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The Everything Private Investigation Book shows you the basic research techniques and tricks the pros use. You'll learn how to get background information using a wide range of sources, including newspapers, court records, military files, and even the DMV. Written by experienced investigators, this guide helps you to:
- Use the Internet to get information on anyone and anything
- Conduct background checks for prospective employees or tenants
- Uncover hidden identities and assets
- Manage a physical or electronic surveillance
- Protect privacy and avoid identity theft
Whether you're a journalist, an amateur genealogist, a business owner, a landlord, or just curious, you'll find essential information in this guide. In addition to being a valuable resource, The Everything Private Investigation Book is also a fascinating read. Even "armchair detectives" will enjoy reading about famous real-life and fictional PIs and the little-known secrets professionals use to crack the case.
Sheila L. Stephens was the first female Alcohol, Tobacco & Firearms (ATF) special agent in the state of Alabama and one of the first in the nation. She recently graduated from Boston University with a master's degree in criminal justice. After leaving the ATF due to injury, Ms. Stephens opened a private investigation/security business. She is a criminal justice professor at Andrew Jackson University and a contributing writer and associate editor of The Agent, the newsletter of the National Association of Federal Agents (NAFA). Ms. Stephens lives in Bessemer, AL.
Sheila L Stephens
An Adams Media author.
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The Everything Private Investigation Book - Sheila L Stephens
THE
EVERYTHING®
PRIVATE
INVESTIGATION
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Master the techniques of the pros to examine
evidence, track down people, and discover the truth
Sheila L. Stephens
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THE
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Dear Reader,
About once a month, I receive an e-mail from someone offering his ser vices as a private investigator, usually for free. Upon following up, I find that he has no training, no experience in the field, and hasn’t even read a book about the subject. Needless to say, I can’t use him. If I hired someone such as this — or even let him work for training — his total lack of knowledge would be too distracting to another investigator. Someone like this wouldn’t even be able to help; he would hinder an investigation.
Plus, if it takes two people to do one job, one of them isn’t necessary. Read this book and others recommended in the text, check out the recommended Web sites (you can start with mine, www.safersecurityinc.com), get some training, and then call around to see if an agency can use a trainee. Have something of value to offer, and know how to articulate this value before you call an agency.
The second mistake potential investigators make is offering their service s for free. You must realize that your abilities have monetar y value; if you don’t, no one else will. Also, it’s a good idea to purchase your own basic equipment. With your own equipment, you’ll never need to stand in line for what you need, and you’ll be more attractive to an investigative agency.
As a former agent for the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives and licenced private investigator, I’ve learned that in this business you hold peoples’ lives in your hands — sometimes literally, but more often figuratively. You’ll have identifying information that, if misused, can wreck a life and a family. You’ll be the keeper of secret s for people who trust and need you. Don’t let them down; use your investigative powers for good and not evil. People enter the PI profession for different reasons. Some are interested in money: There’s no doubt that money can be made, but there are other, better motives. I can’t reiterate enough that the most rewarding motive is the knowledge that you’ve made a difference in the life of another human being, and that you will leave the planet a better place than you found it.
