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Rabbinic Authority
The Vision and the Reality
The Halakhic Family,
the Child’s Welfare and the Agunah
Beit Din Decisions in English
Volume 4
Rabbi A. Yehuda (Ronnie) Warburg
Urim Publications
Jerusalem • New York
Rabbinic Authority: The Vision and the Reality:
The Halakhic Family, the Child’s Welfare and the Agunah –
Beit Din Decisions in English, Volume 4
by A. Yehuda (Ronnie) Warburg
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רב דוד באבד, פוסק מפורסם של המאה התשע עשרה מעביר לנו מסורה שקיבל:
מריש כל אמינא מה ששמעתי מפי הגאון רבי באריש רפפורט . . . שהיה מקובל מפי רבו הגאון נודע בשערים האבד״ק לובלין, בבוא לפניו איזה שאלה, מקודם הי׳ שוקל בשכלו על אמיתת העניין לפי שכל האנושי האיך הוא, ואם נראה לו לפי שכל האנושי שהדבר אמת, אז הוא מעיין עפ״י חוקי תוה״ק מה משפטו – וכן הוא אצלי, בבוא לפני שאלת עגונה וכדומה, אם ברור הדבר בעיני לפי השכל ודעת בני אדם שהדבר אמת, אז אנכי מיגע א״ע למצוא צד היתר עפ״י חוקי ומשפטי תוה״ק וכו׳
(שו״ת חבצלת השרון ב:כ״ח)
Rabbi Dovid Babad, a renowned 19th century authority communicates to us the following mesorah that he received:
"I heard from ha-Gaon Rav Barish Rappaport . . . that he had a mesorah from his Rav, ha-Gaon Noda Bashearim, ha-Av Beit Din of Lublin, that upon receiving a question to address, he would first weigh in his mind the truthfulness of the matter according to what human reason dictates and if in his estimation human reason the matter is true, then he will delve into Halakhah to arrive at a decision."(Teshuvot Havatzelet Ha-Sharon 2:28)
כל רב בישראל רוצה בתקנת בנות ישראל ויודע גודל המצוה להתירה מעיגון והאיסור הגדול לעגן כשהיה בידו לתקן ולא תיקן
(רב משה פיינשטיין, אגרות משה אה״ע א:קי״ז)
"Every rav in Yisrael wants to promote the welfare of the daughters of Yisrael and he is aware of the greatness of the mitzvah to free her from igun and it is a major prohibition to leave a wife in chains
if one has the ability to address the situation and does not resolve it."(Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, Iggerot Moshe EH 1:117)
וכל מי שמתיר עגונה אחת בזמן כאילו בנה אחת מחורבות ירושלים העליונה
(הב״ח, שו״ת בית חדש החדשות סימן ס״ד)
"Freeing one agunah is like rebuilding one of the ruins of the ruins of the heavenly Jerusalem"(Rabbi Yoel Sirkes, Teshuvot Bayit ha-Dash ha-Hadashot 64)
הנני מסכים . . . להתיר האישה מכבלי העיגון . . . ויען שמבואר בתשובת ב״ח החדשות . . . כי מי שמתיר עגונה אחת בזמן הזה כאלו בנה אחת מחורבות ירושלים העליונה . . . וכן נדחקתי לגמור התשובה ביום הצום על חרבן בית תפארתנו [תשעה באב]
(הרב שלום שבדרון, שו״ת מהרש״ם א:פ״ד)
"I agree to free a woman from the chains of igun since it states in Teshuvot ha-Bah freeing one woman is like rebuilding the ruins of the Heavenly Jerusalem
therefore I pushed myself to finish the teshuvah (the ruling) on the fast day which commemorates the destruction of our glorious temple [=Tisha be-Av]"(Rabbi Shalom Schwadron, Teshuvot Maharsham 1:84)
Contents
Foreword by R. Dr. Aaron Levine, z"l to Volume 1
Preface
Part 1 Rabbinic Authority: The Vision
Chapter 1 An inquiry into the interaction of the halakhic and meta-halakhic argumentation of Ein Tenai be-Nissu’in (Vilna, 1930)
Chapter 2 The propriety of certain types of prenuptial property agreements
Chapter 3 Breach of a promise to marry
Chapter 4 A parent’s decision to withhold medical treatment from children: A study in competing analogies
Chapter 5 Corporal punishment in school: A study in the interaction of Halakhah and American law with social morality
Chapter 6 Child Custody: A Comparative Analysis
Chapter 7 A man receives an improper heter nissuin (halakhic permission to remarry) without giving his first wife a get – Relief via the execution of a get zikui
Part II Rabbinic Authority: The Reality
Chapter 8 Case studies dealing with a wife’s claim for bittul kiddushin
Introduction
a. The validity of the marriage of a Jewish woman to a mumar, an apostate
b. A husband who is infected with HIV
c. A husband with an inability to copulate
d. A husband who suffers from a delusional jealousy disorder and engages in spousal rape
e. A husband who engages in spousal rape, refrains from supporting his wife, emotionally abuses his wife and stepchildren and remarries without giving a get to his wife
f. A husband who engages in pedophilia with his two stepdaughters
g. A husband who is a batterer
h. A husband who has a bipolar personality disorder
Index of Halakhic Sources
About the Author
Foreword from Volume One
In referring to the highest level of truth finding in a judicial proceeding, our Sages use of the phrase, "Ha-dan din emet la-amito." What is being conveyed here is that knowledge of the law is not sufficient to render a verdict of truth. In order for the dayan to arrive at the correct verdict, the precise facts of the case must be discovered as well.
