The Good Patient: A Novel
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Brilliant, acerbic, funny, and relentless, Darien Gilbertson appears to have it all: a successful career, a husband who loves her absolutely, and all the material comforts of a New York life. But Darien is in trouble – on the run from her emotions, and from a past that resurrects itself in acts of self-mutilation she neither understands nor cares to explore. After years of good behavior, Darien is hurting herself again. And this time it's so brutal that her husband, Robert, cannot help but recognize the woman he adores is unraveling before his eyes.
Darien has a history with therapists. She knows exactly what they want – and need – to hear. She has made a game of psychotherapy, spinning outrageous fictions, exposing her doctors' vanities, knowing when to reveal just a little of the truth. When Robert brings her to Dr. Lindholm, she is ready. But in Dr. Lindholm Darien may have met her match: a caring psychiatrist with the patience and skill to see beneath her façade. At once intrigued and resistant, Darien engages Dr. Lindholm in a battle of wits, sure only her pride is at stake. When she stumbles instead upon a buried truth about herself the consequences are devastating, threatening her marriage, her identity, and what she understands about life and love.
Kristin Waterfield Duisberg's The Good Patient is about interiors and exteriors, knowledge and perception, the treachery and triumph of memory. Written in razor-sharp, sparkling prose, it is a story that takes dead aim at a question we all fear: how well do we really know the people we love?
Kristin Waterfield Duisberg
KRISTIN WATERFIELD DUISBERG is a graduate of Bowdoin College and the creative writing program at Boston University. She has worked for J.P. Morgan and Massachusetts General Hospital and currently lives in the Boston suburbs with her husband and two children. The Good Patient is her first book.
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Darien gilbertson is a force to be reckoned with in her professional life. She is successful enough to outshine the big boys. Yet, her personal life is a mess. Despite having a husband who adores her Darien has this insatiable need to self destruct. If she isn't breaking her own bones, she is cutting and burning herself. She has more than come undone. When her husband forces her to seek professional help Darien is quick to accept, thinking she can do what she's always done - outwit the therapist and beat the world of psychiatry at its own game. Little does Darien know she has met her match the moment she sits on Dr. Lindholm's couch. In her own right Dr. Lindholm is a force to be reckoned with. There are times when The Good Patient gets a little extreme, a little over the top but for the most part, I enjoyed Darien's first person account of how she puts herself back together. Filled with wit, sarcasm, humor and humility, I devoured The Good Patient in an afternoon and has been put on my "read again" list.
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The Good Patient - Kristin Waterfield Duisberg
One
Chapter 1
From the inside out, these are my layers: bad, good, bad, good, and now—new—again bad. They attach beneath my skin, nested one inside the other like Matruschka dolls, anchored with a pin through each skull at the top. They ring like a bell, scream and peal, complain, when layers and outsides clash. Beneath the layers, there is nothing: unbounded emptiness like the equation of the universe inverted so that one equals zero.
I was born with just bad, in New York City in August, a twin, half dead, half orphaned. My mother told me the story once, in the hospital, how she’d gone into labor early on a Queens-bound F train, in the dead heat of the Summer of Love. When the first contraction came, a tightened belt beneath her skin, she dropped her purse and grabbed hard on my three-year-old brother’s hand. He screamed, and people crowded in to help; she announced she wasn’t moving, and I likely would have died somewhere between Prospect Park and Far Rockaway if an off-duty EMT hadn’t been there to hustle her off. At Bellevue, the attending obstetrician cut a clean line up the front of her peasant blouse and told her he was going to do the same thing to her stomach: her baby—her babies—were in serious trouble. Both babies were in breech, the one closer to the cervix in extreme distress. The umbilical cord was caught. It was a matter of minutes before one or both of us was dead.
Well, you can imagine my shock,
she had said to me. Her fingers trailed through the air like water. "Your father had left us without a word of where he was, I had your two brothers at home and no job and no money. Babies—zuh, plural? It was the first time I heard the word. I told him I didn’t want you, naturally, in the heat of the moment I didn’t want any of us. I told him just let me die, me and my babies, but by golly you were determined to be born."
By golly, indeed; you might even say, My stars. I pushed my way right past my dead sister, bottom forward, dragging that umbilical cord like a piece of toilet paper stuck to a shoe. Broke my collarbone and tore a hundred-stitch hole in my mother, just to get into the world.
* * *
Hey—check this out. Do you suppose if a hemophiliac cut himself accidentally and didn’t bother to stop the bleeding, it would be considered suicide?
