JOMO: Celebrate the Joy of Missing Out!
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We’ve all heard about FOMO (fear of missing out) but now you can make the most of your night in with this must-have bucket list for every homebody, featuring fun and entertaining activities to keep you pleasantly relaxed and stress-free every time you decide you’d rather not leave the comfort of your home.
This simple list-based guide book includes over 350 things to do to keep your nights in fun for everyone. Featuring advice for entertaining friends (get some snacks and host a game night), spending time with your significant other (put together some homemade pizza and watch a movie or a sports game), or even enjoying a relaxing Friday night at home alone (all you need is a bubble bath and a good book). Whether you’re a card-carrying introvert or just a habitual homebody in search of some new ideas and interested in starting a new, more relaxed schedule, these activities are sure to spice up your nights on the couch.
You’ll find the perfect idea for your night in—where there’s no line for the bathroom and pants are always optional. Celebrate the year of the homebody and discover new ways to recharge and avoid stressful plans (and people) all while remaining comfy, cozy, and content at home.
Editor's Note
Activities for quarantine…
With more than 350 fun activities you can do at home or over Zoom, whether you’re solo, with roomies, or your significant other, this guide will help keep you entertained for the duration of shelter in place. A great way to relax and de-stress.
Jessica Misener
A native of Ohio and Florida, Jessica Misener is a senior editor whose writing has appeared on BuzzFeed, Huffington Post, Cosmopolitan, The Atlantic, and more. She’s also worked as a T-shirt folder, dry cleaning assistant, grocery store cashier, librarian, and ancient Greek tutor. She lives in San Francisco, where she regularly eats twice her weight in burritos.
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Introduction
Have you ever felt that little thrill when a friend cancels your plans to go out that night? Maybe you’ve seen a crowded party going down on Instagram and felt even happier with your decision to set up shop on the couch. There’s actually a name for that feeling! It’s called JOMO, or the joy of missing out.
JOMO is about taking time for yourself—time you may need to recharge in your own space, or simply want in order to enjoy your favorite at-home activities. It means putting your happiness first and ignoring the pressure to go out to that club/to that dinner/to whatever else you felt you should do. Because skipping a night on the town doesn’t mean you’re missing out on life—you’re just missing out on someone else’s idea of what your life should look like.
The Joy of Missing Out is full of fun, unique ways to celebrate this time spent at home—whether alone, with a partner or friend, or as a group. It’s time to kick guilt to the curb and celebrate staying in—and this book is here to help. You’ll find more than 350 activities ranging from the simple to the more involved, including:
Concocting a crazy new ice cream flavor
Learning how to moonwalk
Hosting a Crock-Pot cook-off
Celebrating a hashtag-free Throwback Thursday
Having a paper airplane battle
Relaxing with a homemade spa treatment
Writing to a pen pal
Whether slipping into your coziest pajamas for a movie marathon or throwing a karaoke night for your closest friends, you’ve made the right choice—so stop worrying. Instead, let your inner homebody run free and relish in the joy of missing out!
Celebrate a Hashtag-Free Throwback Thursday
Put your smartphone away and dig up your old photo albums or prints (remember those?) from when you were younger. Even if you’re glad the days of bad haircuts are (hopefully) done, you’ll enjoy waxing nostalgic about the past. Not ready to revisit cringeworthy memories? You can pore through photos of your parents or grandparents from when they were your age instead.
To make it a group affair, you can throw a #ThrowbackThursday party where guests dress in favorite retro looks and bring along some of their most embarrassing or hilarious photos from a time before everyone had cameras in their pockets.
Make Homemade Ice Cream
What’s even better than a carton of store-bought ice cream or a cone from your local shop? Churning up a big batch right in the comfort of your own kitchen! Ice cream makers are simple to use and inexpensive to buy online or at your local big-box retailer. You can make the custard base ahead of time using whatever flavors you’d like—vanilla, cookie dough, even lavender honey—then simply pour it into the machine, hit the start button, and come back minutes later to a delectable homemade dessert. And with a homemade mixer, you’re not limited to store-bought flavors: You can mix up any crazy combinations you think of, from chocolate and sage to a goat cheese and blackberry swirl.
Spark Your Inner Baker (or Sweet Tooth) with The Great British Baking Show
What is it about this show that’s so calming? Let the dulcet accents, drool-worthy creations, and friendly contestants lull you into a state of total serenity (and some extreme sugar cravings). Who knows, you may feel inspired to whip up a batch of Chelsea buns, savory tartlets, or a rough puff pastry in your own kitchen.
Explore Virtual Reality
Buy (or borrow) a VR headset and navigate the crazy technology of virtual reality—in the comfort of your own home! With this immersive headset strapped on, you’ll quickly lose sight of any stress you may have been feeling. Make the most of your time-out from normal life by touring a jungle, biking through Yellowstone National Park, or just going full zen on a virtual beach.
Play Your Favorite Childhood Card Game
Were you a junior Uno champion? A connoisseur of Crazy Eights? An expert angler in Go Fish? Relive your glory days with a simple deck of cards, a few close friends, and some competitive spirit. See if you still have your mojo after all these years.
Collect a Compliments File
When challenging situations or negative thoughts make you doubt yourself, you need some concrete evidence of how awesome you really are! Take advantage of this reflective time alone by creating a brag book
of all those little reminders that you’re crushing it in life. You can refer to your collection of accolades when you’re feeling less than 100 percent confident (and let’s face it, no one feels completely confident all of the time). Here are some things you can include in your compliments file:
An email from your boss about how you mastered that presentation
Any work samples you’re proud of, like reports or newsletters or data analyses
A list of compliments you’ve gotten in your lifetime that have stuck with you
Scholarships or awards you’ve received
A really killer performance evaluation you got at work
A copy of your college transcript from when you rocked that difficult math course
Positive feedback from friends or family members on a hobby or talent
Thank-you notes and nice letters
Keep adding to your file whenever you receive praise, and store it in a space you have easy access to so you can revisit it whenever you need a little self-esteem boost.
