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The Art of Authenticity is a guide to becoming a better leader by achieving your best self. All people bring different sides of themselves to various situations. This book will show you how to broaden and deepen your effectiveness by presenting the most appropriate side of yourself. Dr. Karissa Thacker is the management psychologist called on by over two hundred Fortune 500 companies to work with high potential leaders. This book provides you with her expert guidance, based on validated psychological research and artful application of psychological principles to actual business situations, to help you become an authentic leader. You'll learn how to lead through reflection, action, and conscious choice, and how to maintain your guiding principles while effectively leading your team. By replacing habitual reactions with authentic ones, you'll find that you're modeling good behavior and effective decision-making—and that authenticity is contagious. This guide equips you with the tools and skills you need to be the catalyst of positive change your organization needs.
How do you remain authentic while being an effective leader? This book argues that the question isn't a duality. Authenticity is the best way to lead, and the only way to maintain sustainable success as an organization. This insightful guide shows you how to find your authentic self, and leverage that into an effective, executable leadership strategy.
- Become authentic in a way that befits your values
- Show loyalty, honesty, ethics, and consideration
- Maintain authenticity in leadership roles
- Make conscious choices instead of blind reactions
Some are born to lead, other must be taught, but all leaders must work to retain their own values and basic sense of self. A simple pause can mean the difference between a knee-jerk reaction and an authentic decision, and the effects ripple throughout your organization. The Art of Authenticity is your guidebook to finding the true authentic leader within, and leading from the inside out for the long haul.
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The Art of Authenticity - Karissa Thacker
Contents
Cover
Title Page
Copyright
Dedication
Preface
Part I: A New Vision of Authenticity
Chapter 1: The Digital Era of Freedom and Fear
The Call to Authenticity
On Becoming More Authentic
The Particular Challenges of Now and How Did We Get Here?
The Dawn of the Digital Age
Digital Era = Fear + Freedom
Responding to the Challenges of Freedom and Fear
The Workouts
Chapter 2: Signature Contributions vs. Conformity
Celebrate Your Quirks
The More Experiments the Better
The Upside of Your Weaknesses
Meaning Matters
The Workouts
Chapter 3: Truth, Lies, and Authenticity
Seeing the Multiple Choice Questions
Killing the Dead Bug View of Truth
Big Fat Whoppers and Sweet Little Lies
The Truth About Authenticity
The Workouts
Part II: The Science of Authenticity
Chapter 4: Followers Beware…of Charisma
The Perceived Power of Charisma
Two Flavors of Charisma
Conversations That Matter
The Authenticity Continuum
The Workouts
Chapter 5: Self-Awareness or is it Selves Awareness?
Selves Awareness and the Case of the Bossy CFO
Are You a Chameleon?
Fixed Traits, Free Traits, and Real People
The Ideal Self, the Current Self, and Lots in Between
The Workouts
Chapter 6: Balanced Processing and Collaborative Decision Making
What Is Balanced Processing?
Get in Balanced Processing Gear or Not
Three Tricky Words for Leaders
Hire a Brilliant Antagonist or Three
Know and Own All Your Biases
Have a Big Ego and Put It on the Shelf
The Workouts
Chapter 7: Relational Transparency and Honest Conversations
The Value of Honest Conversation
Transparency That Creates Business Results
Emotional Transparency Matters, Too
The Myth of Total Transparency
The Age of Transparency
General Practical Rules of the Transparency Road
The Challenge of Transparency
The Workouts
Chapter 8: Internalized Moral Perspective/An Active, Unique GPS System
Prisons, Orderly Stages, and Elephants
Putting Up Psychological Guardrails
The One Thing
The Workouts
Part III: The Master Class
Chapter 9: The Centrality of Conscious Choice
Debunking Popeye's Version of Authenticity
The Reality of Authenticity
Choosing Authentic Action
Choose to Experiment
Choose to Notice the Novel
In Closing
The Workouts
Chapter 10: How to Read Culture Like an Anthropologist
Practical Anthropology Via iPhone
Is the Organization Working to Be More Authentic?
Figuring Out Fit
The Mind-Set of a Corporate Anthropologist
The Workouts
Chapter 11: How to Make Peace with Paradox
Who Are You (Really)?
Three Selves That Won't Magically Align
Authentic Leadership Is a State of Mind
The Workouts
Chapter 12: How to Ferociously Seek the Truth (When Everyone Is Framing and Spinning)
The Truth Serum Question
The Trust Meter Is Always Running
In Search of a Virtue Buzz
Self-Defining Moments
The Workouts
Conclusion
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Index
End User License Agreement
The Art of Authenticity
Tools to Become an Authentic Leader and Your Best Self
Dr. Karissa Thacker
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Dedication
This book is dedicated to my clients, who struggle to create extraordinary business results and be true to themselves. It is not an easy struggle, but it is well worth it.
