Rent a Boyfriend
By Gloria Chao
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Chloe Wang is nervous to introduce her parents to her boyfriend, because the truth is, she hasn’t met him yet either. She hired him from Rent for Your ‘Rents, a company specializing in providing fake boyfriends trained to impress even the most traditional Asian parents.
Drew Chan’s passion is art, but after his parents cut him off for dropping out of college to pursue his dreams, he became a Rent for Your ‘Rents employee to keep a roof over his head. Luckily, learning protocols like “Type C parents prefer quiet, kind, zero-PDA gestures” comes naturally to him.
When Chloe rents Drew, the mission is simple: convince her parents fake Drew is worthy of their approval so they’ll stop pressuring her to accept a proposal from Hongbo, the wealthiest (and slimiest) young bachelor in their tight-knit Asian American community.
But when Chloe starts to fall for the real Drew—who, unlike his fake persona, is definitely not ‘rent-worthy—her carefully curated life begins to unravel. Can she figure out what she wants before she loses everything?
Gloria Chao
Gloria Chao is the critically acclaimed author of American Panda, Our Wayward Fate, and Rent a Boyfriend. When she’s not writing, you can find her with her husband on the curling ice or hiking the Indiana Dunes. She does not regret putting aside her MIT and dental degrees to write, and she is grateful to spend her days in fictional characters’ heads instead of real people’s mouths. Visit her tea-and-book-filled world at GloriaChao.Wordpress.com and find her on Twitter and Instagram @GloriaCChao.
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Readers find this title to be a heartwarming and enjoyable read. The book explores the complexities of family relationships and the pressure to conform to societal expectations. The story strikes a good balance between lighthearted and serious moments, and the romance between the main characters is cute and endearing. Overall, it is a fun and refreshing book that is perfect for those looking for a light and relaxing read.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A fun, refreshing good time. It's a cute book and I can't really find anything to fault it on. I'd recommend this one if you just wanna relax with something light.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I fell in love with the characters and never wanted this book to end. If you have some great stories like this one, you can publish it on Novel Star, just submit your story to [email protected] or [email protected]
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I really enjoyed "Rent a Boyfriend". Not because it has my favourite romance trope, although it was greatly done, but because it focuses a lot on family relationships.
Chloe rents a boyfriend (Andrew/Drew) because her parents keep pressuring her to accept Hangbo's marriage proposal and she absolutely hates him and doesn't want to be with him. Her parents have a lot of expectations on her and her future, and she feels like she can't be herself with them, and they don't listen to her and what she wants, so she resorts to the Rent for your 'Rents app.
It was a great story, with a good mix between lighthearted and serious moments. Drew and Chloe were so cute together, and I loved how they start as strangers and then end up falling in love with each other. Of course, this happens with every fake relationship book, but when it's well done (and in this book it is) it always melts my heart. And they have so many insecurities, and problems, but they inspire each other to take risks and be true to themselves, even if it hurts at first.
I also liked how the book talked about classism (also related to having a college degree vs. not having any) and sexism. It's focused on the Asian-American communities, but I believe it's a message that's important for everyone.
But Chloe's relationship with her family was my favourite part of the book. It was so messy, with so many secrets and lack of communication, but it felt real. Parental expectations and feeling like you're a disappointment to your family is something that I think everyone can relate to, and I think this was the most well-done part of the book, and made me almost cry in parts.
Of course this book also talks a lot about Chinese culture, especially with Chloe associating her lack of connection to her culture with her lack of connection to her parents and the Asian comunity she grew up with. It's also set in different holidays, and I loved to see Chloe and her parent's traditions on the different holidays, it was very interesting.
