There's Something Under the Bed: Children's Experiences with the Paranormal
By Ursula Bielski and Jeff Belanger
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Ursula Bielski is the founder of Chicago Hauntings, Inc. A historian, author, and parapsychology enthusiast, she has been writing and lecturing about Chicago's supernatural folklore and the paranormal for nearly 20 years, and is recognized as a leading authority on the Chicago region's ghostlore and cemetery history. She is the author of six popular and critically acclaimed books on the same subjects, which have sold in excess of 100,000 copies. Ursula has been featured in numerous television documentaries, including productions by the A&E Network, History Channel, Learning Channel, Travel Channel, and PBS.
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There's Something Under the Bed - Ursula Bielski
THERE’S SOMETHING UNDER THE BED!
THERE’S SOMETHING UNDER THE BED!
Children’s Experiences
With the Paranormal
BY URSULA BIELSKI
Foreword by Jeff Belanger
Copyright © 2010 by Ursula Bielski
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
Whenever I write, I try to get across the fact that many people are involved in producing a manuscript of this kind: both experts and unwitting witnesses, those who set out to discover the reality of the paranormal, and those who have it thrust upon them, like it or not. I would like to recognize the tireless dedication, in particular, of Jeff Belanger, who so graciously brought the idea for this book to the attention of Michael Pye at New Page Books, and who has spent each and every day for more than 10 years giving a voice to paranormal experiencers at GhostVillage.com, filling the bookshelves of ghost hunters around the world, and providing endless encouragement and support to people like me. He is the greatest cheerleader and friend anyone could have, and I am honored that he accepted the invitation to write the foreword for this volume.
I want to thank Michael Pye for giving me the chance to write this book and editor Kirsten Dalley for her patient and knowledgeable direction in the completion of it. Many thanks, too, to my research assistant, Cynthia Pelayo, who dug up a lot of interesting notes to get me started on some of my more daunting topics.
Many thanks to those who provided their own experiences, especially those who contributed verbatim accounts, including Trish Baldwin, David Schnoebelen, and particularly, David Slone of TrueGhostTales.com, who kindly granted permission to reproduce accounts from his ever-growing collection of readers’ true stories. Thanks to Kathleen Erickson of the Journal for Scientific Exploration for permission to share the late Ian Stevenson’s information and photographs on birthmarks relating to past lives of children; I hope readers will find their skepticism on the subject as challenged as mine was when confronted with Dr. Stevenson’s amazing findings.
Many thanks to Lorraine Warren who, along with her late husband, Ed, has contributed so much to the field of paranormal research. In addition to being one of the world’s greatest investigators, she is just such a kind person. The chilling story of Annabelle the Doll was a must-have for this book, and I’m grateful for the opportunity to share it.
At home, on a very practical level, I am continuously grateful to the Chicago Public Library for always guiding me when I’m not sure where I need to go. The staff of its many branches has been with me throughout my writing career, and I’m so fortunate to have access to such a valuable—and personally helpful—resource.
Thank you, David, for taking care of the girls every day, so I could write, and for running the business end of things so I could concentrate. And thank you, Eva and Ilse, for being so proud of me all the time, no matter how strange I may appear to others!
Finally, I’m very grateful to all of those who have supported my writing and research all these years. All of my friends and colleagues; all the bleary-eyed ghost hunters who are out there all night, freezing and often frustrated, looking patiently for the needles in the paranormal haystack; all who enthusiastically and trustingly share their experiences year after year. I promise I’ll never stop telling your stories.
From ghoulies and ghosties
Long-leggedy beasties
And things that go bump in the night…
Good Lord, deliver us.
—Old Scottish prayer
CONTENTS
Foreword
Introduction
The Man Who Wasn’t There
Chapter 1
Birth of the Boogeyman
Chapter 2
Clairvoyance of Fairies
Chapter 3
Clairvoyance of Ghosts and Mediumship With the Dead
Chapter 4
Communication With Animals
Chapter 5
Before They Were Born: Remembering Past Lives
Chapter 6
Seeing and Believing: Child Visionaries and Religious Apparitions
Chapter 7
Angels and Demons
Chapter 8
The Power of the Poltergeist
Chapter 9
Fun and Games
Chapter 10
Autism’s Insights
Chapter 11
The Children of Now
Epilogue
Appendix
Bibliography and Suggested Reading
Index
About the Author
FOREWORD
There’s no such thing as ghosts. At least that’s what many of us tell our children. It’s a natural thing to say, even if we don’t believe a word of it. We want our kids to feel safe, and we want to allay every fear we can, so we tell them not to worry, and that the shadowy figure lurking by the closet is just their imagination.
Likewise, when children tell us of their invisible
friends, we parents tell ourselves this is just a flight of fancy for our offspring. We want to feel safe, too. We may love to discuss ghosts and haunted places, but we’d prefer they not necessarily live with us, thank you very much.
We live during a time of unprecedented paranormal discussion. All forms of media inundate us with content about ghosts, demons, monsters, and other unexplained phenomena. These subjects are going to filter down to our children; we can’t stop it. And our children are going to have questions, because all children want to figure out the world around them. Of course we must assure our children that they’re safe, but there’s so much they can tell us about the world they see and experience.
The paranormal isn’t just for adults anymore. Not that it ever was. I recall my interest in the subject being born out of a Ouija board session around age 10 during a sleepover at a friend’s old haunted home. My intrigue gave way to further questions, my questions led me to reading all the books I could find, the reading led me to investigations, and somewhere along the way I realized my thirst for the unexplained would never be quenched. Now that I’m a dad, I can think of worse paths for my own child.