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Contents
Top Ten Items Every PI Needs
Introduction
1 Do You Have the Right Stuff?
Powers of Observation and Concentration • Communication Skills and the Ability to Listen • Perseverance, Patience, and Courage • Quick Thinking and Discretion • A Good Memory • Keeping Secrets • Writing Skills • Organizational and Analytical Skills
2 Education and Training
Schools and Universities • PI Organizations • Internships/Onthe-Job Training • State and Local Requirements • Diploma Mills • Continuing Education
3 Ethics — The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly
Ethics Overview • Ethics: The Good • The Bad • The Ugly • Ethics and Privacy
4 Setting Up Your PI Business
Business Models • Pros and Cons of Business Ownership • Business Plan • Work Place — Home Office Versus Public Office • Office Equipment and Furnishings
5 Marketing and Money Matters
Startup Capital • Business Bank Account Versus Client Trust Account • Getting Paid • Licenses and Taxes • Insurance • Marketing and Promotion • Creating a Web Site • Creating Professional Reports
6 Missing Persons: Skip Tracing, Adoption Searches, and Genealogy
Overview of Skip Tracing • Types of Skips • Skip Tracing and the Internet • The Missing Birth Parent or Birth Child • Genealogy Searches
7 Divorce, Infidelity, and Child Custody Investigations
Clueing In on Infidelity • Divorce and Infidelity Investigations • Premarital and Infidelity Investigations • Check Your Mate: Hidden Camera Stings • The Missing Parent • Child Custody
8 Missing Children and Adolescents
The Missing or Abducted Child • Registering Children for Future Identification • Abduction Prevention
9 Abuse Investigations: Child, Spousal, and Elder
Child Abuse Investigations • Should You Investigate Child Abuse? • The Pedophile • Spousal or Relationship Abuse • Elder Abuse
10 Working Your Case
How to Begin • Crime Scene and Evidence Handling • Preserving the Scene • Documenting the Scene • Collecting, Packaging, and Storing Evidence
11 Processing a Homicide Scene
Processing the Exterior of the Scene • Processing the Interior of the Scene • Processing Trace Evidence • Preserving the Chain of Custody
12 Working Within the Law
Understanding the Law • Pretexting Law • Permissible Deception • Arrest Law • Citizens’ Powers of Arrest • The Law of Evidence
13 People in the PI’s Life
Working with Employees • Working with Clients • Working with Police and Other Agencies • Working with Informants and Contacts • Working with Experts and Resources • Dealing with the Media
14 Testifying in Court
Accepting a Subpoena • Demeanor and Dress • Rules of Evidence • Cross Examination Response • Be Prepared • Tell the Truth
15 Business/Corporate Security and Investigations
Insurance Investigations • Personal Injury Investigations • Corporate Fraud • Workers’ Compensation • Theft of Time, Product, or Services
16 Special Investigations and Investigators
Background/Pre-Employment Searches • Choosing an Information • Database Negligent Hiring and Negligent Retention • Mystery Shopping • Cyber Sleuths • Collections and Repossessions • Bounty Hunters
17 Investigative Equipment
Video Equipment • Covert Cameras and Security • Audio Equipment
18 Surveillance
Moving Surveillance • Stationary Surveillance • Foot Surveillance • Insider Tips • Video Surveillance Law • Electronic and Audio Surveillance
19 Interviewing and Interrogation
To Interview or Interrogate — Know the Difference • Interviewing Witnesses and Interrogating Suspects • Taking Statements • Obtaining Confessions
A Research Tools and Resources
Information Access Law • Internet Web Sites and Database Services • Understanding Databases • Legal Resources
B Police Codes and Abbreviations
C Phonetic Alphabets and Special Symbols
Acknowledgments
For going on this trek with me, I’d like to thank my agent, Maura Kye-Casella, with Denise Marcil Literary Agency. Her guidance has been invaluable, and her encouragement motivating. I’d also like to thank the unflappable Lisa Laing, with Adams Media. Working with her has been energizing — and a pleasure. Thanks to my first writing teacher, Bonnie Hearn Hill.
I’d also like to thank my family and friends for their support and understanding. I’ve missed a lot of get-togethers over the course of writing this book, but they’ve been great about it. I especially thank my mom, Joyce Lenning, and my brother, Joe Lenning, for who they are and for their unwavering support. I also can’t fail to acknowledge some of my best friends and supporters for getting me to this place: Victoria and Woodie Fritz and the entire staff at Dr. Lyman (Woodie) Fritz’s Clinic, as well as author Lee Lofland.
Finally, thanks go out to all the readers of this book — from those who want to learn how to use one or two techniques presented here to those brave enough to jump into the profession of private investigation. To the latter, I pray that you use your newfound powers for good and not for evil.