However, I didn't quite like the writing style, at least the dual POV. Gloria Chao's writing is good, I had already read "American Panda" by her and enjoyed it, but I didn't like how the POV's went back and forth in the same chapter and would have preferred to have a chapter from ach POV or just Chloe's POV (since as much as I liked Drew, I liked Chloe the best and it feels like she was the true main character of the book). - Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This was a great story and went so much deeper than just the breezy, fake dating premise. Chloe (Jing Jing at home) hires Drew to be her boyfriend at the Thanksgiving holidays to help stymie her parents arrangement of a marriage to the horrible sounding, but rich, Hongbo Kuo. Chao nicely adds a glossary at the back and explains in the Author's Note that bringing home a fake partner is still common in many Asian families. Drew is well prepared, even partnering with Chloe during a Mah-jjong game with her parents and being able to team up easily. I was very impressed at how well he fit in. Of course, there's a real life attraction too, and the book revolves around Chloe's eventual reveal to her parents about Drew and how she would like to have some autonomy over her life.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This is not only a great read, it's what I call a multiple plus book. You have a cast of characters all of whom have the ghost of others' expectations haunting them, then you have the iron irony of cultural beliefs constraining the two main characters, you have the insanity of Hongbo continually insulting Jing, even while telling the world how wonderful HE is. What a disgusting prat. Jing is not only extremely relatable, she's someone readers want to root for. The hoops she and Drew have to jump through, the number of times they have to bite their tongues (while doing virtual eye rolls) and how they eventually come out as winners (great use of both their talents btw.), makes this a solid joy to read. It is definitely a book for libraries who serve multicultural populations.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5I liked it. Gloria Chao is a new author to me. This was a fake dating story between two Asian-American young people. Chloe wants to get out of an engagement her parents are trying to arrange for her and rents Drew to be her boyfriend. They end up liking each other for real and of course have to deal with all the un-truths they have been telling her parents.
- Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5I was obviously attracted to this book because of its premise especially the entire concept of "Renting a fake boyfriend'. It was interesting to read about the different Chinese traditions and customs.
Initially the plot was interesting but I felt that it was dragged a bit too much. In terms of the main characters, I enjoyed Chloe and Drew, their gradual relationship, understanding and support for each other as well as their message interactions were all well written.
I was seriously surprised at the attitude and nature of Chloe's parents in this book, it was kind of hard to digest that such kind of parents actually exist. And Hongbo, the guy because of whom Chloe had to actually rent a boyfriend, is simply awful and has the capacity to get on your nerves every time he appears. I think I too would have hired a fake boyfriend if I had to get engaged to a guy like Hongbo.
I was quite happy with the ending and glad that both Chloe and Drew were able to find the courage to stand up for themselves and be able to communicate their choices.
Overall, an okay and easy read but not something that I would recommend in the romance category. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Faced with pressure to marry a family friend, nineteen year old Chloe hires a boyfriend from Rent for Your ‘Rents for Thanksgiving.Fake dating is one of my favourite romance tropes, but this example requires a lot more deception than some. Not only are Chloe and Drew lying about their relationship, Drew is pretending to be someone he’s not. There are a lot of lies to maintain -- and so much to explain if their relationship ever does become real. It’s kind of stressful!But Rent a Boyfriend is also a thoughtful, and ultimately positive, exploration of Chloe’s experience being the child of Chinese immigrants. Communication is complicated by her parents’ cultural expectations and because of the ways Chloe’s values and perspective differs from theirs.She rents a boyfriend because she sees it as a conflict-free way to express her disagreement with her parents’ plans for her future. And she wants to avoid conflict not just because she struggles with anxiety (which she does), but because she loves her parents and she wants a good relationship with them. Meanwhile, her parents are trying to show their love for her….But bringing someone home -- someone who gets a front-row seat to Chloe’s family’s dynamic, with whom she can discuss the whole situation -- turns out to be helpful. Especially because, between his own family experience and his job, Drew’s observed many families with similar challenges.So, not quite the fake dating story I expected, but really interesting nevertheless (and gave me a broader understanding of families different from my own.)"Is there something wrong with me? How is my relationship with my parents so messed up that I’m renting a fake boyfriend AGAIN?""There’s more than one person in a relationship""I didn’t expect you to be upSorry if I woke youI don’t even know why I texted in the first place""Because I’ve seen it firsthand""Yeah""I’m here. You’re not alone, in that sense, but also in the sense that our company has no shortage of clients. I’ve already had 2 jobs since Thanksgiving."
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Rent a Boyfriend - Gloria Chao
For Anthony, who taught me how to dream.
And for anyone who believes in love.
Author’s Note
Dearest Readers,
This book is inspired by a real-life practice in some Asian countries where women hire fake boyfriends (often from classified ads, sometimes from a company) to bring home, commonly at Lunar New Year, to alleviate the pressure from family to find a husband. For this novel, I adapted this practice into a fictional diaspora version, with all details—including the company Rent for Your ’Rents—created to better fit the American setting.
