Love Me, Hate Me: Barry Bonds and the making of an Antiher
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From acclaimed sports writer and bestselling author Jeff Pearlman, a searing and insightful look into the life and career of Barry Bonds, one of the most celebrated, contradictory and controversial sports figures of our time
No player in the history of baseball has left such an indelible mark on the game as Barry Bonds. In his twenty-year career, Bonds has amassed an unprecedented 7 Most Valuable Player awards, 8 Gold Gloves, and more than 700 home runs (and counting), an impressive assortment of feats that has earned him the consideration as one of the greatest players the game has ever seen. Equally deserved, however, is his reputation as an insufferable braggart, whose mythical home runs are rivaled only by his legendary ego. From his staggering ability and fabled pedigree (father Bobby played outfield for the Giants; cousin Reggie and godfather Willie are both Hall of Famers), to his well-documented run-ins with teammates and his alleged steroid abuse, Bonds inspires a like amount of passion from both sides of the fence. For many, Bonds belongs beside Babe Ruth and Hank Aaron in baseball’s holy trinity; for others, he embodies all that is wrong with the modern athlete: aloof; arrogant; alienated.
Drawing on extensive interviews with Bonds himself, members of his family, former and current managers, teammates, opponents, trainers, outspoken critics, and unapologetic supporters alike, Pearlman reveals, for the first time, a wonderfully nuanced portrait of a prodigiously talented—and immensely flawed—American icon, whose controversial run at baseball immortality forever changed the way we look at our sports heroes.
Jeff Pearlman
JEFF PEARLMAN is the New York Times bestselling author of ten books. His subjects include the ’80s Los Angeles Lakers (Showtime), the 1986 New York Mets (The Bad Guys Won), the ’90s Dallas Cowboys (Boys Will Be Boys), and NFL legends Walter Payton (Sweetness) and Brett Favre (Gunslinger). HBO adapted Showtime into the dramatic series Winning Time, produced and directed by Adam McKay. A former Sports Illustrated senior writer and ESPN.com columnist, Pearlman is the host of the Two Writers Slinging Yang podcast and blogs regularly at jeffpearlman.com.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Typical Pearlman. I have literally read every Pearlman book. They are fascinating. It's like a gossip column for sports fans. My biggest qualm with him though is he is fascinated with race. Now, sometimes it's obviously pertinent. But he often mentions it when it's completely irrelevant or unnecessary. I've never understood that about him. But his stuff is still well worth reading.
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Love Me, Hate Me - Jeff Pearlman
PROLOGUE
IT BEGINS HERE. NOT the life itself, but the sense of attitude and entitlement. Here, on a tan couch in a white living room in the San Carlos, California, home of Marlene Rossi, housewife, mom, and—against her better judgment—den mother of Cub Scouts Troop 53.
They sit quietly, a group of seven- and eight-year-old boys decked out in the plaid pants and screen-printed T-shirts of the early 1970s, engrossed in their latest task: knot tying. To the die-hard Scout, the assignment is an opportunity to edge closer to the coveted title of Webelos. To the happy-go-lucky Scout, it’s a fun, moderately meaningful activity.
To Barry Bonds, age eight, it’s a huge pain in the ass.
Young Barry is, in many ways, the royalty of Troop 53. He is, hands down, the best athlete—the fastest, the strongest, the biggest. His father, Bobby Bonds, is a star outfielder for the San Francisco Giants who occasionally stops by to pick up his boy and sign a few autographs. Barry lives in one of the nicest houses, owns some of the hippest clothes, slings some of the cleverest trash talk, meets all the coolest people. But there is one sizable dent in his armor: He cannot tie a knot.
To Barry’s left, Sam Rossi, Marlene’s son and Barry’s longtime pal, deftly loops square and overhand knots. Across the octagon coffee table, Scotty, Jeff, and Michael progress with graceful ease. But not Barry. He stews. He pouts. He glances jealously toward Sammy, then looks away when he’s caught peeking. From the corner of her eye, Marlene observes all this and sighs. The other kids were always so enthusiastic and eager,
she would say years later. "But with Barry, it was always a challenge to get him to do his projects. He was always like, ‘Oh crud, I have to do this?’"
With time running short and Barry’s patience wearing thin, Marlene beckons to the handsome boy with the miniature Afro and whispers reassuringly into his ear. Don’t worry,
she says. We’ll just mark down that you did the knots correctly. It’ll be our little secret.
This, Barry Bonds never tells anyone.
Fast-forward 32 years—to September 13, 2005. The San Francisco Giants have just defeated the San Diego Padres, 5–4, at SBC Park. Sitting alone by his locker, Barry Bonds looks bored. He fidgets with a bottle of green Gatorade. He checks his cell phone. He scratches himself.
I decide the time has come to approach Bonds about this book.
