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What Is a “Real” Relationship in the Age of Social Media?

What Is a “Real” Relationship in the Age of Social Media? by Amy Daughters. Photograph of letter writing by Debbie Hudson
Photograph by Debbie Hudson

Estimated reading time: 6 minutes

A quest for meaning in modern day relationships inspires one woman to send hand-written letters to 500 “friends”, leading to unexpected discoveries

How many people can you actively be in real relationship with?

While that seems like a simple, straight-forward question the reality is more complex. First, how do you define the realin real relationships? Are there certain criteria we need to meet? Is there a checklist? Do we need to show up at certain events or make a minimum number of phone calls or texts? Maybe it’s checking in at least once a week?

Furthermore, if you are indeed it, does it have to maintain a certain level ofdeal?

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