A beth din panel is not only thoroughly versed in the relevant halakhot, but is also well-equipped by virtue of educational background and professional work experience to grasp the reality on the ground. This entails a relentless commitment to relevant fact finding, taking nothing at face value, and understanding the implications of the facts for the commercial behavior of the parties.
A second characteristic of the halakhic-judicial process dealing with monetary matters consists of the documentation that must accompany the verdict that the panel hands over to the litigants at the conclusion of the proceedings. The claims of the plaintiff, as well as the respondent’s rebuttals and counterclaims, are meticulously recorded. Next, a thorough discussion of the issues from a halakhic perspective is presented. Finally, the verdict is rendered, and this verdict is demonstrated to have flowed from the halakhic discussion.
R. Dr. A. Yehuda Warburg has assumed a vital role in implementing this vision of a double level
of truth in the Beth Din of America and on other panels. In the present work, Rabbinic Authority: The Vision and the Reality, R. Warburg presents a number of his judicial rulings. What stands out in these decisions is the halakhic framework, legal perspective, and reasoned opinions
R. Warburg sets up to support his decisions.
For a number of decades, I have been involved on an ad hoc basis as a dayan, including serving on judicial panels for the Beth Din of America. In this capacity, I have often crossed paths with R. Warburg and served together with him on the same judicial panel. In each panel we served on together, R. Warburg’s outstanding Torah scholarship was always in evidence, scholarship motivated by a perfectionist’s drive to achieve new vistas in advancing the double dimension
of truth that stands as the ideal for the halakhic-judicial process.
R. Dr. Aaron Levine, z"l
19 Adar 1, 5771
February 23, 2011
Preface
The present volume is the fourth in a series of volumes intended as an introduction to a subject perhaps unfamiliar to many – rabbinic authority in our halakhic sources. The subtitle, The Vision and the Reality,
points to the themes being addressed in this work.
In addressing the "halakhic vision" of rabbinic authority,¹ we will offer a systematic inquiry of Ein Tenai be-Nissu’in which was published in Vilna in 1930. This work is a compilation of letters composed by rabbinical figures who opposed the introduction of kiddushin al tenai (loosely translated as conditional marriage) for a prospective Jewish couple who were embarking upon marriage which was suggested as a solution to deal with freeing wives who subsequently were unable to receive a get from their husbands. Our inquiry will address the halakhic and meta-halakhic factors involved in rejecting the proposed formula for a conditional marriage authored by French rabbis in the late nineteenth century. Furthermore, based upon our review, we will understand the significance of the title of this work and the line of argumentation found in these letters which subsequently propelled a rabbinic rejection of twentieth century solutions proffering other types of kiddushin al tenai which were proposed to deal with the agunah problem.
Since we are dealing with "the world of issurim (prohibitions)" due to the halakhic concern of hezkat eishet ish (the status of a married woman) as well as other factors, authorities were unwilling to release a wife without her receiving a get from her husband and therefore rejected these proposals for implementing conditional marriages. Nevertheless, when dealing with monetary matters, generally speaking, Halakhah allows individuals including prospective spouses to determine their own monetary relationships, provided that the arrangement complies with a proper form, i.e., kinyan, and is not violative of any prohibitions such as theft or the interdict against taking ribbit (halakhic interest).² Consequently, it is unsurprising that there is much discussion how to draft a proper prenuptial matrimonial property agreement. As such we focus our attention upon the proper formula to be employed when executing such an agreement and whether it can be executed prior to the engagement or prior to the marriage.