Twenty-eight years later, another dying August New York day, and I’m attempting my own ass-backward introduction to the world once again. This time I’m already at the doctor’s office, however; an imposing mahogany-and-leather suite filled with furniture that looks like it would be at home at the Harvard Club on 44th. Today is my first appointment with Rachel Lindholm, MD. She’s a psychiatrist, and she is late. The source of my question is a pamphlet I’m reading on chronic depression in hemophiliacs. The audience is my husband, Robert, who’s looking awfully uncomfortable for a guy who’s pretty used to sitting on $5,000 couches. I repeat the question—Get it? Bleeding? Hemophiliacs?
—and tickle his thigh with the pamphlet. It’s a joke.
Robert gives me a baffled, uncomprehending glare and doesn’t even glance down at the pamphlet. Have it his way, I suppose, but for my dollar, why not enjoy yourself if you’re going to have to wait? I go back to my reading and think that’s one thing I can add to my short list of advantages psychiatrists hold over psychologists: better waiting-room literature. I should know. I’m a junior account manager for Pharmaceuticals at Boylan & Westwood, which is New York City’s premier public relations company, if you’re willing to believe our collaterals, and plenty of this stuff crosses my desk. I also should know because I’ve spent a goodly portion of my life doling out fifty-minute dollops of my mind to head doctors—PhDs and MSWs, even an EdD, one time. Dr. Lindholm is my fifth. She’s my first psychiatrist, though.
Shall I give it all away, right up front? I’m here to see her because of the splint on my right hand, a hard shell of plastic that protects three broken metacarpals and two dislocated knuckles, which throb dimly even though it’s been two days and a half-dozen schedule four drugs since I hit the bathroom wall. It was a screwup, a momentary indiscretion, a judgment lapse. I admit it, freely and adultly, with full cognitive rationality, and I suppose I’d beat myself up for it if that wouldn’t constitute overkill. But I should have known better than to pop a wall with my right hand, of all things, with bones so fragile and used to this routine they crack like stale cookies. If I had to hurt myself—and it seems, at least in the moment, that I had—I should have done something less ostentatious, like burning my palm on the stove, or tripping in front of a subway. Not breaking my hand again. Not something so token, so recidivist.
Out on the street, a car alarm goes off, and I take a second to rearrange myself on the couch, unfurling the pamphlet across the top of my splint like a sommelier’s towel. Briefly, I think about what’s awaiting me and consider carrying myself into the inner sanctum thus disguised. I can almost laugh at the ridiculousness of it, the sight gag, but the truth is I hate the idea of walking into Dr. Lindholm’s office, any doctor’s office, with malady so obviously declared. Why tip the balance beyond where it inherently starts? For a semester or two in high school, I saw a male therapist, Dr. Zobel, a bald and bearded Freudian, and the very first thing he did at my first session was point his chin my direction. Why don’t you start by telling me what’s wrong with your chest,
he said.
My chest?
I was there for the ever-disappearing Bourbon in the kitchen drawer, a tendency to fuck my brothers’ friends. You mean the size of it? Or lack thereof?
Do you think there’s something wrong with the size of your chest?
I’d looked down to assess—are you kidding me?—and then I saw I was wearing a scoop-necked T-shirt and I was covered in hives, scarlet roses blooming from sternum to clavicle. Panicky heat prickled my throat and my palms went damp. I have a rash.
Ah?
A necklace. From my boyfriend. I’m allergic to electroplate.
After that first hour, I made a point of wearing high-necked shirts to his office and, in the winter, turtlenecks, and while he was quick after five or so visits to point out the change, it made me feel better, as if I had won at least one small victory against myself, and therefore, by association, him. Stupid, treacherous body. It’s forever giving me up like a weepy john in a raid.
Today, I’m wearing a slate blue silk pantsuit, high-collared and wide-sleeved, to give the impression that I just dashed over here from the office. I tried to pick something that would say quietly expensive, suggest that I was an impossibly well-put-together young woman. The purply-blue of the fabric almost matches my fingers, a detail Robert didn’t comment on when he swung by home to pick me up. Instead, he just winced a little and patted my hair, as if that was the one thing on me he could be sure wasn’t about to break. He’s not here because we’re doing marriage counseling or because he thinks I couldn’t make it here on my own (though wouldn’t might be another story), just in case you were wondering. He has taken a few hours away from his still seventy-to-eighty-hours-a-week-after-a-decade job—corporate law, for Adelstein & Kravitz; M&A services at your service—because I have a bad habit of lying, and he is here to make me tell the truth, to this doctor, and to him.
