My Way: An Autobiography
By Paul Anka and David Dalton
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A teen idol of the 1950s who virtually invented the singer/songwriter/heartthrob combination that still tops pop music today, Paul Anka rocketed to fame with a slew of hits-from "Diana" to "Put Your Head on my Shoulder"-that earned him a place touring with the major stars of his era, including Chuck Berry, Jerry Lee Lewis, and Buddy Holly. He wrote Holly's last hit, and just missed joining the rocker on his final, fatal plane flight. Anka also stepped in front of the camera in the teen beach-party movie era, scoring the movies and romancing their starlets, including Annette Funicello.
When the British invasion made his fans swoon for a new style of music-and musician--Anka made sure he wasn't conquered. A rapier-canny businessman and image-builder who took his career into his own hands-just as he had from the very beginning, swiping his mother's car at fourteen to drive himself, underage, to his first gigs in Quebec-Anka toured the world until he could return home in triumph. A charter member of the Rat Pack, he wrote the theme music for The Tonight Show as well as his friend Frank Sinatra's anthem "My Way". By the 1970s, a multi-decade string of pop chart-toppers, including "Puppy Love" and "(You're) Having My Baby", cemented his status as an icon.
My Way is bursting with rich, rollicking stories of the business and the people in Anka's life: Elizabeth Taylor, Dodi Fayed, Tom Jones, Michael Jackson, Adnan Khashoggi, Little Richard, Brooke Shields, Johnny Roselli, Sammy Davis, Jr., Brigitte Bardot, Barnum & Bailey Circus acrobats, and many more. Anka is forthcoming, funny and smart as a whip about the business he's been in for almost six decades. My Way moves from New York to Vegas, from the casino stage to backstages all over the world. It's the most entertaining autobiography of the year.
Paul Anka
PAUL ANKA had his own vocal group by the age of thirteen and released his first single at sixteen. His first million-selling #1 hit, "Diana," made him a star. He was born in Ottawa, Canada, and lives in Southern California.
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My Way - Paul Anka
Introduction
As far back as I can remember, I always wanted to be a gangster. To me, being a gangster was better than being president of the United States.… To me, it meant being somebody in a neighborhood that was full of nobodies. They weren’t like anybody else.… I was the luckiest kid in the world. I could go anywhere. I could do anything. I knew everybody and everybody knew me … I was part of something. And I belonged. I was treated like a grown up. I was living a fantasy.
That’s Henry Hill’s rap at the beginning of Goodfellas, but it might as well have been me—not that I ever wanted to be a gangster, I just wanted to be part of a cool scene. My own fantasy was hanging out with Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, and Sammy Davis Jr. I wanted to be those guys. I wanted to live that life.
Vegas was a kind of adult Magic Kingdom, where everybody goes by the code, there’s lots of money and girls and champagne and great performers, and everybody is impeccably dressed. We were America’s contribution to civilization. Outside of politics and megacorporations, we’re a hedonistic culture that, let’s be serious, is the way we represent ourselves to the world. That was Vegas in the sixties; pure high-gangster style.
It was another world, a dream world, the Sh-Boom Sh-Boom Room where everything is mellow and cool, where life could be a dream, sweetheart. The soft pink glow from the little lamp on your table, hot chicks, champagne on ice. Torch-song paradise. It’s my version of the American Dream: the gold-plated pink Cadillac, the sharkskin suit handmade in Hong Kong, the $300 Italian shoes.
Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, Sammy Davis Jr.—they were little gods in black tie and patent leather shoes. They didn’t talk like other people, they didn’t behave like other people, they didn’t have to play by the rules the way other people had to, the normal day-to-day regulations didn’t apply to them. As Henry Hill says, I mean, they did whatever they wanted. They double-parked in front of a hydrant, and nobody ever gave them a ticket. In summer, when they played cards all night, nobody ever called the cops.
Vegas was the Rat Pack’s Camelot, and Vegas, let’s face it, was a hell of a lot more fun than Camelot. That’s why JFK hung out with Sinatra at the Sands. To a lot of us teen idols Sinatra was a god—he was revered and respected. Then this new revolution started happening—funny music
he called it—in other words, rock ’n’ roll. But Sinatra was such a legend, he’d been a big star since the ’40s—so it didn’t really affect him the way it did other crooners. In a way, rock ’n’ roll enshrined him. We all looked up to this Sinatra Rat Pack because in the beginning that’s all there was—that and us.