As any baseball writer knows, confronting Barry Bonds in the clubhouse is often akin to sidling up to a lion while holding 10 pounds of raw meat. Throughout the preceding months, I have tried my best to get Bonds to sit down with me. I have sent dozens of e-mails. I’ve had multiple exchanges with his publicist. I’ve called his manager, his agent, his former agents, his friends.
Nothing.
As Bonds relaxes on a folding chair, reporters circle nearby and an army of personal assistants awaits his next command. Finally, with little to lose, I speak up.
Barry,
I say. "My name is Jeff Pearlman. I used to write for Sports Illustrated. I’ve communicated with your publicist quite a bit, but I’m not sure what she’s told you. I’m writing a biography of your life. I’m trying my best to be fair. And even though I’ve been told you likely won’t cooperate, I felt that, journalistically, I had to ask if you’d want to sit down and talk."
Bonds grins, detecting a timidity he’s seen in countless others. I’d rather not,
he says. But thanks for asking.
He sticks out his hand, and I shake it.
Not so bad, I think.
Just so you know,
I add. I’ve interviewed everyone. Five hundred people. Your Little League teammates, your high school pals, even your Cub Scouts den mother.
Bonds scowls. Have I gone too far?
Dude,
he barks derisively, I was never in the Cub Scouts.
With this he rises and walks away, pretending not to hear as I tail him to the exit shouting, Marlene Rossi! Marlene Rossi! Marlene Rossi!
I am momentarily shaken. Was my research wrong? Have I screwed up the most basic of facts?
A few minutes later I relay my exchange to Pedro Gomez, the ESPN reporter whose assignment for the season is to shadow Bonds. Gomez sighs, nodding knowingly. Let me tell you something,
he says. A few months ago I went up to Barry and told him that my neighbor in Arizona is Jose Rodiles.
Rodiles had been Bonds’s teammate at Arizona State for two seasons. Barry said, ‘I don’t know that name,’
recalls Gomez. I said, ‘Man, you played with him at ASU.’ But Barry insisted he had no idea.
A few days later, Gomez called Rodiles and told him of Bonds’s apparent amnesia. That’s funny,
said Rodiles. "Because the guy was in my fucking wedding."
ONE
70
IN THE INSULAR WORLD of Major League Baseball, there is no greater sin than disrespect. Most players can tolerate inflated egos. They can tolerate boredom (a job requirement). They can tolerate pain, indifference, softness, absentmindedness, excessive brutality, disregard for the rules, large men dressed as sausages, 12-minute renditions of the national anthem.
Disrespect, however, is the ultimate no-no. You don’t show up the opposing pitcher. You don’t spit on an umpire. You never act the coward.
That was the word running through the dugout of the San Francisco Giants on the night of October 4, 2001. Coward. Actually, it wasn’t the only word. Some preferred pussy. Others, chicken-shit. Wuss, wimp, softie. Pick an adjective—any derisive adjective—and it was applied to Houston Astros manager Larry Dierker. With good reason.
For nearly three full games, Dierker had refused to allow his pitchers to face Barry Bonds, San Francisco’s left fielder and powerful number three hitter. In any other series at any other time, few Giants would have batted an eye. Throughout the past few seasons, Bonds had been pitched around more than any man since the game’s inception in the 1880s. One hundred seventeen walks in 2000. A major league record 172 (and counting) in 2001. It was a running joke among the San Francisco beat writers. How many hittable balls will Barry see today? One? Two? Three, if he’s lucky?
Now, circumstances were different. With his solo blast against the San Diego Padres less than a week earlier, Bonds entered the series at Houston’s Enron Field needing one home run to tie Mark McGwire’s single-season record of 70. It was a mythical year for Bonds, who had to somehow overcome the death of a close friend and, along with the rest of America, the devastation of the September 11 terrorist attacks. Just weeks earlier in—of all places—Houston, the FBI had informed Bonds that someone had threatened to shoot him. Keep hitting homers—and you die.
How had it come to this? Once a spindly 185-pound leadoff hitter, Bonds had reinvented himself as the second coming of Babe Ruth. Three years earlier he had been an afterthought in the race between McGwire and Sammy Sosa to break Roger Maris’s single-season home run mark. Now he was altering the modern definition of power hitter. Entering the series, both teams had six games remaining. The Giants were two back of Arizona in the National League West, and Houston was tied with St. Louis in the National League Central. No matter. Few thoughts were on the playoff races.
This was about history.
In anticipation of a magical moment, more than 250 media outlets requested credentials for the Giants-Astros series. All three games were sold out. Aware that opposing pitchers were fearful of going down as the guy who allowed a historic homer, Bonds used his pre-series press conference to try to goad Dierker and the Astros into presenting him with hittable baseballs.
