The Everything Health Guide To Postpartum Care: A Complete Guide to Looking and Feeling Great After Delivery and Beyond
By Megan Francis and Kip Kozlowski
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If you're concerned about post-delivery complications or whether you'll need outside help during this sensitive time, this handy guide answers all of your questions and helps you take those first steps to getting back on track.
From getting enough sleep and getting back in shape to answering all of your financial and health-care concerns - The Everything Health Guide to Postpartum Care offers expert, reassuring information on:
- Your hospital stay and post-delivery complications
- Sex after delivery
- Work after birth
- Breast, skin, and hair care
- Postpartum depression
Megan Francis
An Adams Media author.
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The Everything Health Guide To Postpartum Care - Megan Francis
Introduction
In some cultures, a woman who’s had a baby is expected to rest for a month or more while the other members of the community or tribe care for her. In the United States, it’s more likely that a new mom would be expected back at work within a month or two. New mothers are sent home from the hospital with directions to return to their doctors in six weeks, but myriad emotional and physical issues come up during that time. Unfortunately, many women are left to work through these concerns on their own, or are often unsure of where to look for help when a question comes up.
There is much more to the postpartum period than feeding and diapering. When a baby is born, a mother is born, too, and the changes she experiences can be confusing and unexpected. You’ll go through a myriad of physical changes. After birth, your body will begin its shift back to its prepregnancy shape and size. As your organs shift, your uterus shrinks, and your body rids itself of excess fluid, your breasts will begin producing milk, and your hormone levels will fluctuate. As you’re going through this major physiological transformation, you’ll also be getting to know your little one and, if this is your first baby, adjusting to a whole new set of responsibilities and lifestyle changes that can bring on a huge emotional response.
It’s a lot of changing to go through in just a few short months. Yet the postpartum period is often overlooked in books about parenting and motherhood, which tend to focus on the baby’s care and development. The same tends to happen in our culture — at birth, the focus shifts from the pregnant woman to her baby, and the result is often that the needs of the postpartum woman are overlooked. And while we think of the postpartum period as being the six weeks after delivery, in reality a new mother will continue to experience hormonal, physical, and emotional postpartum changes for months after she gives birth.
Postpartum can be a wonderful time when women are given the opportunity to slow down, rest, and get to know the new baby they’ve carried and given birth to. It can also be a stressful time. Adding a new baby can tax the relationship between a mother and father, which can be even more difficult to deal with when nobody’s getting enough sleep, and a pile of dirty diapers is stacking up.
The keys to thriving — rather than just surviving — through the postpartum period include having enough help, trusting in your abilities as a mother, taking good care of yourself by eating well and getting as much sleep as possible, and having realistic expectations of yourself, your baby, and your partner. This book will help you do just that. By explaining in detail what you can expect from your physical recovery from birth and how you can navigate your emotional adjustment to new motherhood, including information on diet and nutrition, exercise, wardrobe, postpartum depression, sex, and more, The Everything® Health Guide to Postpartum Care will act as your guide to preparing for and blossoming during this exciting and transformational time of your life.
Congratulations on the birth of your new baby! I wish you plenty of support, enough sleep, and much patience as you take the journey through new motherhood.
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Preparing for a Great Postpartum Experience
MANY EXPECTING MOMS SPEND a lot of time preparing — shopping, reading, and learning — to care for a baby. This is certainly a necessary part of getting ready for your little one to arrive. But too many moms-to-be forget to make a plan for their own postpartum health and happiness at the same time. Pull together the tools, help, and knowledge you’ll need before your baby is born, and you’ll be well on your way to having a relaxing and happy postpartum experience.
How Your Birth Experience Affects Your Postpartum Experience
Your birth experience affects so much more than just how and when your baby is born. Every procedure and intervention used during your labor, from medications used to start or augment your labor, to pain medication or anesthesia, to fetal monitoring, IVs, and even the position you’re in when you push your baby out, can have an effect on how easily and comfortably you recover after your baby is born.