Eventually Frank and the rest of the Rat Pack adopted me. I got little jewels of wisdom about performing and behavior from them. From watching the rehearsals in the Copa Room in the Sands Hotel I learned about style, and an insider’s insights about how to present yourself on stage. It was like going to the college of cool. Frank was a perfectionist in everything he did and I guess that I’m that way, too.
There were the spectacular showgirl acts called production shows at the Stardust, the Lido, and the Copa Room. The showgirls would often open the show at the Copa sands. Shirley Ornstein (who later came to play a small part in my life) was an eighteen-year-old Copa showgirl until she caught the eye of Burt Bacharach. Barbara Sinatra, Frank’s last wife, started out as a showgirl at the Copa, too. These shows were big-production numbers with lots of elaborate sets and costumes, the showgirls with their big feathers like erotically plumed birds in skimpy g-strings and long sequin-studded gloves. The orchestra striking up, the curtain is pulled back to reveal a secret world. Then backstage, a little tawdry, cramped, and sweaty with showgirls and performers putting on their makeup, getting their hair done, pressing their clothes, and the support groups hovering: the makeup girl with the powder puff, the costumier with clothes on a hanger, the hairdresser, the agents, the stage manager, the MC. All the stars, all of us had to play for two to four weeks, two shows a night. If you didn’t like it, you didn’t get the job. It was very tough on the voice but nobody cared—anyway you had no choice.
Vegas in those days was the kind of place you never wanted to leave. You wanted to live there forever. That’s the way I felt when I first walked into the Copa Room at the Sands Hotel in 1959. Vegas in the old days was very theatrical. Every night was a spectacle. You’d go from the showroom—packed with out-of-towners there to see the big stars, comedians, and showgirls—into the casino. When the showroom emptied, all the people poured out into the casinos. It was not uncommon to see Dean, Sinatra, and Sammy taking over from the dealers and handing out cards to the guests, visiting stars from L.A., high rollers, and so on. There weren’t tourists in Vegas in those days the way there are today—it was an exclusive, elite group of people and the gaming areas were small.
You’d see some movie star look at his cards and say, Hit me,
but Frank or Dean would tell them, Aw, in your position? You don’t wanna hit.
There was that kind of playfulness going on. We’d deal a table, give them winners—there was a lot of frolicking about it. It was loose and had its own cinematic kind of touch to it. It was the place to be. The people were elegant, and there were real movie stars there, European royalty, and then Kennedy and other politicians would secretly come in. You knew you were on this happening roll. It was the only place in the country with something like that going on. It’s not like today with the boy bands and the generic yeah-yeah rock groups. It was cool, so it was cool to be around it. And elegant—very different from what you see today in Vegas, with the mobs of tourists in madras shorts and trainers.
And then there were the boys
—or whatever you want to call them. They came in all shapes and sizes. In most cases they talked very low key, they were nattily dressed, always wore tailored shirts, expensive suits, and they walked with that kind of authority you would if you owned Las Vegas. The mob had run Vegas since the beginning. The mob-type guys that were running the casinos were everywhere then, but they didn’t look like the gangsters you see in the movies. They were businessmen and behaved like gentlemen—unless you were skimming, pocketing markers, or committing other no-nos. Those were the kind of no-nos that could get your legs broken or your head cracked open—outside the city limits, that is. Who knew how many bodies were buried out there in the desert. Even when Howard Hughes took over he still needed the mob and their guys to operate the casinos.
When the guests had gone to bed a whole unseen underworld emerged. The connected guys would relax, get casual, but be out of the sight of the public. When the showroom emptied the owners would clear, say, twenty tables, create a space, and they’d all sit down and play gin. They’d take off their jackets, loosen their ties, sit there under a little work light playing gin at some ridiculous level, like a dollar a point. You’d play cards all night with the boys, then you’d walk across the street, hang out with another crowd at breakfast. You have to remember there were only five hotels there back then—and beyond the strip just desert and sagebrush.
