Clogs and Shawls: Mormons, Moorlands, and the Search for Zion
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Chamberlin interviewed her grandmother and six of her surviving great-aunts for Clogs and Shawls, the relatives who had made their way to Mormon Zion. She weaves novelistic passages with their first-person narratives to create a singular work of oral immigrant family history that is both lively and revealing.
Ann Chamberlin
Ann Chamberlin is the author of such acclaimed historical novels Sofia, The Sultan's Daughter, and The Reign of the Favored Women. The Merlin of St. Gilles' Well is her first fantasy. She lives in Salt Lake City, Utah.
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Clogs and Shawls - Ann Chamberlin
CLOGS and SHAWLS
Mormons, Moorlands, and the Search for Zion
ANN CHAMBERLIN
THE UNIVERSITY OF UTAH PRESS
SALT LAKE CITY
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Names: Chamberlin, Ann, author.
Title: Clogs and shawls : Mormons, moorlands, and the search for Zion / Ann Chamberlin.
Description: Salt Lake City : University of Utah Press, [2019]
Identifiers: LCCN 2019026437 (print) | LCCN 2019026438 (ebook) | ISBN 9781607817369 (paperback) | ISBN 9781607817376 (ebook)
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CONTENTS
Acknowledgments
Introduction
Family Tree
Part One
Dedication
The Shadow
In Exile with the Children of Israel
O My Father
Meeting
In the Family Closet
Part Two
Infancy (Our Doris Plays Dress Up)
School (Our Ivy Is Lost)
At Home (Our Barbara Cleans and Our Hannah Listens)
Food
Clothing (Our Frances Sews)
Our Violet Is Born and Our Mona Sees the Elephant
Our Nellie
Around East and West Bowling
Clogs and Shawls
Church
Facts of Life and Death
Part Three
Wuthering Heights
Nurse Whitaker
Letters Home
Mona and the Devil
Emulate Her Virtues
The End
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
FIRST AND FOREMOST, I must thank my grandmother and her sisters for sharing their stories with me and, I believe, their storytelling skills that have been the mainstay of my life. I hope I have served them well.
My uncle, now deceased, Ralph Noel Maud, gave me the intellectual push and the tapes.
My mother stood always at the ready to correct dialect, details, and perceptions, as well as her usual stringent demands for good grammar and spelling.
My brother and sisters, cousins, and second cousins were a lifelong corrective on our joint experience of being the descendants of these remarkable women. These people number over a hundred.
My husband and sons take the ripples out further.
My niece Katherine Quigley, who promises to be another librarian, shared her trip to the Yorkshire of her great-grandmother and great-great-grandparents. She also visited the clog manufacturer when I could not and sent iPhone pictures.
This project has been blessed to have two spearheading editors over its long gestation. John Alley first embraced it while he was still at Utah State Press. He held on as that enterprise folded, and carried me and my pages to the U of U, right over my head where I toil at the Marriott Library. The patience of my downstairs colleagues, especially Leonard Chiarelli, is much appreciated.
When John entered his well-deserved—if heartbreaking for the rest of us—retirement, I had the pleasure of making the acquaintance of his replacement, Thomas Krause, who has seen the work through the final shoals of faculty advisement to completion. Ashly Bennett, patient copyeditor, Hannah New in marketing, and the rest of the press staff have all been very supportive.
I would like to thank those faculty members whose comments honed the work, as well as peer reviewers Martha Bradley-Evans and Kerry William Bate, supportive with suggestions and improvements I have done my best to match.
The women of the Wasatch Mountain Fiction Writers have beta-read my novels for twenty-five years. Although they prefer the sort of heroines whose character you can mold instead of reporting the given, I did read multiple chapters of this work to them and appreciate their interest and sustaining hand.
I also received helpful criticism from my new group, Paris Creative Writers. Ellen Bryson, in particular, is such a sharp, precise writer. She often dropped her own work to cut mine mercilessly but necessarily—and shared the view of Valletta Harbor in Malta with me.
Finally, that great, firm-minded Mormon woman Lavina Fielding Anderson served as a sympathetic sounding board for decades.
After all this help with something I can barely claim as mine, my stubbornness may have won out and still be responsible for shortcomings. I can only plead that the stubbornness is genetic. I will, no doubt, as my grandmother used to say, Snort ’erself to death.
I beg all these folks’ forbearance, and the reader’s, too.
