The Learning Annex Presents Uncluttering Your Space
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Clutter. The littlest things of life-scraps of paper from the mail, shirts draped over chair backs, odds and ends on the counter-have a way of piling up, getting under foot, gathering dust, and clogging up space.
Don't worry! The Learning Annex Presents Uncluttering Your Space will soon have you bidding farewell to chaos at home and enjoying the clarity of organization. The Learning Annex employs top experts to teach more than 300,000 students across North America each year-so rest assured that their methods are proven, practical, quick, and easy to apply. In the space of these pages, you'll discover:
* How to determine your clutter patterns
* How to whip each room in your house into shape
* How to create a plan to beat clutter and redesign your environment
* The inside scoop from instructor and student experience
Full of sidebars and other special features, The Learning Annex Presents Uncluttering Your Space re-creates the authentic seminar experience to give you the tools and knowledge you need to win out over clutter and keep it from coming back-and all in a single night's reading!
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The Learning Annex Presents Uncluttering Your Space - Ann T. Sullivan
introduction
People often call me out of desperation. I feel like my life is unraveling,
one of my students lamented. I can’t seem to get a single bill paid on time.
Another student admitted, My house is such a mess, I can’t even invite friends over.
There are never enough hours in the day,
a working mom told me. I spend forever answering phone calls and dealing with paperwork, and I never find time for the most important stuff, like hanging out with my kids.
It’s practically an epidemic in our culture today: We have more money, more possessions, more means of communication, and more conveniences than ever before—far more than our parents or grandparents could ever have dreamed of—yet so many of us feel as though our lives are careening out of control. Our time doesn’t belong to us anymore, and our possessions have somehow begun to possess us.
How did our lives get so crazy?
With the widespread use of cell phones, e-mails, pagers, and faxes, we’ve made ourselves far more accessible. People now expect us to be available immediately, anytime, anywhere. It’s no longer acceptable to get back to someone within 24 hours. Now, everyone expects a response within a few hours, if not minutes.
Technology in the home and workplace was supposed to make our lives easier, simpler. In many instances, however, it’s done the opposite. Marketers and advertisers have convinced us that the right gadget will make life more manageable; in fact, many of these devices simply add clutter to our homes, offices, minds, and lives.
We’re bombarded. We’ve allowed others to take control of our time and our lifestyle. No wonder we’re overwhelmed.
It can be even worse when home and work collide. Take a peek in the average home office, and you’ll find a mountain of paperwork waiting to be filed. The average disorganized person has more than 3,000 documents at home. Statistics show that we’ll actually reference only 20 percent of those documents, yet those documents are constantly affecting their owner’s concentration, taking up space, and creating a frustrating sense of unfinished work. The stacks of paper just keep growing—who has the time to file all that stuff? Before we know it, the mountain overflows from a tray into a box and then from a box to several haphazard stacks on the floor.
Stuff it all in a closet, you say? Well, that’s a problem. Open any closet in the average home, and you’d better be prepared to jump back. There’s a monster in there. There’s no telling what forgotten treasures that closet might contain: the good stuff is buried under mounds of unwanted gifts, broken household objects, and impulse bargain buys that just weren’t quite what you wanted.
Our homes are so stuffed with possessions that we hardly know what we own. Most of our things are not even bringing us pleasure or serving a purpose, yet we continue to store them, move them, insure them, clean them, keep them safe, and take responsibility for them. They’ve taken on a life of their own, and now they’re taking over ours!
Advertisers have trumpeted a more is better
philosophy, and we consumers have bought it lock, stock, and barrel. Marketers successfully create a sense of urgency: if you see something you like, you’d better buy it now! Advertising bombards us wherever we go—billboards, TVs, doctors’ offices, the Internet—they’re even making wider gas nozzles at the pumps to make room for a little advertising plaque. It’s not enough that grocery stores hang garish banners on every available space; they’re now sticking product ads all over the floors. They even advertise to us in public bathrooms.