By and large the mob understood the perception the public had of them, but they were businessmen. You’ve got to remember that once you establish a place like Vegas, you’re not operating out of back rooms in New Jersey or a grungy office in the meat district in New York, dealing with backdoor deliveries of merchandise.
Vegas was a classy place, and these guys believed in dressing up. Everybody dressed. Frank and the boys dressed to the nines. When you ran into connected guys they weren’t these scary characters. They were very gracious; women were magnetically attracted to them. There wasn’t anything they wouldn’t do for you. Comp your room, give you complimentary markers … It was a much looser situation. Whereas today you pay for everything—unless you’re a high roller, then you do get comped and are given all kinds of extravagant gifts like white fur coats and other stuff.
Early in the ’60s, you’d see a classic mob guy like Johnny Roselli in the lounge. I’d sit with him at the bar after my show and he’d say things to me like, Keep your nose clean, Paul, be a gentlemen, blah blah, blah,
giving me advice you’d expect to hear from an uncle of yours at Thanksgiving. Funny, because Handsome Johnny
Roselli was a mobster, connected with the Chicago outfit involved in the CIA plot to assassinate Fidel Castro.
But socially he was a dapper kind of a guy, an essential character on account of his knowledge about what went on at every level. Because of his looks he moved easily in the Hollywood scene in California, and because of his links with the mob they eventually moved him out to Vegas.
Roselli hit Vegas in 1957. He was a very charming and well-dressed guy. We all knew he was monitoring everything for Meyer Lansky and Frank Costello. He helped with the loans with the teamsters—the Riviera Hotel was constructed with their cash. By the mid-1960s Roselli & Co. had already figured out what to do before Howard Hughes arrived and started to buy all the mob casinos—and in most cases he overpaid for them. They were trying to clean up the town, trying to lose the mob image, but Roselli stayed on.
Roselli was a major presence in Vegas until around 1966 when word had it he was extorting from the key casinos and Ralph Lamb the sheriff started looking at him. That led to the confrontation between Lamb and Roselli at a coffee shop. Lamb put Roselli in handcuffs and shoved him into the backseat of a squad car. His decline started at that point. In 1969, he was convicted for rigging a card game in Los Angeles. The rest of the story is public knowledge. In 1976, a fisherman found his body floating in Dumfoundling Bay, Florida, in a 55-gallon steel drum with his legs cut off and a pink washcloth stuffed in his mouth. That is when the mob shipped out their new enforcer from Chicago: Anthony Spilotro—and things started to get really wild, about which more to come later.
I’d be sitting around the Sands, hanging out with all those guys or lounging in the steam room with a whole other pocket of people—Sinatra, Gregory Peck, Don Rickles. Today it’s hard for people to get an idea of how incredible Vegas was in those days, the kind of intensity that existed there. The sense of fashion, the sense of klieg-light visibility the casinos stimulated. You walked in, you were already on stage. You were ready for your close-up every time you went through those doors.
I don’t think there’s ever been anything quite like Vegas in its golden era. Today, Vegas is this huge Disneyland for grown-ups where you get all of this stuff thrown at you: spectacles (with no real heart and soul, none of the real magic of what Vegas was back then), a few square blocks of glitter and glamour like a glitzy oasis in the desert with sand everywhere, and no high-rises. The type of people that run the casinos today are a different kind of animal altogether. Today it’s all corporate, which means lawyers and contracts and fine print.
And eventually, I made it into the innest in crowd there ever was: the Rat Pack. I got to hang around with singers who hung around with gangsters, politicians, movie stars, a who’s-who of people. I got to live the life. It was a high wild life—something I’d only dreamed of back in Ottawa.
One
OTTAWA
Upstairs in our house in Ottawa we had huge storm windows with wooden flaps. Underneath the flaps there were three small holes the size of a silver dollar. You couldn’t just prop open the window or you’d freeze to death, it was so damn cold. I’d jam a pencil through these little holes to hold open the flaps so I could look outside. I used to sit there at my window and the snow would be falling, snowflakes swirling outside in the wind, the windows all frosted—it was so beautiful, with all that magic snow and the whole smell of winter and I was snug and warm in my room. And then, I don’t know why, an unexpected thought would pass through me: I can’t stay here, one day I have to get out of here.