I’ve played against Houston a long time and I’ve never known them to bypass anybody,
he said. They have too many quality pitchers on that side, back to Nolan [Ryan] and Mike Scott and all the rest of them. They have pride, too. They have always been up for the challenge. When you look at some of the other teams, you can probably say, ‘Sure, they won’t pitch to you.’ But when you look at a staff like [Houston’s], it would be kind of odd if they [pitched around me].
Of course, the Astros were no more likely to pitch to Bonds than were the Mets, the Braves, the Brewers, or any other major league team. But with just six games remaining in the season, Bonds wanted Dierker to take the bait. Needed Dierker to take the bait. This record meant everything to Bonds. It was a symbol of unparalleled greatness—of being the absolute best in a sport steeped in legend. Throughout the early portion of his career, Bonds was often overshadowed by the legacy of his father, Bobby Bonds, a talented major league outfielder whose stardom was derailed by alcoholism. Even later, in forging his own identity as a multiple MVP winner, Bonds struggled to separate himself from Ken Griffey Jr., baseball’s other megawatt star. This, too, induced bitterness. Now, the opportunity was at hand for Barry Bonds to elevate his status to an all-time, one-of-a-kind icon. He did not simply want the home run record. He craved it.
Before the first game of the series on October 2, Mike Krukow, the Giants color commentator, was walking behind the cage during batting practice when he bumped into Harry Spilman, Houston’s hitting coach. The two had been teammates with San Francisco in the late 1980s, and maintained a friendship. Spilman flashed a disappointed expression. Sluggo ain’t pitching to Barry,
Spilman said in reference to Dierker. Your guy ain’t gonna get squat to hit.
To Krukow’s dismay, Spilman was right. In that night’s 4–1 San Francisco win, Bonds saw 17 pitches (in five at-bats), only five of which were strikes. The next evening was even worse. In the Giants’ 11–8 triumph, Bonds saw 18 pitches, four of which were strikes. After the games an enraged Bonds retreated to the clubhouse, where Willie Mays—traveling with the team to witness history—calmed him down. You’ll get your chance, Barry,
Mays told his godson. Just be patient.
So dire was the situation that Bonds’s 10-year-old daughter, Shikari, took to holding a poster that read PLEASE PITCH TO OUR DADDY!
Though Dierker remained steadfast in his belief that pitching to Bonds was foolish, few in the ballpark agreed. As it became increasingly clear that Bonds would not be allowed to hit his 70th, the hometown fans turned on their skipper. Dierker, a former Astros pitcher and TV commentator whose uniform number, 49, had been retired by the franchise, was booed whenever he walked to the mound or stuck his head out of the dugout. "Larry didn’t realize the significance of how much Houston fans were baseball fans, not Astros fans," says Jose De Jesus Ortiz, who covered the team for the Houston Chronicle. "He thought everyone was saying, ‘We’re filling this stadium to see you not give up the 70th home run.’ It was actually the opposite."
Bonds’s biggest enemy was not Dierker, but the scoreboard. Through the first two contests, he rarely stepped to the plate when the game was out of reach. One home run could have impacted the outcome, and that was too much for Houston’s manager—concerned more with standings than public opinion—to risk. "When the games were close, you just couldn’t pitch to Barry, says Astros outfielder Lance Berkman.
If our fans were more astute they would have realized our manager was trying to win."
On October 4, everything changed. With his team leading 8–1 in the sixth inning, Bonds sauntered to the plate with a runner on second and one out. Two times he had already been walked, and two times those in attendance had booed lustily. Now, up by seven runs, Bonds was certain to enjoy a legitimate opportunity to swing the bat. On the mound was Ricky Stone, an unassuming rookie right-hander who had bounced around the Dodgers minor league system for seven years before landing in Houston. Stone’s stuff was mediocre—an OK changeup, a less-OK curve, and a slick sinker—but his attitude was all bulldog. That’s the by-product of spending too much time in the bush leagues, sleeping on buses and eating out of a White Castle bag. You want an opportunity—any opportunity.
Stone prepared to face Bonds, running the possibilities through in his mind, when he peeked into the dugout and saw Dierker ordering an intentional walk. Stone nodded, but he wasn’t happy. As catcher Tony Eusebio stood to the side of the plate, arm extended, boos rained down from the crowd of 43,734. A handful of fans in the Diamond Club, an executive seating area behind home plate, orchestrated a middle-finger salute in protest. When the people paying $20,000 to $30,000 for their seats turn on you,
says Ortiz, you know you’ve violated something.
In the Astros dugout, straight-faced players quietly muttered disapproval under their breaths. Giants first base coach Robby Thompson screamed insults toward Houston’s bench. Sitting in the press box, Giants general manager Brian Sabean shook his head in disgust. Now I’m really starting to get fucking pissed,
he said to Josh Suchon, the Oakland Tribune beat writer. This is bullshit.
