Girl Least Likely To: 30 years of fashion, fasting and Fleet Street
By Liz Jones
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Liz grew up in Essex, the youngest of seven children. Her mother was a martyr, her dad so dashing that no other man could ever live up to his pressed and polished standards. Her siblings terrified her, with their Afghan coats, cigarettes, parties, sex and drugs. They made her father shout, and her mother cry.
Liz became an anorexic aged eleven, an illness that continues to blight her life today. She remained a virgin until her thirties, and even then found the wait wasn't really worth it; it was just one more thing to add to her to do list. She was named Columnist of the Year 2012 by the British Society of Magazine Editors, but is still too frightened to answer the phone, too filled with disgust at her own image to glance in the mirror or eat a whole avocado.
She lives alone with her four rescued collies, three horses and seventeen cats. Girl Least Likely Tois the opposite of 'having it all'. It is a life lesson in how NOT to be a woman.
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Girl Least Likely To - Liz Jones
Chapter one
I’M EITHER A PLATE OR A BOY
I remember the first time I knew I wasn’t good enough. My mum had just Vosened my hair – a sort of Davy Jones bob, but nowhere near as shiny – in the kitchen sink. Our kitchen was a narrow cell, with a wall of heavy, scrubbed oak drawers and a teeny fridge in one corner: God only knows how it stored food for seven children and two adults. I suppose there were old Quality Street tins, too, that contained Rich Tea biscs. No dishwasher. No automatic washing machine. My mum did the laundry in a great big tub every Monday, surrounded by soft mountains of linen from eight beds, before squeezing it all through a hand-cranked mangle. There were bluebottles, circling, at all times of the year, due to the battery farm owned by the Littles family next door; we’d buy cracked eggs, as these were cheaper. Mum also bought the ones with thin skins that wobbled. Mrs Little assumed these defective eggs were for Pompey, but they were for us.
I always had my hair washed in this kitchen because there was a single bar electric wall heater, which my mum would put on when Dad wasn’t looking. That day I was laughing, about what I can’t imagine, but, as I did so, leaning over to stop water trickling down into my handmade scratchy plaid pinafore, always worn over a hand-knitted jumper made from wool unravelled from some other wretched garment (no one in my family took their clothes off, if at all possible, given the freezing temperatures, or bought a new, plump ball of wool with its label intact, like a non-festive paper chain), I chipped my two front teeth on the steel of the sink. ‘Oh, Darling,’ my mum said, not thinking to tell me off for mucking about, or to question why I was not being washed in a deep bubble bath full of plastic toys. ‘Oh, dear.’
I ran upstairs: big, broad, dark oak stairs that curved upwards from the Antarctic hallway. There was an old leather sofa in the hall, but no one ever sat on it, which relieved Mum as it was one less thing to plump. The house, a gothic Victorian rectory, was far too cold to ever linger. Pompey always slept at the bottom of the stairs, so you had to step over his big, yellow form (he was a randy sod – his was the first and pretty-damn-near last willy I ever saw: pink, shaped like my mum’s Yardley lipstick). Sometimes he would stagger to his paws just as you were performing this feat, which was awkward for my mum, by then almost crippled with arthritis, as she would momentarily mount him, incongruous, showing her thick darned tights and Marks & Spencer broderie anglaise knickers. Sometimes, Pompey would perform a violent shake head to tail, which my mum would say ‘Almost knocked my teeth out!’ The black Bakelite phone, our number, 3086, Biro’d on its chest, was on a console in the hall, but it never rang. We had a party line. I thought, aged five, that meant it might ring on people’s birthdays. It didn’t.
I went into my parents’ bedroom. It had a little room off one corner, what would once have been the dressing room, which housed Tony, next child up after Sue: a ginger-headed, freckled, bandy-legged brother who decorated what was little more than a cupboard with Man United paraphernalia and blown wild birds’ eggs (the sight of robin’s egg blue still makes me mournful). I went to the bay window, overlooking the always half-mown lawn (my dad kept one half as ‘rough’; I’ve no clue why) and the garden of the Littles (those richer, posher people who lived next door in our divided house – they got the big kitchen; ours was the old scullery – and who would sometimes throw rhubarb over the fence to us for pudding. It once struck me on the head). I sat on the red velvet stool in front of my mum’s dressing table. There were her ivory-backed brushes and a pot that had once been full of face powder but was now empty bar cufflinks and paperclips, a blue china rose as its handle. My mum is the least vain person I have ever encountered. She would make her own dresses – usually floral tea frocks, with buttons down the front, called shirtwaisters. Mum was so self-sacrificing, she always refused anything new for herself and, as she never went anywhere and was so awkward with her hip, a handmade wool skirt seemed adequate. Her only nod to frivolity on a hot Sunday when she’d sit on the wooden bench at the far side of the lawn, which she’d have staggered towards at an extreme angle with a wooden tray of tea, was to remove her stockings. She would never kick off her shoes, as her toenails were deformed by arthritis, like mini hooves. She only occasionally wore make-up – block mascara you had to spit on – but never had the unguents needed to remove it, let alone anything with which to moisturise. ‘It wears off,’ she would say to my dismay; and my dad would touch her cheek, ‘As soft as the day I married her, aren’t you, Mummy?’ And she would giggle like a teen.