The odd thing was I had a great life—my sister Mariam, my brother Andy, my father Andrew and mother Camy, my relatives, everybody in my family were all close and loving. We weren’t rich, but we were a tight, comfortable, and happy family. But for some reason I felt like an outsider. Everyone I knew was going about their lives and they were happy, focusing on school, on sports, on their friends, on their hobbies. They were content with their lives. On the surface I did all the things other kids did at school. But I loved hockey the most. I loved hockey. I drew, made model airplanes, had a stamp collection. I was very athletic and I was always very busy; I would go out as much as I could. But at some point it became claustrophobic. Something was missing and I didn’t know what it was.
Everybody loves the idea of small town life, happy families, people sitting on their porches in the evening, neighbors strolling past and chatting—like in the movie, It’s a Wonderful Life. But then there are the exceptions, and I was one of the exceptions.
There was no media blitz like there is today, no twenty-four-hour news cycle or hundreds of channels. In 1954, for instance, there was maybe six hours of television a day. This was before the version of American Bandstand that featured Dick Clark. He didn’t come on the scene until 1956. And we’re not even in the USA, we’re in Canada! The only word to describe that was provincial.
Ottawa was the epitome of provincial. All I knew was I had this thing inside me—there really wasn’t any model for me to follow like today with talent shows and American Idol. However you’d describe what motivated me, I felt like the first kid in the world to try and do it.
People in show business come from all kinds of backgrounds; quite a few come out of poverty-stricken or dysfunctional families. If you’re from an abusive family where your parents are always fighting and they beat you and there’s no money or your parents are drug addicts, of course you want to get away from that. But that wasn’t the case with me. When I had these thoughts about leaving, I’d ask myself, Why are you doing this? What is your problem?
I didn’t know.
When I was twelve, I had all the energy and desire in the world but I had no idea what I was doing. I didn’t know if I wanted to be a lawyer, join the circus, discover a miracle vaccine, or be in show business. I don’t know where my drive came from, but from an early age I felt I had something inside of me that needed to be expressed. Many people grow up believing they’re talented at something, that they have a gift—but it’s not just being good at something that makes the difference, it’s the urge to be the best at it. I could never pinpoint where that came from, but I know I always had it. It was just so far out of most people’s range of thinking that it was scary, this desire to embark on some out-of-control journey.
For me it was never the unknown that was scary—it was the predictable. That’s what I found oppressive. Ottawa was a small town—relatively speaking—and in any case it had the same conventional, old-fashioned values as any little town would have, and like all small towns it had small expectations. You were expected to grow up and take over the family business. It was assumed, for instance, that I’d go on to run my dad’s restaurant—that’s what people thought was a good thing back then. Today anything is possible. There are so many alternatives that kids can dream about—you want to be a sportscaster, you want to be a Web designer, a venture capitalist. Ambitions of that sort didn’t exist back then except in rare instances. Expectations were limited; there were fewer things to aspire to. The big difference today is that kids walk around saying, I want to be famous.
As a kid in those days you might daydream about being a famous baseball player or a movie star, but nobody took these fantasies too seriously. My ambition was particularly odd given the time and place I came from. Now everybody wants to be famous, but they don’t necessarily know what they want to be famous for.
They did a survey of kids in England about what they expected to do in life. They were asked, What do you want to be when you grow up? Many just said,
I want to be famous." Fame has become an end in itself, unattached to any achievement. It was different back when I was growing up. One kid wanted to play hockey, another wanted to be a football player; my friend from school wanted to be a ski champion. As soon as I figured it out, I knew what I wanted to be: a writer. That’s what I aspired to. I wanted to write—I had no idea what that might lead to, but somehow I knew I had an aptitude for it. Whatever being a writer entailed or how you became one were still a complete mystery but that didn’t faze me one bit.
Throughout my childhood, I ran into the occasional racial taunt from my classmates. Because of my swarthy Middle-Eastern complexion, they called me the black Syrian.