The rage spread to the Giants dugout. I don’t care if the guy’s the best hitter in the world—when I’m out there pitching, I want to try and get him out,
says Jason Schmidt, a Giants starting pitcher. You’re in the big leagues for a reason. There’s a code of decency that was broken.
Bonds accepted the walk with a smirk, dropped his bat, and jogged to first base. Giants second baseman Jeff Kent followed by grounding into an inning-ending double play, but nobody cheered. The crowd had come to watch Barry Bonds make contact, not the Astros make the playoffs.
The Giants added another run in the eighth, and when the top of the ninth inning rolled around, San Francisco led 9–2. Maybe it was the booing. Maybe it was the disappointed expressions on the faces of his own players. Maybe he was simply tired of his starring role as baseball wimp. Whatever the case, for the first time in three days, Dierker prepared to face Bonds, who was scheduled to lead off.
The Astros had just the pitcher for the job.
When Wilfredo Rodriguez was 15 years old, his mother bought him a new pair of sneakers. This was hardly an everyday occurrence in San Felix, one of Venezuela’s largest, poorest, and most dangerous cities, where size 12 Nikes are usually out of financial reach. It’s a rough place to live,
says Wilfredo, the third of Ginaro and Delvalle Rodriguez’s six children. People doing crime, robbing, stealing, knifing each other.
Young Wilfredo learned this the hard way. On his walk home from the store he was confronted by a man who demanded that he hand over his shoes. When Rodriguez momentarily paused, the man pulled out a .38-caliber revolver and fired two shots. Rodriguez crumpled to the ground, one bullet lodged behind his right knee, the other in his right thigh. The scars are still visible.
Until that moment, Rodriguez had been one of his city’s top young baseball talents. Uninterested in academics, he spent his mornings, afternoons, and evenings either fishing or on the sandlots, positioning himself in right field and dreaming of the colorful uniforms and cathedral stadiums of the United States. It was his mental escape from a rough life. At home, Rodriguez, his parents, and his five siblings shared two beds in a house the size of a coffee table. When I was shot, I thought I was done,
he says. I thought the dream was done. For a year I didn’t play baseball. I just sat around and tried to get better. It was very sad.
After returning from his injury in 1995, Rodriguez went back to the outfield. One day in a pickup game at nearby Porto Das, a scout from the Houston Astros saw him rifle a throw from right field to home plate. Do me a favor,
the scout said. Pitch the next inning and see what you can do.
When Rodriguez took the mound, everything clicked. He felt a calm, and as the ball left Rodriguez’s hand, the scout couldn’t believe the radar gun—91, 93, 94, 92, 93, 92. Within days, 16-year-old Wilfredo Rodriguez signed a contract for $25,000 and was shipped to the Astros baseball academy in Valencia. He used the money to buy his parents a new home. With plenty of beds.
Over the ensuing six years, the Astros meticulously transformed Rodriguez from a hard-throwing-yet-erratic gunslinger into the organization’s top pitching prospect. He was a big kid—6-foot-3, 210 pounds—with unusually long arms and an unconventional way of whipping the ball toward home plate like a slingshot. By the start of the 2001 season, Houston GM Gerry Hunsicker believed Rodriguez, age 22, was on the threshold of becoming a top-tier major leaguer. On September 15, after he posted 94 strikeouts in 92 innings and was clocked as high as 98 mph at Double A Round Rock, Rodriguez’s dream turned reality. The Astros were calling him up.
He was one of those mystery players,
says Ortiz. We knew he was some Venezuelan kid who threw hard and didn’t have much control. But that was it.
The Houston coaches learned quickly. In his first bullpen session before pitching coach Burt Hooten, Rodriguez unleashed a torrent of fastballs that cut and hummed and slid with frightening unpredictability. He was the type of pitcher nobody wanted to face; the type never quite sure where his own ball was heading. When Spilman, the Astros hitting coach, assured Krukow that Bonds would be pitched around, he added a caveat.
If we’re ever crazy enough to go after him,
he said, we’ve got the ultimate secret weapon.
As the Giants piled on the runs, Rodriguez sat in the bullpen and wondered, Why are we so scared?
Back in San Felix, such cowardly behavior was unheard of. Rodriguez loved challenges. Survive two gunshot wounds, and the fear of failure erodes. Late in the game, Astros reliever Octavio Dotel suggested to Rodriguez that he might be brought in to face Bonds. If that happens,
said Dotel, go after him. Pitch like a man.
The call came in the bottom of the eighth inning—the call Wilfredo Rodriguez had been waiting for. He stood to loosen up and began throwing some of his most wicked stuff in weeks. Since his promotion 19 days earlier, Rodriguez had appeared in only one game, a less-than-stellar two-inning, four-run debacle against the Cubs. Now he was fresh, rested, and anxious to make good. He thought about his parents; about his five siblings; about his small house and crowded bed.
You’re pitching to Barry Bonds,
Dotel told him. Not God.
