Developing Your SHAPE to Serve Others: Six Sessions on Ministry
By Brett Eastman and Rick Warren
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Brett Eastman
Brett Eastman has championed small groups and leadership development at both Saddleback and Willow Creek Community Church over the past decade. He is president and founder of LifeTogether, and one of the authors of the Silver Medallion winner Doing LifeTogether, the adult curriculum published by Zondervan.
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Developing Your SHAPE to Serve Others - Brett Eastman
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DOING LIFE TOGETHER
DOING LIFE TOGETHER is unique in that it was designed in community for community. Four of us have been doing life together, in one way or another, for over fifteen years. We have been in a small group together, done ministry together, and been deeply involved in each other’s lives. We have shared singleness, marriage, childbirth, family loss, physical ailments, teenage years, job loss, and, yes, even marital problems.
Our community has not been perfect, but it has been real. We have made each other laugh beyond belief, cry to the point of exhaustion, feel as grateful as one can imagine, and get so mad we couldn’t see straight. We’ve said things we will always regret and shared moments we will never forget, but through it all we have discovered a diamond in the rough—a community that increasingly reflects the character of Jesus Christ. God has used our relationships with each other to deepen our understanding of and intimacy with him. We have come to believe that we cannot fully experience the breadth and depth of the purpose-driven life outside of loving relationships in the family of God (Ephesians 2:19–22; 4:11–13).
Doing life together was God’s plan from the beginning of time. From the relationships of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit in the Trinity, to the twelve apostles, to the early house churches, and even Jesus’ final words in the Great Commission (Matthew 28:16–20)—all share the pattern of life together. God longs to connect all of his children in loving relationships that cultivate the five biblical purposes of the church deep within their hearts. With this goal in mind, we have created the DOING LIFE TOGETHER series—the first purpose-driven small group series.
The series is designed to walk you and your group down a path, six weeks at a time over the course of a year, to help you do the purpose-driven life together. There are six study guides in this series. You can study them individually, or you can follow the one-year path through the six studies. Beginning Life Together offers a six-week overview of the purpose-driven life. The other five guides (Connecting with God’s Family, Growing to Be Like Christ, Developing Your SHAPE to Serve Others, Sharing Your Life Mission Every Day, and Surrendering Your Life for God’s Pleasure) each explore one of the five purposes of the church more deeply.
In his book The Purpose-Driven Life, Rick Warren invites you to commit to live a purpose-driven life every day. The DOING LIFE TOGETHER series was designed to help you live this purpose-driven life through being part of a purpose-driven small group. A purpose-driven group doesn’t simply connect people in community or grow people through Bible study. These groups seek to help each member balance all five biblical purposes of the church. The fivefold purpose of a healthy group parallels the fivefold purpose of the church.
Designed for Service
When a medieval craftsman wanted to prove himself worthy of the rank of master, he set about creating a piece that would display his full artistry. He poured all of his skill and passion into it, for it was his duty to shape common materials into a supreme example of his craft. If his guild accepted it, this work was called his masterpiece.
You are God’s masterpiece. He created you to express his genius. You express it in who you are when you’re not doing anything, yet you’re not just a museum piece. You were made to do things only you can do. God has equipped you with spiritual gifts, abilities, experiences, temperament, and a heart like no one else’s. You are irreplaceable.
The world needs you to offer all of who you are in service to God. If you’re sitting on the sidelines of life and watching others serve, the world is diminished. If you’re struggling under a burden of tasks you were never designed for, the world isn’t benefiting from the heart you could offer if you only had the time. God longs to see your service well up from a joyful heart that knows what it was made for. It’s time to start being who you were born to be.
There are several ways to discover and develop your unique design. One is through self-assessments such as the SHAPE process described in this guide. Another is by getting feedback from others, as you’ll do several times in this study. A third and crucial way is to experiment with areas of service. You’ll have a chance to do that as well. Bible study and prayer will find their fruit in action.
Outline of Each Session
Most people desire to live a purpose-driven life, but few people actually achieve this on a consistent basis. That’s why we’ve included elements of the five purposes in every meeting—so that you can live a healthy, balanced spiritual life over time.
When you see the following symbols in this book, you will know that the questions and exercises in that section promote that particular purpose.
CONNECTING WITH GOD’S FAMILY (FELLOWSHIP). The foundation for spiritual growth is an intimate connection with God and his family. The questions in this section will help you get to know the members of your small group so that you’ll begin to feel a sense of belonging. This section is designed to open your time together and provide a fun way to share your personal stories with one another.
GROWING TO BE LIKE CHRIST (DISCIPLESHIP). This is the most exciting portion of each lesson. Each week you’ll study one or two core passages from the Bible. The focus will be on how the truths from God’s Word make a difference in your lives. We will often provide an experiential exercise to enable you not just to talk about the truth but also to experience it in a practical way.
DEVELOPING YOUR SHAPE TO SERVE OTHERS (MINISTRY). Most people want to know how God has uniquely shaped them for ministry and where they can serve in the center of his will. This section will help make that desire a reality. Every week you will be encouraged to take practical steps in developing who God uniquely made you to be in order to serve him and others better.
SHARING YOUR LIFE MISSION EVERY DAY (EVANGELISM). Many people skip over this aspect of the Christian life because it’s scary, relationally awkward, or simply too much work for their busy schedules. We understand, because we have these thoughts as well. But God calls all of us to reach out a hand to people who don’t know him. It’s much easier to take practical, manageable steps that can be integrated naturally into everyday life if you take them together.
SURRENDERING YOUR LIFE FOR GOD’S PLEASURE (WORSHIP). A surrendered heart is what pleases God most. Each small group session will give you a chance to surrender your heart to God and one another in prayer. In addition, you’ll be introduced to several forms of small group worship, including listening to worship CDs, singing together, reading psalms, and participating in Communion. This portion of your meeting will transform your life in ways you never thought possible. If you’re new to praying in a small group,