When making a birth plan, you should take into account not only how interventions and drugs can affect your baby and delivery, but also how they might make you feel postpartum. The following sections cover some common interventions and procedures used during labor, and how they might affect your recovery after giving birth.
Induction
When your labor is induced, it can increase the chances that you’ll end up with a long, hard labor, and it makes it more likely that you’ll need additional interventions like pain medication, epidural anesthesia, or even a cesarean section. Many care providers induce routinely, and not all have sound medical reasons for doing so.
Narcotic Pain Relief
Drugs like Demerol, Stadol, and Nubain can all cause you to feel spacy and out of it in your baby’s first minutes, and can make nursing difficult. And once your baby is born, the drugs can take weeks to leave your system.
Epidurals
Epidurals can lead to a host of side effects, including severe headaches, fever, pain and itching at the site of the injection, uneven numbing, and occasionally, even more severe side effects like a sudden drop in blood pressure. Epidurals make it more likely that you’ll have a forceps delivery, episiotomy, birth by c-section, and other interventions that can make recovery more difficult.
Antibiotics
The routine use of antibiotics during labor and birth isn’t uncommon, but it can cause postpartum problems. You may have an allergic reaction to an antibiotic, which could mar your postpartum experience with side effects. Also, antibiotics can cause yeast infections by wiping out the healthy bacteria in your system that keep fungi in check. Nursing moms can also get yeast infections of the nipples, called thrush, which can be painful for both mom and baby. Make sure you know whether your care provider intends to give you antibiotics during your labor and birth, under what circumstances, and what alternatives you may have. You may have to do some research on your own to find out this information.
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If you know ahead of time that you’ll have antibiotics during labor and birth, eat lots of yogurt containing live bacteria cultures or take acidophilus supplements, which you can find in your health-food store or pharmacy. This will help maintain the balance of microorganisms in your body and reduce your risk of yeast infection.
Fetal Monitoring
Constant external fetal monitoring can limit your movement or even keep you stuck in bed, which can make it more difficult to deal with contractions and respond to your baby’s passage through your body, and can increase the chances that you’ll have an epidural or other pain medication.
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There’s no scientific evidence that constant fetal monitoring creates better birth outcomes for low-risk mothers having normal pregnancies, but it may increase the chance of of having a c-section and other interventions. Ask if your provider and birthplace will consider placing you on the monitor only intermittently, or consider using a portable Doppler to check your baby’s heartbeat instead of an electronic fetal monitor.
Internal fetal monitoring involves a care provider placing an electrode on your baby’s scalp while he is still inside your uterus. Any time hands or objects are in your vagina during labor, you run a higher risk of developing an infection, which can make you very sick postpartum. There’s also a risk of infection to your baby’s scalp. Also, care providers must rupture your bag of waters to place the electrodes on your baby’s scalp, which further increases your risk of intervention and infection. Sometimes, however, accurate fetal monitoring will prevent an unnecessary c-section, and internal monitoring is much more reliable than external monitoring.
Forceps or Vacuum Extraction
Using forceps or vacuum extraction during your birth can damage your pelvic floor, cause tearing and trauma, and increase both your pain during and after birth and the amount of time it’ll take you to heal postpartum.
Episiotomy
An episiotomy is an incision made through layers of tissue and muscle in the perineum. While an episiotomy is usually unnecessary, many care providers do them routinely. They are painful, can take longer to heal than natural tears, and can increase the risk of infection. Ask your health-care provider about his or her episiotomy rates, and how he or she will work with you to help you avoid episiotomies. Giving birth in an upright position, experiencing perineal massage or support while pushing, and pushing when you have the urge (as opposed to forced or coached
pushing) can all help your baby emerge more easily without an episiotomy.
C-section
Deliveries by cesarean section can be lifesaving when used appropriately, but most experts agree that there are far too many c-sections performed in the United States. If you have your baby via c-section, you can plan on a longer, more painful recovery, increased risk of infection, and a host of other short- and long-term side effects.
