Things That Make White People Uncomfortable
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This sports book, memoir, and manifesto from a Super Bowl Champion elucidates racism in the United States.
Michael Bennett is a Super Bowl Champion, a three-time Pro Bowl defensive end, a fearless activist, a feminist, a grassroots philanthropist, an organizer, and a change maker. He’s also one of the most scathingly humorous athletes on the planet, and he wants to make you uncomfortable.
Bennett adds his unmistakable voice to discussions of racism and police violence, Black athletes and their relationship to powerful institutions like the NCAA and the NFL, the role of protest in history, and the responsibilities of athletes as role models to speak out against injustice. Following in the footsteps of activist-athletes from Muhammad Ali to Colin Kaepernick, Bennett demonstrates his outspoken leadership both on and off the field.
Written with award-winning sportswriter and author Dave Zirin, Things that Make White People Uncomfortable is a sports book for our turbulent times, a memoir, and a manifesto as hilarious and engaging as it is illuminating.
A version for Young Adults is also available.
“A courageous and compassionate story of a great athlete and grand human being full of deep care for his fellow citizens! Don't miss it!” —Cornel West
“There is a revolution underway inside professional sports and Michael Bennett is at ground zero. In this revelatory book, he puts everything on the line to share the reasons, strategy, pain and deep thought behind this historic uprising. And he invites us into a vision of justice and liberation that is simply irresistible. This book is pure fire.” —Naomi Klein, author of No Is Not Enough
Michael Bennett
Michael Bennett (Ngāti Pikiao, Ngāti Whakaue) is an award-winning screenwriter, director and author. His first book, a non-fiction work telling the true story of New Zealand’s worst miscarriage of justice, In Dark Places, won Best Non-Fiction Book at the 2017 Ngaio Marsh Awards. Michael's second book, Helen and the Go-Go Ninjas, is a time-travel graphic novel co-authored with Ant Sang. Better the Blood, the first Hana Westerman thriller, was shortlisted for the Jann Medlicott Acorn Prize for Fiction/Ockham New Zealand Book Award, as well as being shortlisted for the Audio Book of the Year at the Capital Crime Fingerprint Awards. It was also longlisted for the CWA John Creasey New Blood Debut Dagger and was a finalist for both Best First Novel and Best Novel at the 2023 Ngaio Marsh Awards. Michael's short and feature films have won awards internationally and have screened at numerous festivals, including Cannes, Toronto, Berlin, Locarno, New York, London and Melbourne. Michael is the 2020 recipient of the Te Aupounamu Māori Screen Excellence Award, in recognition of members of the Māori filmmaking community who have made high-level contributions to screen storytelling. He lives in Auckland, Aotearoa (New Zealand), with his partner Jane, and children Tīhema, Māhina and Matariki.
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- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Funny and sharp, I really like this YA adaptation. I think it will appeal to lots of our readers because it covers so much ground from family, to sports, to activism.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Things That Make White People Uncomfortable by Michael Bennett 2018Haymarket BooksI put off reading this book for a long time, although I was interested immediately in reading it. Why? Well.....it made me.....a white person.....uncomfortable....Then I read the book. Michael Bennett doesn't stand up for just himself, he has the courage and conviction to put his support behind programs that work with people marginalized in society for their beliefs or lifestyle choices. This is a man who believes the backbone of society is its community and its people. **Improving food programs and teaching youth about the benefits of good nutrition**STEM based education**Intersectionality**Pro cannabis use for injury recovery**Black Lives **Putting college education before sportsMichael Bennett believes in people, first. He uses his celebrity to help support causes he believes in, hoping to influence others to stand up for their own beliefs; that Corporations that want to use his image might see what he is doing to help, and what he stands up for and want to match his support.He has become a member of A4I (Athletes For Impact) an organization that supports athletes who faced discriminating attitudes because of their personal beliefs, convictions or lifestyle choices.This book was so inspiring. I have so much respect and admiration for Michael Bennett. I'm no longer uncomfortable. I'm totally onboard. I love this guy!Amazing what we can learn and do when we finally step away from "comfortable"......when we put people before the "brand".Highly recommended.
- Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5middlegrade/teen/adult nonfiction (activism football memoir)
well written and thoughtful chapters on various timely topics. I skimmed over the footballier parts, but overall worth reading for anyone remotely interested. Swear words are blanked out (f__, s__thole, etc.) and topics are relevant and important to young readers. - Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Everything I know about Michael Bennett's football career is what is contained in this book, and truthfully, I probably don't know all of that since I started getting confused when words like halfback and linemen showed up. I didn't pick this book up because of who he is as a professional. I didn't even know that. While I was aware that the NFL was in the throws of a controversy centering around racism, Black Lives Matter, and the national anthem, I couldn't have named a single player involved excepting, of course, Colin Kaepernick. Truthfully, I'm not sure if I could have named another football player at all besides Kaepernick.So why the fuck did someone like me even pick up a book by a sportsball player?It started with the title—Things That Make White People Uncomfortable. That is one hell of a title. It jumped out at me from the shelf, and, of course, I'm going to pick that up. I want to know things that will make me uncomfortable. Once I picked it up, I found myself looking into the face of large man who is making what is traditionally considered a tough guy face, no smile and narrowed eyes, but, if you really look, there's something gentle and playful in that face. He looks as though he might just be fucking with you but lovingly. That is my sort of person.I admittedly skimmed the blurb on the inside jacket, which is why I still didn't realize it was a book by a football player until I started reading it. My eyes sort of glazed over at foreign phrases like "Pro Bowl" and "defensive end" and instead only took in words like "activist", "feminist", and "changemaker". Those are my sorts of words.You can count me in as a fan of Mr. Bennett. I now have a favorite athlete. This book of essays, written with Dave Zirin, is the work of a beautiful, compassionate, and growing soul. It is the work of an individual with the drive to understand others and make the world a better place. It is the work of someone who understands that change starts with oneself and one's home but should never stop there. It is the work of someone brave enough to share their personal story and break from the confines of toxic masculinity. The world needs more men like Mr. Bennett, and I sincerely hope that his activism will be a catalyst for change.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5While what constitutes "whiteness" is a matter of debate, and I don't view myself as being "white" (and as a Jew, I'm sure that racists would agree with that), this book ended up making me a bit uncomfortable anyway. Watching (American) football has always been a bit of a guilty pleasure of mine. Well, I suppose I'd say that I didn't find it a GUILTY pleasure until I read "League of Denial" by Mark Fainaru-Wada and Steve Fainaru (highly recommended, by the way) and saw just how the NFL (and the NCAA) was NOT handling the concussion crisis. And so watching football became a guilty pleasure - one that I still indulged in, but felt a little bad about doing so every time I had a game on the television. I supported Kaepernick's, among others', protest of the national anthem. Raised by a secular Jew and a liberal Quaker for most of my life, I was already well-acquainted with those who didn't stand for the national anthem or repeat the pledge of allegiance. My grandfather (the Quaker) was a WW2 vet (non-combat role) and never once said the words to the national anthem or the pledge of allegiance. To him, those things weren't about patriotism or being a "real American" or other such nonsense. He pledged his allegiance to humanity and our shared experience, not to one nation in particular. I myself have never said the pledge of allegiance, either; my grandfather made it abundantly clear that before I could say those words, I had to understand what they meant and what exactly I was promising. Somehow, in the course of national dialogue, what the players who were protesting against got twisted into something unrecognizable. There seemed to be two camps of people who were angry against the protesters: 1) those who said that they were protesting the military (they aren't) or weren't patriotic (wrong) and 2) those who said that black athletes are all spoiled millionaires who don't give a shit anyway and are just stirring up the pot. Bennett clearly and concisely explains just why he started protesting. I've heard several interviews given by Bennett, and I've always thought him as a well-spoken man, and this translates well into his book (not sure why he needed a co-author, because it sounds quite a bit like Bennett's interviews and public speeches - maybe the co-author helped guide him to various topics? Not sure.). And he isn't afraid to tackle difficult topics - from his childhood, to racism, to concussions, to college football players enduring