An Afternoon in Summer: My Year on a South Sea Island, Doing Nothing, Gaining Everything, and Finally Falling in Love
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In an attempt to escape from her stressful life as a single working mother of two young boys, Kathy Giuffre books a year-long trip for four in a tropical paradise. At the last minute, her boyfriend announces he isn't joining them, and Kathy finds herself in an unlivable house in Rarotonga, a tiny speck in the middle of the South Pacific Ocean. Her unlikely savior is Emily, an 82-year-old Maori woman with a large white house on the edge of the ocean, which the two women share with two callous missionaries, the ghosts of Emily’s ancestors, and, briefly, a bizarre couple from Eastern Europe. As time passes, Kathy is seduced by the island and its people and by feelings she has never before experienced. This is an inspirational story about having the courage to search for something better and finding it—serenity, sensuality, and, ultimately, love.
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An Afternoon in Summer - Kathy Giuffre
DICKINSON
PREFACE
For almost a year I lived at the edge of the ocean, in an old white house with a garden. Sometimes crabs would come up from the beach, find their way into the kitchen and make a tremendous amount of noise, rattling around at night. Sometimes the electricity would go off and we would hunt in the dark for dry matches and go to bed by candlelight. Wild chickens roamed through our garden at dawn and the roosters would crow underneath our windows and wake us up, and sometimes the hens would have a clutch of tiny new chicks with them. Mostly we lived under a hot blue tropical sky but some days it rained all day, from sun up until sundown and on through the night. Once we almost had a hurricane. Two years after we left, four hurricanes hit the island in five weeks and a lot of places that we had known, such as Trader Jack’s, were destroyed. Our house was damaged too, but it is an old, strong house and it is still standing.
I lived there with my two children. Aiden was seven when we arrived and Tris was three. Their father had left when I was pregnant the second time, so it seemed as though it had always been just the three of us. It didn’t seem strange to be living on an island so far away from everything we knew, as long as we were together.
Rarotonga is the main island of the Cook Islands, a country in central Polynesia, west of Tahiti and east of Tonga. Tiny and beautiful, it is surrounded by a wide turquoise lagoon and a sharp coral reef. I had a modest grant to study artists there. My contact in the prime minister’s office had lined up a new house for us and had set me up with an associate researcher
.
Some of my friends in the US thought I was crazy to pack up my children, leave everything else behind, and head off to a place I’d never been before, a place with dengue fever and elephantiasis and dysentery, just because I liked the sound of it. Maybe. But even now, years later, part of me still lives in our old white house on the edge of the sea.
I had been alone ever since Eric, the boys’ father, had left. I was numb from exhaustion. I had, after all, two small children—babies. If you have just one small child, you know this child will have to sleep sometime and that you will sleep then. You may not shower for weeks on end or brush your teeth or even comb your hair, but you will sleep. However, once you are outnumbered with two small children it is possible they will engage in tag-team sleeping so that at least one of them is always awake.
I loved my children. Nevertheless, it was hard raising them by myself. They needed so much from me—every spoonful of food, every bath, every diaper change, every lullaby, every game of peek-a-boo, every piece of laundered clothing, every washed dish, every kiss, every bandage, every everything. Sometimes I would see other mothers hand a child to its father and marvel, wide-eyed and longing, like a prisoner looking at the sky.
Once the boys got a bit older and I wasn’t their whole world, the real problems began. Now I was their only protection from the other world—the one of slings and arrows. The outside world seemed full of people with trumped-up excuses to explain why they were bad-tempered—people like Aiden’s first-grade teacher, who told the children she had Cherokee blood and that was why she would never smile. How could I protect my children every moment of every day—even when I was at work and they were far away—from the casual heartlessness of other people? How could I be everything and every where at once? Would I ever have anything approaching a normal
life again? I was worn out from trying.
I didn’t die, as I feared, but I didn’t have any offers of romance either. This may have been because I was tired, miserable and hadn’t showered in weeks. I became sadly resigned to a future without men.
But then one day there was Gregg. It’s the old story. There you are, blithely playing with fire, and the next thing you know things have got out of hand—got out of hand even though you know full well he has a girlfriend. He tells you it’s over, he hasn’t loved her in years. He never loved her, not really. The two most dangerous words in the English language: Only you.
Gregg may as well have been holding up a sign that said, Today’s special—Heartbreaks half-price
. I would have rushed over with my credit card.
