Lincoln at Home: Two Glimpses of Abraham Lincoln's Family Life
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With a brief account of their first years in the White House and the complete collection of all the known letters exchanged by Abraham and Mary Todd Lincoln, this elegant portrait defines the sixteenth president as a dedicated -- though often a desperately busy and distracted -- family man.
Lincoln at Home is an intimate and rare glimpse of the president as husband and father, a cheerful man pinned to the floor while playing with his children, and a desolate man struck down with grief at the death of his son. Beyond this, we are shown a personal side of the man who managed one of the most difficult periods in American history.
David Herbert Donald
David Herbert Donald is the author of We Are Lincoln Men, Lincoln, which won the prestigious Lincoln Prize and was on the New York Times bestseller list for fourteen weeks, and Lincoln at Home. He has twice won the Pulitzer Prize, for Charles Sumner and the Coming of the Civil War, and for Look Homeward: A Life of Thomas Wolfe. He is the Charles Warren Professor of American History and of American Civilization Emeritus at Harvard University and resides in Lincoln, Massachusetts.
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Lincoln at Home - David Herbert Donald
INTRODUCTION
MOST OF THE VAST LITERATURE about Abraham Lincoln deals with his public life: his 1858 debates with Stephen A. Douglas, his election to the presidency in 1860, his handling of secession and the Fort Sumter crisis, his management of the huge Union war effort, his Emancipation Proclamation, his triumphant reelection in 1864, his plans for Reconstruction, and his tragic assassination. This emphasis is quite proper, but it is important to remember that Lincoln, during these critical events, also led a private life, defined by his intimate relationship with his wife and by his devotion to their children.
This little book offers two glimpses of Lincoln as a family man. The first section describes the Lincolns’ life in the White House during the war years. It originated in a talk I prepared at the request of President George Bush and delivered in the White House on January 7, 1990, as the inaugural lecture in the Presidential Lecture Series. Making it clear that he was in no way trying to restrict my subject matter, the president expressed the hope that I would concentrate on the domestic life of the Lincolns in the White House, in whose history he and Mrs. Bush had such a deep interest.
The assignment could hardly have come at a more opportune moment. I was working on my biography Lincoln and was already trying to learn how the Lincoln family lived and fared in Washington. The extensive private tour of the upstairs living quarters of the White House that President and Mrs. Bush gave me just before the lecture was of inestimable value to me in locating Lincoln, his family, and his staff in the Executive Mansion.
(To digress a little, my interest in the domestic life of the Lincolns was further fueled by the warm and generous response of the audience that President and Mrs. Bush had invited to attend the lecture in the great downstairs dining room in the White House. There, beneath the magnificent Healy portrait of Lincoln, the president introduced me to an audience that included, among many others, Chief Justice and Mrs. William Rehnquist, former Chief Justice Warren Burger, General and Mrs. Colin Powell, Secretary and Mrs. Richard Cheyney, several senators and representatives, some of the leading Lincoln experts and curators, and a number of prominent newspaper and television reporters. Before such an august company my voice was initially a little shaky, but I launched in. Explaining that my topic was not the vast military and political crises of the Lincoln years, but the Lincolns’ domestic life, I borrowed a phrase from Allan Nevins that had always amused me and announced that, on this day at least, my muse would soar close to the ground. I went on to say that I brought no lesson to President Bush, no advice on how to govern or how to solve his domestic or foreign problems. At that point, the President, from his front-row seat, audibly blurted out: Well, he’ll be the first one!
That broke the ice, and from that point the lecture went on smoothly.)
That occasion, followed immediately by a splendid reception and a superb exhibit that Mr. Rex Scouten, curator of the White House, and the White House Historical Association had mounted in the East Room, strengthened my interest in the Lincolns’ family life and led to the compilation of the second part of the present book: a collection of all the known letters exchanged by Abraham and Mary Lincoln and their children. Most of these letters—though not all—have long been available to historians and biographers, but they have been published in a scattered fashion. Lincoln’s letters to his wife and family appear in the nine volumes of his Collected Works, interspersed among letters and messages dealing with all manner of political and legal matters. Mary Lincoln’s letters to her husband and to her oldest son, Robert Todd Lincoln, are published in a large volume containing all her correspondence. Nobody has collected Robert’s letters. By bringing these letters together, I wanted to present a picture of the Lincolns’ domestic life. They offer a portrait of Mrs. Lincoln unmarred by tittletattle and by later gossip, and they show Abraham Lincoln as a devoted, if often desperately busy and distracted, family man.
D.H.D.
THIS DAMNED OLD HOUSE
The Lincolns in the White House
SHORTLY after Abraham Lincoln was inaugurated president in 1861, an old friend from Illinois asked him how he liked living in the Executive Mansion (as the White House was generally called in those days). Lincoln replied that he felt a bit like the reprobate in Springfield who had been tarred and feathered and ridden out of town on a rail. If it wasn’t for the honor of it, he said, he’d much rather have walked.¹ That wry, detached attitude was to serve Lincoln well during his four years in the White House. It was, unfortunately, not an attitude that his wife, Mary Todd Lincoln, could share.
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When the Lincolns moved