While this was painful and humiliating, in one way it did me a favor: at a young age I became aware of the stupidity of prejudice. I remember one night when my uncle was throwing a drunk out of my father’s restaurant, the guy said, You lousy Jew. I hope the Arabs beat the hell out of all the Jews in Palestine!
When my uncle pointed out that he was an Arab not a Jew, the drunk bellowed, You lousy Arab. I hope the Jews beat the hell out of all the Arabs in Palestine!
They tried to categorize us as part of the black race, as they did the Jews, which is why many of my friends were Jews. We were all lumped together in one package, when in fact we were Lebanese Christians.
Despite problems out there, life in the neighborhood felt safe: we lived in modest homes, life was family-driven, there were always lots of friends around, lots of relatives. It was a friendly, sheltered, suburban neighborhood. My cousins and our families were very close. I’d go over to Aunt Jessie’s or Uncle Mike’s, and all the children that went with it: eleven on my father’s side and five on my mother’s, so there was a constant rotation every weekend. Merriment, food, partying—just very close-knit families.
I was a wildly lively child. I was all over the place.
My father was the first of the brothers to own his own home and so all the brothers and sisters from all the families would congregate there on the weekends. Altogether it was a huge family with his sisters, some fourteen kids—two of the babies tragically died falling into a tub of boiling water so then there were twelve, but still the house was absolutely teeming with relatives. With me on the dining room table singing away. My father’s youngest brothers loved me. One would stand at the top of the staircase and the other at the bottom and they’d throw me up and down the stairs with great hilarity and to my mother’s horror. And I’ve stayed close to people in my family. To this day I’ve stayed close to my cousins Donny Abraham and Bob Anka. They’ve all been in and out of my life throughout my career. In fact I took my first trip to Paris on December 3, 1958, with Bob Anka, and that was a pretty interesting experience to say the least. My cousin Bob Skaff was one of my dearest friends all the way from the 1960s to the ’90s, in my earlier years traveling with me and doing promotional work. He was so helpful to me through his support and loyalty and in promoting my records over many, many years, until his death in 2012.
Ottawa was a small government town, somewhat conservative, but beautiful, even idyllic, from the fairy-tale tower of the House of Commons building to the dappled, leafy streets with the whir of kids on bikes and the ice-cream truck. It was a wonderful place to grow up. Life was pleasant, uneventful, and predictable, which is why I eventually left.
Ottawa for me was pure innocence. We would run water onto the lawn and freeze the backyard, and I’d play hockey on it. I had my chickens and my dogs. There were strawberry bushes all around the yard, which I tended. I would get as many apples off the trees in the neighborhood as I could being chased by dogs down the laneway that separated the yards. To this day I love apples.
I was born Paul Albert Anka in Ottawa on July 30, 1941. My parents were of Lebanese Christian descent and the name Anka itself had an almost folkloric history attached to it. It means noose
in Arabic, and it came about in this way: In a small town in Syria called Bab Touma—where my ancestors came from—a man raped a young girl of thirteen. The parents of the girl were distraught to the point of madness, but the man had powerful friends and no one would bring him to justice. My grandfather and his brother took the matter into their own hands. They caught the rapist, made a noose from a length of rope, and hung him from a tree. Eventually my grandparents immigrated to Canada to escape revenge from the man’s clan. The immigration officer asked them what their name was. Not understanding the question they began to tell the story and during their explanation the story of the noose came up. The official heard the word anka
and that became our surname.
When I came into my parents’ lives, they ran the Victoria Coffee Shop near the House of Commons building. That’s how I got my middle name, Albert, from Prince Albert who was Queen Victoria’s consort. We lived above the coffee shop until I was three or four. Then we moved to Bayswater Avenue, which was a much higher-end area.
As a child I sang in the St. Elijah Syrian Antiochian Orthodox Church choir where I got to know the choirmaster Frederick Karam, with whom I would study music theory later on.