I hope you enjoy reading this as much as I loved writing it!
Author’s Note about Mandarin Words
In this book, Mandarin words are spelled using the pinyin system, with the lines above the vowels indicating the pitch contour of the voice:
A straight line (ā), the first tone, is high and level, monotone.
Second tone (á) rises in pitch.
Third tone (ǎ) dips, then rises.
Fourth tone (à) starts high and drops, producing a sharp sound.
For some of the Mandarin phrases, I chose to depict the tones as the words are pronounced in conversation in my family’s accent. There may be some discrepancies with other accents and dialects.
The meaning of the Mandarin words can be deduced from context—sometimes a vague idea, sometimes fully defined. The glossary included at the end is optional.
THANKSGIVING
Chloe
CHAPTER 1
MATCH.COM ON STEROIDS
November 26
Almost everyone is nervous introducing their boyfriend to their parents for the first time, but I was about to pee my sweat-soaked undies because, well, I hadn’t met him yet either.
Since he already knew my life story (at least the parts that mattered), it was highly recommended
we not meet before the assignment
to minimize confusion. Which meant my Uber picked me up from the airport and picked him up a block away from the destination, i.e., my parents’ house. Thanks, George, Toyota Camry, for earning your five-star rating by not asking us what the bejesus was going on.
As we waited on my parents’ stoop and the doorbell echoed through my feng-shuied three-bedroom, three-bathroom childhood home, I couldn’t bring myself to look at him. I was sure he was trained to keep the judgment out of his eyes, especially because I was the hand that was feeding him, but maybe the real problem here was that, between the two of us, he wasn’t the one judging me.
My parents flung the door open and exclaimed, Jing-Jing!
before wrapping me in hugs.
Over my father’s shoulder, my gaze flicked to my boyfriend
instinctively, to try to explain with my eyes that I had two names. But then I remembered I had only given the company (and thus him) my Chinese name, which was usually only heard between the embroidered wall scrolls of this house. My decision to list my legal but seldom-used name had been strategic in nature: to put it eloquently, I knew my parents would lap that shit up. It had to be true love if he was the first person outside our little Chinese community I’d told my real name to, right?
I’d dubbed myself Chloe in second grade after the hundredth joke about Jing-Jing sounding more like a song than a name. On a whim I’d started telling everyone to call me Chloe, after the universally loved golden retriever in my neighborhood. I think I had unconsciously hoped that there was some secret sauce in the name and that adopting it would make people like me more—which, sadly, worked. Soon it became who I was, more so than Jing-Jing. But the first and last time I had a friend over and she called me Chloe in front of my parents, my mom choked on her soy milk and my dad swallowed a tea egg whole. From then on, I kept my two worlds apart.
With the confidence of an Asian American who is used to lying to her dragon parents—the ones who named me Jing so I would shine in everything I do—I said, Mǎmá, Bǎbá, this is Andrew.
Shit. Had I remembered his name correctly? Not that it mattered: his correct
name probably wasn’t his real name anyway, so Andrew Shamdrew, po-tay-to po-tah-to, right?
My dentist parents examined now-Andrew up and down like he was a mystery specimen under their loupes. I had to hold back a laugh. In some ways, Andrew wasn’t hiding anything, and in other ways, Insert Name Here was hiding everything.
Ǎyí, Shǔshú hǎo,
he greeted my parents, calling them the polite and more-than-appropriate Auntie
and Uncle,
which usually made me pause because the direct translation didn’t make sense to my Americanized ears. You can’t mix cultures that way, my mother always scolded.
It took me a moment to notice that Andrew’s perfect Mandarin had been spoken with a Taipei accent. Damn, this company was good, like Match.com
on steroids, except they were matching him to my parents, not me.
Andrew smiled a healthy, toothy grin that made my parents’ eyebrows shoot up in pleasant surprise. I wondered whether the company had paid for those sparkling, just-Cavitroned pearly whites.
Aiyah, you have great oral hygiene,
my dad said, which, okay, if it was that easy, why did I have to pay a make-your-nose-and-gums-bleed amount to rent Andrew today? Good aiyahs weren’t easy to come by, but I guess anything teeth-related was a shortcut.