At the end of the eighth inning Rodriguez strolled onto the field and took his eight warm-up pitches. The first one went over the catcher’s head and to the backstop. In the on-deck circle, Bonds calmly sized up the young kid’s stuff, eyes focused solely on the mound. Catcher Tony Eusebio threw down to second and trotted to the rubber.
Acabenlo,
he told Rodriguez.
Finish him.
As Eusebio retreated to his spot behind the plate, a chant began: Barree! Bar-ree! Bar-ree!
It grew louder. BAR-ree! BAR-ree! BAR-ree!
And louder. BAR-REE! BAR-REE! BAR-REE!
By the time Rodriguez reared back for his first pitch, it was as if a Boeing 727 had flown through the stadium. Nothing could be heard. Not the popcorn vendors or the PA announcer. Not Rodriguez, grunting as he fired a 95-mph heater.
Bonds cocked back and uncoiled a powerful swing that met nothing but air. The crowd oohed. Flashbulbs exploded.
Strike one.
On the Giants bench, veteran Shawon Dunston laughed aloud. Man,
he shouted, this kid thinks he can get some cheese by the rat!
Rodriguez peeked in for the sign, and the noise again reached maximum decibel. BAR-REE! BAR-REE! BAR-REE!
In the Astros dugout, Dierker looked angry. Who are these people rooting for? By not pitching to Bonds he’d brought the raging stadium to a boil. Rodriguez fired another fastball, this one 96 mph and high out of the zone. Bonds didn’t swing.
Ball one.
What the baseball fans of Houston were witnessing was classic theater. Rodriguez would never back down. Bonds would never back down. Rodriguez threw heat. Bonds pounded heat. Rodriguez wanted to be known as the guy who mastered the mightiest slugger. Bonds wanted the record. The concentration Barry had at that moment was unparalleled,
says Giants outfielder Eric Davis. He was as locked in as we’d ever seen him.
With the count one ball, one strike, Rodriguez threw his third pitch of the inning, a 93-mph heater that crossed the meat of the plate. Bonds’s swing was absolutely perfect—sliced through the zone, slight uppercut, arms straight, head down.
Rodriguez whipped his torso around, just quickly enough to catch sight of a white baseball soaring 454 feet into Enron Field’s second deck. Bonds flipped the bat aside and triumphantly raised his arms.
The noise. Oh, the noise. WHOOOSSSHHH!
As he rounded first base Bonds pumped his index finger and shook his fist, a relieved smile crossing his face. The other Giants stormed out of the dugout and surrounded home plate, anxious to greet the new coholder of baseball’s single-season home run record. After Bonds completed his trot and was mobbed, manager Dusty Baker embraced him in a tight bear hug. The Enron Field crowd remained on their feet. Smiling widely in the dugout, Bonds then stepped to the field for a curtain call as fans chanted his name. He waved, blew a kiss, and descended the steps back into the dugout. A half minute later he returned to the field, again acknowledging the roaring fans.
Television cameras flashed to Liz Bonds, Barry’s wife, as she wiped the tears from her cheeks. His two daughters, Shikari and two-year-old Aisha Lynn, jumped up and down, crying with joy. (I’ll never forget that,
Bonds said later. [Shikari] is one of the toughest cookies in my household.
) When the inning ended, Bonds jogged to left field and was hugged by a stream of San Francisco relievers exiting the bullpen. In a classy tribute, Giants manager Dusty Baker had outfielder Dante Powell enter the game as Bonds’s replacement. The legendary slugger walked across the diamond and into the dugout, a conquering hero bathed in love and adulation.
Across the United States, a nation of fans didn’t know how to feel or whom to root for. This wasn’t 1998, when the face-off between the cuddly McGwire and the even cuddlier Sosa created a baseball lovefest that brought joy to millions. Back then, we were allowed to peek behind the game’s curtain and see that large men with unimaginable power could laugh and cry and hug and exult in the mythical splendor of the home run. Now, nobody truly knew what to make of Bonds. He was, on the one hand, as blessed a talent as the sport had ever seen—a merging of speed, strength, discipline, instinct, and power that elicited comparisons to everyone from Mickey Mantle and Willie Mays to Rickey Henderson and McGwire. Over the course of his 16-year career, Bonds had compiled a broader résumé of accomplishments than any ballplayer since Ruth. He stole a career-high 52 bases with the Pittsburgh Pirates in 1990, and now shared the title of single-season home run king. He began as a subpar center fielder, then moved to left and won eight Gold Gloves. He struck out 102 times as a rookie, but never cleared the century mark again. I’ve seen a lot of amazing baseball players through my life,
says Brian Johnson, Bonds’s former teammate with the Giants. But Barry is a man who decides he’s going to do something, then does it. If he wanted to hit 100 home runs, I’m pretty sure he could. If he wanted to steal 100 bases, he could have done that, too. He’s playing on one level, and everyone else is a step or two or three behind.