Preface
If you would have told me three years ago that I would be writing a book on authenticity, of all things, I would have laughed. The topic made me feel vaguely uncomfortable. I have often felt that being my true self was in conflict with meeting my goals, which were also a part of me; not in big ways, but in small ways that felt slowly corrosive. (And I have never done anything remotely criminal aside from speeding.)
What changed? My intellectual and emotional curiosity about the topic got aroused during a continuing education program. After that workshop, I began to dig deeply into the work of Bill George, Robert Terry, and the foundational modern research on authenticity of social psychologists Michael Kernis and Brian Goldman. I discovered a rich body of literature and a topic that provoked incredible conversations. I started talking to my clients about the topic and trying to understand their views in casual conversations. I discovered I was not alone in this struggle to be true to myself and meet my goals, nor in feeling a vague sense of discomfort around the topic for similar reasons.
I also began to envision a view of authenticity from a psychological perspective, one that was pragmatic and designed to illuminate those small
ways in which we choose to be true to ourselves—or not—and perhaps create room for new possibilities in those moments. Practically speaking, it also made sense that the more one contemplated authenticity in the small moments, the greater the likelihood one would be in shape
to behave authentically in the big, defining moments. The more I read and talked with clients and colleagues, the more intrigued I was. I became haunted by the following question: How could we become more authentic through those small daily struggles in real, pressure-filled situations? Or practically speaking, how could we up our percentage of authentic actions? That question is the foundation of this book.
The point of view in this work is that authenticity is all about human possibility, creativity, expression, and freedom. Becoming more authentic is a grand concept and is far more than avoiding doing bad things like lying and cheating. The possibility is found in the midst of an honest appraisal of the real struggles and making choices that are more mindful and conscious. This book is about discovering the possibilities for you to be both authentic and successful at the same time. The book brings you the most relevant tools and insights from psychology. However, becoming a version of you that is both authentic and effective is your art to bring to the world. Hence, the title The Art of Authenticity.
The text is organized in three separate sections. Part 1 consists of three chapters and is titled A New Vision of Authenticity.
The goal of this section is to refine and contemporize the concept for the digital age. In Chapter 1, The Digital Era of Freedom and Fear,
the connection between authenticity and modern workplace realities is explored. Strong forces such as the flattening of hierarchy and globalization have created a macro environment in which becoming more authentic could very well be more adaptive than just doing your job and blending in. Beginning in Chapter 1 and in each subsequent chapter, the chapter closes with practical workouts designed to help leaders develop skills in becoming more authentic in real-life work situations. In Chapter 2, Signature Contributions vs. Conformity,
readers are challenged to contemplate what is unique about themselves as individuals. What is the unique combination of skills and perspective that only you can bring? It takes extra effort to tune into yourself and figure out what you really want and need to contribute. This new, practical view of authenticity requires you to go deep and think really hard about situations and who you want to be instead of just being on autopilot and conforming. Having signature contributions that are obvious when your name is mentioned is the litmus test for authenticity.
Chapter 3, Truth, Lies, and Authenticity,
brings the first foundational section of the book to a close with an exploration of overlapping and confusing terms such as truth, honesty, and transparency. We all think of transparency, truth, and honesty as being part of authentic leadership. But in reality there are lots of ways of interpreting terms such as truth, honesty, and transparency. We explore less-than- straightforward questions such as the value of being brutally honest if you know it is going to harm either a person or a business. Seeking the truth is a continual quest, and being brutally honest is a behavioral choice in a specific situation that could be harmful to others.
The second part of the book, The Science of Authenticity,
takes the reader on a journey through what we have learned about authenticity from the science of psychology. The big insight from social psychology is that authenticity is not just one thing but a multiple component variable. Authenticity consists of at least four variables, all of which have a chapter in this section. But we begin the section with Chapter 4, Followers Beware…of Charisma,
a look at how many people mistake charisma for authenticity. Charisma is a separate and distinct characteristic from authenticity. However, most of us have been taken in at some point by someone who was very charismatic but did not turn out to be genuine in the long run. The reality is that charismatic, larger-than-life leaders may or may not be authentic. This chapter outlines what team members should be on the alert for and notice in order to figure out whether or not their leader is actually genuine or just has a great show.