I’ve always been an irrepressible ham. I remember going up to my grandmother’s and just acting stuff out. If I’d seen a Gene Kelly movie, I’d go and act out the whole thing for her, running around the living room, jumping on the chairs and singing. She was a sweet old gal, a very good-hearted woman, and later on somehow always knew when I needed money to buy records. She’d give me a couple of bucks after every living room performance. Maybe my businesslike approach to music started there because I was so comfortable with her, she was so indulgent of me—and I always got rewarded for my antics. She had to suffer through all my early amateur-hour performances—but she always made me feel as if I were giving her a great gift. Although sometimes I went too far, like banging out rhythms with a fork on her best china. She’d yell, Paul, will you stop that! I don’t wanna hear that racket!
I was a big music fan from a very young age. I loved music—every type of music. As a kid, I remember listening to a lot of different kinds of stuff, but I guess the first song that really hit me big was the Five Satins’ 1956 doo-wop hit In the Still of the Night.
I used to play it constantly and get all my friends to sing along with me.
But my career as a shameless ham began long before that. At age ten I discovered I could make people laugh by singing and sobbing like Johnnie Ray. I was always performing: after we’d seen a show, after dinner, on vacation, in the backseat of the car. I’d serenade the neighbors from my back-porch stage, singing for housewives hanging out the wash in their backyards.
It was probably around the age of twelve that I got seriously smitten with the idea that I myself might get involved in the music business. Music soon became an obsession with me; I was drawn to it like a bug to a bright light.
When I found out that I had a voice, that I could carry I tune, I started out in the great American tradition of impersonating contemporary stars, crooning idols like Perry Como, Frankie Laine, Sinatra, and Elvis Presley in his ballad mode.
I remember in 1956 the big kick was color television—Pat Boone was all over the place as well as Elvis Presley. Don’t Be Cruel,
Hound Dog,
and Love Me Tender
were the songs I was singing. Guy Mitchell doing Singing the Blues,
Frankie Lymon’s Why Do Fools Fall in Love
—that is the stuff that I was listening to, along with Chuck Berry, Fats Domino, and that crowd.
Different people, singing different styles, from Presley to country to rhythm and blues to doo-wop groups—it all fed into my brain. After doing that for a couple of years, I absorbed these styles and either subliminally or consciously incorporated them into my own. Once I started finding my way around the piano, what came out was not so much a copy of any one of them as a blend of all of them—which eventually turned into my own style. I think I acquired my vocal chops first, and then once my writing developed I could say, Okay, here’s my stamp. Here’s the best I can do with that.
It was a case of constantly evolving, week by week, picking up whatever was happening, listening to the radio and generally being the prototypical fan, studying songs and imitating performers whenever I could.
When early rock ’n’ roll came along I could do that easy. I was very influenced and a big fan of all the music that was happening. Bill Haley and His Comets with Rock Around the Clock
—at fourteen I could imitate them, no problem. I sang the songs of Fats Domino, Bo Diddley, Pat Boone, and Perry Como. When rhythm and blues groups were the rage I could do them, too. Then along came the white R&B emulators like The Crew-Cuts and The Four Aces and The Rover Boys. Pat Boone would copy Little Richard, and there were other groups copying Little Willie John, The Moonglows, and so on.
I began to think, Wow, what if I could perform covers of these songs; that would be cool! Next thought:
I should start a group!" I ran into a couple of kids from Fisher Park High School who sang—Gerry Barbeau and Ray Carriere—and we’d sit in my basement, learn the latest songs, and harmonize together. At that point we formed a vocal group called the Bobby Soxers. We’d hitchhike back and forth to colleges in twenty-below weather for twenty or thirty bucks. Then we got a gig in a traveling fair in the summer. Every city in Canada had one, with Ferris wheels and hot-dog stands. There was a big fair that summer of 1956, George Hamid’s World of Mirth Fair, with rides, shoot-the-balloons, corn on the cob, and cotton candy.
The fair traveled with a woman named Dixie Allen, who was partners with Hamid, the guy who owned the outfit, and she ran a cabaret as part of the fair called Club 18. It was in the midway, right next to the sideshow with all the freaks. Perfect! Club 18 was an attraction where they had exotic dancers
—in other words, scantily dressed girls with pasties on their nipples wiggling suggestively, but in between, while the girls changed, they’d either have a musical act or a comedian. I talked Dixie Allen into hiring us. I told her we had this group the Bobby Soxers. Why don’t you let us do all the current hits between the dancers? We’ll be great!