Top Ten Items
Every PI Needs
1. Insurance — preferably errors and omissions — and a license
2. An up-to-date computer, preferably a laptop
3. A Web site
4. Professional business cards and brochures
5. A reliable vehicle of neutral-color and unremarkable appearance
6. Office space with secure storage for client and target information, and equipped with a computer, printer, and shredder
7. A low-lux video camcorder with image stabilization, zoom lens, and auto control
8. A variety of tripods
9. Communication equipment, radios, and a good cell phone
10. A wearable or portable covert camera
Introduction
MANY BOOKS HAVE BEEN WRITTEN about private investigation. The authors of most of them state that investigation is about finding the truth. While this is not wrong, neither is it exactly right. Truth is a funny thing; it’s often dependent upon perspective. Not to insinuate that there’s no truth or lie, good or bad, black or white — but truth often hides in the areas between these concepts, where it’s difficult to find. Sometimes, real problems arise when these areas become so murky that truth is impossible to determine with any real certainty. At this point, truth must often be determined in a court of law by someone other than the investigator. At some junctures of the investigative process, truth is actually irrelevant.
The only thing relevant at all times and at all stages of the investigative process is evidence. Investigators are looking for information that translates into evidence, not truth. Evidence can lead to what appears to be — but it is not always — the truth. Of course, everyone wants to uncover the truth, yet a successful investigation can be conducted even though truth remains in question. The investigator’s job is to seek out, develop, and collect information, then deliver it in an understandable form that can be presented in court should this become necessary.
What is truth? Truth may seem to be fairly obvious. It may be presented in a document or public record that must be correct, right? Not always. What if that document, or part of it, has been forged or incorrectly recorded?
More truth
may be presented in the form of video recordings. This type of evidence is guaranteed, isn’t it? If it can be seen and heard, it has to be true, right? Wrong again. Recordings can be altered or edited, videos can be of such poor quality as to make identification questionable or impossible. Remember those grainy, blurry videos on the nightly news? Many surveillance cameras are not capable of doing the job for which they are installed. All video evidence must be verified.
This book does not presume to guide those looking for truth, but it will prepare anyone to find evidence. This is an overview of the field of private investigation, not an exhaustive examination of the subject, but there is something here for every reader. Everyone from the interested amateur to the seasoned professional will be able to glean nuggets of information that will make the reading of this book more than worthwhile. For the new investigator or one about to take the plunge, time and experience will add to the information contained here. Also, remember that laws, technology, and Internet resource links change, so check before you act.
The umbrella term private investigation
covers a range of services. Some of these include divorce/infidelity; child custody; missing persons; insurance investigation; business/corporate security; and special investigations including legal and hidden camera investigation, bounty hunting, and cyber-sleuthing — all topics that this book will explore.
However, The Everything® Private Investigation Book is not just for readers at some stage of investigative experience; it’s also an invaluable resource for journalists and novelists, students of criminal justice, those needing to do background checks on employees or tenants, and self-appointed armchair detectives. It’s interesting reading for the knowledge-seekers of this world — those who just want to know how things, and people, work.
While the real-world practice of private investigation is not exactly what has been portrayed in novels and movies and shown on television, it’s still one of the most rewarding and entertaining professions on the planet — but it can be dangerous. Anyone whose goal is to work as a private investigator must be sure that she has what it takes to do this job well, along with a willingness to cultivate the skills and knowledge necessary to do it safely. She must also be absolutely sure to use her investigative powers to make the world a better place.
CHAPTER 1
Do You Have the Right Stuff?
Investigators are not born with the right stuff,
though television and movies make this appear to be true. Investigative strengths are often spoken of as if they’re genetically bestowed traits: Either you have them or you don’t. In reality, nothing could be farther from the truth; these strengths are not present in one person’s DNA and absent from the DNA of another. While it is true that some people may be better at certain things than others, everything can be learned, and everything learned can be improved upon.