Easier said than done. I’m a terrible liar, impulsive and indiscriminate. I try not to be, but a good lie is just too much fun to resist. The patterns and protocols, the sheer superfluity, extravagant as an Elizabethan dance—
Robert sighs loudly and shoots his left cuff. His thumb rubs the face of his watch a couple of times, then both hands lift and rotate against the orbits of his eyes.
I clear my throat. Time is it?
Four-ten. Four-eleven.
He sighs again.
Sorry about that.
He squeezes my good fingers once, a quick pulse like a farmer’s hand on a cow’s full teat, and half-smiles at a ficus tree across the waiting room. It’s just us and the ficus, the swanky sofa, a pair of club chairs, and a spring water dispenser that emits occasional burps. At the other end of the room, Dr. Lindholm’s receptionist sits with her profile to us, typing industriously away. She is middle-aged, the mother of college students, perhaps; still styling her hair in the Dorothy Hamill she chose when the eldest was born. She has on glasses and brick red lipstick; her back is Miss Porter’s School, I’m-not-listening straight. She yanks a sheet of paper from her typewriter and rolls another in.
So that’s—what? Like, thirty-three bucks, huh?
I tip my head to the side, toward Dr. Lindholm’s door. Think she’ll give us a discount if we complain?
Goddammit,
Robert says quietly. He pulls his hand away and tucks it under his arm. His other hand comes up and clamps itself around his biceps, the naughty fingers that had tried to socialize with mine now locked securely away. The tips peep out from under his armpit, his fingernails reproachful. That’s not funny, they say to me. You’re not one bit funny at all.
Sorry,
I say again.
Robert stares straight ahead.
I’m sorry, Robert.
Not like this has to be such a big, freaking deal.
I refurl my depressed-hemophiliacs pamphlet. Like many other of the ‘silent diseases,’
I read, the emotional effects of hemophilia on adolescent males, in particular, can be invidious.
On the cover, there’s a picture of a neurasthenic young man sitting on a bed, his chin in his palm. He’s wearing a Nirvana T-shirt and a pair of enormously wide-legged jeans with ratty, frayed cuffs, a compromise between grunge and hip-hop circa 1993. He is definitely not some ad company’s stock photo. He is pimply-faced and weak-chinned; his hair has only recently begun corkscrewing into coarse curls. His upper lip is sooted with scraggly growth and for a second I take pity; he needs a lesson from his father. He needs to sneak open the medicine cabinet and squirt the pile of Foamy in his hand, Now where did I see that razor again? One stroke across his cheek, another along the naked boomerang of his jaw … Would a single nick, a dull, crusty blade do the trick?
Briefly, I’m taken back to my earlier question to Robert, my joke. A little of my Nirvana-boy pity comes along for the ride, however, changing something of its shape along the way, and this time the whole thing strikes me as less funny. After all, I never mean to hurt myself, either. My injuries usually evolve from a minor bump or bruise that I nag into a major medical issue. I guess I’ve always thought it was okay to hurt myself because if something really horrible came of it—an amputation, say, or something fatal—I could blame the original, unintended wound: I didn’t do it to myself; it just happened to me. Years ago, when we used to talk about this stuff, Robert told me he would never forgive me if I killed myself, and you wouldn’t think that was the kind of statement that allowed for wiggle room, but I suppose if anything could provide it, unintended injuries might just be the ticket. But it’s no longer a negotiable topic—it hasn’t been for years; bad me, to have brought it up—and so I sit silent and studious, waiting for Dr. Lindholm, and Robert sits locked behind his angry arms. This is the way she finds us.
Darien Gilbertson?
She smiles.
That’s me. I stand up.
Dr. Lindholm’s eyes fall briefly, assessingly, to my blue fingers, and then skip back up to my face. Pleased to meet you. I’m Rachel Lindholm.
A quarter turn. And you must be Robert.
Robert agrees that he is. Shall we?
Dr. Lindholm takes a crab-step in the direction of her office, and Robert and I follow her in.
* * *
So, Darien. Robert.