life-altering injuries all while not being paid (even though they bring in millions every year for their universities), to Kaepernick being "white balled" by the NFL establishment for daring to speak truth, etc. The only subjects that made me uncomfortable were the football-related topics; like I said, I'm having a difficult time reconciling my love for the game with the injuries that players routinely endure for "entertainment." He also draws attention to the power dynamics between "owners" of teams and the players.Most often, I found myself saying "yes" and "tell it like it is" as Bennett spoke about these subjects. So, like I said, I wasn't particularly uncomfortable reading this book. But I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to have any and every football fan who thinks the protests are about the military or patriotism or spoiled millionaire athletes "not just sticking to football" read this book. I guarantee that this book would make THEM uncomfortable. Unfortunately, I don't think many will, simply because they have Breitbart and Trump and Fox News to tell them what to think, so why bother using their brains? As for me, especially the chapter about the NCAA, I'm conflicted even more about football. I don't think I'll watch the NFL anymore, especially because of the new rule not allowing players to kneel anymore (and Trump's ridiculous injection of himself into this manufactured debate about patriotism and the military, as if a draft dodger and someone who MOCKED a gold star family and a POW [John McCain] has ANY RIGHT AT ALL to comment about patriotism or the military - and seriously FUCK every single supporter of Trump's who gets all pissy about athletes protesting police brutality but don't care about Trump's actions). I like how Bennett isn't about focusing blame on people; he's all about moving forward, about doing as much good as possible for all people, for seeing that we're all members of the human race and we should start acting like it, damn it. Highly recommended, especially for football fans - but you don't have to be a football fan to enjoy this book.
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- Rating: 1 out of 5 stars1/5Totally racist. He has been so blessed, in his life, and beloved. He chooses to demean, and blame others for his own poor judgment.
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Things That Make White People Uncomfortable - Michael Bennett
PREFACE: THE SIT-DOWN/ON FEAR
I couldn’t see another hashtag Sandra Bland,
hashtag Tamir Rice,
hashtag Walter Scott,
hashtag Eric Garner.
The list goes on and on and on. At what point do we do something about it?
—Colin Kaepernick
It was our first preseason game in 2017. I couldn’t even tell you who we were playing because the thoughts in my mind were like cars, smashing into each other, with screeching tires, broken glass, and blood on the streets. I was thinking about American Nazis marching in Charlottesville and the young woman who was killed. I was also thinking about Charleena Lyles, mother of four, pregnant, who called Seattle police for help and they shot her to death, with seven bullets, four in her back. I was thinking about my friend Colin Kaepernick, denied a job in the National Football League because of his protests against racism and police violence that he staged during the national anthem, the stand he took for equality and justice. I was thinking about my mom, a teacher for over twenty years, who taught me to question everything. I was thinking about the gap between what we are taught the flag represents and the lived experience of too many people. I was thinking about all of this, and as the anthem started to play, I sat down. There was no way I could stand for the national anthem, and there was no way I would, until I saw this country take steps toward common decency.
By not standing, I wanted to honor the founding principles of this country—the freedom of self-expression, liberty, and the equal opportunity to pursue happiness—and challenge us to try to reach those goals. I wanted to use my platform to inspire young people to see us not just as athletes or pitchmen for products, but as changemakers.
It was something I had to do. Charlottesville brought back memories of growing up in Texas and being afraid sometimes even to breathe. It brought tears to my eyes to see people armed to attack somebody because of the color of their skin or their religion. I couldn’t believe it took Trump forty-eight hours to respond, and then I couldn’t believe when he said very fine people
were marching in an army of hate and violence.
At this point, I think if you’re being silent, you’re making a choice and taking a side. As NFL players, we cannot be silent anymore just because we have the ability to hide beneath our helmets. I can’t hide behind the shield. I can’t hide behind the glamour and glitz of football and fame. The reality is that I’m a Black man in America and I’m going to be a Black man in America long after I’m out of this league. There is too much in this country dragging down the poor, women, and kids, and we can’t be hiding behind gated communities, pretending these things are happening somewhere else.