I recall my daughter, Sophie, at 14 months old, sitting in the living room of my not-haunted house. She was sitting and playing when something caught her attention over my wife’s shoulder. She gave a big grin and waved. The only thing over my wife’s shoulder was an empty corner of the room. My daughter had done nothing like that before or since. She only knows she saw something that seemed friendly, so she smiled and waved—just as she would to someone smiling at her in the grocery store.
As my daughter grows, she’s starting to ask questions about what her daddy does for a living. The words ghosts and paranormal are thrown around my home quite a bit. As a paranormal researcher, I want to tell her everything—all of the theories, what I believe, and what I’ve seen. As her daddy, I don’t want her to be scared. As of this writing, she’s 3 years old. She likes to throw a blanket over her head and say, I’m a ghost…oooooooo!
She talks about ghosts in the same manner she talks about butterflies or dogs. We don’t go on and on about the subject, but when it comes up, I’m happy to let her lead the discussion. I have no doubt that a paranormal guy like me can learn a lot from a 3-year-old. Sophie often speaks whatever she is thinking about. There’s no filter, so I get to hear all of it. If she starts talking to someone I can’t see or if she describes conversations, I will give her my full attention. If it’s only her imagination, I won’t discourage her. I want her to have a wonderful imagination. If it’s something more, I still won’t discourage her. I’ll listen. I want her to know she can talk about these subjects with me.
As parents, we need to decide what role (if any) organized religion is going to play in the lives of our families, and we need to decide how much of our own interest in the paranormal we want to incorporate into this spiritual discussion.
There’s no point in telling our children that the paranormal is dangerous and should be avoided. I can think of no better way to make an already-fascinating subject even more alluring. We can’t hide from ghosts, but we can use this topic as an opportunity.
Ghosts are an innovative way to teach history to our children. Facts, figures, dates, and names are cold and have little meaning. To tell a middle-schooler that more than 800 people were killed during the First Battle of Bull Run on July 21, 1861, doesn’t say much. But to tell a child there’s a ghost lurking the woods near Manassas, Virginia, and people think his name is Billy, a soldier who fought and died here, a man who is still looking for his comrades because of his eternal sense of duty, a man who left behind a crying wife and child, well…now we have a story. History is the stage we set for our ghosts. Understand just one ghost’s story at Bull Run, and then a child can multiply that by 800 and get a sense of what the sacrifices really mean.
Today there are families who ghost hunt together, and who explore the unexplained as a family unit. What a unique vacation idea! These folks are legend tripping, working together, learning history, and forming a bond that cannot be matched by throwing skee ball at some boardwalk arcade.
To discuss ghosts is a safe way to explore the notion of death and mortality. Children as young as 2 years old start to learn the concept of death. It’s an important lesson because everything dies. Ghosts offer a more comfortable way to broach the topic before the hard lesson of Grandma passing on makes it too emotionally charged and difficult. Ghosts also offer kids hope that we won’t be forgotten after we die, and there’s your segue into your religious belief system. Religion is complex. Ghosts can be remarkably easy.
Children are more sensitive to the world than adults. They’re smarter than most give them credit for. Children can sense and react to the emotions of their parents long before they can walk or talk. Why are children so sensitive? Survival. They can’t fight or run, but they can cry for help. If they see something they fear, they cry. If they see something they like, they coo and smile. Young children may be the world’s most perfectly tuned spirit detector (not that I’m advocating using children as ghost bait…but then again… hmmm).
What you’re holding in your hands is a great addition to the discussion of the paranormal and children. From the creatures once held only in the realm of fairytales, to the clinical study of psychic phenomenon, there is much to discuss and learn from There’s Something Under the Bed. To experience the world through a child’s eyes is one of the greatest joys of parenthood. That world, by the way, includes the world of the supernatural. We owe it to our kids and to ourselves to bring these subjects to the forefront, because through understanding we can minimize fear and foster a sense of wonder and learning.
I’d like to thank Ursula Bielski both as a parent and as a paranormal researcher for shedding such credible light on this important paranormal topic.
—Jeff Belanger
Founder of Ghostvillage.com,
host of 30 Odd Minutes,
and author of The World’s Most Haunted Places
and Who’s Haunting the White House?
INTRODUCTION
THE MAN WHO WASN’T THERE
When I was growing up in Chicago, my life was filled with paranormal happenings, stories, and experiences of my own and of my family— some of them passed down through generations. Like many children, I lived in a confounding world where adults would thrill us during the day with stories of apparitions, visions, and ghostly visitations, only to tell us at bedtime that there are no such things.
Every neighborhood has a haunted house, and the year before I was born my parents bought the haunted house in the area where my mom had grown up, not far from Wrigley Field. Though my parents were both rational, they were not strangers to the paranormal. My mom often told of how her parents woke together one night during World War II to see their son, Will, standing at the foot of their bed and then vanishing into thin air. Will had been serving overseas in Japan and, predictably, his family received a telegram the next day informing them of his death on Saipan—at the moment they’d seen him in their room. My dad was a police officer, and calls often came in from terrified citizens reporting intruders
—footsteps, slamming doors, voices—though nothing and no one would be found by police. As a child, he’d had many experiences of the paranormal, including the chilling afternoon when he says he saw the tail of the Devil