Girl, Don't You Jump Rope!: A Memoir
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make this memoir by Betty Anne Jackson, truly engrossing.
There were no signs that read colored or white, yet everyone
knew where the boundaries were in 40s and 50s Chicago. And,
being colored meant there was no way to escape the limits that
segregation imposed on ones life.
The author describes attending a ghetto school, as well as
encountering a hostile experience at university level, and then
a cross-burning on the lawn of the vacation home she and her
husband shared with friends. With humor, she paints a heartfelt
portrait of the contrasts between the tree-lined neighborhood of
her very early years and the harsh realities of how ghetto living can
engulf the human spirit.
Betty Anne had no choice other than to grow up in one of the
earliest housing projects on the south side of Chicago, but she
always struggled to be FROM the project...not OF the project! This
is the story of that struggle.
Betty Anne Hennings Jackson
As a child, retired educator, writer, poet, editor, Betty Anne Jackson’s secret ambition was to become a famous comedian. As a teen, she practiced using humor to joke her way through life. Amid adulthood’s tragedies, disappointments and losses she has held on to her sense of humor. Although she never became rich or famous, in her circle of friends she is a comedian. And, as for joking her way through life... she’s still at it!
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Girl, Don't You Jump Rope! - Betty Anne Hennings Jackson
Girl, Don’t You Jump Rope!
A MEMOIR
Betty Anne Hennings Jackson
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CONTENTS
PART I MY VERY EARLY YEARS
PART II MY TEEN YEARS
PART III MY YOUNG ADULT YEARS
PART IV MY MATURE YEARS
PICTURES
PREFACE
As one of the elders on my father’s side, and the oldest living relative on my mother’s side, this book meets my obligation to our family tradition of passing on the stories told to me, along with stories told by me—from my own life—to our younger relatives.
The purpose of this work is to make these vignettes available to our descendants and to anyone who wants to read true and often dramatic stories.
I have employed the soothing salve of retrospection in fulfilling my compulsion to record my life experiences. On occasion, I have called upon knowledgeable family members to supply and corroborate facts and dates.
Faithfully, without embellishment, I have recorded these life occurrences just as my memory has presented them to me.
Each recall is written in ‘chapic’ form. Chapic
is my made-up word (combining ‘chapter’ and ‘topic’) in which each episode is described. A chapic may be as short as one paragraph, or it may go on for a few pages.
The title of this book is a directive from my childhood which my mother often gave to me.
My reference to Chicago’s West Woodlawn Community as a tight little island
is borrowed from a book of collective recollections published in 2008: TIGHT LITTLE ISLAND by Robert L. Polk, in which an excerpt from this work is included.
Some of the chapics may contain wisdom to be passed on, some may possess truths from which lessons may be gleaned, and some may simply entertain.
Very often, a favorite grandchild solicits stories from Grandma; asking, What was your life like, Grandma, when you were growing up? How were things in the olden days when you were young?
A strengthened bond between grandma and grandchild results when Grandma shares her memories with that grandchild, and the grandchild becomes richly endowed as the repository of Grandma’s vivid life narrative. I have not had the good fortune to be blessed with grandchildren, thus: THIS BOOK IS MY GRANDCHILD!
DEDICATION
This book is dedicated to my son and my nieces and nephews. Some have expressed gratitude for having this family record. Karen, Cecile, Renee, Bobby, Jeffrey, Chuckie, Andrea, Byron, Rodney, Arnold, Alison, Kenny, Joy and Frederick; this is for you and your families.
I am enormously grateful to Grace F. Edwards, Director of The Harlem Writers Guild, for her ‘fine tooth comb’ final editing work, friendship and generous sharing of creative ideas. Thank you, to Olinda Simon for her heartfelt critique and expert editing work.
A special thank you, to members of The Harlem Writers Guild for ‘hearing me out’, including M. Angela Lynch Clare, for her valuable suggestions, friendship and guidance.
Relating and sharing family stories were invaluable to this work. When it was a mere concept, I was blessed to have my uncle Rick and my brother Ted (both deceased) act as sounding boards. I am eternally grateful to them. Thank you, to Cousin Kathleen Marie Humphries for permission to use an excerpt from your carefully researched, Humphries’ Family History
. Thank you, Aunt Mary Henning Moore, for providing, Precious Memories
(the 1992 Henning’s Family Reunion booklet) from which I obtained information about my great-grandfather, Leonard Henderson Henning.