INTRODUCTION
IN MAY OF 1983, I carried a portable cassette recorder over the shaky plywood bridge that had been thrown across Salt Lake City’s flooded State Street. I was on my way, at my uncle Ralph Noel Maud’s insistence, between bus connections to interview my great-aunts who lived in Rose Park. That year I interviewed my grandmother and all six of my mother’s aunts who had made it to Utah. I attended every one of their parties, which were frequent and much loved—except by those of us of more recent generations trying to negotiate a Zion very different from the one those women imagined when they were girls in England.
Not one of the sisters ever fell away from the faith their mother taught them, and each endured to the end. How Great-grandma managed is one of the mysteries of this tale the rest of us struggle to unravel. Even God, the scriptures tell us, lost a third of the host of heaven.
Their adopted home in Utah found them as foreign as they found it; it did not readily embrace them. And so the Whitaker sisters—my great-aunts and my grandmother—clung to each other. Although at great sacrifice they had left the safety of home and family for something greater, and although social events had been among the deepest parts of their religious upbringing, they never found close friends outside the family group in Salt Lake City.
My grandmother and her seven sisters grew up in Bradford, Yorkshire, England, in Dickensian conditions, most of the girls having to leave school at twelve to begin work in the woolen mills. World War I claimed many of the young men they might have married, but in the end they all fulfilled their parents’ dream to emigrate to Zion. Mormon prophets for generations have sent out missionaries, fishing for converts. Converts, once attracted, were told to gather to Zion, in the shadow of the everlasting hills. Here was a more perfect society, people who were all fellow believers. Unlike immigrants to the U.S. from other ethnic groups who knew they would have language and cultural barriers to overcome, the women of my family thought they would at last be coming home.
In England, they had been poor, desperately poor. Their father, Ralph Robinson Whitaker, had been blinded at aged three and tuned pianos for a living. There’d been so many of them, and never the protecting brother. They’d had little education. And yet, for me as a child, listening to the roll of their stories around me, England in the past always seemed the promised land. I was Mormon? Every imperfect person around me was Mormon. Being English, belonging to that family—that was how I was truly blessed. Until I was not, until I was a teenager, and saw that I was out of the loop and ashamed of my poor, alien roots.
The mother of these girls—Mary Jane Jones, born in Swansea, Wales, in 1870—was the one to convert, having first met missionaries from Utah in Russell Square in London. Hers, along with that of the blind man she married, is the primeval story.
She gave birth to eight daughters between 1897 and 1910:
DORIS MAY—lively and fun-loving
ETHEL BARBARA—the nurse who married late, hardworking and no-nonsense
IVY—sickly and ill-fated, but always the best cook
MY GRANDMOTHER FRANCES LYDA—the best seamstress, ambitious, boyish until she became boy crazy
HANNAH MAUD—quiet and thoughtful
NELLIE THERESA—intellectually handicapped, the one who never immigrated
OLIVE MONA—had polio as a child and so was allowed to continue schooling into college
VIOLET—artistic and, as the baby, indulged
With such a mother, they would have strong personalities. Although they were inseparable, no one who knew them would confuse one for the other. There were those of her sisters my grandmother invited to help her cook Yorkshire pudding for the newspaper; there were those she didn’t.
The recording portion of the project continued until early 1984 when I announced that I was pregnant with my first son. It was about time, I was told, and Auntie Doris and Auntie Ivy gave me quilted and crocheted baby blankets and a little crocheted doll for the expected addition to the family.
This memoir is divided into three parts. The first is a novelized version of the lives of these girls’ parents, my great-grandparents. This seemed the most vivid way to tell their stories, which always rang so immediate to me from my aunties’ retelling.
Part 2 covers the girls’ lives at home growing up, the lost day-to-day mechanics that are at once so harsh but so nostalgic. I divided the topics into various subject sections. It was hard to make this either chronological or in a close point of view since something that happened to one girl was often reported by the others in interesting and telling fashion. But each girl did have her forte, and so gets a chapter to elucidate her character and strengths. I include the treasure of a diary written by a friend of the girls detailing a trip they took to the seaside.
Part 3 brings the seven women by various paths to productive adulthood and finally, reunion in Zion. The Whitaker girls produced enough descendants to fill a park with over a hundred souls at the Whitaker Family Reunion, none of whom bears the Whitaker name, of course. The sisters I interviewed—now all departed—are due most of my gratitude for sharing their stories so generously and for their part in teaching me how to be a woman. Thanks, however, are also due to the rest of the people in that park, whose lives and memories may differ. Now that I am nearly the age my great-aunts were when I interviewed them, and have struggled with my own life paralleling theirs in many ways, I assure them, one and all, that I have the best of intentions and undying respect.