If you hope to have a baby vaginally in the future, you’ll want to do all you can to avoid an unnecessary c-section this time around. Because of rising malpractice rates and fears of litigation, it’s becoming increasingly more difficult to find care providers and hospitals that will allow mothers with previous c-sections to deliver vaginally.
Avoiding Interventions
If you think you’d like to avoid any of the previously discussed interventions during your birth, don’t wait and see how things go when you’re actually in labor. Instead, arm yourself with knowledge and the intention to have the birth experience you want.
Negative birth experiences have been linked with postpartum depression and even posttraumatic stress disorder. No provider can guarantee that you’ll have the outcome you hope for, but giving birth with a provider you really trust and feeling like a partner in your own care can help you understand what happened and give you a feeling of peace about your birth experience, even if it didn’t go perfectly according to plan.
Learn All You Can
Read books on childbirth, study comfort techniques, and learn about methods like Lamaze or birth hypnosis. Take a childbirth-education class, but don’t be discouraged if the teacher seems to assume you’ll end up with a very medical birth — if that’s not what you want, you can work toward something different. See Appendix B for a list of resources that can help you educate yourself.
Communicate Your Wishes
By the time you’ve reached your last trimester of pregnancy, you should be talking with your doctor or midwife about his or her philosophy on birth and intervention, as well as how he or she plans to help you avoid unnecessary and unwanted medications or other procedures. Sooner is better than later here, since you may want to switch providers if you find that your current caregiver is unable or unwilling to assist you in pursuing the kind of birth you want.
Check Out Your Birthplace
The hospital or birth center where you’ll give birth will likely have a larger say in what goes on during your labor than your provider, who may not even arrive on the scene until you’re ready to push. It’s very important to tour the place where you intend to give birth and find out its policies and procedures. Will you be able to eat and drink during labor? What about IVs and routine fetal monitoring? How will they help you with breastfeeding? Not all lactation consultants are created equal.
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How can I know if my hospital or birth center is breastfeeding friendly?
Unicef and the World Health Organization (WHO) have created the Baby-Friendly Hospital Initiative, which gives its stamp of approval to hospitals and birthing centers that follow ten steps to make the facility breastfeeding friendly, such as allowing unrestricted breastfeeding and helping mothers initiate breastfeeding within an hour of birth. Visit illustration www.babyfriendlyusa.org for more information.
Hire Help
Consider hiring a doula to assist you with your birth. A doula will provide support in achieving the birth experience you want and act as an advocate on your behalf. She can free your husband or partner up from the stressful job of coach, and make sure your wishes are communicated to the medical staff and that you understand any procedures or interventions your doctor or midwife wants to perform. For more information on finding a birth doula, visit Appendix B.
Communicate Again
Even if your doctor or midwife is very familiar with your birth plan, it’s still crucial to inform the nurses on staff when you go into labor. In most hospitals and many birth centers, nurses do the majority of the labor care — as mentioned previously, your doctor may not even arrive until you’re ready to push!
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Sometimes, the nurses in a maternity unit will have preferences for the kind of birth (i.e., highly medicated or low intervention) they like best, and will try to match up their preferences with patients who also want those kinds of births. And no matter what sort of nurse you have, she won’t know your wishes if you don’t tell her.
Creating a Hospital Postpartum Plan
If you’re creating a birth plan to give the nurses and other caregivers who’ll be attending your birth, you’ll want to make sure to include a section on how you’d like both yourself and your baby to be treated after delivery. For example, if you’re planning to breastfeed, you’ll get off to a much better start if you can nurse your baby soon after birth — preferably right away. But if your care providers don’t know about your wishes, they will probably follow hospital protocol instead, which may mean that your baby will be getting looked over on a warmer when you’d hoped to be nursing her.
When you’re creating your postpartum birth plan, be sure to include your preferences for the following scenarios:
If you want your baby to be with you while you’re getting a tear or episiotomy repaired (if necessary), you’ll want to indicate this in your postpartum plan. Also, if you’ll be delivering at a teaching hospital, think about whether you’ll be okay with a student performing your sutures, or if you’d rather your doctor or midwife did it.