The ability of prospective spouses to contract is not limited to the drafting of a prenuptial marital property agreement. Should a prospective spouse renege on a promise to marry,
will he/she be able to sue in a beit din for reimbursement of wedding-related expenses due to a breach of an engagement? Are gifts that were given in the anticipation of the marriage recoverable? These questions are discussed in chapter three of our monograph.
The marital relationship itself may be said to be a contract, albeit a very special contract which establishes a personal status
based upon the willing consent of the parties. Should a Jewish man and woman marry, Halakhah attaches certain consequences to that status. Among the monetary consequences to being married is a husband’s obligation to provide support for his wife as well as his children. On one hand, spousal support and child support is examined in the Talmud. On the other hand, there is no Talmudic discussion whether a father is dutybound to pay for the medical expenses of his child. Despite the fact that this issue is only briefly analyzed among post-Talmudic decisors, in chapter four we were able to distill three different halakhic models for establishing a father’s duty to provide for reimbursement of his child’s expenses for medical assistance.
In chapters five and six, we deal respectively with how American law and Halakhah address the matter of meting out corporal punishment of children and the dynamics of the child custody decision making process as reflected in the decisions handed down by the Israeli rabbinical courts.
In chapter seven, in the wake of get recalcitrant husbands receiving a halakhically improper heter nissuin, permission to remarry without giving a get to their first wife, we present the underpinnings of the ruling of the late Rabbi Yosef Elyashiv z"l who permits the execution of a get zikui in the case of a husband who remarries another woman (without a proper heter nissuin – halakhic permission to remarry) without giving a get to his first wife.
The reality
of rabbinic authority presented in this volume deals with one type of authority – the Jewish court, the beit din. The cases chosen for this volume entail excursions into the universe of "bittul kiddushin," voiding a marriage which results in the wife being able to remarry without a get. According to Halakhah, dissolution of the matrimonial bond requires the voluntary agreement of both spouses and failure of one party to assent to to the divorce action precludes execution of the divorce. Under certain conditions should a husband be threatened to give a get and subsequently he consents to give it, according to most Poskim the resultant get is viewed as a get me’useh (a coerced get) and it is null and void and should she remarry any children sired from this relationship will be considered mamzerim (halakhic bastards).³ In short, Jewish divorce must be consensual. In the event that a get is not forthcoming from a husband, we address whether there are grounds to void a marriage of a woman to an apostate, to a husband who is incapable of copulation, a husband who engages in spousal rape and a husband who fails to provide support for his wife. Furthermore, we address whether there is a basis to void a marriage of a husband who suffers from delusional jealousy disorder, a husband who is physically abusive and/or emotionally abusive to his wife and/or children and a stepfather who engages in pedophilia with his stepdaughters. Finally, if a husband prior to the marriage contracted HIV and he failed to disclose this matter to his wife until after their marriage, is the wife permitted to continue to live with him and simultaneously request that her marriage be voided due to his mum gadol, major defect(hereafter: mum or defect)? Or if a wife knew prior to her marriage that her husband suffers from severe depression, is there any halakhic credence to her claim that after being married to him she suddenly discovers that she cannot tolerate the situation and wants to have her marriage voided? Finally, there may arise in a situation where it is our understanding and assessment that a wife would have never agreed to the marriage if she had been aware of the lot that would befall her, namely remaining an agunah forever. In such a situation, may the marriage be voided? In two cases we explain why a wife’s allegation that her husband failed to disclose prior to the marriage that her husband suffered from severe depression and contracted HPV will not serve as justifications for voiding the marriage. In our analysis, under certain conditions we apply the avenues of "kiddushei ta’ut" and "umdana" in order to void a particular marriage.⁴
In chapter eight, we have included eight presentations, many of them inspired by reasoned opinions handed down as a dayan at the International Beit Din located in New York City. In each presentation, we offer a rendition of the facts of the case. Subsequently, there is a discussion of the halakhic issues emerging from the facts, followed by a decision rendered by the beit din panel. To preserve the confidentiality of the parties involved in these cases, all names have been changed, and some facts have been changed and/or deleted.⁵ To expand the reader’s horizons we have incorporated an introduction to chapter eight which elucidates the dynamics underlying the halakhic reasoning utilized in arriving at the various decisions presented there.⁶