In Chapter 5, Self-Awareness or Is it Selves Awareness?
we explore the first component of authenticity discovered in the quantitative psychological research. Not surprisingly, self-awareness is one of the components of authenticity. However, this chapter gets real and takes on the notion of one consistent self that is so prevalent in ordinary business conversations. The reality is that we all have multiple sides and facets, which are compounded by multiple role demands. Common knowledge states that people behave in certain ways due to their personalities. In reality, much of our behavior is determined by the situation. This chapter will help the reader become more authentic by developing greater selves awareness.
We delve into the second component of authenticity in "Chapter 6: Balanced Processing and Collaborative Decision Making." Balanced processing is about blending your thought process with the thought processes of others without a bias toward your view. Nothing may be more important in today's collaborative business environment than this skill of balanced processing. Balanced processing is a part of good decision making as well as authenticity. The construct is fully explored through the use of real-world examples. Readers are challenged to develop their own balanced processing skills through seeking out opposing views and actually listening carefully.
The third component of a psychological model of authenticity is relational transparency. The realities of transparency in the real world are explored in Chapter 7, which is titled Relational Transparency and Honest Conversations.
Why can it be so difficult to have an honest conversation in a modern corporation about what is really happening with your project or the business as a whole? The case study of Alan Mulally and the remarkable turnaround at Ford is used as an example of the power of honest conversations. The chapter also explores how the rules are changing regarding the emotional transparency that is expected of leaders about who they are as people, which may not be directly relevant to business issues. The times are changing quickly and the rules and expectations regarding both intellectual and emotional transparency are in a state of flux.
The fourth component of a psychological model of authenticity is explained in Chapter 8, Internalized Moral Perspective/An Active Unique GPS System.
This chapter explains the terrain of moral psychology and helps the reader make sense of both moral and immoral behavior. It is only through a willingness to look at our own self-righteous thinking and feelings that we can actually live in accordance with our own values. The chapter draws heavily on the work of Jonathan Haidt, who has clarified that morality is primarily driven by intuition and gut reactions, not cognition.
In the third and final part of the book, The Master Class,
we delve into the more complex insights that must be translated into daily behavior in order to become a more authentic leader as you are facing the pressures of day-to-day situations. Chapter 9 kicks off the final section and is titled The Centrality of Conscious Choice.
We all make thousands of choices every day. Many of them are conscious, and perhaps more are totally unconscious. The path toward greater authenticity requires that leaders become more conscious of all the choices they are making. This chapter debunks the idea that you have little control over your real self. Readers are challenged through the work of Dr. Ellen Langer on scientific mindfulness to choose more and react less.
Next, we move from conscious choice into the realm of organizational culture in Chapter 10, How to Read Culture Like an Anthropologist.
Organizations are highly variable in terms of cultures, and authentic leaders must bring great skill in understanding organizations as cultures. You are both authentic and/or effective in a specific organizational culture. Finding a good cultural fit is critical if you are to grow as an authentic leader. Authentic leaders have the ability to shape the culture, but not if they don't understand it as it is. The reader will leave Chapter 10 with a new appreciation for making sense of human behavior in organizations through the lens of organizational culture.
We move from organizational culture to the topic of paradox in Chapter 11, How to Make Peace with Paradox.
Real people and real decisions require us to make sense of paradox or seemingly contradictory notions. Both people and situations are inherently paradoxical. The chapter draws heavily on the work of Robert Quinn, who has identified leadership as a state of mind that is other focused instead of self-focused. All of us can shift from self-focus to other focus with skill if we know how to make peace with the paradox that is us. Human beings are by nature capable of great, unselfish feats and myopic, self-oriented behavior within the same hour. This chapter will provide readers with tools to manage their own peculiar paradoxical human nature.
For the final chapter of the book, Chapter 12, How to Ferociously Seek the Truth When Everyone Is Framing and Spinning,
I saved the best and most complicated for last. We delve into the workplace realities and power dynamics that give rise to all the framing and spinning. The key to seeking and getting the truth is to understand that it is the leader's responsibility to create a climate in which people are safe to tell the truth. Every gesture counts, as people are always calculating just how much they can trust their leaders. Practicing virtues like truth-telling and creating trusting environments is extremely rewarding. However, we may be moving too fast to notice at times. In the final section, readers are challenged to notice what happens on an internal level when they witness virtuous behaviors like truth-telling.
In aggregate, it is my goal that you as the reader are both challenged and supported in the quest toward becoming more authentic as a leader.
