From Apostle to Apostate: The Story of the Clergy Project
By Catherine Dunphy and Richard Dawkins
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From Apostle to Apostate - Catherine Dunphy
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PROLOGUE
I am the voice of one crying out in the wilderness.
—John 1:23
It is a truly radical experience for a clergyperson to admit that their beliefs, and the faith that they have long articulated, have lost their meaning. It is more than the dark night of the soul; it is the utter abandonment of a worldview that, after thorough study, reflection, and lived experience, fails to withstand critique both intellectually and emotionally. It is a revelation that uncomfortably exposes the internal architecture of self-delusion and the social and religious constructs that buttress these imaginative ideologies. It is a journey that all members of the Clergy Project have taken, myself included.
Founded in 2011 to help lift the sense of isolation uniformly noted by nonbelieving clergy in the landmark study by Daniel C. Dennett and Linda LaScola titled Preachers Who Are Not Believers,
the Clergy Project is the first organization dedicated to providing an opportunity for clergy to support one another through the challenges of working in ministry after having relinquished their faith. As one of the fifty-two original members of the Clergy Project, I have had the privilege of seeing the project emerge and grow. What started off as an idea has bloomed, within a few short years, into a vibrant community of more than six hundred members, hailing from every part of the world and representing every major world religion.
Each member brings with them a story of faith lost and of a life transformed. The similarities of these converging stories are very striking, and this commonality has allowed friendships to flourish as members recognize the value of being understood and heard. Like me, each member of the Clergy Project has put aside belief in an intercessory creator god and has found comfort in a more tangible reality—that life and existence, even if undirected by supernatural or magical influences, is nonetheless awe-inspiring and worthy of protecting. Our lives and the life that we share this planet with have value simply because we value it! To wax theological, we imbue life with the meaning we seek.
Religion has long claimed the right to name and interpret meaning, and as active and former religious leaders, I and the other members of the Clergy Project understand the power that religion holds over believers—how it encourages believers to tap into the emotion of life, saturating their senses with color, light, beauty, and significance. Religion is a great theatrical production, meant to catapult us past the so-called mundanities and limits of life into the intoxicating highs of the spirit. What religion and its advocates misunderstand, and what members of the Clergy Project have embraced, is that life is not mundane; it does not radiate sin. Life simply is, and religions’ attempts to box it in and claim authority only devalues the beauty of reality and succeeds in making a mockery out of these so-called moral institutions. Despite the persuasiveness of religion, the religious narrative is an exceedingly temporary fix.
Though I now see clearly the limits of belief and the confines of faith, when I was a believer—a born and bred Roman Catholic—I too embraced the emotion of religion. It felt intuitive. The gore and glory of Catholicism are embodied in the religion’s exhalation of the sacrament of the Eucharist, a fixation on pain, suffering, and redemption. This mentality encroached upon every aspect of my life as a believer. I was fully initiated into the rites and rituals of the Church. This spiritual education taught me a thing or two about theological pedagogy and the methods that the Church utilizes to engage its followers and to entice converts. I was baptized, received my holy communion, sought penance through reconciliation, and was confirmed. That indoctrination process took more than fifteen years. It should therefore come as no surprise that it took nearly as much time for me to transition from orthodox Catholic to liberal Catholic to atheist. My journey, though unique in its own way, is not exceptional. There are as many journeys from faith to reason as Clergy Project members. Although each journey is different from the next, we share common experiences and values.
We have each had a personal devotion to faith and have given our all to the vocation we chose—or, rather, were called
for. In many cases, this meant sacrificing more lucrative employment opportunities and personal well-being, all to be part of something bigger.
We each went into ministry looking to find answers and meaning. I, for one, was wholeheartedly committed to the idea of helping to bring about the kingdom of God on earth by participating in good works. I thought at the time that studying theology would strengthen this commitment, by enabling me to better understand scripture and to more effectively communicate the gospel to those I ministered. I see now that much of this interest stemmed from my motivation to find answers to questions that had long troubled me and to quell my confusion when I read the Bible or asked questions of religious leaders.
We each saw ministry as an opportunity to do good work and to be of service to our communities. This desire to help has since extended outside of our religious traditions, as members who have left active ministry tend to gravitate toward helping professions, such as nonprofit service, social work, psychology, and governance.
We have each been willing to accept reality. For believers, doubt is the calling card of desolation. Overcoming this seemingly impassive obstacle defines the struggle of all clergy. Each member of the Clergy Project has gone through this process and—unlike other clergy who doubt but continue to believe—has rejected the idea of making a hasty retreat to faith.
We have each been tied to an ideology that sought principally to replicate adherence to its dogma. As fabricated as this sounds, such constructs are what kept me—and countless others—inside religion for so long. I capitulated my identity, values, and goals to a social organism whose only endeavor was self-replication. This process demands that clergy forgo their own well-being and happiness in order to sustain the unmoved and indifferent institutions that ensnare them.
Although we may have each rejected the fallacy and indoctrination of religion, we understand the desire to help and minister to others, and we know that communities often need help finding meaning during difficult times. We no longer rely on the formula that we previously used to interpret and articulate this meaning. Doing so would be similar to trying to follow a recipe when half the ingredients don’t exist. Rather, we cultivate meaning in the reciprocity and reasoned deliberation of humanism.