At the time, the world seemed a complicated, entangled morass. Not only was there the matter of Aiden’s teacher but my colleagues at work were entrenched in internecine warfare, the American people had just elected a frighteningly stupid man as president, and Gregg’s girlfriend seemed inexplicably unwilling to disappear. I just wanted to get away. The idea was that Gregg and the boys and I would go to the South Seas together. We would be alone, far away, on an island in the sun, free of all the complications and entanglements. It was only later it occurred to me that as far as Gregg was concerned there was really just one entanglement, and he could have walked away from her any time he chose.
As a professor, I was entitled to a sabbatical every seven years—a year without teaching or other duties, during which I was supposed to work on research. My sabbatical year was coming up and it seemed perfect timing. I applied for a grant to study the indigenous art of Rarotonga and was successful. Things were falling into place. Then, ten days before we were scheduled to leave, Gregg told me he wasn’t coming.
ARRIVAL
Wednesday, July 31
Arrived paradise stop
beautiful beyond our wildest dreams stop
have eaten no dog stop
yet
stop
It was late July when Aiden, Tris and I left Colorado with a suitcase full of shorts and summer dresses for the flight first to Los Angeles and then on to Tahiti, where we waited to reboard our plane in the dark, echoing airport. Finally at two in the morning we touched down in Rarotonga. It is thrillingly terrifying to land in the dead of night at a strange foreign airport with no one you know to meet you and no idea what will happen next. Rarotonga was such a brief stopover for the plane on its way to Auckland that it had not even been mentioned at the gate at Los Angeles international airport.
Here it was a much bigger deal. A man was playing the ukulele and singing on a small stage in the terminal to welcome the plane’s arrival. It was too dark to see the ocean, but even from the front of the airport I could hear it. Although it was the middle of the southern winter there seemed to be flowers everywhere. Sleepy-looking people from the hotel threw leis around our necks. Tris twisted his double and put it on his head, looking a little like Julius Caesar. There were also lizards; I would learn that these moko
ran around near lights at night and ate bugs.
I stood on the sidewalk by our suitcase, holding Aiden with one hand and Tris with the other, waiting to be loaded on to the van that would take us to our hotel, and tried to realise that this was real, tried to hear the ocean and smell the flowers and impress this moment into my brain forever — the moment when we arrived.
First thing next morning, I called the number I had been given for Mr Tarau, the man who would be renting us a house. He wasn’t there. Then for most of the rest of the day the phones were out. It was the same the next day. To make matters worse my only government contact turned out to have left the country on the outbound flight of the plane that had brought us in. With a feeling of impending doom, I extended our stay at the hotel. How many more days?
the pretty girl at the desk asked. Only two,
I said, faking optimism.
The truth was that things had started off badly — so badly, in fact, that it was only about a week before I decided to give it all up. I would repack our bags, change our return tickets, take my boys in my arms, and drag my pitiful self to … where? There were already tenants living in our house in Colorado. And I didn’t want to go back there anyway. Not there.
The days crawled by with no sign of Mr Tarau, or of anyone else with whom I had been in contact from the US. If the island was not exactly deserted, it was at least devoid of the people who had assured me, before our arrival, of their aid and their interest. There was no house for us, it seemed. And no working phones and no help anywhere — only cool, beautiful faces with eyes that flicked across me impassively. I could be a ten-day tourist — that was the usual procedure — but the only response to my intention to stay on the island was an uncomprehending blankness.
I was quickly running over budget living in the Grand Beachfront Suite of the Rarotongan Beach Resort and Spa, which I had meant to be a two-night treat but which had turned into a pecuniary folly. I was also running out of patience trying to keep my jet-lagged little boys quietly entertained from four in the morning, when they woke up, until seven, when the hotel restaurant opened for breakfast. It didn’t seem wise to take them out on to the cold and wind-scoured beach in the dark, so I futilely tried to keep them from screaming, taking to heart the disgruntled Goddamn it!
I had heard through the apparently tissue-thin wall of our room on the second morning. After three hours of whispered threats and grouchy despair, it was hideous to discover that not only was there not a house for me after all but, according to everyone I spoke to, it was very difficult to find a house to rent on the island. I should keep my eyes on the classifieds in the paper — a house might pop up some day. Having given me this advice, no one really gave a damn. Who cared about one lost gringa and her two noisy children? Sell her some T-shirts and send her on her way.
But not only could I not bear the thought of going back to Colorado, I couldn’t imagine any other place on the surface of the globe that I could bear the thought of. I just wanted oblivion, and as they say in Arkansas, you can’t get there from here.
It’s relatively easy to be breezy and nonchalant when discussing casually among your colleagues at work — especially ones you don’t like — the possibility that for your sabbatical you will fly off to spend a year in the South Seas. West of Tahiti
is a lovely phrase to say to people who are so timorous and moribund they won’t even eat sushi.