The title I chose comes from the tough clothes factory girls wore: wooden clogs and woolen shawls. And that is where most of this family went to work at twelve, leaving school forever. The icon is so prevalent that it forms the name of a subgenre of British popular romantic fiction: novels where the spunky heroine overcomes poverty, exploitative working conditions, and the lecherous overlooker.
It’s hard when folks can’t find no work
Where they was bred and born
says the first line of a traditional song from Yorkshire that goes on to describe the world I try to re-create here. The same is true of any immigrant, whether it be the flight from the eastern European shtetl to New York’s Lower East Side, the African American flight from sharecropping in the rural South to the slums of the North, or those fleeing the clear-cut jungles of Latin America on the border today. So while my effort is individual and personal, I hope it may also echo in universal poignancy.
The poignancy, I feel, gains impact when I weave in descriptions of the times and places where I recorded these memories as contrast. For example, a motorcycle roars to life in the suburban driveway next door. Auntie Ivy doesn’t hear it; she lost her hearing and the flexibility of her hands to the grueling, repetitive toil. Yet she sings the song for the tape recorder with such love, such nostalgia:
Pretty clogs, pretty shawls,
She looks fine and she’s mine, all mine.
Other girls, other girls
May be fairy-like an’ all
But I’d rather be busy
Wi’ my little Lizzie,
The girl in the clogs and shawls.
The stories from that time when one quiet but firm-minded woman made a promised land for her family in the poverty and two wars of Northern England may seem quaint and distant from the present. When quiet, shy Auntie Ivy endured her harassment at the hands of the mill manager on a job she had to keep. When Auntie Mona fought polio and the devil. But the courage, individuality, and joy these women found in this as in all their other challenges may bring the same to mine and to other lives. That is my hope and my purpose in writing these pages.
The time between my great-grandfather’s accident and today has gone so fast.
PART ONE
DEDICATION
WITHIN TEN MINUTES OF MEETING ANYONE, my mother’s mother would make this announcement: I left school at twelve. I went to work in t’ mill.
Yes, that was pride in her voice when she said it.
My muttered Please, Grandmas
were of no avail. I could only grit my teeth and vow, I will never be like my grandmother.
Of all this life had deprived her, it had given her one thing. She had a voice what would carry across t’ weaveroom.
The crack of sliding shuttles, the slam of beater sleighs, the rattle of heddles, the ratchets clicking on the beams, forty, sixty all at once, had left her husband and three of her sisters deaf in old age. On Grandma’s part, however, this fourteen-hour-a-day assault on young ears had only strengthened her vocal chords; her aging relatives’ infirmity held no dread for her. She could still give them orders.
The Saturday before Mother’s Day that first year I counted myself among the feted—although I didn’t show yet—Grandma and I went to take advantage of the sale at a local children’s store. As we rummaged through tables of tiny bathing suits and sundresses, Grandma gave me a string of orders—advice—in that voice of hers.
Fortunately, if she had learned to make her voice carry, I’d learned to ignore it. No two women could be more different than Grandma and I, no two—I swore—would make more different mothers. It was hard to believe only one generation separated us; but I could not fret over trying to meet her expectations. Besides, I’d heard all her stories of birth and childhood a thousand times, since I was the baby and her daughter the new mother she was lecturing.
Nowt ’ere,
Grandma declares, tossing a pair of padded-knee overalls with the side seam unraveling back into the sale bin. Tha can’ make better thaself.
For once, I agree with her. She taught me.
We go next door to the fabric store and start on the remnant table. Okay, so we do have this in common: Neither of us will give a penny unless it goes for a bargain.
In her case, she had farthings to work with. And pins. Did you know that parts of a farthing could be counted out in pins, regular old straight pins? You could buy a paper of pins—not just at a fabric store, at the local off-license shop—for a farthing and pay your debts with four or five of them. Miser the rest.
Mind them for’ners.
Grandma,
I plead.
Her voice hasn’t dropped a decibel as a bevy of Southeast Asian women—grandmothers, aunties, mothers, sisters—comes to work beside us. Half a dozen dark-eyed children hover in attendance, some slung on backs in strips of cloth.