Part I
A New Vision of Authenticity
1
The Digital Era of Freedom and Fear
In effect, managing one's self demands that each knowledge worker think and behave like a chief executive officer. Furthermore, the shift from manual workers who do as they are told to knowledge workers who have to manage themselves profoundly challenges the social structure. Every existing society, even the most individualistic one, takes two things for granted, if only subconsciously; that organizations outlive workers and most people stay put. But today, the opposite is true. Knowledge workers outlive organizations and they are mobile. The need to manage oneself is therefore creating a revolution in human affairs.1
—Peter Drucker
Excelling at leading a business is an amazing gift. We have lost sight of the enormous contribution made by the vast majority of people who lead organizations that produce goods or services. I have always been amazed by the extraordinary talents of my clients. Laughingly, I call them all action addicts. Truly authentic leaders are people who know how to make sure the stuff that really matters gets done and raise the performance of thousands of people (including themselves) to a higher standard through their presence, impact, and well-chosen actions.
I've learned from some of the best. What have I learned? Finding the balance between being yourself and relating effectively within a demanding context is not easy. Successful organizations are social systems with tremendous pressures toward specific behaviors that have led to the organization's success in the past.2 Just be who you are and live your values
sounds deceptively simple. Leaders must pay attention, adjust, and adapt to complex situations both inside the organization and in the marketplace or they will not be leaders for long. Finding the balance between being your true self and adapting to the cacophony of pressures is a complex, very personal equation. Platitudes are just not enough.
We live in a time of intense pressure to produce quarterly earnings amid constant, unpredictable market forces. For every glitzy empty suit that you've seen on television being carted away for fraud or exiled for a golden office toilet, I have had the privilege of working closely with at least 20 other talented executives. The less glitzy ones that you do not see on television are struggling to embody their values, lead toward the common good, and deliver economic results in an incredibly turbulent global marketplace. This book is an invitation to join the struggle and become one of them
in a good way.
The Call to Authenticity
We are all leaders and we are all followers in this digital era. Things have changed a lot during the first 15 years in this new century. In 1999, Peter Drucker, the sage of the business world, predicted that we would all need to learn to manage ourselves like Da Vinci, Mozart, and Napoleon.
The truth is that we all need to learn to lead ourselves and answer the call to be authentic. The essence of authenticity is being yourself fully. It requires courage. Being an authentic leader is not just about making the right ethical decision when the heat is on. It is primarily about doing the work every day to bring your best self forward into the world so that you are in shape when the heat is on and the pressure is high. Being authentic is just like being in shape physically. It is a daily decision and there is no substitute for doing the work. This book serves as a guidebook for those who want to do the work.
Why does authenticity matter now? How is authentic leadership different from leadership—or the lack thereof we hear so much about? We live in an era in which fear is a huge force, and we hear about it all the time due to our unprecedented ability to communicate incessantly. The situational press of fear, negativity, and cynicism is deafening. The World Economic Forum lists deepening income disparities, persistent structural unemployment, diminishing confidence in economic policies, and a lack of leadership as part of its top 10 global trends for the year 2015.
We're not living in easy times, but when have they ever been easy? The challenges are just different. One hundred years ago in 1915, the Great War was raging. Unlike in 1915, blending in below the radar with a predictable job may not be possible today.
On Becoming More Authentic
Becoming more authentic may be a key to reaching your external dreams and achieving internal well-being. People who have something unique to say and are willing to step up and say it are increasingly finding success. Many would not have predicted the election of Barack Obama in 2008. Obama used his personal story and the facts of his biography in an inspired, authentic manner. The electorate responded. Obama's message of personal authenticity resonated deeply with the younger demographic. Regardless of your opinion regarding Obama's results as president, his story is indicative of someone who led himself and chose his own path. Choosing your own path with an understanding of external forces is at the heart of psychological authenticity. The vast majority of people may never choose to lead themselves and be authentic. But a percentage of people in every generation do choose the path.
Authenticity is not a new idea. Historically, being authentic generally meant being true to yourself. Being genuine or real. It has generally been accepted across philosophical traditions and cultures to be a state to which one aspires. It is assumed that being authentic is a good thing. It's likely that when you describe someone as authentic,
you admire them.
The drive toward being genuine or real also appears to be innate. We first experience the awareness that we are being real or being fake in early adolescence. Research by developmental psychologist Susan Harter clarifies that adolescents report negative psychological states associated with being fake and prefer to be themselves.3
So why does authenticity really matter now? Perhaps it is adaptive in the external environment to be authentic for the first time. To be sure, the forces toward conformity that are part of the human condition still exist. However, the opportunities for jobs in which you just do the same thing every day are going away. The Industrial Era was a time of great opportunity and