And having uttered not only west of Tahiti
but also Rarotonga
, indigenous artists
and International Date Line
, you would be surprised how quickly you can find yourself applying for grant money, and being given the necessary permissions and waivers and forms from the health insurance company. I was suddenly in email contact with Te Aturangi Tamarua in the Office of the Prime Minister of the Government of the Cook Islands, trying to write in Māori out of a phrasebook, My son has broken his arm on the playground
and instead writing, The arm they are cutting an area of games looks like my son.
I asked for help with the house, though, in English. Or now that I think about it, I never asked — Te Aturangi Tamarua offered. Would you like me to get a house for you?
Yes,
I responded, happy to find this was all as easy as I was making it sound in my collegial conversations. Te Aturangi Tamarua
is almost as nice to say as west of Tahiti
. Maybe nicer.
And nice Te Aturangi Tamarua gave me another name: Mr Tarau. He had a house for me. I was to call when we landed. Everything was taken care of.
Only it wasn’t. I couldn’t find Mr Tarau and nice Te Aturangi Tamarua had gone away and I was running out of money and patience and sanity and ideas. Hence the despair: I was stunned — shocked — by what I had actually done.
I sent perky postcards to everyone on my mailing list, was stalwart and soothing — in a cranky German-governess sort of way — for the sake of the boys, and only barely admitted, even to myself, that things might not be quite perfect here in paradise. Having come to the South Seas on a dare that no one except me even knew I’d taken, I couldn’t very well send out a mass email begging for rescue, and admit to all those well-meaning friends who had cautioned me that I was about to make a big mistake that I had, in fact, made a big mistake.
It is possible, of course, that seeing myself as the heroine of a romantic palm-fringed adventure, I assumed that other people did too, and seriously overestimated the degree to which anyone, other than my father, thought about me at all. But the effect of an audience is remarkable, no less for being imaginary. While I was carefully composing in my head the postcards that would turn them all green with envy and me into a modest legend, they were probably saying to themselves, I wonder if Kathy has left for her trip yet? Where was she going again? Can’t remember. Oh, well, shall we have tacos for dinner?
Of course there was Gregg — the one other person in the world besides my father who was, I was certain, thinking about me. And it was of some necessity that he should writhe — absolutely writhe — with envy. I wanted him to regret what he had lost as much as I did. I had lost him, but I couldn’t seem to leave him behind. In one of those sadistic jokes that the gods like to play, the only brand of instant coffee available on Rarotonga had turned out to be called Gregg’s
— even spelled his way, with three gs. Every morning a fresh batch of Gregg’s was delivered to my hotel room, every restaurant table had a stack of Gregg’s packets in a glass container in the centre, and I couldn’t go into the grocery store without seeing him everywhere.
Of course, Gregg was on my email list because cool modern women never ever hold grudges, but there was no point in sending out an electronic SOS when the only person I wanted to rescue me would, I knew, never come. Better to continue on. And there was this: however much sorrow I felt over Gregg, sorrow that ran through my blood like an insidious poison, part of me was still fucking furious. I wanted him to die, painfully, of pro longed regret or, better yet, chainsaw wounds. And while he was dying — lingeringly, to give him time for contemplation — I wanted him to imagine me happy, laughing and uproarious in my exotic paradise.
During the day it was windy at the beach, which we had to ourselves. Aiden couldn’t swim because just before we left he had broken his arm and now had a cast on it, so he would just wade out up to his waist, which was chest-high for Tris. Then they would wade back together and play for a while in the sand. They seemed very small under such a big sky. I would sit on the empty sand and stare out at the line of breakers that marked the reef and try to come up with Plan B.
Mr Tarau was never at his office when I called, during those fleeting moments when the phones were working. When will he be in?
I would ask. Oh, later,
his secretary would say. Finally, after three days — thinking that maybe I would track him down in person — I asked, "Where is he right now?
New Zealand, she said.
Ah, I said, some what deflated,
when do you expect him back?
Oh, she said airily,
later. Maybe next week. Or the week after that. Later."
Despite living in an air-conditioned hotel room, it still seemed very adventurous to be on Rarotonga, as though we were characters in a Joseph Conrad novel, or Fletcher Christians in a remake of Mutiny On The Bounty. The real mutiny had, indeed, happened just nearby, when the Bounty was transporting breadfruit tree saplings from Tahiti to the West Indies, where the starchy fruit was meant to be used as a cheap source of food for African slaves. After the mutiny, the sailors had thrown the saplings overboard and set Captain Bligh adrift in a small open boat. The real irony was that when, a few years later, another ship did manage to get breadfruit trees to the West Indies, the slaves vehemently refused to eat the breadfruit.