kiss its not the best feeling, and it attracts everything including your hair.'
She also says to stay clear of a bold lip.
'It's more intimidating and it can smear everywhere if you decide to go for the kiss.'
Eye makeup can enhance the eyes by making them appear brighter, bigger, and more defined, but not even mascara can have as much of an impact as false lashes.
While traditional lash strips are most common, Lora recommends under lashes.
As the name suggests, under lashes are applied in clusters under the lash with a tweezer.
'They look like they're growing out of your lid, so when you're looking down reading the menu trying to pick out your drink, they're not focused on your lash bend cause its hidden under your eyelashes.'
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To get a natural glam makeup look, Lora suggests prepping your skin with moisturizer and setting it with a setting spray
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While traditional lash strips are most common, Lora recommends under lashes. As the name suggests, under lashes are applied in batches under the lash with a tweezer
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On lips she favors a neutral brown lipstick by Melt Cosmetics in the color Frisky, and a cream blush on her cheeks
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'Don't get brows tattooed or microbladed, it doesn't ever fade well.' For a flawless brow Lora uses Melt Cosmetics Perfectionist Brow Gel: $24; meltcosmetics.com
On lips she favors a neutral brown lipstick from Melt Cosmetics in the color Frisky and pairs it with a slightly darker cinnamon color lip liner.
'I like a cream blush, it makes your cheeks look more glowy and brow gel because it makes the eyebrows look perfect without microblading.'
For a flawless brow she uses Melt Cosmetics Perfectionist Brow Gel.
'Just comb the hairs up, then take a fine brow pen and fill them in.
'Brows are so personal to you and to your face, but don't over draw them, don't get them tattooed or microbladed, it doesn't ever fade well.
'Just use makeup because if you hate it you can wash it off and read do it.'
Third date makeup - bring the drama
If you're going on multiple dates with same person, it's time to be your best bold self.
The expert recommends a more dramatic look after the second date.
From a bright red lip to a blue smoky eye and sleek winged liner, have fun and try something new on the third date that will spice and entice!
This is the time to let your guard down, express yourself, and show your partner what they are in for.