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Daniel C. Dennett
Daniel C. Dennett is University Professor Codirector of the Center for Cognitive Studies at Tufts University. He is the author of Brainchildren: Essays on Designing Minds; Sweet Dreams: Philosophical Obstacles to a Science of Consciousness; Elbow Room: The Varieties of Free Will Worth Wanting; Sweet Dreams: Philosophical Obstacles to a Science of Consciousness (all published by the MIT Press), From Bacteria to Bach and Back: The Evolution of Mind, and other books.
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"The new edition of Caught in the Pulpit extends and reinforces the message of the first: that many who preach religion do not themselves believe what they preach, for the good reason that they have more insight into its vacuity than those to whom they preach. Some are tragically trapped in this hypocrisy, some choose to keep living the lie: but knowing this adds to our sense of the lie that is religion itself. This is an important book, because it reveals an important truth."
—A. C. Grayling, Master of the New College of the Humanities London and author of The Good Book: A Humanist Bible
To believe or not to believe. That is the agony of many of the very leaders of organized belief. Before Daniel Dennett and Linda LaScola, who could have predicted that so many ministers, priests, and rabbis no longer believe and yet continue to lead congregations? Atheists in shepherds’ garb. When they put on the robes of their faith, these men and women don a false self at the core of their personal and professional identities. How do they live with such a mask? They tell the authors, and we hear their voices throughout these pages. In the extraordinary profiles of these clergy, Dennett and LaScola show us an unknown terrain in vivid and heartbreaking detail. This is a book that should be announced from every pulpit and read by all concerned with the unholy place religion still commands in our world.
—J. Anderson Thomson, Jr., M.D., author of Why We Believe in God(s): A Concise Guide to the Science of Faith
Profound, honest, and revealing. I was also going to write ‘surprising,’ but I am not surprised. As a former preacher myself (who has since abandoned supernatural beliefs), I know exactly what is going through the minds of the clergy who are struggling with faith and reason. What I most admire about this book is the careful, scientific approach to the topic…. I know I am biased, but that does not mean this is not a GREAT book!
—Dan Barker, copresident of the Freedom From Religion Foundation and author of Life Driven Purpose: How an Atheist Finds Meaning
"People often ask me, ‘How could you become an atheist when you were a pastor?’ I always answer, ‘Exactly by being a pastor!’ Caught in the Pulpit was one of the first books I read during my Year Without God and nothing I read for the remainder of the year was more relatable. In some cases I felt like I was reading my own story. This book is essential reading for anyone wanting to understand the process of losing faith. Though these stories are about clergy, their feelings and experiences will resonate for anyone who has been down this road."
—Ryan J. Bell, former pastor and writer, Year Without God
Over a century ago, William James pioneered the study of religious experience, focusing in particular on people whose lives had been transformed for the better by coming to faith. In their lucid and poignant study, Daniel Dennett and Linda LaScola explore the experiences of those who have moved in the opposite direction—the leaders of religious communities, who, having lost their faith, courageously rebuild their lives. With care and sympathy, Dennett and LaScola bring light to some darker corners of the religious life.
—Philip Kitcher, John Dewey Professor of Philosophy, Columbia University and author of Life After Faith: The Case for Secular Humanism
"Reading Caught in the Pulpit is like listening in on intimate conversations, even confessions, of clergy who doubt the very beliefs they are paid to teach and support. Dennett and LaScola address their subjects with both skill and compassion, yielding expert philosophical and sociological analysis. A fascinating read."
—Mary Johnson, author of An Unquenchable Thirst, secular activist, and former nun
"Not all pastors who harbor serious doubts about what they’re preaching can just walk away from it all, but in Caught in the Pulpit, Linda LaScola and Daniel Dennett share with us what’s going on in those pastors’ heads. Why don’t they just come clean to their congregations? How have their sermons changed to reflect their uncertainty? This book provides remarkable insight into a silently growing demographic."