Yet Bonds the ballplayer has always been obscured by Bonds the human being—an oft-guarded, oft-snarling, oft-difficult enigma of a man whose bursts of joy are overshadowed by lengthy periods of antagonism and anger. The word jerk frequently accompanies Bonds’s name, but when you consider his complicated upbringing, the adjective seems staggeringly simplistic. Bonds was raised in a bubble—the son of a major league star who lavished material gifts upon his offspring but, thanks to alcoholism and ego, fell short in all measurements of fatherhood. Bobby Bonds had urged his son to be not just guarded, but aloof and antagonistic. The result was a child who craved fame but feared it; who sought friends but turned away those with the potential to grow too close; who needed warmth and affection but refused to show even the slightest bit of vulnerability. Raised in the exclusive white San Francisco suburb of San Carlos, Bonds never knew what it was to blend in with the crowd. He was the black athletic phenomenon with the ungodly talent; the kid destined to be a star. He was royalty, and he was expected to act the part. This does not merely weigh on a youngster. It crushes him.
Had Bonds ever decided to convey this side of his story, to tell the world, Hey, I’m as messed up as the next guy,
people would have understood and, in all likelihood, embraced him. But there is a reason Barry Bonds generates more fascination than any other superstar of his generation, and it is that nobody has been allowed access. We know Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team. We know Peyton Manning was groomed by a loving father to be an elite quarterback. We know LeBron James was raised by a devoted mother in the Akron housing projects. But what do we really comprehend about Barry Bonds? And how does baseball’s greatest slugger maintain such mystery?
Why would a man with such natural gifts cheat by using performance-enhancing drugs? Will he stick around long enough to break Hank Aaron’s all-time home run record of 755? Will the day come when Bonds finally opens up to the world?
There is more at stake here than detective work. Well before most baseball gods retire, we can assume how their tombstones (and Hall of Fame plaques) will read. Not Bonds. Buried beneath the swirling dramas of his life is the daunting question of legacy. Too complex to pin down; too controversial to grasp—what do we really know of Barry Bonds? Baseball star or baseball brat? Excellence or enigma? Hero or cheater? Legend or liar?
I interviewed more than 500 subjects for this book, most of whom were unsure where, exactly, I should begin. Then I came upon Dickie Jackson, one of Bobby Bonds’s childhood friends. A talkative man with a keen memory, Jackson answered all my questions, but paused when asked, Where can I locate the soul of Barry Bonds?
After a half-minute delay, he responded.
Find Riverside, California,
he said, and I bet you’ll find Barry Bonds.
TWO
BIRTH OF A BALLPLAYER
BARRY BONDS ARRIVED AT Burton Field in San Carlos, California, on a warm March afternoon in 1975, 10 years old and a hero in the making. Just like a young Superman, who appeared out of nowhere (well, Smallville) to save the day, little Barry initially looked like just another kid, decked out in a T-shirt and shorts and lined up along a fence with 30 or so other freckle-faced boys. A handful of coaches from the San Carlos Little League had come to evaluate the talent pool before the following week’s new player draft. As one child after another took a turn in the batting cage, then fielded fly balls in the outfield, all adult eyes focused on the skinny black kid with the confident stride.
He didn’t run,
says Lloyd Skjerdal, head coach of the Lions Club Yankees. He flew. He didn’t just make contact with the ball. He crushed it. He didn’t just…
Skjerdal can go on for an hour. The boy before him was no ordinary ballplayer. In the outfield, he tracked down baseballs with unrivaled dexterity. At the plate, he turned on fastballs—adult fastballs—and walloped them into faraway pockets. When he threw a ball, the inevitable pop! induced goose bumps. Most 10-year-old boys are gawky assemblages of elbows and knees. Not this kid.
Word quickly spread, whispered from coach to coach and parent to parent. That’s Bobby’s kid.
Who?
"Bobby Bonds. That’s Bobby Bonds’s kid."
Skjerdal could smile. His Yankees possessed the first selection in the draft. There was no mystery. A lottery winner never turns down the pot. Barry was 10, going on 15 or 20,
says Skjerdal. The best talent I’ve ever seen in a young baseball player. He was this magnificent collection of skill, and it was as if he had appeared out of nowhere—just showed up one day, ready to be a star.
Barry Lamar Bonds was born on July 24, 1964, in Riverside, California, and he was born to be a Major League Baseball player. That’s the cliché, anyway, made more real with the passing of time and the accumulation of Hall of Fame–worthy statistics. Major leaguers are rare specimens, the best of the best. They are focused and determined from a young age, a perfect merging of physical brilliance, implacable grit, and furious concentration. But if you look past the praise—the confident, he-was-destined-to-do-this tone that became ingrained among Bay Area journalists over the past decade and a half—it could just as easily be said that Barry Bonds was born not to be a Major League Baseball player. Not with his teenage parents, and certainly not with his father’s raging alcoholism.