Powers of Observation and Concentration
Observation and concentration are dependent upon one another and are related to something else — work. Investigators rarely fall across evidence as do television and movie PIs. Real investigators work for evidence using observation. Observation is work, and it is a product of concentration. Concentration — an act of will — is under the control of the person who wishes to concentrate. Thus, anyone willing to work can improve his concentration and observation skills.
Importance of Observation and Concentration
When you’re sitting on surveillance, waiting for that one chance to snap a picture or film a few moments of your elusive target, losing focus can cause you to miss your chance — a chance that may not present itself again.
-1743750565PIs often have to sit on surveillance for long periods of time, waiting patiently for that gotcha
moment. You must be able to stay alert and focused to get what you are looking for.
Federal agencies, large police departments, and large PI firms have an edge — available manpower — which makes surveillance much easier. Several investigators switch back and forth, sharing the task of watching the target. The Feds call this having the eyeball or having the eye. During any surveillance, someone must always have the eyeball — an uninterrupted focus on the target until the eye is passed to someone else.
This is the best way to keep a target under surveillance, yet it’s not feasible for small police departments and PI firms, where the burden falls on one person, two or three at the most. Being the only person, or one of a few, responsible for having the eyeball can be tiring. It’s hard work, but it’s the only way to be sure you don’t miss anything. If you do miss something, your client or supervisor will not be happy. Neither will you; for most investigators, getting the target is worth the discomfort experienced during an investigation.
essential.jpg A professional investigator may sit for hours in surveillance vehicles, crawl through wooded areas, and search through stacks of records to get what she needs. Nothing is quite like the gotcha
moment, that instant when the investigator knows she’s gotten the shot, the video, or the information necessary to crack the case, and she’ll do what she must (legally) to get it.
In Chapter 18, the types of surveillance with which you must be familiar to achieve your own gotcha
moments will be discussed.
Observation depends on one other element: prior knowledge. Without it, it’s possible to look directly at evidence or facts and not appreciate their significance. What appears to one person as the idle scribbling of a bored teen is apparent to another as gang representation or messaging. What might be a mound of pale dirt to one person is known as cheese,
the newest threat in street drugs, to another. Possessing knowledge of the way criminals do their thing is as important as knowing how to do yours.
Because of knowledge, the object of your concentration makes sense, allowing you to process your observations. The more you concentrate and observe, the more knowledge you gain — and the more knowledge you gain, the better your concentration and observation skills. In fact, some experts argue that concentration is intelligence.
Improving Observation and Concentration
Although much is still unknown, research has shown that certain mental exercises add to the operating capacity of your brain, regardless of age, education, or experience. For example, view a picture you are not familiar with, then look away and record any details you remember. You’ll be surprised at how much eludes you, even with the second or third attempt. This is normal. Continue practicing with different pictures and you’ll improve.
Even with improved skills, take notes and pictures when on surveillance. These exercises utilize short-term memory, and though you may become so proficient that you can astound friends at parties, remember that short-term memory is limited and decays rapidly. Basically, your short-term memory only holds information until you can record it.
Several techniques that deliver information from your short-term bank to your long-term memory bank are:
• Repetition: memorization of poems or scripture
• Consistent use of information: complicated sequences of actions can be memorized by going through the sequences again and again
• Grouping: for instance, phone numbers are easier to remember when they are grouped between hyphens
• Putting information to music: most of us can still sing our ABCs
• Mnemonics: many techniques use imagery to link the familiar with the unfamiliar — linking an image to the information you want to remember
Besides exercises to improve overall function, several techniques can help your concentration while you sit on surveillance:
• Breathing exercises. Breathe deeply and slowly through the nose, then out through the mouth, pushing air from your lungs by sucking in your stomach.
• Minimize distractions. Do nothing that may divert attention from the target.