I am very grateful to my dear sister, Sandra Laroc, and my loving nieces, Karen Sowu and Andrea Boston for reading and suggesting changes and corrections (which I heeded) to my manuscript. Thank you, Ed Dancy for spell check. When technical problems arose, my ‘Lil brother’ Dan Bolling, saw me through them. Thank you, Dan. And a very special thank you, to Eric Coleman, without whose prompting this work would not have been completed at this time.
PART I
MY VERY EARLY YEARS
A HOME IN WEST WOODLAWN
Even though Chicago’s West Woodlawn community was a tight little island—with Cottage Grove as its eastern border and South Park, (now King Drive) its western, and Sixty-third to sixty-ninth Streets its north/south boarders—it was not a closed little island. It was a place where aspirations could be realized, a place where role models were abundant, where lawyers and laborers lived on the same block, where day-workers and doctors worshipped at the same church, where stockyard-workers and school teachers shared the same seat on the streetcar. It was a place where a person had a chance to fulfill his potential, where not being white was not an excuse for not being successful. West Woodlawn was an oasis in a sea of black migrants from the south.
Population density in West Woodlawn was half of that in other black-belt communities. Houses were generally large and spaced apart so that there was room for growth in vegetation as well as in human development. The crime rate in West Woodlawn was as low as it was in white communities. Adult neighbors were respected authority figures for all of the children in the neighborhood, and juvenile delinquency was something you read about in white newspapers that seemed to try to convince readers it occurred only in black neighborhoods.
The few months between the time when the first ‘colored’ family moved into a neighborhood and the last white family moved out could be called Racial Integration, Chicago Style
. Generally, there was a buffer zone of white homeowners, who—after holding out as long as they could from selling their homes—finally gave in to pressure and moved so that the area became all ‘colored’. The buffer zones fell, (to the delight of real estate companies) like placed dominos, one after the other, in the community known as West Woodlawn.
When my family lived there, a few white families (probably too poor to re-locate) remained scattered throughout this lovely community where its non-threatening atmosphere nurtured creativity and upward mobility.
There were some Negro families who, long before its repeal, had managed to find white sellers who would ignore the restrictive covenant provisions written into all house deeds. The covenant stated that a property could not be sold to a person of the ‘negro’ race. These provisions were enacted into law in 1920 and not removed until 1948 by the Shelly v. Kraemer Supreme Court ruling.
Negro families who had purchased multiple-dwelling property in West Woodlawn rented spare apartments to other Negro families anxious to move out of over-crowded black-belt neighborhoods. This is how my family, The Hennings, came to Woodlawn—moving from 48th and St. Lawrence (which was squarely within the black-belt)—not as owners, we came as renters.
In the spring of 1936, The Beard Family leased the first floor, five-room apartment in their two-flat building to my family; Theodore (Ted) and Elizabeth (Betty) Hennings and their four children; ages eighteen months to seven years. It was the corner house at 6600 Marquette Road that headed the row of houses where the road curved, and automobile accidents were frequent. A spacious wooden porch jutted out from the first floor and extended up to the second floor. Like all porches of that era, it was painted battleship gray. Mr. And Mrs. Beard lived upstairs with their two children; ages five and seven.
Most of the houses on the block were sturdy, large, one-family homes, but there was a sprinkling of multiple dwellings too. There were even a couple of three-flats, which were brick, in compliance with Chicago’s strict building code enacted after the great Chicago fire of 1873 when almost all of Chicago was destroyed.
Schooling for the two older Hennings children began a little outside of Woodlawn. St. Anselm’s Catholic School, at 61st Street and Indiana Avenue, placed seven-year-old Theodore in second grade, five-year-old Betty Anne, in kindergarten. Three-year-old, Daphne, attended Mrs. Carlos’ Nursery School program housed in a neighborhood church. Not yet two-year-old Bubby did not attend school.
PORCH CHILDREN
The porch was our playground. After school, we would head for the porch usually joining the Beard children in play. We didn’t have many toys on the porch, maybe a ball, or some jacks, or a yo-yo. We played a lot of verbal games, like I’m Thinking Of a Word
(where caller chooses the initial letter of an object and the correct guesser becomes the caller), and we did a lot of rhythmic hand-slapping games such as Mary Mack all dressed in black.
My older brother would sometimes sneak off the porch and join some of the boys in the neighborhood for a game of marbles, but in those early years we were mostly porch kids.
I don’t remember how long we lived at 6600 (as we, in later years, referred to our home), but I know that it was long enough for my baby brother, Robert, (the one we called ‘Bubby’ (thanks to sister Daphne’s pronouncement of ‘Bobby’) to grow from baby to boy, and my brother Arnold, to be born.