Most everyone on the Eastside of Riverside knew that the Bonds bloodline, though blessed with otherworldly athletic gifts, was poisoned by the dual curses of an insatiable desire for alcohol and the inability to handle the stuff. Those traits were pioneered by Barry’s grandfather, Robert Bonds, a short-tempered plaster contractor with a substance abuse problem that made life in the Bonds household miserable. Tall, with dark skin, thick shoulders, and an ironworker’s worn hands, Robert arrived in Riverside from Texas in 1934, armed with a sixth-grade education and desperate for work. The mantra he repeated to his kids—If God wanted you to go backward, he’d have turned your feet around
—was an inspirational one, but it was dulled by volatility. Drunk or sober, Robert was never one to spare the belt buckle. He was a man much of the community avoided, and with good reason. In his spare time, he was either drinking or blowing his dough at the nearest pool hall. Oftentimes both. Just stayed drunk all the time,
recalls Johnnie Baker, a family friend, neighbor, and the father of Dusty Baker, the future major league outfielder and manager. I’d bet he didn’t see a day sober in his life. I had a rule with my family, and it was this: Stay away from Robert Bonds. He was married to the bottle.
The same would turn out to be true with the youngest of Robert and Elizabeth Bonds’s four children, a local schoolboy star named Bobby Bonds. For sports fans living on the Eastside of town in the 1950s and ’60s, there were the Bonds children, and there was everybody else. Bobby’s oldest brother, Robert Bonds Jr., went on to play football at San Jose State and was later drafted by the Kansas City Chiefs. The middle brother, David, was a splendid high school football player until he broke his left collarbone in an automobile accident. Sister Rosie was a U.S. record holder in the 80-meter hurdles, and reached the finals at the 1964 Tokyo Olympics. But Bobby—well, Bobby was divine. The first time I saw Bobby walk onto a field, it was like he had a presence,
says Roy Hale, who coached Bobby in Little League. When he was 12 years old, he averaged a home run per game for me. He was stronger than anyone, faster than anyone, more powerful than anyone.
Located 50 miles southeast of Los Angeles, Riverside was known throughout California for the long rows of boxcars that carried fruits and vegetables to the rest of the state. Within the city confines—and especially on the multicultural Eastside—residents embraced an open-minded attitude well ahead of their time. As millions of American blacks were still being forced to drink from separate water fountains and ride in the rear of the bus, Riverside was a model of community and togetherness. Bobby’s pals formed a rainbow coalition of blacks, Hispanics, and whites, and as they rode their bicycles across town, the all-too-familiar American taunts of Nigger!
or Spic!
were nowhere to be heard. All the parents knew all the kids,
says Paul Boykin, a childhood friend of Bobby’s. They saw them during the day, they saw them run to and from school. If you did something wrong at another kid’s house, his parents would spank you, then call your parents. You’d get home and be spanked again. We were being raised the right way.
During summers, Bobby and his buddies would ride their bikes to Patterson Park, play baseball for a couple of hours (the goal was to hit a ball over Mrs. Pia’s house beyond the left-field fence), stop by Alan’s Sweet Shop for some gumballs, then dive into the community pool at Lincoln Park. Or they’d head to a field behind Bobby’s house and play baseball with rocks or rolled-up tube socks. Or those little red berries off the bushes,
Bobby once recalled. We had a system: As long as you hit the berry back when it was pitched to you, you kept batting.
There was a storefront between Eleventh and Twelfth Streets called Wholesome Bakery, and when the owner closed up at night he would leave a bounty of leftover cookies and cakes on the back stoop. I remember the dock between the bakery and the Union Pacific train,
says Dickie Jackson, Bobby’s childhood pal. We’d stand there as the trains would go by, eating cookies and letting the wind fill our shirts.
I wouldn’t want to change my childhood for anybody else’s childhood,
Bobby once said. At times we were middle class and at times we were poor. There were times I could get things and times I couldn’t get diddley. I’d have holes in my shoes, and both soles would be flapping.
Unlike his own children years later, Bobby was forced to understand the value of money. Little was handed to him. He caddied at a local golf course, hauled bags of cement at his father’s construction site, and combed Riverside in search of recyclable bottles.
Meanwhile, sports consumed Bobby, and he became the pride of the Eastside, an area that approached athletics with grave seriousness. When he was 12, he started playing baseball at Evans Park, in a recreational summer league with future major leaguers like Tom Hall, Mike Corkins, and John Lowenstein, as well as future PGA star Gary McCord. When too few kids showed up, Bobby would allow a pesky little tagalong—Johnnie Baker’s son—to stand in left field. He was three years younger than Bobby, and his nickname was Dusty. There’s no logical reason a 16-year-old would let this kid join in,
recalls Dusty Baker. But Bobby had a soft spot.