As we elucidated elsewhere,⁷ the majority of authorities argue that it is a nohag, a practice rather than a halakhic duty to enlist the support of an outside rabbinic authority (ies) prior to rendering a decision regarding marriage and divorce in general and voiding a marriage in particular. Recently, Rabbi Refael Shlomo Daichovsky, retired dayan from the Beit Din ha-Rabbani ha-Gadol in Yerushalayim published an essay wherein he contends that a credentialed beit din who has a track record of issuing piskei din, decisions is empowered to render a judgment without seeking outside rabbinic approval provided there has been a critical investigation of the halakhic sources as well as a thorough scrutiny of the facts.⁸As he notes there is the Talmudic imperative that "a dayan must be guided by what his own eyes observe"⁹ and consequently, even if a second opinion questions the merit of the dayan’s argumentation since he has not participated in the actual rabbinical court proceeding he should rely upon the dayan’s position.¹⁰ Finally, contends Rabbi Daichovsky that the psak din is valid even if other rabbinic decisors dissent from its conclusion or if the ruling is in error.¹¹ As long as we are dealing with a credentialed beit din (even hedyototh – laymen) that errs, "shelo ke’din" (in R. Gartner’s words), argues Dayan S. Tzvi Gartner though there is no mitzvah to accept the ruling from the perspective of the matter under deliberation by the beit din, nevertheless there is a mitzvah, a duty to adhere to the words of Torah scholars.¹²
To state Rabbi Daichovsky’s posture differently, for those Poskim who refrain from seeking halakhic approval of their rulings prior to handing them down, implicit in their position is that a credentialed arbiter who is imbued with yirat shamayim (fear of heaven) is empowered to render a decision that may be at variance with a ruling handed down by any of his predecessors provided that the ruling is reflective of an analysis of applicable halakhic sources and based upon a scrutiny of all the facts. As such, it is readily understandable that the seeking of an outside rabbinic opinion
by a credentialed beit din in order to endorse voiding a particular marriage is a nohag rather than a halakhic duty.¹³
Chapter three has originally appeared in The Jewish Law Annual, chapter four has originally appeared in Dine Israel, and chapters five and six have originally appeared respectively in Tradition and in Israel Law Review. All of these published essays appear here in an expanded and updated form.
As we have shown elsewhere,¹⁴ there is an ongoing debate whether voiding a marriage is halakhically proper as a solution to "the plight of the agunah". Offering us an intriguing interpretation of the Talmudic halakhic-philosophical statement "Elu ve-elu divrei Elokim hayyim" (lit. these as well as these are the words of the living God), Rashi of eleventh century France teaches us,¹⁵
When the two rabbis of the Talmud disagree with each other concerning the Halakhah . . . there is no untruth here. Each of them justifies his view. One gives a reason to permit, the other gives a reason to forbid . . . It is possible to state both speak the words of the living God
. At times, one reason is valid; at other times, another reason. For reasons change even in the wake of only slight changes in the situation.
In the wake of the increasing number of agunot both in our Orthodox Jewish and non-Orthodox Jewish communities, an agunah’s unwillingness to be extorted by her husband in order to procure her get, the lingering fear of an agunah to decide to leave the fold
due to her plight and the contemporary inability in the Diaspora to physically coerce a husband to give a get represent in Rashi’s words slight changes in the situation
which dictate the adoption of the reason
which is permissive. As such, in circumstances where all attempts to procure a get for the wife fail, the reason
that ought to be ruling the day is to void the marriage based upon techniques which have been expounded in Halakhah dating back to the early thirteenth century.
Hopefully our presentation will educate our community regarding the parameters and scope of rabbinic authority in general and shatter the silence
surrounding how rabbinic authorities and battei din (rabbinic courts) have dealt with bittul kiddushin in particular. In the wake of get recalcitrance, for those agunot who avail themselves of the services of a beit din who is willing to critically investigate the possibility of voiding a marriage, it becomes a life-defining moment for them. They deserve no less. As the late Rabbi Avraham Shapiro, former Chief Rabbi of Israel states,¹⁶
. . . . a beit din is obligated to pursue a (halakhic – AYW) solution in order that the wife does not remain an agunah.
A. Yehuda (Ronnie) Warburg
22 Kislev 5777
December 22, 2016
1. As we know, Halakhah distinguishes between the theoretical law, which emerges from an abstract study of the sources of Halakhah, and the law that is applied in a particular factual context, i.e. Halakhah lema’aseh. See Bava Batra 130b and Talmud Yerushalmi Beitzah 2:1 (R. Yohanan’s statements).
However, whereas the vision
portion of the presentation deals with the decisions of Halakhic authorities as memorialized in sifrei pesak (restatements of Halakhah) and sifrei teshuvot (responsa), the reality
portion of our presentation focuses upon the halakhic-judicial rulings of a beit din.