Mother had definite ideas about raising her children; she taught us the correct terms for body parts and bodily functions. The book from the library told the story of the sperm and the egg and how their unity would produce a new little baby. We were intrigued by the story even though it didn’t tell how the egg and sperm got together.
Mom was pregnant with my brother Arnold (the fifth Hennings child) so I am sure that was her motivation for the sperm and the egg story. I remember playing on the porch and calling my little brother, You ol’ sperm!
, and he, responding with, You ol’ egg!
We bantered these terms back and forth, giggled, and became very loud. I remember quite clearly that the Beard children were called in by their mother and I don’t remember playing with them again on that porch.
MOM’S BACKGROUND
My mother’s mother, Anna, died when Mom was eleven years old and that loss had a profound effect on her personality. Mom was the eldest girl of nine siblings. Her brother, Mitchell, was a year older but Mitchell never grew any bigger than a ten-year-old boy and his size dogged his lifestyle and influenced his life’s choices. Sensitive to the point of being downright hostile, Mitchell fought his way through life to prove to the world that he was as much a man as any six-footer. The writer, Walter Moses’ famous character, ‘Mouse’ (Easy Rawlings’ sidekick) is the perfect embodiment of my uncle Mitchell.
Being the biggest, Mom’s seven brothers and one sister regarded her as the oldest and therefore leader. In fact, Anna (the grandmother I never knew) had also looked to her for leadership because, on her deathbed, she made my Mom promise to… Take care of your brothers and sister!
My mother took that oath very seriously and when her two youngest brothers (Rick and Solomon) had problems with their foster home, she took them in to live with her family. That totaled four children, two teen-agers, a dog and two adults, with a new baby on his way in that five-room apartment.
Mother’s other brothers; Mitchell, Sidney, Robert, Alphonso and Clyde were out of school and working. They were pretty much on their own but regarded our home as headquarters. They visited very often, brought their girlfriends by and always spent the holidays at our big oak dining table. My mother’s father ‘Papa’ came by on occasion. All mirth subsided when Papa visited and a lot of praying took its place. No card-playing was allowed, no joke-telling, no music (that was not of a religious nature) was tolerated and by no means was any dancing allowed because Papa was now ordained to the Baptist-Spiritualist Ministry. Mother’s sister, Anna Mae, was married and producing children at a faster rate than my parents, so we didn’t see her and her family often. Another person that we saw too little of was my father. He worked an average of two-and-a-half jobs all during the time that I was little. Daddy made his presence felt when he was home; he helped groom the boys, cooked and did most of the house cleaning.
ST. ANSELM’S: NOT A HAPPY SCHOOL
By the time I was six-years-old, we were attending McCosh Public School. We had been thrown out of St Anselm’s because of my older brother’s behavior and my Dad’s refusal to disclose intimate information to the priests during mandatory instruction classes. Dad was, later, to tell that the priests wanted to know about his sex life and he told them, Don’t ask me what goes on between me and my wife, I’m not asking you what you and these sisters do in this parish house!
At the time we were excised from the enrollment list, I was not aware of these things. I thought I was responsible for our expulsion because I had wet on myself during play time. I had asked the nun for permission to go to the bathroom and been denied. The usual procedure was to take discarded paper from the waste basket and blot up the urine, instead, I was spanked.
The spanking wasn’t the first hostile act I’d experienced at St. Anselm’s. During the priest’s weekly visit to our kindergarten class, he asked questions to see how well we’d learned our Catechism; a correct answer earned a medal. My hand shot up at each question. Our teacher was the one who designated which child got a chance to answer. She never called on me. I was so determined to win one of the medals, that on the next question, I got right up in the priest’s face, waved my hand in a wild frenzy and the priest, himself, pointed to me. I answered the question and got my medal.
The fact that my brother and I were, perhaps, the most Negroid
looking children in attendance at St. Anselm’s, with our tan skin and kinky hair, was what probably set us up for scrutiny. I remember my kindergarten teacher calling other nuns over to observe my hair.
It was on a hot sunny day during the May Procession. We were lined up in our bride-like finery, waiting for the signal to march into the church. I’m sure the nuns had never seen straightened hair revert (from my profuse sweating) to its original kink. They shot each other glances that even a five-year-old could understand. I must have displayed my discomfort because one of the nuns covered up by complimenting me on my headband (an ordinary rigid barrette-like band that covered some of my hair in the front). When I got home, my mother asked me why the nuns had gathered around me. I masked my feeling of being uncomfortable, and told her only about the compliment. There were other ‘Negroes’ who attended St. Anselm’s, but they did not stand out from the white children. They were, on the whole, light-skinned, curly, or straight-haired, and most of the girls had long tresses, unlike my short (it didn’t grow long until puberty) kinky hair that my mother straightened with the hot comb once a week or more.