—Hemant Mehta, editor of FriendlyAtheist.com
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Caught in the Pulpit, expanded and updated edition. Copyright © 2015 by Daniel C. Dennett and Linda LaScola.
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The study Preachers Who Are Not Believers,
printed in full in appendix E, was first published in Evolutionary Psychology 8, no. 1 (August 2010): 122–150. Copyright © 2010 by Daniel C. Dennett and Linda LaScola.
Congruity edition published 2013
First Pitchstone edition published 2015
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Dennett, D. C. (Daniel Clement)
Caught in the pulpit : leaving belief behind / Daniel C. Dennett and Linda LaScola ; foreword by Richard Dawkins. — Expanded and Updated Edition.
pages cm
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 978-1-63431-020-8 (pbk. : alk. paper)
1. Ex-clergy—United States. 2. Christianity and atheism. I. Title.
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CONTENTS
Foreword by Richard Dawkins
Preface to the Expanded and Updated Edition
I. Introduction
Preachers Who Aren’t Believers
Some Cautions
What We Did and Why We Did it
Qualitative Research (What Is It Like…?
)
II. Seven Sketches
Winnie, the Presbyterian Pastor: Wanting to Belong; Trying to Believe
Carl, the Lutheran Pastor: Persevering Through the Pain
Brian, the Lutheran Seminary Dropout: Dodging a Bullet
Glen, the Catholic Priest: Hiding among Those Who Damned Him
Joe, the Mormon Bishop: A Hopeful Agnostic
Stan, the Military Chaplain: In Search of Congruency
Sherm, the Orthodox Rabbi: Falling Out of Belief
III. Breaking the Shell—Transparency and the Survival of Religions
IV. From the Ivory Tower to the People in the Pews
Three Seminary Professors
What Happens in Seminary: The Students’ Perspective
After Seminary: Preaching and Teaching
Burnout and Depression
V. Emerging Themes
The Plight of Liberal Clergy: Metaphors, Myths, Truths, and Facts
The Plight of the Literals: Dealing with the Challenges
What Our Participants Gained and Lost as Their Beliefs Changed
VI. Where Are They Now?
Checking in with Four Pilot Study Participants: An Interim Report
Checking in with Our Study Participants from 2008–2012: An Update
VII. The Inner Shell—Isolating Pastors from Their Parishioners and from Themselves
VIII. What’s Next? A Response to Requests for Our Study’s Conclusions
Acknowledgments
Appendices
Appendix A: The Participants
Appendix B: About Qualitative Research
Appendix C: Linda’s Personal Story
Appendix D: Dan’s Personal Story
Appendix E: Pilot Study
Notes
References and Resources
About the Authors
FOREWORD
Richard Dawkins
What must it be like to be frightened of your own opinions? If asked What do you think about X
most of us enjoy the luxury of reflecting: X, well yes, what do I think? What is the evidence bearing on X? What are the good things about X, what are the bad? Maybe I should read up on X before formulating my opinion. Maybe I should discuss X with friends. X is interesting, I’d like to think about X.
Imagine being in a job which forbids any of that: a profession to which you have vowed your life with solemn commitments; and where the terms of the job are that you must hold certain rigid beliefs about the world, the universe, morality and the human condition. You are allowed opinions about football or chimney pots, but when it comes to the deep questions of existence, origins, much of science, everything about ethics, you are told what to think; or you have to parrot your thoughts from a book, written by unknown authors in ancient deserts. If your reading, your thinking, your conversations, lead you to change your opinions you can never divulge your secret. If you breathe a hint of your doubts you will lose your job, your livelihood, the respect of your community, your friends, perhaps even your family. At the same time, the job demands the highest standards of moral rectitude, so the double life you are leading torments you with a wasting sense of shameful hypocrisy. Such is the predicament of those priests, rabbis and pastors who have lost their faith but remain in post. They exist in surprisingly large numbers, and they are the subjects of this fascinating, sometimes harrowing, sometimes uplifting book.