They gave us the job ’cause we were local kids. We did songs like Happy Baby
by Bill Haley and His Comets, which was on the B-side of Dim, Dim the Lights (I Want Some Atmosphere),
Down by the Riverside
by The Four Lads, and Young Love
by Sonny James. I used to do some Hank Williams stuff, too, like Your Cheatin’ Heart
and Jambalaya.
I’ve always liked country music. I think it’s the purest form of American music: great stories, very honest and basic. And when we weren’t performing I’d go sit on a crate and peel potatoes and onions to make a little extra pocket money.
That’s where I got my first chops: going on between exotic dancers. We were all too young to go into the main part of the club itself so I couldn’t flirt with the dancers. I used to hang out in the dressing room and dig holes in the walls with the pocket knife I carried around with me so I could ogle the girls getting undressed in their changing room. That was my cheap thrills at the amusement park.
We were pulling down $35 for the week’s work—which seemed like a fortune to us in those days. Then George Hamid forgot about me until I was proposed as the headline attraction at Hamid’s Steel Pier in Atlantic City a few years later in 1960. The price my manager Irvin Feld quoted to him was $3,500. Hamid exploded. What do you mean $3,500? I had this guy for $35 with two other kids thrown in.
Other than my wild dreams of fame, I was a fairly average Ottawa kid. As a teenager I was smaller than my classmates and overweight. I went to Fisher Park High School, and even though I played on the local hockey team, I knew by age fourteen that I wasn’t going to go any further. Unlike my uncles, Louie and Johnny, who continued to play hockey, I became a cheerleader. I was an avid hockey fan—still am. Later on, after I’d had a few hits I’d get to go out on the ice with all the hockey players in Detroit to do the warm-ups—Gordie Howe, Sid Abel, and those guys. Gordie Howe was with the Detroit Red Wings; he was Wayne Gretzky’s idol. Up in Montreal I hung out with Wayne and his girlfriend before it all hit for him. I’ve got the pictures! I saw him go through his whole transition from local hero to international idol. I still see him from time to time. I love hockey, it’s a far more interesting game than football. With football, there’s basically only twelve minutes of action when you clock it, out of the whole game. With hockey, these guys are on the move every minute—they have to be, they’re on skates! Hockey became such a passion for me that ultimately I got involved in buying the Ottawa Senators. But I obviously wasn’t cut out to be a hockey player.
Hockey players from the East Coast used to go to Lake Tahoe to practice, and one time in the ’70s while I was working at Harrah’s—Bill Harrah’s place, big gaming mogul, up in Lake Tahoe—I got a call from the bellman saying, I have members of a hockey team in the lobby, and they want to talk to you.
How many?
Forty people.
Who?
Turned out to be the Montreal Canadiens. They did all their practicing up in Lake Tahoe, while on the West Coast run of games. I got them all tickets and brought them to the show.
Initially I thought I’d pursue a career in journalism and from ages thirteen thru fifteen, took typing and studied English literature. I ran around and did odd errands at the Ottawa Citizen, wrote some short stories, and won some awards for my poems and stories in school. My next plan was to lift lines from Shakespeare and make them into song lyrics. All this sounds industrious and precocious but I wasn’t exactly a model citizen, not at all. I had my share of run-ins; you know, tearing down lilac trees, running away from home. My dad was the disciplinarian of the family—not that it did him that much good. I was headstrong and hell-bent on following my own crazy schemes. But I could always count on Mom—she was always there to make excuses for me when I’d do something wild.
Dad worked long hours at his restaurant, the Locanda, until midnight or one o’clock in the morning—that’s life in the restaurant business—so Mom was the core of the family. She spent endless hours with me and encouraged even my wildest daydreams. If my dad was the practical, sensible one—Paul, you’re going to need to get a real job, you need to start thinking about creating a foundation for your career
—my mom was the one who believed in my fantasies, however far-fetched they seemed. She understood that the more unlikely your dreams are the more fiercely you have to pursue them. The idea of becoming a pop singer back in the mid-fifties was a truly fantastic thing to aspire to—it was literally like building a castle on air. A singer was a voice on the radio, on a record. Who knew how it even got there—and singers in clubs, where did they come from? What did they tell their parents?