Michael was my favorite kindergarten friend. He was as close to being ‘Dick’ from our Dick and Jane
reader as he could be. He had yellow hair and pink skin which were the colors I always used when I colored people in my workbook. It didn’t take long to figure out that pink skin and yellow hair was the way people were ‘supposed’ to look. In fact, all of the children in all of the books had pink skin, even those with brown hair. I’m sure that’s why I always chose Michael when it was time for a partner. One day, I wanted to take Michael home with me, but his mother frowned at me and jerked his hand away from mine. I had no idea what wrong I had done, but that didn’t keep me from having a funny feeling that I HAD done something wrong.
VISITORS FROM THE SOUTH
My father’s sister, Effie, and her new husband arrived from Tennessee with nowhere to stay, so our dining room became their home until they could find a place of their own. That took at least two major holidays. On more than one occasion, the adults had to clear out Effie’s belongings and stash them in the room that I shared with my sister so that we could celebrate a big holiday in the dining room. Their clothes and bedding crowded us out of surface space. One night we piled their things on top of our double bed and slept on them. In the morning, there was damp adult clothing on our bed because we had not outgrown our bedwetting years.
DAD’S BACKGROUND
Dad could not have been more than five years old when his parents left him in charge of two younger siblings. Baby Edward cried so much that my dad, Teddy, thought he must be cold. He moved the baby closer to the fire and the baby’s blanket caught fire. Teddy put the fire out, but Eddie’s toes were burned away. That’s how the stigma of ‘Crazy Teddy’ got applied to my dad in that farming town of Denmark, Tennessee. When he was thirteen, his parents sent him to live with an uncle in St. Louis hoping a new start would erase the stigma of ‘Crazy Teddy’ and that he would get an education.
In St. Louis, Dad’s country ways didn’t endear him to the guys on the block. Dad said that his parents had bought him new clothes to take with him to the big city; three pairs of identical bib-top overalls. He told me, I wanted to impress the guys so I sported all three pairs of my new overalls on the same day. I wore one pair outside, and nobody said anything about them, so I went back in and changed to another pair. Then I changed again. When there was still no one telling me how sharp I was, that’s when I started to notice that none of the boys wore overalls. In fact, some of the boys laughed at a boy on the street because he had on faded raggedy coveralls.
Dad also told me about the class assignment that got him kicked out of school.
When the teacher said it was time for art, and said to draw something that you are familiar with, some kind of scene, like a sunset; something that made you feel excited. Here I was a great big boy, thirteen-years-old, in the fourth grade. I remembered one scene that I had seen many times on the farm that excited me, so I drew two donkeys mating. That was the end of my schooling I was taken to the office and expelled.
Dad’s final effort at trying to become ‘citified’ in St. Louis was, All the boys were flipping milk wagons. That’s when we’d grab on to the back of a horse-drawn wagon and flip our bodies up over the back of the wagon’s end. Oh, you could get a good ride with the driver probably not knowing you were there, or, if he knew, until the driver stopped the wagon to make you get off. Then you would run off. But by then you would’a had your ride and all the guys would praise you and tell you how swell you were. Well, one day, I was determined to make my mark, so I flipped the first wagon that came along, before any of the other boys could get to it. As I flipped my body up and over, I started sliding down into the wagon and couldn’t stop. I slid on down to the bottom of the wagon, and I was completely covered in garbage before the driver stopped the wagon and got me out. It was a good thing the driver saw me, ’cause I might have suffocated. Man, how the boys laughed at me! Everyone but me knew you didn’t flip a garbage wagon!
Dad said that he heard about Chicago, and struck out for that ‘promised land’ by the time he was seventeen.
Six of Dad’s younger siblings are college educated and I grew up with the idea that I, too would attend college, but in those early days, any thought of higher education would have been a pipe dream for Dad, not only because he wasn’t able to attend high school, but because he had to work. And work, he did! He was very enterprising.