• Comment aloud. Many investigators talk to themselves as they watch. Describing the house, office, and grounds into a tape recorder may help you later when you write your report.
• Snack. Most investigators eat to stay alert.
If you use snacking, be aware that highly processed carbohydrates can make you sleepy, as can turkey and sugar products. Some experts write that there’s not enough tryptophan in turkey to cause sleepiness, but others disagree — you’ll know if it affects you. Instead, eating fruit, veggie sticks, cheese, nuts, or protein that can be eaten with your fingers will ensure a steady supply of fuel to your brain. Highly processed food will provide a quick, momentary pickup, then drop you just as quickly.
question.jpg Can concentration be improved?
The Web site Brainbuilder.com can help you focus. Recommended by neurologist and The Better Brain Book author Dr. David Perlmutter, this site provides the latest information about brain health, and exercises to improve function.
Observation and concentration are also related to motivation. Observant people are motivated by many things: curiosity, desire, pride, security, the desire to succeed, and more. Even fear can be a motivator — not stark raving fear, of course, which is paralyzing and counterproductive — but fear that you may miss your chance to get that shot of the target. A little of this type of fear pumps adrenaline through your body and sharpens your senses — but don’t let fear drive you.
Communication Skills and the Ability to Listen
Communication is an important skill, particularly for the investigator. Networking depends on communication. To some, networking — a.k.a. schmoozing — is stained with negative connotations. One reason is that unscrupulous people have used it with dishonest intentions. The concept of networking has no such intent. The idea is to make contact with those who may need your services, and whose services you may need. It’s a reciprocal relationship, not meant to satisfy the needs of, or provide gain for, one person.
Communication also helps the investigator in interviewing and interrogation. Therefore, learning this skill is a necessity. Yet, it’s not about the ability to talk about anything at any time. It’s about the ability to listen.
Communicating Effectively
Communication skills are the latch on the investigator’s tool kit. They open the kit so that everything inside can be utilized. Spend time learning to communicate, especially if your skills are below par. Some suggestions follow:
• Look for the good in everyone; become genuinely interested in people
• Give sincere praise, but don’t make something up; be honest
• Use names — but don’t overdo it
• Don’t argue; be flexible and willing to consider another point of view
•Ask questions — but don’t accuse, don’t condemn, and don’t criticize
• Set up appropriate boundaries and respect the boundaries of others
• When you are wrong, admit it immediately; don’t grovel, but make any appropriate amends
• Be willing to forgive when you’ve been wronged; holding a grudge hurts you more than anyone else
• Do more listening than talking; encourage the other person to talk about himself
• Don’t talk behind anyone’s back; once something’s out of your mouth you lose control of it, so only say what you’d want others to know you’ve said
You may think there’s nothing on this list that you don’t know. The question is whether you act on what you know. Most people would like to behave honorably with others, but they don’t always remember to do so. Place these principles where you’ll see them — on your wall, your mirror, or in your car to remind you. Add your own principles and read the list daily. It will make a difference.
Even if you don’t believe that you get back what you give, remember that relationships are vital to the investigator’s success. You need people. If you cultivate relationships, people will tell you a lot. If you’re abusive and surly, if you bark orders or ignore people, they won’t be inclined to help. Smile and speak respectfully; it will make the job of collecting information much more productive.
Listening Skills
Many people don’t listen; they hear parts of what’s said and then wait for opportunities to break into the speaker’s conversation with responses they’ve formed while pretending to listen. The investigator has a particularly difficult time avoiding this trap. The answer? Have questions at the ready. Keep a pad in front of you to not only remind you of questions you’ve prepared, but to allow for jotting down new ones as the subject speaks. Be careful of losing consistent eye contact, however.
Listen to what’s being said. Don’t plan what you’ll say next, don’t point out discrepancies, and don’t interrupt with questions. Law enforcement investigators who are trained in