Dr. Lindholm fixes each of us with a brilliant, competent smile. We take our places on furniture carried over from the Harvard waiting room: Robert and me thigh-to-thigh on a burgundy leather sofa with such a high polish you could probably see your reflection in it; Dr. Lindholm in a gray leather easy chair with one foot tucked up under her, casual-like. Two vanity-sized boxes of tissues mark either end of the coffee table that separates us, his and hers in neutral ecru. Gilbertson? Do I have that right? I look at my notes and I can barely read my own writing.
Dr. Lindholm screws up her forehead and frowns down at a leather portfolio in her lap, turning it to one side and then the other, an Etch-a-Sketch. She shakes her head. Gilbertson. I’m sorry you had to wait.
We both nod mutely, awaiting the explanation. Dr. Lindholm beams at each of us a little more. So, let’s get down to business, then,
she says. Can I get either of you coffee? Coffee? No? Okay.
Her eyes shift meaningfully to my hand. Where should we start?
I measure Dr. Lindholm before launching in; there’s no way this is going to work. Already, I hate this woman too much. Dr. Lindholm is tall and willowy, and Aryan to the extreme: corn silk hair in a chin-length bob, pale blue-gray eyes and skin with an enviable translucence I swear you can see bones and blood vessels through if you catch the light right. She’s dressed in a sage green suit, discreet letter Cs stamped on the buttons, and heels that actually match, Garanimals for the professional set. I look for a run in her stockings, lipstick on her teeth, nothing. She looks like somebody’s wife, a social trophy with a standing date for tea in the Oak Room and a box seat at Lincoln Center. She looks nothing like a doctor to me.
Robert got Dr. Lindholm’s name from a nurse in the emergency room, who said that she was the best for self-mutilation cases. We apparently were lucky to get an appointment so quickly, though lucky wouldn’t exactly be the word for how I feel at the moment. With Dr. Lindholm sitting across from me like some giant bar of Ivory soap, I feel dull and grubby, and suddenly ludicrous in my suit. I’m five foot two and tend toward skinny, pasty-skinned, Elvira-haired; I wear makeup and keep my hair long as much as anything to minimize the chances of being mistaken for a boy. For a second, I shift my gaze to Robert and then back again, mentally pairing the two of them, Robert and Dr. Lindholm, she’s a little old for him, RobertandLindholm, but then again, he’s a little old for me, thirty-five in October. I wonder if he finds her attractive.
As if pondering this possibility himself, Robert leans forward, his elbows on his thighs. We start right here, with this hand,
he says. I think I told you all of this on the phone yesterday, right? We’re here because Darien needs some … needs a whole lot of help. She’s always had this self-destructive streak, but for the most part she’s been okay. We’ve kept it under control.
He pauses and glances quickly at me. But then Monday night she broke her hand while I was at work. Actually broke her own hand, and won’t tell me why. It’s something that she used to do when she was younger, and that’s just—it’s just a big freight train we need to put a stop to right now. I’m scared as hell. I’m really pissed off. And I just—I don’t know what to do.
Good Lord. He makes it sound as if breaking hands was a regular habit of mine, like collecting stamps or Barbie dolls, an extracurricular activity. I wait for Dr. Lindholm’s alarm, but she only nods and says okay. All very reasonable and clear. Thank you,
she tells Robert. That can’t have been easy for you to say. Now,
she turns to me, Darien. What about you? Why do you think you’re here?
"Why do I think I’m here? After five doctors, I have the first visit procedure down and can go through the routine on autopilot, laying out the relevant data points like setting the table for a five-course meal. Anorexia at age ten, bulimia at twelve, alcoholism and sexual promiscuity with the onset of puberty; lying, nightmares, and self-mutilation for as long as I can remember. Everything from the knife rest to the fingerbowl.
I know why I’m here. I’m here because I broke my hand, and because that’s really just emblematic of a whole host of other things that are wrong with me, or that at least have been wrong with me in the past." I throw the last of that out there, eager for her to ask about what those other things might be. Starving, puking, binge drinking, sluttiness, pathological lying—did I mention these before? I don’t mind talking about them.
Dr. Lindholm doesn’t bite. She just nods and waits for me to continue. So I guess I’m here to deal with some of those things before I become the personal target of my insurance company.
When neither she nor Robert as much as smiles, I add, And, of course, because I love my husband, and I know what I did, what I do, is hurting him, and it needs to stop.