Other jobs might make demands on your skills, but if you are deficient you can do something about it. A lumberjack or a musician can improve with practice: try harder. But lumberjacks and musicians are not required to believe. You can’t change your beliefs as an act of will, in the way you can decide to improve your skills with chainsaw or keyboard. If the evidence before your eyes doesn’t support a belief, you cannot will yourself to believe it anyway. This, incidentally, is one of the many arguments against Pascal’s Wager: No matter how you rate the odds of immortal salvation, you can’t decide to believe in God, as if it were a decision to bet on Red or Manchester United.
It is hard not to feel sympathy for those men and women caught in the pulpit. It is for this reason that a group of us set up The Clergy Project. I originally even thought of trying to raise money for scholarships—retraining clergy as carpenters, say, or secular counsellors. That proved too expensive. But we did provide apostate clergy with a Web site where they can secretly go to talk to each other, in confidence, protected from parishioners and even from family by pseudonyms and passwords: a safe haven where they can share experiences, advice, even metaphorical shoulders to cry on. Dan Dennett and Linda LaScola were involved in The Clergy Project from the start: Indeed it was largely inspired by their pilot study, together with the experiences of the pioneer apostate Dan Barker. LaScola and Dennett’s pilot study involved five Protestant ministers. Four of them are founder members of The Clergy Project. Subsequently The Clergy Project grew and grew, and it now numbers more than 500, including Catholics, Protestants, Jews, Muslims and Mormons. The sheer numbers are heartwarming to those of us who see religion as unfavourable to human welfare and positively hostile to educational values. But the figures also imply a level of human misery on the part of the unfortunate clergy themselves, and the gentle kindness of Dan Dennett and Linda LaScola shines from every page of this book.
Their expanded study looks in detail at thirty individual cases. Some of these men and women believed passionately for many years before losing their faith. Others seem to have been already skeptical while still in seminary, but went ahead with their priestly career for reasons that need to be explored—and are. These are human beings, every one different, and the victims are allowed the space to tell their own stories, woven together with intelligent and insightful commentary by the two authors.
The book is a collaboration between a patient, sympathetic social worker and one of the world’s great philosophers. It will surprise as it fascinates. If, as I hope and expect, the 500 apostates now in The Clergy Project turn out to be the thin end of a very large wedge, tip of a reassuringly large iceberg, harbingers of a coming and very welcome tipping point, this book will be seen as—to mix metaphors yet again with pardonable glee—the miner’s canary. It will help us to understand what is happening as the floodgates open, as I hope they soon will. I also hope it will be widely read by still-believing clergy, and that it will give them the courage to join their colleagues who have already seen the light and walked away from the dark shade of the pulpit.
Oxford, UK
November 2013
PREFACE TO THE EXPANDED AND UPDATED EDITION
Daniel C. Dennett
The phenomenon of clergy who don’t believe the creeds they profess from the pulpit has probably been around for centuries, unacknowledged and unimagined, except by those who were living through it. We brought it into the daylight less than two years ago when we published the first edition of Caught in the Pulpit: Leaving Belief Behind (in November of 2013). Much has happened in the world of religion since then, and everywhere we go, we are asked for the latest developments in our participants’ lives, and in our own understanding of the phenomenon we sought to bring to public attention. It seemed important to us to take a second look at where we stand.
We were able to recontact many of our participants, and this expanded edition provides an update on their remarkable trajectories. Among the readers of the first edition were some who told us they couldn’t stand the suspense. What on earth could these nonbelieving clergy do? Where could they turn? How would they handle their precarious situations? We found out a lot, and discuss the ongoing struggles some of them have, the peace some have made with their situations, and the major life changes some have experienced.
Anybody interested in religion and what it has in store for us in the coming years will find arresting insights in the candid revelations of our participants, often speaking for the first time in their lives in deepest confidence about their most closely guarded secrets. We think that this update will be particularly valuable to clergy who have found kindred spirits in our participants and must be wondering if they themselves should stay closeted, as some have done, or come out, as others have done.