I smooth the front of my overlarge shirt. A practical carryall, that sling, if only one could figure out how to do it. This is how to be cosmopolitan while avoiding the expense of modern contraptions with patented names and no actual proof that they work. My sidelong glances at the women’s wonderful, mousy smallness and soft, polite chatter fail to figure how the strip of cloth might be made to carry the big, wiggly American baby I expect to have.
By accident, my hand meets that of one of the two Iranian women also at work among the banded lengths of novelty cotton prints and wide-wale corduroy—
Nowt to match t’ nap,
Grandma declares.
Are the Iranians mothers? No baby slings to tell for sure. Still their chadors and their very presence in this store tell me they are serious about wifely duties.
For’ners ought to learn English like everybody else,
Grandma announces in the same weaveroom voice. She who drops aitches and acquires them with abandon, whose copulas agree with their subjects so infrequently that disagreement becomes the rule instead. She who carries her native land with her wherever she goes, who can’t see how very foreign she is, even after forty years. She should talk.
As of course she does. There is no stopping her.
So who really is foreign here? Those two blond women in designer jeans each with a single, pampered toddler in the latest stroller? Who avoid the bargains as if they are tainted?
No. I suddenly notice something even more serious.
There’s a man in the store. An unaccompanied man. A redhead—or as Grandma would say, ginger ’aired.
This might not have been so very strange if something about him hadn’t reminded me of my uncle Noel.
But my uncle Noel lives in Canada. Where he periodically stands
for office on the Green Party ticket. He never wins more than 7 percent of the vote; too radical even for them. He only wants to give folks an alternative.
I look again. The man has found something of interest behind the turning button display.
When’s that baby coming? October, tha sayst? Tha’lt want a nice woolly. I always loved to weave t’ ’erringbone.
Grandma fingers two yards of grey-and-black wool fondly.
In my opinion, no woolly
is nice. No child of mine is going to wear scratchy wool in a world of central heating. Not to mention the trials of washing off baby spit.
The stray man covers half his face with a pattern book as I try to look over the Iranians’ black-shrouded heads.
No fabric remnant here long enough to attempt a baby sling.
I look again. The male figure slips behind a mannequin just as I turn.
I buy the light blue twill.
That’ll do thee fer a pair o’ pants.
Grandma approves.
Thank heaven. She so rarely does.
We receive our purchases and carefully count change from the cashier—and there he is, full on.
Give you ladies a lift?
Eee, our Noel!
and What are you doing here?
Grandma and I cry together.
Happy Mother’s Day, Mother.
He catches us both in a big, burly hug.
He’s driven all the way down from Vancouver to surprise her and, when someone at home tells him where we’d gone, he is able to surprise her that much more. It’s beside the point that Salt Lake just happens to be on the way to a conference on Jungian dream interpretation in Albuquerque from which he’ll fly to the Caribbean. He plans to gather information for an article on the People’s Republic of Grenada.
But how did you find us?
I have to know.
Well, I knew you wouldn’t be in the ready-made shop, not with the remnant sale next door. The pair of you.
You always were one for grand entrances,
I tell him.
And you know you really want a woolly,
he teases right back.
What? Oh—yeah.
That voice of hers
—the ginger eyebrows move in his mother’s direction.
Uncle Noel’s grand entrances began, as my grandmother has only just finished telling me, the day he was born: Christmas Eve, it were. So we called ’im Noel. Ralph first, for me dad, of course, then Noel.
Every one of the girls has a first son Ralph, so there has to be some distinction.
He ripped her so she almost bled to death. While she waited to be sewn up, she prayed: I care for nowt, so long as ’e’s ’ealthy. And so long as ’e don’t ’ave ginger ’air.
My uncle is the only person I have ever known who has what can be described, without a doubt, in either English or American, as ginger ’air.
Grandma and Uncle Noel start in on each other before we reached the car.
For t’ first three months, we didn’t know if ’e’d stay wi’ us,
Grandma trumpets. More motherhood training, I suppose.
Believe me,
my uncle says in his cool, studied Oxford tones, I tried to go.
’E were so sick and colicky. Wouldn’t take ’is food. Should’ve ’ad soya or summat, but there weren’t nowt like that them days. ’E weighed no more at three month ’an when ’e were born.
Well, you know, she was always trying to kill me. She once sat me on a red-hot potty seat, hot enough to fry an egg on, never mind my backside.
Aye, well, I were tryin’ to warm it by t’ fire for thee.
