Light Upon Light: A Collection of Letters on Life, Love and God
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Mostly written while she was traveling, living and studying in Malaysia, South Africa and Yemen, Light Upon Light is a heartfelt and sincere conversation, sprinkled with humor and self-doubt, on the challenges of a modern-day Muslimah.
Rest. Read. Reflect. What is He trying to tell you?
Nur Fadhilah Wahid
Nur Fadhilah Wahid is a Singaporean writer. Nur was born and educated in Singapore before moving to Malaysia for her undergraduate studies. Throughout her studies Nur also sought out Islamic Revealed knowledge and spent a year in a traditional Islamic madrassah in Singapore before studying in Dar az-Zahra, Tarim, Yemen. Yet, despite her thirst for Islamic knowledge today, Nur hasn't always been close to her religion and has been on a spiritual roller-coaster since 2010. Nur lives in Singapore doing what she loves best: writing, designing, and collaborating on Islamic projects!
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Readers find this title a surprisingly easy and entertaining read. The author beautifully draws deep and soothing reflections of the basic principles that Muslims should be consciously aware of, making the letters relatable. Each chapter is loved and makes readers reflect on themselves. The book is recommended for self-reflection and is filled with deep wisdom.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5A surprisingly easy and entertaining read. Alhamdulillah, Fadhilah has beautifully drawn such deep and soothing reflections of the basic principles that we Muslims should be consciously aware of, from her own life experiences, which makes these letters so relatable. Thank you for the book.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Read, relate & reflect. Totally recommend this book for self reflection.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is what I need the most today. Alhamdulillah. A great read with deep wisdom.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is the first time I’ve read her book and it makes me want to read all of her writings. I loved each chapter and makes me reflect on myself too. Thank you, author, for this book!
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Light Upon Light - Nur Fadhilah Wahid
Introduction
Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim
Allahumma salli ‘ala Sayyidinah Muhammad
wa ‘ala alihi wa-sahbihi wa-sallim
One of the things I love most about sending these letters are the replies I get from readers all around the world—young and old, male and female, Muslims and non-Muslims alike. I could be posting these letters from sunny Singapore or Malaysia, and have someone from Africa, or America, or Europe respond. And for that short moment, we would both be bound together by the same emotions, the emotions I try to capture in my letters; a bond that surpasses whatever differences we might have as individuals. The reader—you—might speak a different language than I, might think in a different way than I, might even have a different understanding of Islam, or perhaps even of God, than I. But in that short moment where my words, my thoughts, and my emotions, resound with yours … we connect; we share our hopes and fears; we share the struggles we have to be better people; we share the pain of the longing in our hearts.
We begin to see beyond our selves, and we begin to see the human soul that lies within each of us. And for that moment, we love.
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We live in a time when it is normal to think that everyone is out to take something from us. We go to school thinking we are being educated, when in fact we are being moulded to become unthinking citizens. We work for companies that care nothing about our well-being, but only for their own gains. On a daily basis we fill our minds with content spewed out by media conglomerates who do not care for the quality of our lives, but only for the quantity of their profits. So if we are exposed from a young age to a global culture that, by and large, aims to take as much as possible from us, it is not surprising that we find ourselves clutching onto whatever we perceive is left of our ‘selves’.
Allah …
I remember a conversation I had with Shaykh Ebrahim. He mentioned that the more religion becomes one’s identity, the less it is an agent of transformation and change. I was puzzled; shouldn’t Islam be one’s identity if one is to become a true Muslim?
He smiled, and said (I paraphrase): ‘When you think of Islam as an identity, you are, in fact, associating your ideas of what Muslims need to be. When a person has to be a certain way—and no other—then the identity becomes heavy, and thus the religion becomes heavy. Religion is meant to transform us, and to transform, we need to be light.’
The world today is filled with people who cling on to their identities with all their might, thinking that everyone is out to get them. In the Muslim world, all of us form certain ideas of how Islam and Muslims should be. Because we form our identities around these ideas—and after all our identities are the only possession we have left that is within ‘our control’—we find ourselves rejecting all other thoughts different from ours, even if they are derived from the Qur’an, Sunnah, ijma‘ of the ‘ulama’, and through qiyas.
Four years ago, when I first returned to Islam, I dressed myself in a certain ‘Islamic’ way and became almost tyrannical in protecting my notion of what Islam is, and in the process, became extremely judgmental of others … whether I realized it or not. In the words of my best friend: ‘You were so overbearing with your religiosity and your beliefs; it was hard for me to be with you.’ And it showed—even if I was too blind to see it then—for my first two years on campus, I barely made any new friends; I was too ‘heavy’ to be around.
