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Rainbow family

There was a lot I didn’t know about being a parent before my wife and I had twins: what it felt like to see dawn break because I was feeding babies rather than because I’d not yet been to bed, that days alone with tiny ones are interminable, whilst months and years rush past at supersonic speed, how physical it would feel to fall in love with them.

And then there was the realisation that, despite having come out when I was 20, many years

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