‘Aye, well,’ it’s a wonder you ever got me to sit on it again, after that.
There were always uncles at Christmas,
Dylan Thomas wrote of his own childhood in Wales. My uncle—whom only the family is allowed to call Noel—is a Britannica-level authority on the great Welsh poet. And on being an uncle at Christmas.
Not a few of his grand entrances, including his birth, coincided with that holiday. I remember the year Uncle Noel came for Christmas with a stuffed toy buffalo for my brother and University of Buffalo sweatshirts in graded sizes for all five of us girls. I was young enough to covet the buffalo and to wonder about an institution of higher learning for bison only. More than my uncle that Christmas, I would have liked to have seen a graduate of his literature classes. Not only would that rare buffalo speak English, he would speak it eloquently with Oxford regimen and an acid wit besides. My uncle could only teach at that university, I decided, because, with his tawny, shaggy hair, stolid mass, weak eyes, and aloof, chewing-the-cud superiority, he looked enough like a buffalo to pass.
People who don’t really belong make grand entrances: ice in hot water, crack! A strobe of light in a cozy world lit only by fire.
There was the time—another Christmas—when Uncle Noel had told everyone he wasn’t coming. Grandma sat on her cheap plastic-and-chrome telephone seat taking the news. Suit thaself.
The weaveroom voice tightened with something between disappointment and annoyance.
Then, in the middle of our traditional lamb dinner, in he walks carrying the two large poinsettias he picked up at Albertsons down the street by way of gift buying: an apparition with three red heads.
This same Christmas, after having read only the blurb and opening page of my first published novel, Uncle Noel declares I can’t write.
Pathetic
is his exact word.
No, I refuse to cry. While I try to catch my breath from this body blow, however, he has time to fall into professorial mode.
Take J. D. Salinger—
I hate J. D. Salinger.
Two can play at this game. He should be locked up.
Well, then, Hemingway—
I hate Hemingway. All male grunts. He should have been shot with his own bull rifle.
Who do you like?
As if there’s no one left.
Whom.
Caught him. But then I have to confess. Mary Renault.
You’ll never become great following in her dainty dancing shoes.
He’s obviously never heard of her. Dainty
is not a word I’d associate with Mary Renault. Her greatest crime, in his eyes, seems to be her gender. Of which there was always some doubt.
When I write,
I try to explain, I like to think of myself tatting lace, delicate, intricate—
Oh, God! Look around you, girl! Do you see any lace? No. It’s a vicious, hard world, like sandpaper and gravel, not flippin’ lace. To be great, you have to tell it like it is. Write what you know.
I need some distance to what I write, else I get too bitter. Besides, it’s not my ambition to have my stuff dragged about through sterile English classes ’til kingdom come.
That’s libelous.
I smile. Yes. It was meant to be.
Who’s the boss here?
Boss?
I hear my voice rise like Grandma’s. I tone it down. You’re coming to my house for dinner tonight, remember?
He concedes his dependency.
Real women, Grandma taught me, cook Christmas dinner. That includes Yorkshire pudding.
And that stodge is what killed my father,
my uncle grumbles, passing on the pud’, passing on the gravy, passing on the mint pasty and custard.
Then there is the Old Year’s Night (New Year’s Eve), ghostly fog drifting over the Salt Lake streets all the way up to Tenth Avenue. When my brother lets Noel in that evening, my uncle makes another grand entrance. He gives my grandmother such a start, all in his muffler and tweed cap as he is.
Dad?
I hear her say. Very quiet. Like a different person.
She quickly recovers and gives her more familiar shriek of laughter. Eee, I thought tha’rt me dad there. Fer a minute.
Uncle Noel is more sulky than ever at that meal.
He looks around the family wheel, spoked by my grandmother and six of her sisters, all still alive in their eighties, rimmed by their innumerable descendants.
He cringes at the ongoing shouts of laughter, still toned fer t’ weaveroom.
When he can make his voice heard, that voice academics around the world stint to hang on, he demands, out of the blue: I want to know how they did it.
’Oo did what, Noel?
’Ow yer parents—
He goes back to fish up his dropped aitch. How your parents did it. Raised all you eight on no money whatsoever. Did they preach to you out of holy scripture every night? Hellfire and brimstone? Tell me how they did it.
The sisters look at each other as if the question makes no sense. Then Grandma, who is used to this battle, raises her voice-from-the-weaveroom.
Love.