My mom’s eyes darted to the UChicago crest on Andrew’s zip-up sweater. That nontrivial detail had been my choice, and I still so clearly remembered checking—or I should say, clicking—the UChicago box after scrolling past Stanford, MIT, Yale, Princeton, and, of course, Harvard. I could’ve earned extra mooncake points (my parents would never eat brownies) for Harvard, but it had made the most sense to have met
Andrew at school. UChicago wasn’t the college my parents had wanted me to attend at first, but they had since come around after it became higher ranked than most prestigious
Stanford down the street from us.
Qǐng jìn. Qǐng jìn,
my mother said as she ushered us in with over-the-top manners. With guests, she only had two extremes: so polite it was fake or so honest you wished she’d lie. I was grateful it was the first one. For now, my brain warned.
With a dip of his head, Andrew handed her the box of mooncakes he’d brought. God, was this in his training? Or had he grown up like me, in a traditional, we-stick-acupuncture-needles-in-our-faces-when-we-feel-bad household? I wondered if he also intimately knew the smell of Salonpas, the pungency of which made me simultaneously want to hurl and hug my parents—which, coincidentally, was a pretty accurate summary of my entire relationship with them.
Except… it didn’t matter whether Andrew knew the stink of Chinese herbal medicine and how it sank its bitter claws into everything in the laundry. Because he wasn’t actually my boyfriend.
My father ushered us to the dining room table, which, to my surprise, flaunted a crispy, golden-brown turkey in the middle. It was just sitting there lazily, as if there had been one every year instead of the zhàjiàng noodles, dumplings, and stir-fried hollow-heart vegetables, which now took a side seat but of course were still present—because how could you not have any Chinese food on Thanksgiving?
I briefly wondered what Andrew’s Thanksgivings were like—did his family also eat Chinese food? Did he know the veggies were called kōng xīn cài?—before I snapped out of it and realized my parents were looking at us expectantly, eyes hungry but not for food.
Game. On. All I had to do was convince my parents that Andrew was the love of my life and theirs. Piece of (moon)cake, right?
Drew
CHAPTER 2
JUST ANOTHER DAY
Ileaned over and placed a caring hand on Jing-Jing’s shoulder before pulling the chair out in a subdued manner—no flourishes. Her parents were classified by the company as Type C for affection, and those Type C eyes ate up my quiet, kind, zero-PDA gesture. (In Type A circumstances, I would have kissed her on the head or cheek; Type B, placed my hand on the small of her back; and Type C.2, I would’ve been a bit more theatrical with the chair pull).
Mrs. Wang nodded at me and smiled a genuine mom smile (meaning her eyes crinkled and her lips lacked any trace of judgmental pursing).
It was almost too easy.
Jing-Jing, who had been thrown off a little at first (such a newbie—I was clearly her first rental), quickly righted herself. Andrew, you’re always such a gentleman.
I’d chosen the name Andrew because it was close enough to my real name to prevent any potential mishaps but still different enough that every time it touched my ears, I remembered the part I was playing. And, of course, Andrew sounded all proper and good-boy and shit, best foot forward, all that important gobbledygook. It was funny how much of a difference an An
could make, but trust me, that gap was huge. Those two little letters flipped a switch in my head, and as for the real me? I was so much more of a Drew, both literally and figuratively. I told my parents that if they were so hell-bent on me not being an artist, why did they name me Drew? Well, I used to tell them. We haven’t spoken in years.
Hence this job. Great pay, amazing benefits including dental (which I now understood was a worthwhile investment for the company based on how Dr. and Dr. Wang gushed over my recently cleaned teeth).
I smiled at Jing-Jing, my lifted cheeks pushing into my frames, which were another subtle reminder of my role. My glasses had no prescription (unless it was a prescription for appearing smart and unthreatening to parents with Category 1 personalities), though I had added the blue-light blocker—might as well make those babies at least somewhat functional. I looked from the supposed love of my life (my second one this week) to her parents, and I softened my eyes by thinking about the new set of brushes I’d be able to buy after this commission. And, just like I was lying to all of them, I lied to myself that those brushes were the one thing missing. That they’d get me one step closer to fulfilling my dream (the real one, not the rotating ones I told clients’ parents). Really, though, Successful Artist Drew was just another character I tried to play, except it was the only one I failed at.