The day she returned home having had all her teeth out still looms large in my kaleidoscope of Mummy memories. She looked so different that Pompey failed to recognise her and barked like a maniac, hackles up beneath his silver choke chain. She was still only in her forties but already she was old, stooped, in constant pain. It didn’t occur to me to ask why she had had this done. What about Dad fancying her? It was weeks before she could wear her dentures and, even then, she never bothered with the correct adhesive to keep them in place, or tablets of Steradent, so they soon became brown and ill-fitting, clicking as she talked. It was normal, apparently. Women having their teeth out. She had had so many children, perhaps that took its toll. There was never any discussion, no pleading by any of us, even by Dad, that she should not do it; no question of a cap or a crown, although Dad had one. I’d see it, gold in his head, and wonder about it. He had a wardrobe of rather loud, silver-grey suits from Austin Reed – a bit ‘spivvy’, my maternal gran would say – polished brogues from Church’s, and colourful silk ties from Jermyn Street. At weekends, he was never out of his pressed slacks, Viyella checked shirts and Austin Reed navy blazer, a polka dot cravat at his throat, exactly like the one worn by Cary Grant in To Catch a Thief. This sounds profligate but he wore that blazer for 40 years. The shirts had frayed cuffs. He’d complain about the coal bill but he’d go to the pub most nights. My mum never minded, though: she’d just wait for his return with a tray of cheese and water biscs (surely the ungodliest biscuit ever known to man), warming cocoa for herself. She never asked to go to the pub as well. She probably had too much to do.
I should have learned that love is not about beauty from the way my dad would bow to my mum and click his brogues together, when she spied him mowing the lawn as she shook a duster out the window. But I didn’t. I looked in the mirror on that day with wet hair. Sunlight shone full on my face. I examined my now-broken front teeth. The dressing table had three mirrors: a big oval one in the middle and two narrow panels at each side. I angled the other two mirrors to get a better look at the damage. And I glimpsed my profile for the first time. How other people must see me when I am unawares. I was shocked. I looked again. My face was flat, not like other people’s faces. Not like my big sister Lyn’s, with her perfect upturned nose (a year older than Tony, she had the almond face of Jenny Agutter; her only ambition when she grew up was to be a nurse, marry a doctor and be a mum). Not like Gillian’s or Caroline’s or Penny’s, the girls who lived over the A130 in the council houses on Meadow Road. It was like a soup spoon, or a saucer. I had a pointy chin, ears like a toby jug and, from the side, I could see my face was like the new moon. The man in the moon. I’m either a plate or a boy.
I decided I would never look at my reflection again. And, on the whole, I haven’t.
I was always ashamed to be one of so many children when I started school. Kids would titter and ask if my mum was a Catholic. It seemed dirty, to me, to have so many in a world where sex was never discussed. There were seven of us. Sue, Tony, Lyn and then Nick, a year older again, with Dad’s Roman-nosed profile, big, round face and Jones ears that I have (they stick out and are huge, like France). Obsessed with music from an early age, he was a shy, cross boy with an allergy towards dairy and leading a normal life. A year and a half older is Philip: dark haired, angry. Growing up he was so much older than me, so terrifying in his moods, I rarely spoke to him, nor him me. And finally Clare, who never got over being the oldest and who had already left home and married by the time I was out of babyhood: a fantasist, but in a way that made her an optimist, too. ‘I’m writing a novel,’ she will say, now, when I call her, even though she and I both know she has neither a laptop nor the inclination. Sue was my only playmate, given she was just 18 months older than me. It might sound quite like the Mitford family setup, given the Labrador and the fact we lived in a freezing rectory, but it wasn’t like that at all. The rectory was the only place we could all fit: a rented house with no central heating.
I was born on 5 September 1958 in St John’s Hospital in Chelmsford, Essex. They should get a blue plaque. When I asked my mum some years ago for the exact time I was born, wanting to get an in-depth horoscope drawn up so that I could hopefully have something to look forward to, or place sandbags against, she said, ‘I’ve no idea, Darling. We didn’t really think about those things.’ (My mother has also never owned a watch. When she needed to time something in the oven, she would use the big clock on the mantelpiece in the lounge.) There were no giant black-and-white billboards of my infant face on walls, or placed in silver frames on piano lids. No locks of hair in silver lockets, or tiny booties in aspic, or charts on walls showing growth spurts. I suppose by the time you have your seventh child it all becomes a bit been there, done that, boiled the terry nappy. I imagine I must have been a mistake, as my parents could not afford another child. I caused my mum more work. I don’t remember my dad ever holding me, or hoisting me on his shoulders. I was placed in a corner and it was simply hoped I’d take.
I remember a very early birthday. I’m in bed, in the single divan, lights off, and Sue and Lyn have yet to come to bed. Dad comes in and he says, ‘Happy Birthday, Darling.’ He doesn’t kiss me or hug me, we are not tactile like that. I always turned away from my mum’s goodnight kiss, given the dentures. And, even though I had not been given a present all day, I said, ‘Thanks for my presents.’ ‘Oh, good,’ he’d said, standing in the light from the hall. Embarrassed, maybe. But he loved my mum, and I’m sure he loved me, even though a weekend outing usually meant being left in the car with a coke and a bag of crisps with its small blue parcel of salt while he was inside the pub.
Chelmsford is probably the least noteworthy place on earth: apart from St John’s Hospital, it had the Chancellor Hall (site of concerts by notable Seventies gods including Kevin Ayers), a Bonds department store (now Debenhams), and a swimming baths (I would catch many a persistent verruca there in my formative years). Marriage’s flour mill was under the flyover (my mum, despite the arthritis in her spine, shoulders and hands, baked all our own bread) and there was a cricket pitch. Perhaps that was why I was born there, given my family lived all the way over in Shenfield, near Brentwood, at the time. My dad loved cricket. I was probably born in Chelmsford just so he could catch a