She says it like an American advertisement. A message from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Now, nothing in this world embarrasses my grandmother. This, however, comes as close as I’ve ever seen. Someone at the ward must have been preaching vocalization of love. Please, we’re English. English first, Mormons second. We don’t speak about such things. They seem forced, phony.
Grandma’s unnatural flush says she instantly regrets the word.
Uncle Noel rolls his eyes. I was there. I didn’t see love. All I saw was pathetic. A pathetic old woman, a pathetic blind old man.
’E weren’t pathetic. ’E were a wonderful person. I wish tha’d known ’im.
And Auntie Nellie, good God. Fat, sloppy, simpleminded, pathetic Nellie.
Which causes the bigger fuss? That he has said such things about our Nellie
(My Nellie. I always felt the burden of her, too)? Or that he has taken the name of the Lord in vain?
Within the bomb crater he’s created, he continues. Granddad—I was named after him, right? You thought I was he when I first came in. And I was told to emulate him. But I was only confused. What is there to emulate in a pathetic blind old piano tuner with eight daughters? Eight daughters. Not one son. Not one apostate, either. Not one black sheep in all the family. Until me. I have no role model, you see. No role model but that grinding poverty. That poverty. It was glorified. That gaggle of giggling girls. That ignorance.
He’s said it. Red to the roots of his hair, he can’t stop now. Because everyone is still dumb with shock, because for once he—the world-famous scholar—has made an impression. He doesn’t stop.
Because ‘we’ had such a sturdy foundation in Truth, things could only get better. God, the myth of Progress! But ‘we’ were already better than any of our teachers and classmates, see, because whatever they said, ‘we’ knew the Truth. All of this right there in Bradford. West Riding. Yorkshire—God, I couldn’t get out of there fast enough.
Tha’lt come back,
Grandma says. Back to t’ fold. They’s never an atheist in t’ trenches.
We’ll just see about that. I hate people who go around organizing your life for you.
Tha doesna, though.
Oh, I do.
He takes a fortifying breath for the next pronouncement. I killed you, Mother.
If anyone was preparing a joke to get over this scene, this has them silent again. Silent and completely baffled.
Everyone looks at Grandma, as if they might have missed a funeral or something.
Tha didna.
She recovers on a shriek of scandalized disbelief.
Like you tried to do to me on the potty seat. Only I did it first. In therapy, I did it first.
My uncle throws down his Christmas paper serviette—his napkin—napkin bought last January at discount—and gets to his feet.
Tha’lt come back,
his mother calls after him.
He slams the door and goes for a long walk in the dark, foggy Salt Lake streets.
Quickly restored to normal, irritant removed, the sisters launch into another tale about their childhood that has nothing to do with the unpleasantness we’ve all just witnessed. More than just the accent links the scene, all unconsciously, to the Monty Python skit of four Yorkshiremen sitting around, dressed in posh dinner jackets, drinking Château de Chasselas. Not the alcohol, of course, but memories of them days
when we’d ’a’ been glad to ’ave the price o’ a cold cup o’ tea.
(Only no tea, either, in my family’s case.)
The television skit memories escalate to t’ three month
we lived in a paper bag in a septic tank,
ate an ’andful of gravel
for breakfast before going to work twenty hour a day at t’ mill for tuppence a month.
We were ’appier, and we’d nothing. . . . ’Appier because we’d nothing.
There were t’ time me dad shaved off his beard, what he’d worn since they was courtin’—
Auntie Ivy begins.
Like the childrearing stories, I’ve heard it all before. An’ she didn’t know ’oo ’e were.
They finish each other’s sentences. It’s always clear who ’e
is; there were
only one in their world, and it wasn’t my Harvard- and Oxford-educated uncle. They shriek with laughter. It’s like tatting, round and round, leftover scraps of yarn on a wooden bobbin—they don’t make those anymore—with five nails hammered in the head. Bright, clashing colors, red with orange, purple with lime green.
The tables and TV trays, black with pink flowers, the epitome of American life, have been pushed aside. Parlor games now, spin the bottle. A coal fire in the grate casts its light over a scene that might have played out three-quarters of a century ago.
The sisters are in their eighties. They are using an empty bottle that once held what my grandmother insists on calling wine
—good Mormon that she is, it is only ever grape juice. Like she calls my baby sister Helen Ellen
and calls both my husband Curt and Alice’s husband Keith a combination of the two names, Keirth.
You can hear her voice across the weaveroom, but nothing goes the other way. Nobody can tell her a thing.