Many of us complain about a bloat of possessions, yet we keep buying more and bringing it home. Talk to anyone who’s recently moved. Chances are they’ll tell you, I’m opening up all these boxes and wondering why I thought this stuff was important enough to haul 2,000 miles?
How did we let this happen? I think it’s because we’ve bought the myth. We have come to believe that we can have it all and do it all. But what’s the point of trying to have it all if we can’t even enjoy what we’ve got?
The truth is, we can’t have it all, but we can have what’s important. The key is to know what that is and create a plan for achieving it. Life shouldn’t be lived by default.
When you renovate your home, you don’t just grab a sledgehammer and start whacking at a wall. You begin with an end in mind, and you take the necessary steps to achieve it. If we want specific conditions in our lives, we have to arrange our lives to create those conditions. It is possible to organize your physical environment to reflect a sense of purpose and meaning. Instead of living in a state of chaos, you can create a calm, orderly environment that’s as functional as it is aesthetically pleasing.
This book will show you how to take your life back from the objects and devices that have claimed it. I’ve included in these 15 lessons the principles and exercises I’ve used with my clients through my company, Ann Sullivan—Organizing People For Life™, and have taught to students in my Learning Annex Seminars.
When someone calls me for help, the first thing I ask is, What triggered your call? Why are you calling at this particular time in your life?
Typically, these people have found themselves at a state of transition: They’re having a baby, getting a divorce, downsizing, upsizing, or crossing some other threshold. They’re stepping back, often for the first time in years, to take a look at the bigger picture of their lives, and they’re aghast at what they see. Many have a gut-level understanding that their clutter is holding them back in some fashion.
I just missed my third doctor appointment in a row!
I still have all my notebooks from high school—like I’m ever going to need those again!
My cabinets are stuffed! Just yesterday, I opened a kitchen cabinet and a whole stack of things fell right on my baby’s head. Thank goodness it was only Tupperware, but…
Once we identify the juncture they’ve reached in their lives, I ask them, What are your goals from here?
Our primary job is to create the environment that supports those goals. We’ll list your goals and activities. Then we’ll look at every room in your house, from both a macro
and a micro
perspective. What activities does this room support? What areas serve which goals? We’ll find ways to make the space you have serve the goals you’ve chosen.
Then we need to inventory what you own. You can’t work with what you don’t know you have. You’ve got to find out what’s yours, put hands on it, sort it, and determine its function. If it doesn’t have one, get rid of it.
YOU’VE GOT MAIL…AND MOST OF IT’S JUNK
According to the U.S. Postal Service, we receive more mail in a week than our parents did in a year and our grandparents in a lifetime. The Consumer Research Institute, an anti-junk mail organization, estimates that we waste a whopping eight months of our lives dealing with this unwanted mail.
I’ve had many a client respond in horror to this idea. "You mean I have to throw away my old (busted tennis racket, ugly vase, photo of an anonymous relative—you fill in the blank), but I love that thing!" I’m not saying get rid of the things you’re genuinely attached to. I want you to become aware of what you have, what it’s doing in your life, and how it’s serving you. You’re now going to be owning consciously, instead of owning by default. Because your possessions affect you, whether you’re aware of them or not, you owe it to yourself to get rid of the dead weight.
As you streamline and de-junk your life, you’ll often be aware that you’re venturing into lonely territory. It takes some courage to let go of your stuff in a stuff-crazy world. You won’t be living the way the majority is living, and that’s OK—don’t forget that the majority is stressed out.
Isn’t it better to lead a good fashion than to follow a bad one?
HOW TO USE THIS BOOK
This book is designed to be a seminar in print,
to allow readers to feel as much as possible as though they’re attending one of our evening courses. We’ve divided the book into topics, titled Lessons,
each of which can be read within 10 to 15 minutes. We have designed this book to be completed in a single sit-down reading. Two types of sidebars will help give you additional, fun, and useful information:
A Note from the Instructor: Insider tips from your instructor, Ann Sullivan.