My mom was the one who knew how much I loved music and understood that my dreams were my most valuable asset. My dad was far more cautious. He mostly heard my stories secondhand, and naturally was skeptical about my outlandish ambitions. You have to remember the era we’re talking about. In the mid-fifties, even the thought of making a career in pop music was a very long shot. Today every other kid wants to be a rock star; back then it was pure fantasy. There was no precedent for it. Today with hugely popular shows like American Idol and The Voice, parents start grooming their kids at three to be performers. There are courses in producing, engineering records—you can even take a course in how to be a road manager. Who even knew these things existed? Now parents see the money, the celebrity involved, and even if becoming a pop star is as remote a possibility as winning the lottery, parents take the possibility seriously. The thought that their kid might get the chance to become famous, get a record contract, be a star, and be rich and famous is worth all the risk. As it was, pop music barely existed back then and as a career it was a pure cloud cuckooland. My dad’s attitude was pretty typical, more like You’ve gotta be kidding!
My dad came around eventually. What else could he do? He saw nothing could stop me—not reason, not common sense, not fear of the poorhouse. He started letting me go to see shows, even letting me bring performers back from the clubs or he’d cook a meal for them at his restaurant. Even then I’m sure he was still very dubious; he probably thought it was a phase I was going through and that I’d grow out of it. But whatever they thought, both my parents could see I had the personality of a performer. And then they saw me starting to write songs, although they didn’t quite know what all that meant, either. As time went on, they felt, We gotta get him to somebody who knows about this stuff. We have to find out what to do with him ’cause he’s driving us nuts.
Out in the world, Dad was a very even-keeled kind of guy. He would always take the high road, always very diplomatic, to the point where people in Ottawa wanted him to run for mayor. Everybody loved Andy, everyone went to him for advice about business, social issues. He was just very methodical and stable; maybe I got a little of that from him. Just a little—but enough to save me from going crazy when fame and money could easily have gone to my head in my early days. His level-headedness was just the right ballast to offset my wild impetuous side.
My mother worked at Sears Roebuck, so she had her own money and out of that paid for my piano lessons and gave me money to buy my records. My father, of course, was taking care of the restaurant ’til all hours. We were a modest family, but as we prospered we moved from downtown above a coffee shop that my dad owned when I was a baby to a house on Bayswater Avenue, then ultimately out to Clearview Avenue, where I had a piano in the basement.
As a kid I had a bunch of different jobs. I was a caddy, I worked at my dad’s restaurant in the kitchen, peeled potatoes, carrots, stuff like that, and I had a paper route. I was keeping about four, five, six bucks a week. I’d spend a couple of dollars on a movie and popcorn, I’d buy my comic books. You could do a lot with a buck or two in those days. I always was taught that you had to get a job and I realized early in life that work was important.
By thirteen, I’d become a regular at nightclubs in the Gatineau region across the Ottawa River in Quebec. You could buy booze there. There was nothing like that on the Ontario side. Montreal was the cultural capital of Quebec—it was a sophisticated town compared to Ottawa or Toronto. Montreal was the closest thing to an urbane European city on the North American continent. It was the Paris of North America.
I was underage and wasn’t allowed in the main part of the Gatineau club, so I’d go up and hide in the light booth. From there I could look down and catch the different acts. I even entered talent contests, anything to further my career. One of the more outrageous things I did was to take my mother’s car without her knowing to a club across the river from Ottawa. I was about fourteen at the time and desperately wanted to get over across the Champlain Bridge to the French side. Over in Quebec there was liquor, the clubs were a bit racier and what have you—which was always more fun, but this particular night I had a very specific reason for going there. I wanted like hell to take part in this contest I knew was going on at the Glenlee Club. I just had to get to that contest; I really needed the prize money: forty or fifty bucks and all you could eat. My mother had an Austin Healey, and knowing this was the key to my making it to the contest. I practiced driving it in the little lane by the house, not letting my mother know what I was up to. I was an odd combination of being reckless and calculating. Even then I was premeditated in my recklessness. I knew she always went to bed early … after she did her crossword puzzle. So I bided my time, and after she drifted off, I snuck into the Austin