As with other Clergy Project members, my own transition from a person of faith to a person of reason was not a short or thoughtless path. It took into account not only my theological education, but also the fabric of my culture and the expectations of my family. Faith was an intricate part of my life, something instilled and cultivated, in large part, by my mother. As a result, I was a slow learner
when it came to giving up God. I railed against the doubt. Faith may require compromise, suspension of reason, and the acquiescing of judgment, but it offers the comfort of arrogant certainty and a millennia-old community from which to draw support.
Even so, ministry can be an exceedingly isolating experience, as the individual becomes annexed as a holy person
or a man/woman of God.
Alienation is tricky in that much of it is internalized. The problem of burnout and depression among active clergy is so pervasive that many denominations institute policies and programs to help prevent or to even treat such conditions. For example, Roman Catholic priests are required to take annual spiritual retreats, as well as vacation time every year, and the Methodist Church has instituted a Clergy Health Initiative out of Duke University to assist its clergy coping with these wide-reaching challenges. The demands of keeping up with a congregation and its members’ psychological and spiritual needs are draining at the best of times. When the minister, priest, rabbi, or imam also happens to be a nonbeliever, this stress level is multiplied. Not only are these individuals challenged by the external demands of meeting the emotional and spiritual needs of their place of worship, but they are also confronted by a powerful internal conflict—the schism between their public articulation of doctrinal beliefs and the simple fact that they are no longer believers.
Hiding in the atheist closet provides protection from judgment, protection from hostility, and protection of livelihood, but it does nothing to protect from this heightened sense of alienation. Until the founding of the Clergy Project, there was very little opportunity for faithless clergy to find support or a sympathetic ear. The protective boundary of anonymity that the Clergy Project provides nonbelieving religious leaders of every persuasion acts in many ways as a cloister. Inside the safety of our virtual walls, we are free to interact, to share our stories, and to find community. The project provides to clergy, for the first time, a sanctuary and a community of peers that provides not a place of worship, but rather, a place for reason, scrubbed clean of theism.
Although this book is about the Clergy Project, it is also about my own personal journey from faith to disbelief, as I draw extensively on my experiences and recollections to help tell the project’s shared story through my own individual lens. Thus, much of the discussion revolves around the Roman Catholic Church and my evolving relationship with it, especially as a woman. Though a lot of what I share relates specifically to Catholicism and its teachings, the journey that I took—both from an emotional and intellectual standpoint—has parallels with the journeys taken by all members of the Clergy Project, no matter their past denomination or religion. As with any extended journey or transformation, clear stages can be identified. I have thus divided this volume into three parts to suggest this idea.
The first part of the book examines the underlying need for the Clergy Project and the great anticipation with which the project’s launch was met. I focus specifically on the sense of isolation, uncertainty, and fear experienced by nonbelieving clergy. I also shed light on the Clergy Project’s foundation. In an effort to provide as complete a picture as possible, I interviewed each of the project’s founders about the genesis of the project, their motivations for launching it, and their hopes for its future.
When I have an opportunity to speak about the project, I am often asked, What is a typical Clergy Project member like?
and Why did these clergy lose their faith?
The second part of the book answers these two questions—the first, with a quantitative examination of project membership, and the second, with a qualitative analysis of oft-stated factors that contributed to members’ gradual erosion of faith. In many instances, these factors caused them to question authority and transform their values. They include the theological training clergy receive that is meant to inform their faith and ministry and challenges to their belief systems, particularly as relates to social justice issues, such as women’s and LGBT rights.
The third part of the book looks at what project members have gained and lost in their journey from faith to disbelief, deals with the causes and consequences of a loss of faith, and discusses briefly the role clergy project members might play in the ongoing negotiation between faith and reason. It also demonstrates how many project members today articulate values and create meaning without a belief in God. Unlike faith traditions, these values do not claim a supernatural context; they are like all morals, mores, memes, and ethics—social constructs that have grown and morphed out of the social and biological history of our species. In many ways, we remain like our hunter-gatherer ancestors, attempting to not only survive the landscape, but also to make our mark upon it.
I am sure that the existence of the Clergy Project and the phenomenon of faithless religious leaders are unsettling to believers. They may interpret our rejection of faith in ways that give them comfort; they may say we are leaders who have lost our way; they may calls us troublemakers; or they may claim we have never been true believers, but the reality is that each member of the Clergy Project simply followed theology to its inevitable conclusions. This does not mean that our members do not see any benefit or good in religious communities—we do. We have simply accepted known reality. As our collective narrative shows, we may be considered apostates who have rejected faith and the supremacy of sacred literature, but we remain the same people who committed our lives to the values of compassion, ethics, and empathy and to our common humanity.
PART I
GENESIS: A PREHISTORY
1
LIVING IN ISOLATION
"He has put my family far from me,
and my acquaintances are wholly estranged from me."
—Job 19:13
Keeping a secret is an unintended exercise in loneliness that is fraught with fear, regret, and trepidation. For clergy who have shed their faith but who remain in the pulpit, this loneliness takes on a whole new dimension as they externally reiterate and promulgate religious ideologies that they have internally rejected. They do so for fear of repudiation from their communities and sanction by their denominational hierarchy. Even former clergy, whose options are generally better, are often unable to speak to trusted friends, family members, or allies regarding their loss of faith for like