A few weeks ago I attended a class on fiqh meant for the general public. During the class, the ustadh began to criticize other groups that had a different understanding of the religion, and he started to openly mock the actions of some people in the class … all the while sharing the ‘rightfulness’ of his Islam. By the end of the class, I found out that many had withdrawn from it—even those who were ‘new’ to the religion and really wanted to learn. The truth is that the world today is filled with broken hearts (including mine), and whether we realize it or not, our hearts long for the nourishment of the Light and the moment of unity with the True Love.
When we, as a people, hold on to our identities and force them upon others, we are breaking more hearts as we subconsciously look down on them. We are hurting them too, as we force them into ‘square holes’ despite the various shapes and sizes they come in. In this way we dilute Islam into an identity—our identity—instead of allowing it to be the powerful tool of change and transformation that it is.
The alternative to this is to look beyond our selves—or our so-called identities—and to start looking into souls. We need to see not just the shape and manifestation of things, but to see the underlying meanings of each. In this world, where everyone is out to take from the other, we need to surrender our own agenda, and to learn to truly give. And in moments we manage to do this, broken hearts get mended … and broken hearts begin to love.
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A Quarter of a Century
Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim
Today, I turn twenty-five.
Yesterday, by the grace of Allah, I stumbled across several of my diaries dating back to 2004. As I was flipping from one page to another, I came across several du‘a’s I made. In one of the du‘a’s—a silly one—I prayed that He would grant me the enjoyment of the Dunya before bringing me back close to Him. I was young and naive, and I wanted to taste the pleasures of the world. I made a whole list of items that I perceived would bring me happiness, and as I read the list today, I realized that over the years He had granted me all, save for one, of what I had asked for; both the good things, and the bad. After ticking off the entire checklist here I am today, knocking on His door.
In another du‘a’, I asked that He open my heart to wear the hijab once again upon my entrance into university. In defiance, at age fifteen I had taken off the hijab I had worn since I was a child and gave myself until I was eighteen to sort out my life. But at eighteen, I had flunked my A-levels and did not earn a place at the local university. I started working full time, without any intention to pursue my studies, and wearing the hijab was the last thing on my mind. Little did I know, seven years after making the du‘a’, He placed me in a university, and with it placed the hijab again in my heart.
The reason I am sharing this with you is that it struck me that Allah subhanahu wa ta‘ala truly listens to every single one of our du‘a’s. No matter if the du‘a’ is one made in passing or one that is made consistently, He is always listening. What this means is that we should be more careful of the words that slip off our tongue; those that are directed to ourselves, as well as those directed to others. What this also means, more importantly, is that we have to realize that our du‘a’s for ourselves today will shape who we are tomorrow. Our du‘a’s will shape the kind of person we will become, the relationships we will have, and the lives we will one day lead. What then, will our du‘a’s be? What then, will your du‘a’s be?
May He gift us the ability to make du‘a’s that are good for us in the Dunya and Akhirah, amin!
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Becoming Gordon Ramsay
Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim
Sometime last semester, my friends and I came across a video of Gordon Ramsay’s Kitchen Nightmares and we voted to watch it while eating our lunch. We loved the episode so much—clearly made for cheap entertainment—that we decided to watch all of the episodes (and seasons) during our lunch breaks and dinners in the days to come.
So every single day—twice a day—as we dug into our food, we watched as Gordon Ramsay turned restaurants upside down. He would come in, scrutinize each of the dishes served, and make blistering comments peppered generously with vulgarities. Our dates with him went on undisturbed for weeks, until one evening we decided to eat out at a restaurant off-campus.
The Night of Transformation
The restaurant was empty when we entered it, save for a small family of three seated in the middle of the room. We were quickly ushered to a corner booth, where the waiters took our orders without much fanfare and made for the kitchen.
‘Where are all the other customers?’ One of us asked.
‘I don’t know. Maybe it says something about the food here?’
‘Then why are we eating here?’ We laughed and the conversation turned to other topics.
Barely minutes later, we heard a ‘ding!’ coming from the kitchen, and a waiter walked out with our first dish: spaghetti carbonara. He placed it deftly on our table, slid the cutlery over, and returned to the kitchen as another ‘ding!’ echoed around the empty restaurant.
My forehead scrunched as I looked at the plate before me. Comment after pithy comment blazed through my mind: ‘Soggy. Too thick. Flooded with too much sauce. Bad presentation.’ I touched the plate. It was cold. ‘Must be microwaved.’ My fingers reached for the fork and I found myself jabbing the food, trying to find the spaghetti immersed under all the sauce. I was becoming increasingly annoyed