By the time he was in high school, at Riverside Polytechnic, he was becoming something of a local legend. Here was a youngster who once started in center field and participated in a track meet at the same time. Poly was facing rival Chaffey High School in both sports on a spring afternoon, and Bonds’s reputation was such that, when the long jump and 100-yard dash were set to begin, a time-out was called in baseball. Bobby quickly hopped over the center-field fence, dashed to the track, and competed. He had his baseball uniform on and no time to warm up—and he ran the 100 in 9.8 seconds in baseball cleats,
recalls Jackson, who witnessed the spectacle. "Then he climbed back over the fence, played a few innings, returns to the track and broad jumps 24 feet, 11 inches. That was in baseball cleats, too. I swear to God that happened. He was that good."
Prior to his freshman year at Poly, Bobby began what would turn into a near-lifelong partnership with alcohol. He did not drink heavily at first, and in the early years the habit never hampered his results. Bobby once scored six touchdowns in three quarters of play for the Poly varsity football team, and on the track he excelled as a 25-foot long jumper and 9.5-second sprinter in the 100-yard dash. He was so dominant on the baseball field that in 1960—Bonds’s freshman year—a Cleveland Indians scout named Evo Pusich sent raving reports back to the big club about a kid outfielder from Riverside. In the 1963 edition of the Koala, Poly’s yearbook, there is a photograph of Bobby soaring to the hoop in a basketball game against rival Ramona. The caption reads, The Ramona Rams stand in awe as Bobby Bonds scores again.
This was not hyperbole; the five cropped-haired white kids trying to defend Bobby’s drive appear genuinely shocked.
Midway through his sophomore year, Bobby began stuffing bottles of wine and cans of beer into his bag and toting them along to athletic events. Were he a lesser specimen, the impact would have been obvious. But Bobby was so good, so strong, so powerful, his performance never fell off. On June 6, 1964, at the Los Angeles Coliseum, Bobby won the state long jump championship with a leap of 25 feet, 3 inches, just 1 foot, 3 inches short of the national mark. Twenty minutes earlier he had ducked behind a bleacher and chugged a beer. He used to do the same thing before he ran the 100,
says Johnnie Baker. Whenever Bobby went behind the bleachers, you knew what he was doing.
Though boozing didn’t diminish Bobby’s level of play, it also didn’t go completely unnoticed. I had to talk to Bobby a million times about drinking when he was in school,
says Johnnie Baker. He would always say, ‘Mr. Baker, I don’t do this.’ And ‘Mr. Baker, I don’t do that.’ I would use his dad as an example, and say something like, ‘Is that the path you want to lead for yourself?’ Bobby told me he would never wind up like his father. Promised me. But I wasn’t so confident.
Baker was terrified the area’s most gifted athlete would junk everything. Along with the drinking, he was the first of his peers to start smoking cigarettes; the one with the quickest temper and the fastest fists. There was a certain attitude to Bobby—a don’t-fuck-with-me aura that worked in his favor on a ballfield but was not ideal for general society.
Bobby’s cavalier attitude didn’t deter Evo Pusich, who by Bobby’s senior season was scouting for the San Francisco Giants and infatuated with the outfielder’s explosiveness. Nor did it repel Patricia Howard. The daughter of Flo and Thurmond Howard, Patricia was lithe and attractive, an engaging girl with short hair and brown eyes. She had been an object of Bobby’s affection since 1960, when her family moved into the neighboring house on Vasquez Place. Man, everybody in town loved Pat,
says Dusty Baker. She was one of the finest things around. Everybody had a crush on her.
It was Pat—not sports—who inspired Bobby to lift weights well before pumping iron was the norm. He kept a crude set of dumbbells in his garage and dreamed of the day Pat would see his long, sinewy body rippling with muscles. The physique never materialized (Bobby’s 6-foot-1, 190-pound build was less Rocky Marciano, more Tommy Hearns), but the girl next door was smitten. Bobby and Pat were a celebrity item at Poly, the jock and the beauty, walking hand in hand through the hallways. My mom’s family put restrictions on when he could see her,
Barry would later say. So he started sneaking in her bedroom window at night to get some.
What Pat loved in Bobby was that—unlike most of the other kids in their graduating class—he had a plan. He was going to be a baseball player. A great one.
On May 3, 1963, against the protestations of his parents, Bobby and Pat were married in a hometown ceremony. Within a few months she was pregnant. With a boy.
The summer of 1964 was a momentous one for Bobby Bonds. At the age of 18, he became a father. And, almost simultaneously, his career in professional sports began. At the conclusion of his senior year Bobby had accepted an offer from Pusich and the San Francisco Giants. In addition to an $8,000 signing bonus, the deal guaranteed Bonds a $500 monthly salary. The Giants also