Prepare Our Hearts: Advent and Christmas Traditions for Families
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When we join a group, be it Boy Scouts, Girl Scouts, Rotary, or Kiwanis, we expect to give it time and energy to fulfill the mission of the group. If we dont participate, we receive no benefits from our membership. We dont join a family, God puts us into one, but the same thoughts apply. Being in a family that lives separately under one roof is a huge loss. God could predict this, so we have the passage in Deuteronomy 6, which is worth re-reading from time to time. Prepare Our Hearts will give you new thoughts about your Christmas celebrations. It may help you appreciate that many people before us have longed to be ready for the birth of the Christ child and have taken time to alter their patterns and make room for activities that inspire. Advent, the four weeks before Christmas, can be a wonder-filled time for families to begin the practice of gathering as a family for a common purpose. During Advent, we prepare our hearts, thoughts, and homes for the coming of the Christ child. It is a perfect time for sharing, reading Scripture, and special stores about Christmas, singing, praying, and lighting the candles in the Advent wreath. The family is encouraged to plan for others and enjoy activities together. Families need encouragement in our day when many forces intrude. Think seriously how your family lives in December. Use the suggestions to make your own traditions. Most importantly, dont allow the precious years with your children to vanish into nothingness. Prepare Our Hearts will contribute to memory-making that will be remembered long after the gifts exchanged no longer fit or hold interest.
Muriel Tarr Kurtz
Muriel Tarr Kurtz is a wife, mother of four, grandmother of five, and a former teacher. She was challenged by the suggestions for observing Advent her children brought home from Sunday school. Prepare Our Hearts and Return Another Way record that adventure and the precious memories that followed.
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Prepare Our Hearts - Muriel Tarr Kurtz
Copyright © 2012 Muriel Tarr Kurtz.
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The Leaky Roof and a Christmas Miracle
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Christmas Humbug Fades in Snowstorm
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WestBow Press rev. date: 10/22/2012
39891.jpgContents
Introduction
Making Time for Christmas
The History of Advent
The Nature of Advent
Family Worship Times
The First Week of Advent
The Prophets’ Candle
The Second Week of Advent
The Bethlehem Candle
The Third Week of Advent
The Shepherds’ Candle
The Fourth Week of Advent
The Angels’ Candle
Christmas Eve or Day
The Christ Candle
The Twelfth Night
Our Response to Christmas
Appendix
For Small Children
For the Empty Nest
Additional Advent Material
Dedicated with a grateful heart
To the memory of my late parents,
F.W. and Esther Tarr,
For their abiding faith in Jesus Christ and
THEIR EFFORTS TO MAKE HIM REAL FOR THEIR CHILDREN
FOR THOSE WE LOVE
Almighty God, we entrust all those who are dear to us to thy never failing care and love, for this life and the life to come; knowing that thou art doing for them better things than we can desire or pray for, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
The Book of Common Prayer
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Making Time for Christmas
Every year I wanted Christmas to be different. I really did. Yet every year, once past Thanksgiving, I could hardly bear to think about what was in store. Everything I belong to had its own Christmas party, and long ago I decided that some of those parties should have been held at Halloween! Truly, they had nothing in common with the way I wanted to celebrate the birth of Jesus. But what could I do about it? Did I make a point by staying home and appearing to be cold and disinterested? Being with people is fun, but I began to wonder if being with people was a valid goal.
So long ago, when our children brought their little Advent books home from Sunday school – pasted together with flour paste and decorated with childish hand – we decided to take the time to do something about Advent. The years have added to our collection, and further study has enriched our appreciation of how meaningful a time this can be for a family.
You may well ask questions like: How can I find the time? How long does it take? How do you expect me to make time for one more thing when I am so swamped already? These are legitimate questions. I have asked them myself, but I know that I had to make choices in order to find deeper meanings. I came to realize that the times spent with our children in the Advent setting were times never to be repeated. Such joyful times had significance for us. I did not give up anything in order to have our family in an Advent circle on Sunday evenings before Christmas.
Thinking about Advent as a family season has caused me to do several things differently. First, we don’t send Christmas cards anymore. They seem to take too much time at a time when, it seems to me, there are more important things to do. I have noticed, too, that some of our friends are trying other approaches (I have one cheerful friend who takes early January to catch up, and it is pure delight to hear from her on a snowy day!), and I believe that Christmas cards are often not the best expression of Advent, particularly if they take time from other, more meaningful observances.
In the hopes of having more of my kind of cards available, I would love to share with you what has been our custom for many years now. As soon as the Christmas card books are available in late August or September, I go out in pursuit of a card with a Thanksgiving feeling. Yes, they are hard to find, but I persist. Isn’t Thanksgiving an appropriate time to express gratitude for memories, friendships, our common heritage, and our purpose as Christians? More and more, I am coming to think of Thanksgiving as a wonderful time for expressing myself. I try to avoid cards with lots of holly and Christmas trees, Santas, and reindeer. Our cards are primarily nature scenes. Perhaps one day, there will be a beautiful Advent card which depicts the season that begins four Sundays before Christmas and speaks to the preparations Christians should be making for Christmas.
We must speak to the world in a different way. We need to be creative and persistent about what we think is important, for the world is not likely to help make our witness.
Another way I make time for Advent is to buy gifts all year long. Admittedly, this is hard when children are growing and changing shapes, sizes, and interests; but I have always shopped this way in part and with success. Perhaps part of this secret to successful early shopping is to make decisions and then get on with it. If I get an inspiration and think about it for a bit and then later still think it a good idea, I act and move on to the next thing. My shopping behind me, I am ready to focus upon Advent. Shopping this way, contrary to being a burdensome task, becomes a source of satisfaction. One year, I thought that perhaps I had missed out on one of the joys of Christmas by not being in the stores during the rush season. Once quick trip to the shopping center cured me of that idea!
Entertaining before Christmas used to take valuable time away from our Advent observance. I would work myself into a tizzy with decorations, cleaning and cooking. Parties just seemed called for,
and often I signed up to have group parties in our home. It is fun – sometimes – but one season we were fortunate enough to be in Williamsburg after Christmas. We were able to enjoy the decorations, the special foods at the restaurants, and, in the evening, a lovely concert at the governor’s palace. If you have been there, you know what I am describing – candlelight, beautiful eighteenth-century costumes on performers, decorations and arrangements of fresh greens appropriate to the rooms. I was in an eighteenth-century heaven! Much of the music was unfamiliar, but at the end of the concert the soprano soloist