Student Experiences: Words from seminar students—just like you—who are willing to share their experience in decluttering their lives.
lesson 1
why we’re drowning in clutter
Clutter in Today’s Society • The Reasons We Hoard
Things • Why We Don’t Want to Clean Up
The odds are stacked against us. Our modern society is the most clutter-prone society in the world for one simple reason: We’ve got so much stuff! We’re an affluent society, so we have the means to produce and purchase a dazzling array of material goods. We’ve also attached a tremendous amount of cultural and personal meaning to the ownership of objects. Add to this mix an advertising industry that works overtime to condition our psyches to become mindless buying machines, and it’s no wonder we’re wallowing in excess stuff.
Let’s look at some of the ways our culture sets us up for an overload of possessions.
IT’S ALL AROUND US
Never before in human history has there been such a blinding array of material goods that can be had so cheaply and so easily. Never has there been a people so rich in cash and credit as we are—and so eager to exchange their hard-earned wages for personal items.
Even when we’re not on a buying frenzy, the stuff still finds its way home with us. Have you noticed that every time you attend a conference you leave with binders, pens, papers, and all kinds of promotional products? I once went to a student’s house where she showed me her collection of more than 500 pens, and she hadn’t bought a single one of them! That’s the insidious thing about freebies: They multiply!
If you think we’re behaving poorly as grownups, look at the way we’re setting up our kids for even more pointless stuff-consumption. Every time your children go to a birthday party, they come home with a bag of little cheapo toys that you’ll be digging out of the sofa cushions for the next several months. Children can’t even go to a fast-food restaurant without bringing home another useless plastic toy.
When we let our kids collect more junk than they can possibly deal with, we’re being unfair to them. Most adults would find it a challenge to organize what the average kid owns today. How are the kids going to learn order and tidiness when they have such an overwhelming mass of possessions to deal with? When the flow of free, valueless stuff never ends, how will they learn to work for and cherish the things they own, take pride in them, take care of them? We’re not teaching them the best values. In fact, we’re setting them up for a life of clutter, one that is possibly even worse than the one we’re struggling with!
BEWARE OF OUTLET MALLS
Too many of us get into trouble at outlet malls. We invest the time to drive to them, so we feel obligated to buy something, even if it’s not what we really want or need.
It doesn’t matter how low the price; if you don’t use it, then it’s not a bargain. Instead of falling prey to this kind of emotional buying, make a list of what you truly need before you go shopping, and don’t allow yourself to stray from that list.
WE’RE EMOTIONAL BUYERS
We seem to think that buying something can cure every problem. We think more stuff equals more happiness—and when it doesn’t, we assume it’s because we don’t yet have enough stuff—so back to the store we go.
Advertisers do a tremendous job of convincing us that happiness is just one more purchase away. They tell us in subtle and not-so-subtle ways that if we don’t own a particular product, we’re less valuable as human beings. Of course, this plays right into our insecurity.
My students occupy a wide range of points on the wealth continuum. You may be surprised to learn that those who earn millions of dollars are no more happy or secure than the middle-class students. I’ve never seen a direct correlation between a person’s number of possessions and their level of happiness. Yet we’re keeping up with the Joneses
like never before. Deep down, we all probably know that possessions don’t make us happier or more fulfilled, but in an affluent society like ours, it’s easy to forget. We spend too much energy trying to live up to an illusion created by external forces. We’re allowing the world around us to take control and dictate the way we should live, rather than letting our individual principles and values guide us.
DON’T FALL FOR "MIRACLE CURE ORGANIZING PRODUCTS
In order to sell their products, those ingenious marketers will even appeal to your need for order. They’ll tell you that you absolutely must have the right
gadget for organizing, or you’ll never get things under control!
It’s not that organizing products don’t have their place—they do. What’s important is to first change your attitude about owning things, and get rid of the excess stuff before you buy any organizing products. Once you have pared down and know what you want to keep and need to store, you can make a decision to use what you have or buy the appropriate product. Again, the important thing is to keep the decisions under your control and make them at the appropriate time. Don’t succumb to external pressures to buy.
Yes, there are some terrific organizing products out there, and it’s often a blast to shop for them. But don’t get caught up in the advertising and the fun of shopping. If you’re committed to