The bottle points to Auntie Barbara. Auntie Barbara, in her day, made extra Christmas money going from congregation to congregation (not Mormon; Mormon’s don’t pay) supplying the soprano for Handel’s I Know That My Redeemer Liveth.
Now she’s deaf as Beethoven. The rules of the game oblige her to sing Ilkla Moor Bat ’At,
the unofficial national anthem of Yorkshire.
The verses are about a man who goes to see his sweetheart without a hat and whom we all end up eating—either absurdly or with incredible existentialism—in a roast duck. Everybody joins in to help pull Barbara’s ageshrill, sharp notes down to tune.
In the overheated room, I feel a cool presence at my elbow. It’s Uncle Noel, damp on his tweed jacket from the out-of-doors. I smell the fog in the wool, like the house they grew up in must have smelled most of the time.
Grandma was right. Noel came back. Or rather, having so vehemently declared he hates people who go around organizing your life for you, he is now ready to give out assignments of his own. English 101.
There’s a story here,
he tells me.
Where?
I ask, careful to whisper. Not attending to spin the bottle is a sin right up there with denying the Holy Spirit.
Here. The Family. The Sisters.
I can hear the capital letters. Parties like this.
Ilkla Moor Bat ’At
concludes in full harmony—full harmony including Auntie Barbara a note and three-quarters above the sopranos—myself in there with the rest.
And you’re the one to write it.
Me? Why don’t you write it? You’re the hotshot writer. You’re the one with a good inch of cards in the library catalogue under your name. I’m ‘pathetic,’ remember?
Only because you try to write about what you don’t know.
You’re the one who was born in Bradford, who knew the Parents, who spent Christmases in the House. I only visited once as a baby, and all I can remember is the old ginger tomcat that ate cheese, sitting in a window with lace curtains. He seemed the only patch of light in otherwise very gloomy surroundings.
Are spinning wine
bottles attracted to agitated voices? This one is.
Or—bending down in the heat of competition like a teenager, only one with temple garments bunched around sagging thighs (she’d die if she knew)—Grandma can control the spin. I am called to order, required to give an impression of Pablo Casals.
At first I disgrace myself in this group what always ’ad music in t’ home
by not knowing who the greatest cellist of their generation was. I recover by impersonating the one cellist I know: my grandmother. Waves of emotional bowing. No care for the straddled legs. The laughter is, as my husband, musician from another generation, says, Epic, like a room full of Albert Ayler free-form jazz solos.
I return to my place to find my uncle watching passively, his arms folded across his chest, where the bottle cannot possibly point at him. Again I have the impression that, to him, nothing has changed in fifty years, twice as long as I’ve been alive. We are in Zion, in Salt Lake, in a middle-class home. The future that kept all eight Whitaker sisters going with its bright promise, it’s here. And yet, we are really still in the old, dark semidetached poor man’s house at 4 Moulson Street in Bradford. A place that doesn’t exist anymore and maybe never did.
Yes, you’re the one,
my uncle says.
Why?
Because.
Because why?
Jeez, my voice is American, vowels ranging on for syllables. Surely he can hear the difference.
Because you’re here.
He means more than just physical space. I’ve run away,
he says. Escaped. And you have not.
In other words, I am pathetic. I am a woman, a wife, a mother, a romantic: all the things my uncle Noel has run from all his life. Killed, just like the therapist taught him.
I’m out of college,
I tell him. I don’t write to assignment anymore, thank you.
But Uncle Noel persisted. Throughout the seventies and eighties, he sent me old maps and blank tapes. He taught me how to make a grand entrance—to disrupt things with a whirring black box, juggling a microphone and making the trouble to find a plug behind t’ settee.
He even accompanied me and asked the questions—brazen questions—manners always kept from my tongue.
Still, I was not really convinced I could do it, or that it was my own work rather than his I was pursuing. And still, there were uncles at Christmas.
Now that you have the recordings,
he told me, throw them away. It is not the facts that are important, for you see, the stories contradict at every turn. It’s not the facts. It’s the Myth.
It’s the Myth. I wanted to raise my kids without myths.
Contrary to Uncle Noel’s pronouncement, I had escaped. Two women could not be less alike than my grandmother and I are.
Or so I thought.
Then comes the day I am out in the garden with my own curly ginger ’aired,
blue-eyed, freckle-nosed son. We came from a land of back-to-back houses. A bit o’ dirt
is important to us,