Fraud on the Court: One Adoptee's Fight to Reclaim his Identity
By Mike Chalek
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In his startling new memoir, Mike Chalek reveals how the adoption practices of the "Baby Scoop Era" led to his fraudulent placement with an adoptive family that had purchased him for $200 from a well-known baby broker. He delves into the details of his highly charged quest to reunite with his family of origin, and we get a first-hand glimpse into the difficulties faced by many adult adoptees in the US today.
Mike's quest did not end with reunion, however. After obtaining a court-order to unseal his closed adoption record, he set legal precedent by suing to have his fraudulent adoption overturned.
As groundbreaking as his victory was, adoptee rights have not experienced the hoped-for boost he thought might follow. In this book, Mike seeks to set the record straight and tell the story of the one member of the adoption triad whose voice has been broadly ignored to this point: that of the adult adoptee.
Mike Chalek
Mike Chalek worked as a computer modeling expert and system developer in the stock and commodity markets for 30 years. He received numerous awards and national recognition for his efforts, and was featured in publications such as "Forbes" and "The Wall Street Journal." He holds a BS in Engineering and an MS in Electrical Engineering, both from the University of Illinois. He is an advocate for adoptee rights and for legislative reform that gives adoptees access to their original birth certificates. Jessica Gardner is a writer and publishing consultant with a BS in Applied Social Sciences from Colorado State University. She is working towards a master's degree in publishing from George Washington University. This book is her first full-length collaboration.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This was a very interesting read. Mike Chalek's story and identity are clearly presented, and raise some very good issues about bureaucracy, family, and identity. I'd love it if more historical information was included: there's one point where it recommends looking up a mentioned term. I'm more of a history nut than most, though, and I'm sure that more readers appreciate the books focus being narrowed to Chalek's memoirs. I would have loved to see more historical analysis of the changing system, especially as it would provide a platform to examine or critique modern adoption protocols, and cultural perceptions.I picked this book up because of a different adoption case I'd seen recently that stuck in my head, in which the adoption had commenced against the birth father's without the father's knowledge, and against his wishes, and upon the fraud being discovered, the adoptive family had refused to return the child, even when legally ordered to. This is plainly an issue that continues to affect people, even though the systems that overlooked Chalek's forced adoption aren't present.I have some minor quibbles with the writing style, and a spot where the narrative breaks to provide several mini-chapters about other people in the series of events, but this is overall very well written, very touching, and very thoughtful.You can expect a bit of an emotional roller coaster. The writing itself is almost distant, and certainly does not hammer home the melodrama inherent in Chalek's recollections. But the clarity of the abuse he suffered, and his feelings of alienation are hard to sit through. I can identify it a bit, as someone who has known some survivors very well. My wife is, though not adopted, someone who has dealt with many similar bureaucratic issues and hardship, as a result of removing herself from an abusive situation. Our society's social nets definitely presume that there's a family net above them, one that people like Chalek will continue to fall through, without honest discussion. You might not think to look for those blind spots, unless you knew what you were looking for. Hopefully some day we'll gain the cultural maturity to address them. Books like this are a starting point, an opportunity to expand your own ideas of family and identity, and to look at those around you differently.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Interesting story. Like some other reviewers here, I wish he had expounded more and given a fuller picture of these problems in society. I'm not that familiar with the topic, but I found myself wondering if this is really a good example of all adoption cases or if this was unfortunately one man's experience? Hard to say. The writing sophomoric at times which was a bit of a turnoff for me. I find more credibility in fine crafted prose, but that could just be a personal reaction on my part. -KA