2. Kiddushin 19b; SA, EH 38:5; SA, HM 291:17; Beit Yosef, Tur HM 305:4; SA, HM 305:4; Rema, SA HM 344:1.
3. However, according to the minority view of Rambam, the resulting get would be pasul, rabbinically invalid. As such, should she remarry under such circumstances any offspring sired from that relationship would be kosher. See MT, Gerushin 2:7, 10:2. For an unintentional misconstrued understanding of his view, see this writer’s Rabbinic Authority: The Vision and the Reality (hereafter: Rabbinic Authority) vol. 1, 175, text accompanying n. 51.
4. For a detailed analysis of these two techniques, see this writer’s Rabbinic Authority vol. 3, 134–176. For other avenues which have been utilized to void a marriage, see Rabbinic Authority, vol. 3, 231–263.
5. Additionally, we have included another line of argumentation for voiding the marriage which did not appear in two of the original decisions examined in chapter 8. See infra chapter 8c, text accompanying note 61 and chapter 8f,text accompanying nn. 49–51.
6. See Introduction infra text accompanying notes 25–48.
7. See this writer’s Rabbinic Authority, vol. 3, 256–262.
8. "May a dayan retract his decision" (Hebrew) 37 Tehumin 343, 345 (5777).
9. Bava Batra 131a.
10. Teshuvot Hut ha-Meshullash 9. For other understandings of this principle see Sanhedrin 6b; Nidah 20b; Rashbam, Bava Batra, supra n. 6, s.v. ve-al tigmeru; Hiddushei ha-Ran Bava Batra, supra n. 7; Yad Ramah, Bava Batra 8:135; Teshuva Rabbi Avraham ben ha-Rambam 97.
11. See supra n. 8; Teshuvot Lev Shomeia le-Shlomo, 2: 37. For some of the authorities that Rabbi Daichovsky relies upon to reach his conclusions, see Sefer ha-Hinnukh, mitzvah 496; Derashot ha-Ran, ha-Derush 11; Taz, Divrei Dovid al ha-Torah, Shofetim 17:11; Iggerot Moshe, Orah Hayyim, Introduction.
In a matter of horo’ah (ritual law) such as marriage and divorce should the beit din err in devar Mishneh (a matter explicit in the Mishneh – loosely translated as black letter Halakhah) it is null and void or if the error is in a matter of shikkul ha-da’at (a matter of halakhic discretion) which is not linked to sevara (halakhic logic) the decision is null and void. See Sanhedrin 33a; Hiddushei ha-Ritva, Avodah Zarah 7a; Shakh, SA YD 242:58. It is only when a decision where the error is in shikkul ha-da’at which is linked to sevara that the decision is final. See Torah Temimah, Devarim 17:11.
Should the error be submitted for deliberation to the local Torah scholars and to the arbiter who rendered the decision and if the dayan continues to affirm his own ruling, one cannot force him to change his mind. Since he was authorized to render a ruling, in accordance with the aforementioned Poskim his ruling is final even though it is based upon an error. Clearly, other authorities are entitled to disagree with his position.
For definitional guidance regarding these two types of error in devar Mishneh and in shikkul ha-da’at see Sanhedrin 33a; Beit ha-Behirah, Sanhedrin 33a; ha-Maor ha-Gadol, on Alfasi to Sanhedrin 12a; MT Sanhedrin 6:1–2; Piskei ha-Rosh Sanhedrin 4:6.
12. Kefiyah be-Get, 20, 152. However, Rabbi Gartner seems to argue subsequently that should the beit din actually err there is no duty to comply with their words. See Kefiyah be-Get, 153. See also, File no. 306044470-21-4, Yerushalayim Regional Beit Din, June 10, 2008.
13. Piskei ha-Rosh, Sanhedrin 4:6; Teshuvot ha-Rosh 55:9; Derashot ha-Ran, ha-Derush 7; Rema, SA HM 25:2; Teshuvot Hut ha-Meshullash 9; Ha’amek Davar, Bereshit 49:4, Devarim 1:3; Ketzot ha-Hoshen, introduction; Arukh ha-Shulhan HM 8:3, 25:2; Introduction to Sefer Dor Re’ve’ei, Tractate Hullin; Hazon Ish, Kovetz Iggerot 2:15; Iggerot Moshe, supra n.11, Orah Hayyim 4:11, 39, Yoreh De’ah 1:101,3:88,5:8, Dibrot Moshe, Shabbat 10:2. See further this writer’s Rabbinic Authority, vol. 1, 44–64.