As often as he could, Dad would buy produce from the wholesale market (usually corn and string beans) and with his melodic baritone he’d call, ST-RING, ST-RING, ST-RING, BEEEENZZZ
, or, C-C-C-C-ORN
, and sell his produce up and down Chicago’s alleys. He did this only part-time since he had two other manual labor jobs in restaurants. He would take my brother Theodore along to pull his little red wagon full of corn or beans and to run the pail up the stairs when a purchase was made.
After the vegetables were sold, Theodore would wash out his wagon and take the pretty girls in the neighborhood for rides.
LEONARD HENDERSON HENNING (L.H.) DAD’S GRANDFATHER
Daddy’s grandfather was born into slavery in 1850, yet during his lifetime he acquired over five hundred acres of farmland, and ran a successful blacksmith shop and furniture-making business. He was a genius at organizing newly freed black people into a community of landowning farmers and he provided a newly-built farmhouse and acres of land as a wedding present for each of his six sons. He also passed down to them his blacksmithing, furniture-making and farming skills.
Although the dealer refused to sell him a new one, L.H was the first black man in his county to purchase an automobile. He was so successful that he donated the land for the church and for the cemetery where many of our relatives are buried. L.H. was so progressive that his was the first house in Denmark, Tennessee to install carbide lighting. Thanks to L.H., none of our relatives had to become sharecroppers. Some of the houses L.H. built for his sons are still standing and occupied today. Some of my cousins rent out their land to tenant farmers. It is interesting that the tenant farmers have all been white; sort of sharecropping in reverse. Today, over one hundred acres of land are still owned by our family; land that my great-grandfather, Leonard Henderson Henning bequeathed, as his legacy to us.
BACK ALLEY ENTERPRENEURS
My parents and my uncles had learned how to make Mexican tamales from Papa, who had picked up the skill from one of the many jobs he held over the years. Papa had been part owner of a hand cart from which he sold shrimp, tamales and roasted peanuts.
At night, Baby Arnold’s buggy was converted to a vendor’s cart; equipped with warming charcoals and steam pans, and the tamales that were prepared in our kitchen during the day, were sold on the streets of West Woodlawn at night. They were sold to people who strolled around the neighborhood in their daily, after-dinner ritual of being ‘out walking’. Some were sold to the crowd as people left the Langley theater on 63rd and Langley where the whole family got to see a double feature movie, plus newsreel, for just twenty-five cents. Upon leaving, each member of the family—child or adult—was given a saucer, or a bowl, or a plate to complete the family’s set of milk glass dishes. Every dish in our home, for many years, was milk glass.
There was a huge crock that occupied space in our pantry. If one of the grown-ups in our family didn’t replace the heavy lid properly, standing on tiptoe, I could lean over the crock and smell a pungent odor coming from the purple liquid in that crock. It was something like old grapes which had been left out in the sun. I loved smelling the fumes from the crock.
One day, I saw Rick—my sixteen-year-old uncle; whose friend was visiting—dipping a cup down into the crock. I told him, I wouldn’t drink that if I was you
. He said, You’d better not tell, girl, it’s only for my company!
Again, I told him, You shouldn’t be drinking that stuff from the crock, because I broke a glass and the pieces fell down in there because the lid wasn’t on right!
I never saw my people bottle and sell the wine from that crock, but I believe it was for more than just their personal use.
OUT WALKING
Few people had cars so life in West Woodlawn included a lot of walking. A large part of family socializing was meeting people who were ‘out walking’ while we were ‘out walking’. Children would never go ‘out walking’ before they ‘got cleaned up’ for the evening. Getting ‘cleaned up’ consisted of washing up and changing out of the clothes you wore all day and putting on a nice outfit. When you were ‘cleaned up’ no heavy play was allowed which might dirty your clothes, because these were the very clothes you’d likely wear to school the next day. My family went ‘out walking’ with whomever was living with us at the time, and since we almost always had extended family, we must have resembled a parade going around the neighborhood. Our group would often end up at my parents’ friends’ bakery and sweets shop.
DePILLAR’S
Althea and Hilton DePillar were Negroes
who owned their own business; DePillar’s Bakery and Sweets, on 67th street between St. Lawrence and Rhodes. Althea was a close friend to my mother. The candy she had for us was no match for the chocolate peppermint patties we could buy at Cunningham’s store. The fact that many shops and stores were black-owned was no big deal. Scores of people who impacted our lives held positions of importance—African-Americans who serviced our community as insurance men, door to door salesmen, doctors, grocers, ice men, postmen, laundrymen, and teachers. However, all civil servants; bus drivers, milkmen and bread delivery men were still all white. After the war, Uncle Rick became one of the first ‘Negroes’ to work the Silvercup