Mr. and Mrs. Wang motioned to the food, and I dished some zhàjiàng noodles to Jing-Jing before passing the bowl to her parents. Man, it had been a while since I’d inhaled that sweet-and-spicy scent. It was the smell of our kitchen after the Chan boys—ahem, men, as my dad would correct me—played a sweaty, ultracompetitive game of basketball. As the aroma enveloped me, I heard his gruff, comforting, yet haunting voice in my head: You’ve got to earrrn your noodles!
I hated basketball. And now was not the time to be thinking of him, not when I had a different, fictional (read: loving) father to be telling stories about.
More plates were shuffled around, utensils clinked, and Jing-Jing shot me a nervous grin. I gave her a reassuring smile and nod; so far this was textbook. In fact, the silence was comforting, probably because of the familiarity from my childhood and from a chunk of the other jobs I’d done for Rent for Your ’Rents in the last year and a half. But as I spooned out some kōng xīn cài and the vegetable’s garlicky sauce dribbled haphazardly onto my plate, there it was, at the back of my head, niggling like the goddamn parasite it was: You and your family have so many issues because of this very silence.
The collar of my shirt was suddenly choking me, but because touching it wasn’t an option, I forced myself to think about anything else: what I was going to paint first with my new brushes, the smell of the food before me (which really was heavenly; the Wangs had gone all out), and—who was I kidding? All I could think about was how I couldn’t breathe, how everything was closing in, and what the hell was I doing here?
I focused on the itch, which only made it worse. Mental note: ditch this brand and go back to Tommy Hilfiger despite the extra cost. Maybe if I told corporate how it had endangered my cover, they’d do the splurging for me.
Jing-Jing put her hand on mine, probably because she sensed my spinning from her front-row seat. How? I have no idea. Maybe she had a gift for this and should look into a position at Rent for Your ’Rents. When I glanced at her, she gave me a warm smile that extended to her eyes, and I found myself returning her grin.
Back on track.
Chloe
CHAPTER 3
ROUND 1
Wasn’t he supposed to be the professional? Wasn’t I paying for excellence, not nerves and awkwardness?
Or… was this part of it? Maybe he was playing the doting boyfriend who cared for me so much he was nervous about impressing my parents.
I tried to relax by reminding myself there was a money-back guarantee: If the operative did not achieve the mission of providing a boyfriend worthy of parental approval, as vague as that was, I could ask for a full refund. Heh, operative,
like he was James Bond, except he would be nerdy, well-mannered, and loyal—a.k.a. guāi,
as the website promised—and an Asian parent’s dream. The operative’s attractiveness was also assured to be high enough to promise cute babies, but not movie-star high as to invoke worries of future cheating due to endless opportunities.
Now that our plates were full of sides, my father stood over the turkey with a knife in his non-dominant hand and a fork in the dominant one. Hover right, left, above, poke the turkey.
Andrew looked to me for a moment, and I read the question in his eyes: he wasn’t sure whether or not to jump in and help. To be honest, I wasn’t sure either—my father liked to be the head of the house, but he also clearly had no idea what he was doing and wasn’t a fan of embarrassing himself.
I smiled blankly at my supposed beloved.
Shǔshú,
Andrew said, standing slowly, you’ve been cooking for days, and I’d be honored if you let me do some of the work. May I serve you and Ǎyí? I probably can’t carve it as well as you would have, so I hope you’ll forgive any mistakes. But you deserve to rest and enjoy the evening.
Barf. It seemed way over the top to me, but my father was on the verge of humping Andrew’s leg. Worth every penny, wasn’t he?
As Andrew cut into the turkey and produced gorgeous, symmetrical pieces—was that in his training?—my father cleared his throat.
So, Andrew, tell us about yourself.
Yes, Jing-Jing has been strangely quiet about you!
my mother exclaimed dramatically. You know, we were shocked to learn about your existence.
Just as shocked as I had been when I’d made him up under dire circumstances two months ago.
My parents folded their hands on the table and waited expectantly.
I swallowed hard and tried to telekinetically remind Andrew what was at stake: my freedom from Hongbo Kuo. Disgusting, chauvinistic Hongbo, whom my parents wanted for me for all the wrong reasons, and who wanted me for even worse reasons. If it weren’t for Hongbo, there’d be more money in my bank account and Andrew would be at some other poor girl’s house this Thanksgiving weekend—and I meant poor
in both senses of the word.