Shit. I can hear how insincere, how careless it sounds, even though I mean it. I open my mouth to backpedal. I do love him,
I say again, and when I can’t think of anything further, I join in the silence of the room, punched with tiny, regular holes by the tick-ticking of a pendulum clock set on the wall like Switzerland between Dr. Lindholm’s chair and the couch. I study the diplomas on the far wall and feel her study me. Wellesley College, 1979; Columbia College of Physicians and Surgeons, 1983. It figures. Robert smiles down at the square of carpet braced between his shoes, thumbs at his temples.
I’m glad to hear that,
Dr. Lindholm finally says. That gives us the very best base to work from.
A pause. Whose idea was it for you to come here?
Mine, obviously.
Robert looks up from the floor. As you can see, Darien sometimes has trouble taking things seriously. Hurting herself is about as serious as she gets. She hasn’t done anything in a long time—well, just little, clumsy things, like running into things by accident. By accident?
He turns and looks at me. I shrug. But this thing on Monday really came out of nowhere. It just sounds too much like—
He stops. I just want to know what it is I can do to help. I’m willing to do whatever it takes to make her better. I just need her to tell me the truth.
Acting out is what they used to call it, when I saw my first therapist back in Philadelphia. With Robert here playing the parent role, pushing me to tell Dr. Lindholm what happened, the scene takes on a perverted sense of déjà vu, history revised and improved. Haven’t I sat through this lesson before?
At that first session, at the tenderized age of eleven, my mother hustled me in by the elbow and sat so close to me that I could feel her knee burrowing into my thigh. This is nutty,
she had announced to Dr. Gladys Flynn, combing maroon-tipped fingers through her Ann-Margret bob. I have no idea what we’re doing here, why this is any business of the school’s. Did you know Darien’s teacher said they were going to send Social Services to investigate me if I didn’t bring her here to see you? Not that it’s any of your business, but there’s nothing wrong with her. Girls just go through these phases. Being attractive is important to them.
She shook her helmet of hair, plastic bangles clattering noisily to her wrist. I’m a good mother,
she said. I do the best I can.
Now, as I study the diplomas, try to see if Dr. Lindholm graduated Phi Beta Kappa, wonder if she had to choose between field hockey and tennis for the fall varsity season, I hear her say, Darien, would you be willing to talk a bit about what happened Monday night?
Monday night?
I straighten in my seat. Oh, yeah, sure. Well, I broke my hand, which you know, and I did it by hitting a wall, which you also know. But it was really more an accident than anything else. It pretty much happened by accident.
Robert turns to look at me, incredulous, and I feel my face grow hot at having been so quickly caught. It’s a lie, of course, but what a clumsy, obvious one! A cow patty, a turd of the tongue. I really am out of practice with this therapist crap.
Accident?
Robert and Dr. Lindholm speak in unison.
Okay, so maybe ‘accident’ is pushing it, but it wasn’t exactly deliberate, either. There must be some semantic nuance in between that would cover it. You know, sort of a deliberate accident. Is there a word for that?
Dr. Lindholm shakes her head and says she doesn’t know. It’s an interesting question, isn’t it? Why don’t you just tell me what happened?
"Right, well, it’s just, there’s not that much to tell. I was standing up in the bathtub, shaving my legs, and I lost my balance and fell onto my hand. It hurt, so I was sort of pacing around in the bathroom, waving my hand in the air, trying to kind of shake it out, and when I was shaking it I inadvertently hit the wall. It actually made it feel better, hitting the wall, so when it started to ache again, I hit it again, this time on purpose, but only because when I did it the first time it made it feel better and I figured that maybe something had gotten dislocated or out of place. You know, reducing it, maybe.
Anyway, I guess I hit too hard because that’s when I broke it, just then, on that second hit. As Robert said, I broke my hand a couple of times before when I was younger, so it wasn’t like it took a lot of effort. I think my hand is really just pretty fragile from having gone through that before. There wasn’t much to it at all.
Telling it this way to Dr. Lindholm, I almost believe it myself.
Dr. Lindholm looks at me, not writing. Actually, broken bones tend to knit stronger.
I look back at her. Neither of us blinks. Her eyes are an unreal blue. Like a sled dog’s, husky’s. That’s right, isn’t it?
I finally say. They do. Must be maybe I have osteoporosis.
At any rate.
She glances down at her notepad. We can talk about this more at a later session. Why don’t you tell me a little more about some of the things that have been wrong with you in the past, as I believe you described it.