What do you want to happen to your placenta? If you’re hoping to take your placenta home for any reason, you’ll need to let your caregivers know about this ahead of time and be sure to include it in your plan. Some hospitals won’t allow you to keep the placenta.
If you’ll be breastfeeding, you’ll want to make sure the nurses know not to give your baby any pacifiers or bottles of formula or sugar water, and that you’d like a visit from the hospital’s lactation consultant, if there is one. Also, you may want to indicate that your baby should receive expressed breastmilk if he has to spend time in the newborn intensive care unit (NICU).
Decide whether you’ll be rooming in or rooming out. For more information on this, see Chapter 4.
If you want your caregivers to hold off on examining your newborn until after you’ve had a chance to hold him and breastfeed him, make sure this is in your postpartum plan. Other routine newborn procedures, like clamping and cutting the cord, providing vitamin K injections, or putting antibiotic eye ointment on the baby can usually be delayed if you ask ahead of time.
When you create a postpartum plan, you’ll need to make sure that you also communicate your wishes (or have somebody else, like a doula, your partner, or other helper, do it) to all the staff involved in your birth and postpartum experience. Remember, it’s your body, your baby, and your right to ask for the treatment you want. You are a paying customer!
Creating a Support System
New moms need support and friendship, but for too many mothers, the early years of raising kids are isolated and solitary. Unfortunately, during the time when you may need the support most — when you’re home with a new baby — it can be really hard to get out of the house and meet other moms. To avoid postpartum loneliness, it’s a good idea to hook up with other moms during your pregnancy so you’ll have a built-in support network. Here are some ways you can meet other moms:
Your church or religious community: Many churches have active support groups for mothers. MOPS, or Mothers of Preschoolers, is one such support group. Check with other mothers in your church and visit Appendix B for a list of resources to try.
Mothering groups and classes: Check your local community center, hospital, birth center, or continuing-education catalog for parenting classes or support groups for moms. If you’re planning on breastfeeding, it’s a good idea to arm yourself with encouragement and support by attending a breastfeeding class or La Leche League meeting before your baby is born. For a list of motherhood-related support groups, see Appendix B.
Prenatal exercise classes: Taking a prenatal-yoga or aerobics class can do more than keep you physically healthy — it can also introduce you to a group of other expecting moms. Get to know the other women in your class, and arrange to meet up outside of class before or after your babies are born.
Of course, you don’t have to start spending all your time with other expectant moms just because you’re having a baby. The friends and family who are already in your life also want to be a part of your experience. The problem, however, is that the people closest to you often aren’t sure how to help out, and you may not know what to ask for. This is especially true if you have friends and family who don’t have their own kids. They simply may not be able to relate to what you’re going through. The following are a couple of specific, fun ways you can ask others to help you prepare for a great postpartum experience:
Meals: Toward the end of your pregnancy, you can throw a meal shower. Guests arrive with frozen meals that can be reheated for easy eating after your baby is born. Or invite friends over to your house and provide ingredients, a stove, and refreshments. Your friends can cook several meals for your freezer.
Cleaning: You provide snacks and cleaning supplies; they provide the elbow grease. Get some friends together close to your due date to help you get your house in tiptop shape by doing the jobs you can’t — like the ones that include climbing on stools or using cleaners with noxious fumes.
It’s important that you communicate freely with your friends and family as your pregnancy unfolds. As long as everyone is aware of your wishes and knows how you’re feeling, the people you care about most can continue being a big part of your life. All it takes is a little patience and understanding to maintain a strong support system.
Getting Help at Home and with Other Children
In the weeks after you give birth, you’ll need help around the house. You’ll need to rest and take it easy for a while, and you’ll want to spend time just getting to know your new baby and getting used to the new demands of motherhood. This means that cooking, cleaning, and other household tasks might have to take a back seat.