Go Camping in Your Backyard
Who says you need to hike way out into the wilderness to really enjoy the great outdoors? Grab a tent, some sleeping bags and blankets, and your favorite snacks, and spend a night in nature (kind of). Bonus: When you camp in your own yard, a real bathroom is only a few yards away!
Watch The Princess Bride
It’s inconceivable that you haven’t seen this 1987 classic adventure film, so give it a rewatch (or a first watch if you have managed to get this far in life without seeing it) when you want a laid-back night in. Not only is the story fun, but countless lines have become classic pop culture quotes that you’ll be able to trade back and forth with your friends.
Change Your Phone Background
Since you can’t avoid your phone forever, turn checking your notifications into an opportunity for joy with a photo background that makes you smile. Some ideas: your significant other, a pet, your childhood home, or a pretty nature scene.
Plan Your Fantasy Music Festival
No doubt you’ve seen the highlights of festival life all over social media, from mouthwatering fair food like fried chicken doughnuts, to trendy fringed outfits and selfies with A-list celebrities. But all those picture-perfect moments require a lot of time, money, and travel—not to mention wading through a huge sea of people just to catch a glimpse of your favorite act. If your style is more Couch-ella than Coachella, you can bring dozens of your favorite artists together in one cozy place: your own living room.
Crack open your laptop and design a lineup for the festival of your dreams. You control the set lists! Is it Metallica playing alongside Ariana Grande and Kacey Musgraves? Drake rubbing elbows with Beyoncé? Or maybe Fleetwood Mac performing a duet with Lorde? Have fun creating a music event that’s uniquely you. If you’re feeling extra artistic, you can also design a poster for your custom festival, or build a YouTube playlist of your favorite artists’ live performances to feel like you’re really there.
Design Your Dream Backyard
Bistro lights, a koi pond, fire pits, and comfy hammocks: A great backyard can bring a little bit of zen and the perfect environment for recharging at your own home. Surf Pinterest or interior design blogs and build a mockup of your perfect backyard setup. Maybe you dream of having your own private hot tub, or would love to replace that old tool shed with a fully equipped gaming den. Even if renovating your yard is financially out of reach for now, it never hurts to have a dream. You can still relax by imagining yourself chilling in that Adirondack chair!
Carve a Pumpkin
Who said it has to be October to get in a spooky spirit? Make the most of your pre-autumn time by practicing your ideal jack-o’-lantern face so you’ll be Halloween ready. Plus, you can use the pumpkin innards and seeds in your cooking! (If pumpkins aren’t in season, you can carve a watermelon or butternut squash.) To get started, spread out some newspaper so you don’t end up with a kitchen covered in pumpkin. Cut off the lid
of the pumpkin and scoop out the seeds. Next, draw your face or scene on the outside of the pumpkin, then carefully carve it out with a sharp knife. Light a tealight or votive inside your creation. Boo!
Revamp Your Bubble Bath
Infuse your self-care soak with a fun whirlwind of scent and color via a bath bomb (or three). Stock up on these fizzy treats from stores like Lush and Bath & Body Works. You can find bombs of all shapes, sizes, colors, and even consistencies that will fill your bath with rose petals, lavender oil, aloe gel, or a sparkly explosion of glitter.
Read The Great Gatsby
Get jazzed on the glamour of the roaring twenties in F. Scott Fitzgerald’s classic 1925 novel featuring the romantic Jay, enchanting Daisy, and other glitzy characters in pursuit of the American dream. When you’re done, check out a film version of Fitzgerald’s book and see how it holds up.
Make Cookie Dough
Baking takes time, which you don’t always have the patience for when you need your cookie fix now. Whip up a batch of egg-free cookie dough and enjoy your sweet treat with a spoon.
Write Yelp Reviews for Your Favorite Spots
People often head to Yelp to air their grievances about a restaurant’s service or complain about a lukewarm cup of coffee. How about putting out some positive vibes instead? Find the Yelp page for your favorite café, dinner spot, dry cleaner, or boutique and write a sincere review about why this place excels at what they do. The owners will be grateful for your thoughtful praise, you’ll tip off future customers, and you’ll reap good karma next time you’re there.
Challenge Yourself to a HIIT Workout
HIIT, or high-intensity interval training, is a killer workout that uses quick interval exercises to pump up your heart rate and pack in both cardio and strength training. Think burpees, jumping jacks, squats, and lunges. By alternating between doing these moves at your fastest possible pace and at a very slow pace, you gain the maximum benefits. Since all you need is your body, pick a routine from countless options online and do it in the solitude of your own yard, garage, bedroom, or living room. Ready for an awesome challenge? Let’s do it!
Forgive Yourself
For many, showing compassion to others comes way more easily than bestowing it on yourself. Maybe you’ve been judging yourself for a past moral misstep, or are feeling guilty for turning down an invite or setting boundaries at work. It’s time to practice a little forgiveness and compassion toward yourself! Here are some easy ways you can let yourself off the hook and keep shame from sabotaging your life:
Tell your inner critic to shove off. That nagging voice in your head that’s questioning your every move? It’s only serving to bring you down. One way to silence that nag for good is to give it a name and practice cutting it off immediately when it tries to interrupt your day. Try a silly name, like Sarsaparilla, and say I don’t have time for you today, Sarsaparilla!
Remember that no one’s perfect. Holding yourself to impossible standards will always result in the same thing: disappointment. Whether