In response to readers’ interest in hearing more personal stories, we’ve added two additional sketches: Sherm, the Orthodox rabbi, and Stan, the military chaplain, and also included our original 2010 article, Preachers Who Are Not Believers,
as an appendix. The article has five sketches of its own, bringing the total number of sketches in this edition to twelve.
We’ve also added a new final chapter, What’s Next—A Response to Requests for Our Study’s ‘Conclusions.’
In this chapter we have used our analysis to ground some suggestions that we hope will persuade more readers than they enrage. All religions are in precarious positions these days, and hunkering down and hoping it all will pass may be the prevailing choice, but it may not be the wisest. Thousands of religions have been born, lived for months, years, or even centuries, and then gone extinct, and the pace of change seems to be accelerating. Leading, not just reacting, may be the key to longevity. Meanwhile, another generation of would-be clergy is entering seminaries and encountering the tender trap that will shape their lives for decades, if not irrevocably. They, above all, should read this book.
Tufts University
Medford, MA
December 2014
I. INTRODUCTION
Daniel C. Dennett
Preachers Who Aren’t Believers
This book is about men and women who entered the clergy with the best of motives and intentions and have come to recognize that they no longer hold the beliefs their parishioners think they do. Half of the people interviewed still have a congregation awaiting them each Sabbath, trusting them to speak the truth from the pulpit. They come from various backgrounds and have made different decisions about how to deal with their lack of belief in what they think somebody in their position ought to believe.
The present study, made in collaboration with the clinical social worker and qualitative researcher Linda LaScola, is a continuation of our 2010 pilot study of five male nonbelieving Protestant ministers.¹ Our main objective: to explore, through in-depth interviews, the disconnect between what closeted nonbelieving clergy believe and what they preach, and the impact it has on their personal lives, their congregations, and society.
Most people who participated in the present study first learned about it through the media attention the pilot study received. This time there were thirty new participants, including women, Catholics, Jews, Mormons, a wider spectrum of liberal (mainline) and literal (fundamentalist) Protestant denominations, a few current or former theology students, and three mainline Protestant seminary professors. We included the seminary professors to learn how their students react to academic and historical perspectives on the Bible that may be quite different from what they learned in Sunday school. These professors teach Old and New Testament studies to beginning seminarians. Their personal religious beliefs were not known in advance and were not explored in the interviews.² To get a better sense of liberal clergy beliefs and thought processes, we included two active, believing, Episcopal clergy. Follow-up interviews with all the clergy from the pilot study and many from the continued study are also included. As with the pilot study, the interviews were done in confidence, with names and identifying details changed.
The interviews—all of which were conducted by Linda—varied in number, length, and setting. Though most were conducted face-to-face, some were done by Skype or phone. Only a few people were interviewed once; most were interviewed two or three times over several days, in discussions lasting an hour to an hour and a half. All active clergy were interviewed three times, allowing Linda to follow up on important issues and giving the interviewees time to reflect more deeply on their experiences and emotions. All in all, 90 interviews were conducted in more than 120 hours of conversation. (For a complete list and categorization of the participants, see appendix A.)
We had planned to assemble a diverse group of participants; the reality turned out to be more diverse than we guessed. People didn’t fit into the neat demographic boxes we had prepared for them. Some had changed denominations during their careers, moving from literal to liberal (never the other direction) before dropping their beliefs altogether. Some who were active clergy came out
unexpectedly a few weeks or months after they were interviewed, prompting follow-up interviews. Two participating clergy were on leaves of absence when they were interviewed, so their futures were up in the air.