14. See this writer’s Rabbinic Authority, vol. 3, 134–176.
15. Ketuvot 57a,s.v. mai kamashma lon.
16. Teshuvot Minhat Avraham 4:6.
IRabbinic Authority:
The Vision
Chapter 1
An inquiry into the interaction of the halakhic and meta-halakhic argumentation of Ein Tenai be-Nissu’in (Vilna, 1930)
In 1884, legislation was enacted in France which established that its judges would address a marital dispute and should the spouse’s (or spouses’) arguments be valid reasons for executing a divorce they would be authorized to dissolve the marriage even against the husband’s will and the man and woman were free to remarry. In light of this new legislation of civil divorce and in the wake of instances where wives in the French community became agunot due to their inability to receive a get from their husbands, upon the counsel of Rabbi Eliyahu Hazan of Alexandria, Egypt,¹ in 1887 some members of the French rabbinate introduced the solution of a conditional marriage where the husband would state to his spouse:
You are betrothed to me, should the civil judges divorce us and I will not give you a divorce in accordance to the religion of Moshe and Yisrael, this betrothal shall not be effective.²
In short, the execution of this kiddushin al tenai, conditional marriage,³ obviates the need for a get.
Rabbi Michal Weil of France and formerly Grand Rabbi
of Algiers suggested that wives would be considered halakhically divorced based upon a constellation of factors: namely the power of the rabbinate to annul the betrothal (hafka’at kiddushin), recognition of a civil divorce as well as reliance upon the opinions of Rabbi Akiva and Rabbi Shimon ben Gamliel which validated a Jewish divorce executed in non-Jewish courts.⁴ Various renowned rabbis from different lands including Chief Rabbi Zadok Kahn of Paris, Rabbi Elhanan Spektor,⁵ Rabbi Naftali Tzvi Berlin of Yeshivat Volozhin and Rabbi Meir Hildesheimer of Berlin, Germany, opposed the propriety of such a solution in writing.⁶ Due to strong opposition to these solutions from various rabbinical authorities, in 1907 at the general meeting of some of the members of the French rabbinate, without mentioning the Jewish divorce in the tenai, another conditional marriage was proposed which states that at the time of the marriage the prospective husband says to his prospective wife that she is betrothed to him on the condition that should she remain an agunah due to him after the civil judges divorced them the betrothal is void.⁷ Given Rabbi Weil’s endorsement of marriage annulment, the approval of the French conditional marriage by Rabbi Eliyahu Hazan, the passage of the newly drafted version of the conditional marriage of 1907, a 1924 Constantinople Beit Din proposal of a conditional marriage and the appearance of Rabbi Yosef Shapotshnik’s controversial writings in 1928 and 1929 which attempted to address the igun problem with the introduction of a new formula for conditional marriage and invoking the power of marriage annulment, one naturally would expect a rabbinic response. At the request of Rabbi Hayyim Grodzinsky, Rabbi Yehuda Lubetsky of Paris, France, accompanied by the assistance of Rabbi Moshe Weiskopf of Paris, France who collected over thirty letters from rabbinical authorities who rejected these solutions accompanied by the signatures of dozens of rabbis who opposed the tenai their response was published in 1930 in a book entitled Ein Tenai be’Nissu’in.
The purpose of the review of this book is to examine the halakhic and meta-halakhic reasoning memorialized in these letters regarding the merits of the French tenai⁸ and subsequently to understand the import and significance of the chosen title of this compilation of letters, Ein Tenai be’Nissu’in.
Addressing the propriety of the French conditional marriage, Rabbi Yosef Glicksberg aptly observes:⁹
This is a very sensitive topic since in addition to the clear halakhic problems that have a basis in the Talmud and early Poskim (authorities – AYW), we find here moral issues of strengthening the Jewish family . . . and therefore there are teshuvot and letters of scholars of the generations that have been collected into the book Ein Tenai be-Nissu’in.