Andrew smiled easily, full of charm and, somehow, love. Well, Jing-Jing hasn’t been quiet about you! It’s been such a joy hearing her childhood stories about the warm household she grew up in. I’m sure if I had known her when we were kids, I would’ve fallen in love the second I saw her teaching her Barbies math!
My parents laughed heartily, filling the dining room with so much of the rare sound that, I swear, our austere photo of Yéye at the head of the table narrowed his eyes even more.
I imagined Andrew with a mental checklist, just working his way through every memory and factoid I’d uncomfortably offered up on my very extensive application—so extensive I’d even had to give them access to my contacts and social media to ensure my assigned operative didn’t have a previous client who ran in any of my circles.
Although,
Andrew continued, I guess that would’ve been a little strange given that I’m two years older, and when you’re that young, two years feels like a lifetime.
But not anymore,
my mother added quickly with a smile.
I could practically hear her as if she’d spoken the words aloud: Men mature slower than women, so marrying up in age is always a good idea, Jing-Jing. Especially because once you hit MENoPAUSE, the men will run right out the door—they hit pause on the marriage, that’s why it’s called that, I’m sure of it! So finding someone older means they’ll look wrinkly too and won’t flee.
Sigh. I just… I can’t.
For the record, Chloe does not stand for this kind of antifeminism, but right now I was Jing-Jing.
If you’re two years older, then you must be graduating this year,
my mother said. How wonderful!
Andrew nodded. I’m applying to medical schools right now.
Thank goodness!
My mother slapped the table. I just learned recently that getting into a good college isn’t enough!
She turned to me. Jing-Jing, do you remember Jeffrey Gu? He was the high school valedictorian last year and went to Stanford? Well, I heard he dropped out!
I tilted my head side to side in a well, sort of gesture. Jeff started his own company, Mǎmá. He left Stanford because he just received funding from a venture capitalist.
He’s a bum! He wears flip-flops and hoodies to work! And I heard he plays Ping-Pong and takes naps during the day!
I held back a laugh. "I think Jeffrey Gu—one of Forbes’s latest Thirty Under Thirty tech CEOs—is just fine."
She shook her head at me. Dropping out of college is never okay.
Maybe it’s okay if you’ve already raised a million dollars for your company,
I mumbled. Then I noticed Andrew’s tightened shoulders and realized we were getting off track.
Anyway,
I said, dragging the word out. "We were learning about Andrew, who is not a college dropout like Jeffrey Gu."
No, he is not,
my mother said fondly, giving Andrew all her attention. Please, tell us about your family.
Andrew was focused on the turkey, his eyes unreadable. Our families have a lot in common, actually,
he answered as he dished a glistening cut of dark meat onto my mother’s plate.
She beamed and nodded her thanks.
My parents met in Taipei at church, got married, and then immigrated here for medical school. My older brother and I were both born and raised in Chicago, in a supportive church community.
Chicago?
my mother interjected. As in, they’re still there?
She’d always hated how far I was from the West Coast, and I knew the idea of having Andrew’s parents nearby would please her. So of course he answered…
Yes. They both work at the UChicago hospital.
Strangely, my mother’s face darkened, the opposite of what I’d expected. The first time so far tonight, so overall I should be relieved, but I’d really thought I’d nailed all aspects of this.
Luckily, my father’s eyes were about to pop right out of his skull. Take that, Hongbo. Your family may be rich, but Andrew just checked the money and prestige boxes, sucker. And yes, we might have been playing into the fact that my parents wished they had gone into medicine instead of dentistry after hearing too many couldn’t get into medical school?
jokes. I was not above cheap shots.
What specialty?
My father’s voice was only a smidge louder than a whisper.
Surgery.
A lauded field with a department large enough that my parents wouldn’t bother learning how to google just to confirm. And my dad might have once hinted at wanting to be an oral surgeon, but he hadn’t been accepted into any programs—if I was going to take a cheap shot, might as well go all out, right?
Wow, surgeons at the University of Chicago,
my father repeated, like he was trying to make the information sink in. My parents called the university by its full name, as if that somehow made it more prestigious.
So you went to the University of Chicago because your parents guaranteed you a spot?
my mother asked Andrew with one eyebrow raised.
I did briefly consider Harvard and Stanford, but I couldn’t turn down a top biology program down the street from my family. Now, UChicago’s biology may not be as good as its economics
—he nudged me with an elbow—but not all of us can handle a major that rigorous.