An intervening event that surely affected some participants’ subsequent behavior was the establishment of The Clergy Project, in March of 2011.³ The Clergy Project, a confidential online community for active and former professional clergy who do not hold supernatural beliefs, is separate from our study—although both of us were among its founders and there is considerable overlap of study participants (twenty-four) and project members. It was the culmination of years of discussions between Richard Dawkins, founder of the Richard Dawkins Foundation for Reason and Science, and Dan Barker, copresident of the Freedom From Religion Foundation. Dawkins had long wanted to provide assistance to nonbelieving clergy who wanted to leave the church. Barker, a former evangelical minister, often encountered other former clergy who urged him to do something
for people who, like them, had made such a dramatic, life-altering decision. The first fifty-two members of The Clergy Project came from lists of people Barker had met over the years and people who had participated in our 2010 pilot study or contacted us about it. It’s important to note that while Linda and I are among the cofounders, we are not members, because we have never been clergy. Like all nonmembers, we have no access to the private Web site and take no part in the discussions there.
All current and former clergy and seminary graduates were asked about their childhood religious experiences, their decision to become clergy (or seminarians), their experiences in the seminary (if applicable), and their changes in belief and its effect on them and the people around them. As the interviews were ending, Linda asked two specific questions of the nonbelievers: What have you gained as a result of your changes in belief?
and What have you lost?
Their responses to these two questions comprise a section toward the end of the book.
Some Cautions
What is it like to be a practicing pastor or rabbi while not believing most—or any—of the doctrines of your faith? You may think you know quite well if you have read some of the many good autobiographical books and articles written by former clergy or nuns (e.g., in alphabetical order, the work of Armstrong, Barker, Compere, DeWitt, Ehrman, Hurlin, … Johnson, Loftus, … Semple, … Uhl, ….). Or perhaps you have read In the Beauty of the Lilies, the heartbreaking novel by John Updike about the (fictional) Reverend Clarence Wilmot, a Lutheran minister who after years of struggling with religious doubt announces his disbelief and thereupon is plunged into a terrible downward spiral, losing his job, his respectable position in the community, and even his family’s love.
Linda and I knew some of this literature quite well when we embarked on our research project. But, as usual, reality outstrips imagination. We didn’t know the half of it.
There are very different ways of becoming a nonbelieving preacher, and very different ways of coping with the discovery that that is what you are. Our interviewees are not saints, anymore than you are, but they are in general good people: more conscientious and honest, we would hazard, than the average citizen, all trying hard to help their neighbors and not hurt a soul, trying not to lie or dissemble, but caught up in a web of tact, tradition, and subtly imposed expectations—a web trapping them in patterns of deceit that accumulate and threaten to immobilize them. Some respond more gracefully—which does not necessarily mean more honestly—than others. Some are bitter, feeling seduced and abandoned by their creed or angry at themselves for allowing their eagerness to go along with the program to trump their honesty. Some are wistful about what they will miss if ever they find a way out of their predicament. What they will miss is in some cases the wholehearted community spirit of their congregation; in others, the inflated respect and deference their position commands; in yet others, the limelight in which they exercise their considerable talents as preachers. These are people like the rest of us, succumbing to some temptations and stalwartly resisting others, with often unrealistic hopes and ambitions, sometimes self-deceived, sometimes depressed, sometimes aching with love of what they fear they will lose forever. And, yes, sometimes terrified of the financial calamity that will likely befall them if they lose their modest living. None of these people went into the ministry for money, that’s for sure. If many of them now have a family to support, children to send to college, no equity in a home, who can blame them for considering money an important part of their problem?
I must stress these points from the outset, for our informants have already been subjected to ferocious criticism by religious leaders who read the article on our pilot project in Evolutionary Psychology. I find it a telling irony that out of the several dozen who posted commentary on the Washington Post’s On Faith Web site, where our piece first appeared,⁴ only Max Carter, a Quaker (whose tradition has no ordained clergy) and Rebecca Goldstein, a Jewish atheist, saw the torment of these clergy for what it is. The others seem to have forgotten Jesus’ message about casting the first stone (John 8:7), responding for all the world like stage magicians infuriated by another magician’s revelation of their trade secrets.