In short, upon analyzing a halakhic issue, one must distinguish between the views which stake out a position based upon their understanding of the mishnaic and talmudic sources as interpreted by post-talmudic authorities as well as the invoking of public policy (or some have labeled a meta-Halakhah principle¹⁰) considerations of Halakhah. In other words, it may be that an arbiter sincerely accepts that a particular practice is permitted by the Poskim but nevertheless chooses to prohibit it due to the fact that it may create a hillul ha-Shem, a desecration of God’s name, may lead people to engage in other prohibitions, imbibes the practices of non-Orthodox movement (or movements), may undermine a certain revered halakhic institution or lead individuals to conclude that another practice which is prohibited ought to be permitted because it is similar to the sanctioned practice based upon medameh milta le’milta, analogical reasoning. Clearly, there is a need for an arbiter to distinguish between these two different dimensions when issuing a halakhic ruling lest he be in violation of bal tosif, adding to the Torah, lying, or misrepresentation of what constitutes Halakhah and what is halakhic public policy.¹¹ Invoking such meta-halakhic considerations within the context of a psak, ruling, in the arbiter’s mind means that compliance with his judgment is obligatory rather than optional or supererogatory.
With that in mind, we will review the letters which have been memorialized in the book and discuss the lines of halakhic argumentation against the implementation of kiddushin al tenai¹² based upon a scrutiny of the sources and rulings of our Poskim as well as the objection of this tool as a vehicle to deal with igun based upon halakhic policy considerations. To fully understand the substance of the opposition to the French conditional marriage, we will present how earlier Poskim addressed in other contexts the various issues raised by this proposed solution.
1.
The threshold question is the propriety of such a tenai. In the Torah, we are taught that the husband writes a get and hands it to his wife.¹³ That being said, since the tenai withholds a husband’s right to refuse a get, is such a condition to be subsumed in the category of stipulating against the Torah
and therefore will be null and void?
A baraita, a source from the time of Tannaim, cited in Talmud Bavli states the following:¹⁴
[If a prospective husband states] I betroth you, on the condition that you have no claim against me for food, clothing or conjugal relations, she is betrothed and the condition is void, so states Rabbi Meir. Rabbi Yehudah states, private ordering (contracting out of a law found in the Torah) concerning monetary issues is valid.
For Rabbi Yehudah, the condition which seeks to release the prospective husband from his monetary obligations such as food and clothing is valid even though these duties are mandated by the Torah. On the other hand, seeking a release from a nonmonetary matter such as engaging in conjugal relations will not be recognized. Arguing with this position, Rabbi Meir contends that under all circumstances, even monetary matters, a prospective husband is proscribed from advancing such stipulations because in effect his request is either that the Torah obligation should be inapplicable to him¹⁵ or that he is requesting that upon the establishment of the marriage his prospective wife waive her right to these matters.¹⁶ Disagreeing with Rabbi Meir, for Rabbi Yehudah a wife can waive her right to monetary matters such as food and clothing but since abstaining from intimate relations entails "a tza’ar ha’guf," pain to the body, a wife cannot waive such a matter.¹⁷ The common denominator between Rabbi Yehudah and Rabbi Meir is that private ordering via the execution of a tenai is proscribed in nonmonetary matters. Based upon the foregoing, the French proposal which is dealing with divorce which entails a matter of an issur, a prohibition (releasing a wife from a hezkat eishet ish, presumed status as a married woman), ought to proscribe any such private ordering in the form of tenai according to both Rabbi Yehudah and Rabbi Meir.
Moreover, the premise of the French tenai assumes that a wife will be free to remarry even if the husband is refusing to give a get. Such a premise is contrary to what is written in the Torah that a halakhic divorce is contingent upon a husband giving the get voluntarily rather than a ruling rendered by a civil court and therefore such a tenai which may result that a wife will be divorced against her husband’s will ought to be invalid.¹⁸
Given that the Torah’s directive of if she doesn’t find favor in his eyes . . . and he will write for her a bill of divorcement and put it in her hand
¹⁹ is undermined by the French tenai which empowers the civil court to issue a divorce even against a husband’s will, therefore such a condition is invalid in the eyes of Rabbis Lubetsky, Weiskopf, Friedman, Grodzinsky, Rappaport, Tenenbaum (known as Lomza Rov), Danishevsky, and Meir Simcha ha-Kohen, known by the authorship of his sefer (book) as Ohr Sameah.²⁰
Notwithstanding Rabbi Meir Posner who raises the possibility of prohibiting such a condition which results in a halakhic divorce without a get if a prospective husband conditions his marriage that he will divorce his prospective wife if he refuses to give a get at the time of the divorce,²¹ Rabbi Weil contends that a review of the talmudic discussions and post-talmudic rulings clearly sets down when a husband is free to contract out of certain marital duties and when he is prohibited to seek release from certain obligations vis-à-vis his wife.²² In effect, the husband is conditioning the marriage that his wife forgoes certain rights. A review of these rulings does not prohibit a prospective wife to marry her prospective husband on the condition that he will divorce her even if he refuses to do so at the time of the divorce. Consequently, Rabbi Weil argues, the proposed conditional divorce is in consonance with Halakhah and therefore ought to be valid.