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mike Chalek's book is an attempt to describe the frustrations of trying to uncover the truth when the legal system seems to be stacked against you. Adopted as an infant under questionable circumstances, Mr. Chalek describes how he doggedly pursued lead after lead until he finally discovered just how irresponsibly some adoptions have been handled.The book is a little uneven, and does not make much effort to discuss the role legitimate adoption plays in society, how many adoptees live complete, productive and successful lives without needing to find their birth parents, and how the law has changed to prevent cases like his from happening - including setting up machinery that can enable an adoptee to find the birth parents - if the birth parents want to be found. In this last regard, Mr. Chalek perhaps becomes too concerned with his own case, and not sensitive to the situations of others. He no doubt had a terrible childhood, but he could advocate on behalf of adopted children - he misses the chance.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I don't know what it's like to not know my birth parents. And while reading Fraud on the Court, it occurred to me that I took that gift for granted.First of all, I commend Mike Chalek for having the presence of mind, at such a young age no less, to learn, grow and eventually escape his toxic childhood home. Not many would be ready for adulthood after what Chalek experienced, and he survived relatively unscathed except for a deep longing to know his biological mother and father. This was more than just a case of an adoptee mismatched with unsuitable parents. Mike grew up in an physically and emotionally abusive household, and that he apparently went on to live a normal life is a happy ending all by itself.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Despite the occasional sentence fragment, I was impressed with this book. Mike Chalek was adopted by parents who abused and neglected him. After leaving their home as a teenager he began a long, drawn-out search for his birth parents. What he discovered was a web lies, deceit and governmental incompetence which allowed him to successfully petition to open his birth records and later to have his adoption legally reversed. The story is told unsentimentally and Chalek is open about the fact that his relationship with his birth family was far from perfect. The book forced me to review my own ideas on closed adoption. The case study it presents shows all of the ways that the adoption process is easily corrupted by the very people who should protect it. Closed adoption makes the investigation and oversight of the process extremely difficult and it should probably be abolished.
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Fraud on the Court - Mike Chalek
Fraud on the Court
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Table of Contents
Dedication
Preface
Terminology
Prologue
Chapter 1
Chapter 2
Chapter 3
Chapter 4
Chapter 5
Chapter 6
Chapter 7
Chapter 8
Epilogue
We wish to dedicate this book to the following individuals, who made this story possible:
To Josette P. Marquess, MSW Coordinator, Florida Adoption Reunion Registry Florida Department of Children and Families - An unusual individual who went to great lengths to do the right thing.
To Mallory E. Horne, a very prominent Florida politician who stood beside me throughout this emotional and legal journey and wasn't afraid to receive an adverse ruling from the courts. I enjoyed the ride and I will miss you.
To Virginia Snyder, private investigator extraordinaire, who tells things as they really are and who has inspired me to pursue my quest for truth.
To Judge Robert P. Cates of Alachua County who made that quantum leap forward to unseal my closed adoption record.
To my missing baby sister, Carol Jean, whom I have never met. One day I hope to solve that mystery as well.
And finally to my mother, Winnie Faye, whom I will never forget despite the brief time that I spent with her.
~Mike
-AND-
For my family, who gave every spare moment toward making sure I was free to complete this work. And for Larry and Denise, the birth parents of my own adopted children. I hope that from your vantage points in heaven you can see what incredible young men they have all become.
~Jessica
Preface
What a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive.
I have been a prime example of this truism for just about all of my life, something I began to realize at the age of 11. My story involves one of the most well-documented adoption fraud cases that existed in Florida in the early 1950's. There are so many more stories, though, than just mine.
In today's terms the practice of baby selling is known as human trafficking
. In those days known as the Baby Scoop Era, young single women who found themselves pregnant were routinely coerced into giving up their children and frequently encouraged to use fictitious names in doing so. Even when the adoptions were completed legally, the practice of sealing up the records and the original birth certificate was standard. No one, not the doctors, baby brokers, adoptive parents or even state legislators, considered that the baby being sold would not remain an infant, that the child would become an adult with a primal desire to know his or her biological origins.
In my own long quest for the truth, it was in 1995 that a series of unusual events began which involved several prominent individuals in the Florida adoption and legal/judicial circles. These events enabled my twisted story to fully rear its ugly head and to eventually be cut off at the neck. My adoption was reversed, and a sort of justice was granted.
Some of the Florida courts were compromised upon a close examination of their past decisions and their dignity was clearly at stake, but we all should be held accountable for what we do, regardless of our elected positions. I am grateful for that accountability, and it is true in my case that the truth shall set you free.