Jackpot, on so many levels.
My father said, You turned down Stanford?
at the same time my mother said, You think economics is a good field?
Yes, they were digs at me, but I would take the hit to remind them that UChicago was not a schlub school and that economics was not a cop-out,
easy-A
major. Might as well get my money’s worth and kill several birds, right? And the unexpected turkey on the table was a bonus dead bird.
I was smiling into my gravy, a little smug and a lot relieved, when my mother asked the last question I would’ve guessed. I mean, it wasn’t even on the list I’d curated for Andrew, and that was the most comprehensive form I’d ever filled out, more probing than my college apps.
What drew you to Jing-Jing?
she asked. Her eyes were dreamy, but I saw the malice beneath. How she was just waiting for him to admit he didn’t know, or that, like her, he thought my smile was too wide, my hips and chest too small, my personality too anxious.
Andrew had flinched at the start of my mother’s question as if the word drew
had clued him in to what was coming next. He must have prepared for this—I mean, come on, this was the most obvious question a mother would ask, and even though I hadn’t thought to put it on the list, surely the company had?
That…,
Andrew began slowly, is a difficult question, because there are too many answers to choose from.
Barf. Please.
He turned to me and put a hand on mine briefly, so purposefully it felt timed, which it probably was. It took all my concentration not to pull away and to instead look at him as if I were gooey inside. It didn’t work.
He chuckled, which startled me, and then said, That’s a perfect example right there. I love how she’s so strong and independent she can’t just take my compliment or enjoy when I graze her hand affectionately. So endearing, isn’t it?
My mother’s raised eyebrows said no, but the way she was gazing at Andrew said, Please marry my daughter.
But the very first thing that drew me to her? Was how her life is so neatly stacked into little boxes. I admire it, that kind of structure and discipline. I’m sure her success in life—being at UChicago and thriving—is due in no small part to this. And to you both, of course. I also love how passionate she is. I’ve never seen anyone fill out a mundane form with as much exuberance as her.
I almost burst out laughing. He winked at me, and a tiny frozen piece of my insides indeed melted into gooeyness.
My parents beamed at each other and at him (but not me), and we finished that restaurant-made turkey with gusto.
There was something about my parents wanting to impress Andrew that churned the guilt in my stomach. Except… they were the reason I was engaging in this convoluted charade. And yes, I was aware of the absurdity, in case anyone thought otherwise.
After chrysanthemum tea and pumpkin pie from a box with a hastily scratched-at price tag on top, the awkwardness notched up. To eleven.
My father cleared his throat, then gestured to the sheets stacked on the couch. We’re traditional, Andrew. We assume there’s no…
He blushed.
Hanky-panky,
my mother supplied with a completely straight face. I wondered where she’d learned that phrase.
Andrew turned red as well, and, given the flush I felt in my cheeks, I guessed we were a pod of lobsters in that moment, minus Mom.
Of course, Wang Ǎyí, Shǔshú,
he said, seemingly fighting the urge to take a step away from me. You and me both, buddy.
I bid everyone good night and made a quick exit. As I padded up the stairs to my childhood bedroom, my parents’ gaze followed me, something foreign gleaming at the edges of their crow’s-feet. Pride, I realized. Oh, if only they knew the truth.
I put on pajamas and brushed my teeth in a haze. When I walked by the circular mirror that I’d picked out in first grade, I cowered. I didn’t want to see myself. Because what if I no longer recognized who that was?
I flopped onto the bed and squeezed my eyes shut. But the vision of my parents looking at Andrew and me with so much hope was burned into the backs of my eyelids.
How did I get here? I mean, I knew how I’d gotten here—with desperate lies that fed off one another and grew until I couldn’t contain them anymore. So I’d hired a ringer: nerdy Asian James Bond. James Bong. Banh. The name is Banh. James Banh Mi, the best thing since sliced baguette with seasoned meat, cilantro, and pickled veggies.
Once I ran out of Bond puns, my mind wandered back to the web of lies I’d spun myself into.
The only way to distract myself was to focus on something equally horrifying but less painful. So I thought about every weird thing I’d said and done my entire life, like that time I met a cute guy in game theory and at the end of our conversation couldn’t decide whether to say Lovely chatting
or See you,
and I instead said, Love you.
God. Whenever that memory replayed in