If you can live with a lower level of neatness than you’re used to for a while, you may be able to get by if your partner or spouse picks up some of the slack. But some women can’t stand to live in a house that doesn’t meet their neatness standards. If this describes you, consider hiring a cleaning service to come by a few times in the first couple of months after you give birth. This is also a great thing to add to your baby-shower registry — the gift of being able to enjoy your baby without worrying about the floors growing sticky or the bookshelves getting dusty. Or let friends and family who offer to help do the laundry, straighten up, and go shopping. You’ll have an opportunity to pay them back someday.
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If you don’t already know any good babysitting or mother’s-helper candidates, call your local middle school or Girl Scouts. Also, some community centers and YMCAs offer babysitting-readiness courses; the instructor of such a class probably has a roster of eager and trained sitters she can refer you to.
If you have older kids, you’ll want to consider getting some help for their care in the early weeks after your baby is born. If you’re planning on returning to work after your baby is born and your older children usually go to child care, you may not want to change things up during the postpartum weeks: Not only is it probably not a great time to disrupt an older child’s schedule, but it could also make the transition harder for you.
If you will be home alone with your new baby and an older child or children, here are some ways you can make sure you get enough rest and help:
Have Grandma and Grandpa, or an aunt, uncle, or special friend take your older child on a minivacation for a few days. This will give your older child an opportunity to feel like the center of attention again while you get a small break.
Enroll an older child in an activity through your YMCA or community center a few hours a week. In the early weeks especially, you’ll want to make sure you have a friend or family member who can do the dropping off and picking up.
Ask a friend or family member to take your older child or children on special outings a few times a week. Running errands or going out to eat with Daddy is also a nice way to give you a break while helping an older child feel special.
Hire a babysitter to come to the house a few hours a week. She can take older kids to the park or hold the baby for you while you get a shower or eat a full meal. Responsible preteens and young teens can make great mother’s helpers — they can play with older kids, assist with making meals, and even help out with the baby while you’re close by in case she needs you.
You might also consider hiring a postpartum doula to come to your house after your baby is born. A postpartum doula is different from a baby nurse, who is usually hired to completely take over child care duties for new babies. Postpartum doulas usually don’t assume responsibility of a baby’s care but instead try to make caring for a baby as easy on the mother as possible. Each postpartum doula is different, but common services include light housekeeping, providing assistance with breastfeeding, caring for older children, and helping you care for your newborn. For more information on finding a postpartum doula, see Appendix B.
Stocking Up for Postpartum
You’ve probably thought of all the things you’ll need for your new baby, but have you thought about what things might be nice to have for yourself? Just as you need to make sure all your baby’s needs are met, it’s equally important that you have all the tools and support necessary to keep you feeling strong, healthy, and energized during your first few weeks and months as a mom. From a good nursing pillow to a good book, there are a number of things that can make your experience more pleasant and comfortable.
Nursing Pillow
Nursing pillows can save your back and neck from strain and are a useful purchase even if you won’t be breastfeeding. They make a nice perch in your lap for a sleeping or bottle-fed baby, and the doughnutshaped type can double as a pillow to sit on if you have hemorrhoids or a painful perineum after birth. Nursing pillows are readily available at toy and baby stores or department stores like Wal-Mart and Target, and you can buy one for less than $20 and up to $50 or more. Another option is a long c-shaped body pillow that you can wrap around your body in a way that’s comfortable for both you and your baby.
Rice Sock
Rice-filled pillows or socks retain heat and cold and make easy, cheap, portable, and reusable heating or cooling pads, which can be nice to use during labor or for after-delivery muscle soreness or uterine cramps. Just put rice in a clean tube sock, and tie or stitch the top shut. You can put it in the fridge, or microwave it for a couple of minutes. Adding dried herbs like peppermint or lavender will give the rice sock a nice smell. The pack is inexpensive to make and will retain heat for a long time. You may need to wrap it in a towel if it’s too hot for direct skin contact at first.
Good Reading
During the early weeks postpartum, you’ll be doing a lot of resting, and your baby will sleep a lot. Get some books or magazines you’ve been wanting to read — once your baby starts to stay awake more, you won’t have nearly as much time for reading!
Check online for discounted magazine subscriptions, but be sure to place your order a couple of months in advance of your due date, since it can