In my quest to find my identity I was able to achieve that extraordinary freedom that comes with mental closure. I felt that this book should have been written then, at the time of the final ruling, but I just wasn't ready for it and the timing in the universe wasn't there. Instead, in 1999 I created a web site at www.adoption-fraud.com depicting the facts of my case with the hope that I would be helping others who were dealing with similar circumstances.
Over the last ten years I have received thousands of emails from adoptees and birth mothers informing me of their difficult plights in wanting to find one another. I was only able to really help a small few of them. But I learned that I was not alone in my experience of a primal need to know who I am biologically and where I fit into the human genealogical tree. It is my belief, as well as that of many others in the adoption triad, that it is not a natural thing for a child to be separated from the first mother. That bond, hidden though it may be, was never meant to be severed for a lifetime. This does not mean that real and enduring bonds of family cannot be made with adoptive parents. It simply means that we cannot erase the first family as if it never existed. We may seal up the paper records in a file deep in the bowels of the court, but all the secrecy in the world cannot sever the bonds at the human level.
I used to think that being consumed by the questions of my identity and origins made me an inferior person, even as a child. Questions kept popping into my head. Do I have other siblings who look like me?
Is my birth mother still thinking of me?
and Why did she give me up?
I could only hold those questions inside of me for many years, with no hope of ever finding out. My adoptive parents would never entertain my need for information and the adoptive mother in particular was unusually cruel when faced with the reality of an adopted child's normal curiousity about his other
family.
This cruelty alone might have provided the emotional steam necessary to drive my investigation for the truth. But there were other forces behind the investigation (besides my own tenacity) that I cannot explain. In other words, the story of my life is so incredible that the casual observer may be overwhelmed by the unlikely sequence of events and the remarkable coincidences that kept things rolling. And yes, truth is stranger than fiction and it always will be.
It took the involvement of powerful individuals within the State of Florida to fully expose the fraudulence of my case and to make the groundbreaking legal decisions possible. I am grateful to have met Mallory Horne, a well known and highly connected lawyer who was once the Florida Speaker of the House and President of the Florida Senate. If he didn't have a story to tell of his own involving a fraudulent federal investigation that nearly destroyed his career, he probably wouldn't have taken my case. He did take it though, after much persuasion, and we became close friends for the next 10 years until his death in April 2009.
Also of critical importance in my investigation was a wonderful woman named Josette Marquess. Ms. Marquess headed up the adoption reunion registry in Tallahassee and was responsible for revealing non identifying facts to anyone requesting information related to their closed adoption records. She provided me with a five page letter in 1995 detailing some of the extraordinary events surrounding my adoption. In December 1998, I eventually received my 108 page closed adoption record after I filed a pro-se petition to unseal, based on a claim of Fraud on the Court
, using that original five page letter as my sole supporting evidence.
And it was Virginia Snyder, a private investigator in Delray Beach Florida, who inspired me to file that motion to unseal and told me that I was holding the smoking gun. If you ever saw the TV series Murder, She Wrote, then you may have a good picture of Virginia. The chronicles in that show mirrored many of her real-life cases. Gumshoe Granny
(as she is affectionately known) has made many television appearances throughout the years, including on the David Letterman Show. She is still alive today and is 92 years young.
Aside from my own case, I have noticed that the adoption reform movement has gained momentum over the years in a quest to recognize the rights of adoptees nationwide. After all, adoption affects 1 out of every 4 Americans. That is a percentage of the population too large to ignore. For many adoptees, the sealing of our original birth certificates and our adoption files could be called our own Roswell Cover Up,
perpetuated at the hands of the officials that are, or were, in power.
Our stance is that every person has a right to know their origins, and that knowing or not knowing can have an everlasting impact on a person's life. The laws surrounding closed adoptions are a dysfunctional part of America's infrastructure that tear away at the very fabric of a free and democratic society. The courts and legislators need to be better educated, by real members of the adoption triad and not powerful and corrupt special interest lobbyists, so that the modern notion of permanently closed adoptions--and the frequent human trafficking that results--will one day be a tragedy of the past.
Terminology
There is much discussion within the adoption community as to the most appropriate terminology to use when referring to the parents who have given life to a child, but are not the parents who