In response to Rabbi Weil’s contention, Rabbi Lubetsky claims that in fact such a condition is in variance to the Torah and therefore invalid. Though Rabbi Lubetsky refrains from explaining his posture, the rationale which is already enunciated in Tannaitic and Amoraic passages is that the conditional kiddushin entails a matter of issur, prohibition, freeing a wife from the status of eishet ish, a married woman and consequently one cannot formulate such a condition.²³ However, this rationale cannot serve as the sole justification for outlawing the use of a tenai. As we will see, even with regard to matters of issur such as divorce²⁴ or halitzah, a conditional kiddushin will be allowed under certain circumstances. The focus of the objection to the proposed tenai lies elsewhere. A husband may request that a wife forego her rights prior to consummating the marriage, but he may not condition the establishment of the marriage on the condition that his wife has no such rights according to Halakhah.²⁵ As such, we may apparently understand the rejection of the French conditional kiddushin which assumes that the husband is bereft of the right to refuse to give a get that will not be recognized due to its denial of the Torah directive.²⁶
However, despite the fact that Rabbi Posner’s words are presented as a possibility rather than as a staked out position, Rabbi Lubetsky in very trenchant terms characterizes Rabbi Posner as "a well-respected latter day Posek and
one cannot reject his reasoning like straw."²⁷ Nonetheless, as he notes, Rabbi Posner alludes to the dissenting opinion of Rashba who recognizes the right of a prospective wife to consummate a kiddushin on the condition that the couple will divorce willingly at a future time²⁸ which serves as the factor of Rabbi Posner’s reluctance to advance his thoughts as a full-blown position. Nevertheless, Rabbi Lubetsky contends that Rashba’s conditional kiddushin is factually distinguishable from the French conditional get. Whereas, in the Rashba’s case the condition states that she will be his wife for a prescribed duration of time and at the end of the time he may divorce her or not,²⁹ in the French tenai there is no set time for the divorce and the divorce is dependent upon third parties or his wife rather than the husband. Since the execution of the get is predicated upon the fact that the husband authorizes the writing of the get and the French proposal assumes that the husband has not given such instructions (in fact, he refuses to give a get) therefore such a condition is contrary to the Torah.³⁰
Summarizing the argumentation of Rabbi Eliezer Berkovits,³¹ Rabbi Yehudah Abel aptly notes:³²
In the case of one who marries on the condition that he will divorce; the condition is not that he shall divorce against his will. No-one forces him to marry this woman and if he agrees to the condition (to divorce) because he wants the marriage, at least for a time, then he also wants to give the divorce because he wants the marriage. True, it may be that when it comes to giving the divorce he may have changed his mind and not want to give it but this is not at all clear at the time of the making the condition, and the Rosh has already ruled in section 33 of his responsa that so long at the time of making the condition it is not clear that the fulfillment thereof will be against the Torah such a condition is not a condition against the Torah
. . . .
It is furthermore possible to say that even if we judge the situation from the point of view of that which obtains in the end, when he is not willing to divorce and only does so reluctantly, only to avoid the retroactive annulment of the marriage that also is considered of his own free will.
To state it differently, if the prospective husband would have conditioned the marriage upon refraining from writing the bill of divorcement and/or give it to her that would be grounds to invalidate the tenai and the marriage would be viewed as an unconditional one, requiring a get should the couple divorce. However, the French tenai states at the time of the marriage the prospective husband says to his prospective wife that she is betrothed to him on the condition that should she subsequently become an agunah due to him and the civil judges divorced them the betrothal is void. Contrary to Rabbi Lubetsky’s reasoning, here there is no attempt to uproot any Torah mandate³³ and consequently the tenai ought to be recognized.
Secondly, lest one contend that the tenai creates a situation of a get me’useh, a coerced get, by dint of the fact that he agreed that his wife may be divorced against his will; nothing could be further from the truth. Firstly, nobody coerced the husband to set up this arrangement. It was his choice to propose the tenai and with the marital breakdown, he was not coerced to give a get. He could refuse and in light of the tenai which he established at the time of the marriage the marriage would be voided. Relying upon Tashbetz,³⁴ as Dayan Yosef Goldberg, av beit din of Yerushalayim Regional Beit Din and an international expert on get coercion, states:³⁵
Since our Sages have revealed to us that get me’useh entails taking away his ability to decide and he is unable to