Robert shifts on the couch, making little protesting noises, but Dr. Lindholm cuts him short. Robert, I think I heard you say earlier that you’re here to help Darien, and pushing her on something she’s not yet ready to talk about isn’t going to help her at all. Now, I know that’s hard on you and I know it doesn’t seem fair, but you’ve come to me for advice and for the time being my advice is to drop it. What we need to do today is establish a baseline, and I know Darien appreciates that you’re here for support in doing so. When Darien is ready to talk about the rest, I’m sure you’ll do so, either in privacy or perhaps back here with me. But unless she has more to say, I think we’re done with the topic for now.
And suddenly I like Dr. Lindholm. She’s my favorite person in the world. I settle in next to my slump-shouldered husband and begin with all the rest. He’s heard this part a thousand times.
* * *
Forty-five minutes later we are back in the waiting room, me conferring with the receptionist from behind my splint and a half-chewed fingernail, Robert bent over his checkbook. I’ve found that most doctors like the first payment up front—which, to the uninitiated, can be even more traumatic than the causal first-time shock of having your soul split open and laid on the table for inspection—though after the initial go-round, waiting for the insurance to come through never seems to be a problem. Maybe they figure after two visits you’re emotionally entrenched and can’t help but return, and you’ll make the money work one way or another, but for me, I have to admit the entrenchment begins the minute I walk through the door and settle in on the couch: today’s burgundy drawing-room number; Dr. Zobel’s naughty black leather; the slip-covered sofabed at Dr. Flynn’s. I’ve never done a Freud-style analysis couch, though, and when I was in college that disappointed me. Whither the crossed ankles, the upturned gaze, the solicitous Mmm-hmms from above? I later came to appreciate the irony of regular, everyday, you-could-buy-it-at-Ethan-Allen couches, and to this minute, there’s something to the notion of sitting arranged like a couple of genteel ladies having cucumber sandwiches while discussing stuff that could get you arrested if it weren’t for patient-doctor privilege that sucks me right in. As long as I don’t think about it too much, therapy is tremendous fun.
I think part of my fix is the sheer pleasure of embarking on a routine, a ritual, and God knows I need something new to do with my time. But the greater part is the unacknowledged pitting of intellects. Today’s session was just the warm-up, and Dr. Lindholm and I both sailed right through. She asked questions and I knocked the answers back; easy lobs, Wiffle-therapy. She nodded and took notes as I spoke.
She impressed me, if only for not latching onto the broken hand business or any other single malady right out of the gate. My junior year in college, at Swarthmore, I spent six futile months with a social worker who pounced on bulimia within half an hour of our first session and clung to that as her focus throughout our entire, useless relationship. It was an issue I was somewhat bored with by then, eight years into the habit and more or less on the wane, but she, so freeze-dried thin that she couldn’t endure a whole hour in her chair without cushions (and even then she would shift, painfully, from one buttock to the other, cupping the resting glute in her hand), managed to drag each discussion back to bingeing and purging with great avidity. She pronounced it byoo-leemia,
like bugle or beauty, and I would counter with buh-leemia,
like button. Our differing ideologies on pronunciation was only one of the things that fated that particular therapy to failure, and eventually I felt bad for her as I came to realize that my issues fell well outside the scope of her interest and experience. When I told Robert about her, years later, he observed that she was well compensated for her ineptitude and discomfort, and this afternoon, despite—or maybe because of—Dr. Lindholm’s early rebuke, Robert’s confidence in this new doctor seemed to grow as she digested each new piece of information with equanimity.
So, I’m sorry,
Robert’s voice comes to me. The co-pay will be twenty-five dollars when?
Sessions five through eight,
Dr. Lindholm’s receptionist replies.
But today it’s ten?
Today, it’s nothing. It will be ten dollars next time, sessions two, three, and four, but today you’re paying it all up front, no co-pay.
The receptionist hands Robert a pink form. You’ll send this to your insurer for reimbursement. Do you have the address?
Umm, somewhere. If you could put your hands on it, though, not too much trouble, that would be great.
Robert smiles encouragingly and the receptionist reaches for a massive Rolodex with color-coded cards. Robert frowns down at the pink claim form in his hands. And what happens if Darien needs to be seen more than eight times?
Robert.
My voice comes out more sharply than I intend, but this is taking far too long, and though I don’t want them to, the events of the last hour, of the last forty-eight hours, are beginning to find their places in my brain. I shake my head, pull on Robert’s hand. I am back at Dr. Flynn’s office again, an undependable, unhinged child, and a voice whispers in my ear: My God, Darien, what are you doing? I can’t do this. I swallow. I just