They were right to feel threatened. One of the moral quandaries Linda and I have faced in preparing this account is whether our revelations about the methods used by our informants to conceal their disbelief from their congregations will make the job of being a pastor much harder for all, believers and nonbelievers alike. We concluded that the membrane of deceit so often separating clergy from their congregations is on its way out in any event, and if we can hasten its extinction that’s a good thing, even if in the short run it makes life more difficult for those intent on maintaining their positions with a careful self-presentation. They will just have to be more careful.
Stage magic has handsomely survived the rude subversion of Penn and Teller, whose amusing exposure of magicians’ tricks has earned them accolades even from their fellow magicians, and it is quite likely, in our view, that after the initial shock wears off, churches that can put the stage magic behind them—or keep it on as explicit stagecraft, if they like—are likely to be healthier competitors in the Information Age of the 21st century.
Some are already there, such as the ceremonially high
(smells and bells
) but doctrinally low
(believe whatever you want) Episcopal churches that hold their own in some parts of the country. Other, more creedal
denominations have a harder road ahead, as their leaders well know. Evangelicals repeatedly warn that if current trends continue, only 4 percent of teenagers will be ‘Bible-believing Christians’ as adults.
⁵ In 2009, one postevangelical
spokesman declared, We are on the verge—within 10 years—of a major collapse of evangelical Christianity,
⁶ a prediction echoed and expanded more recently.⁷
Our decision to include the tricks of the trade in our account was not taken lightly. We realize that doing so may cause serious harm, making some benign effects of current religious practices harder to achieve. This is not the first time I have faced this issue. Many years ago, when I was researching the practice of anesthesia for an essay on pain,⁸ I learned of the widespread use of amnestics by anesthesiologists. These drugs aren’t painkillers at all; they are memory erasers, and anesthesiologists use them to wipe out any awful memories of pain that may have leaked onto the scene in insufficiently anesthetized patients. The use of amnestics makes their job easier and safer, since they don’t have to anesthetize their patients as deeply (which is dangerous) to ensure an untroubled postsurgical result. But telling patients in advance that they might be receiving an amnestic only makes them more anxious and hence harder to tranquilize and anesthetize. (Now are you sorry you began reading this? There is more to come, so caveat lector!) I was importuned by several of my anesthesiologist informants not to reveal this awkward fact about benign subterfuge to the world at large, but I didn’t take their advice, and now, forty years later, anesthesia is safer than ever. Perhaps this just goes to show how few people read my essay on pain, but in fact I have found that people who know all about amnestics are blithely unconcerned both pre- and postsurgically—certainly it hasn’t bothered me in my surgical encounters. I suspect that anesthesiologists and church leaders alike are more fearful of candor than they need to be, and we will show you some evidence of that in due course.
Another worry of mine is that readers of this book may inadvertently render themselves immune to certain sorts of helpful intervention. When I was an undergraduate, I had a classmate, whom I will call Rob, who was both depressed (or had some other mental disorder) and obsessed with the literature of psychotherapy—especially the techniques. The obsession made him all but untreatable by the college psychotherapist. Rob would return from his weekly visit both morose and strangely triumphant: "He started by chatting me up about my coursework, and I responded with ‘Gain your patient’s confidence by engaging with him about a subject he knows well,’ Jones and Smidlap, How to Treat an Undergraduate, p. 5,’" or words to that effect. He was just too self-conscious and savvy to let the therapist gain a foothold. I’m happy to say he survived his youthful funk and has had a productive research career as a psychologist. Will churchgoers who could use some spiritual counseling be similarly immunized and unable to respond to the best efforts of their pastors? Perhaps, but if that is the price to pay for saving some young aspirants to the clergy from falling into the traps our informants landed in, it will be worth it, in our view.
What We Did and Why We Did It
When I called for the scientific study of religion in Breaking the Spell: Religion as a Natural Phenomenon,⁹ I drew attention to many of the obstacles to such study but urged readers to press ahead because of the importance of the phenomena and the urgency of learning more about them in an age when so many policies hinge in one way or another on getting religion right. I was soon approached by Linda, a professional qualitative researcher, who proposed to help me study closeted nonbelieving clergy—if we could find