So I sat during the anthem and the hate came in, as sure as night follows day. I’ll leave out the worst, but I will say that the fact it made people angry, uncomfortable, and even hateful was proof that I was right to make a stand and take a seat. If I’d protested for the right of men to grow beautiful beards like my own, no one would have cared—and if no one cared, then I would have been wasting everyone’s time.
Of all the responses, what bothered me most was when people said I was dishonoring the military. It got under my skin because I also heard from a ton of veterans who said, We wore the uniform precisely so people would have the freedom to protest.
It bothered me because my father was in the military. I love my father, but I don’t love the hatred I see growing in this country. I love the soldier who, after I started my protest, sent me an American flag from Afghanistan, shaded by dust and dirt from thousands of miles away, and said he stood with me. I want to use this platform to reach people, to encourage us to see how unselfish we can be. Just because people don’t eat what you eat, just because they’re not from where you’re from, just because they don’t pray to the same god you pray to, just because they don’t love who you love doesn’t mean they should be treated like they are less than human. I want us to aspire to love one another, in all our difference. To me, sitting during the anthem is not being divisive. The way those Nazis and Fox News are using the flag is divisive. My hope is to bring people together. It’s so much easier to put up walls.
I also took a stand for Colin Kaepernick. Colin is one of the best fighters for justice and equality in sports history. I think people assumed the anthem actions would go away because he was out of the NFL, but there’s still a fight going on. Racism and social inequality haven’t gone away. Just because Colin Kaepernick is not playing doesn’t mean the fight is over. Like Fred Hampton said, You can jail the revolutionary, but you can’t jail the revolution.
They can lock Kaepernick out of the league, but more and more players are taking up the cause. If the franchise owners thought that keeping Colin out would silence us, that just insults us as men. Guess what? Considering the ego and drive it takes to be a pro athlete, being told to shut up and play, shut up and dance, shut up and take the warning compels us to push right back.
It makes some people so angry to see us taking a stand (or taking a knee). I get that they watch football to escape, and they view us as entertainers, here to give them a break from the so-called real world. But we aren’t machines. We are human beings, and we aren’t paid to stand for an anthem. We are paid to play football—this is our real world.
Maybe some people figure that being a professional athlete somehow graduates us from racism. They think we’re not that Black.
We’re in another category. But if I’m someplace where people don’t know me as Michael Bennett, I am a Black man, judged by the color of my skin. I lived through this last August in Las Vegas, where I was put on the ground, a weapon placed against the back of my head, and a police officer said he was going to blow [my] fucking head off.
(I’ll be talking more about that night later, because, in this case, what happened in Vegas isn’t staying in Vegas.)
We have the right to protest, and we, like anyone else, can try to be heard. They also tell us to stick to sports when we speak out on issues. But they don’t seem to have a problem when we’re making commercials, selling their kids sneakers they can’t afford or fast food that will give them colon cancer. I don’t see how that is sticking to sports, but somehow that is considered okay. This cartoon by my brother Martellus nails it:
The reaction to all of this went off the charts when
Donald Trump gave a speech at a rally in Alabama that attacked us for protesting and went after the NFL for not firing us. He also described any player who took a knee as a son of a bitch.
Well, all right then. No confusing how he feels. He took the flame that Colin had lit and poured gasoline all over it. But Donald Trump never played football and does not understand our brotherhood. I’ll go into that later—what the NFL brotherhood is and what it means—but I knew that our brotherhood would come into play. That’s why, as soon as I heard what he said—and my phone started blowing up and the fury of my friends was making my ears bleed—I felt really calm, almost like a big, bearded Buddha.
Even though he singled out those of us who protested, I felt like he was taking on the whole NFL, so I never really felt alone. Instead, and I know this might sound twisted, I felt an incredible sense of positivity. I just thought, Hey, he’s entitled to his opinion. I’m not about to go back and forth with him because that’s not what this is about. I don’t know who that helps.
A lot of players were tweeting and talking volumes of anger. NBA player Chris Paul even dared Trump to say it to our faces (he hasn’t). My only public response was that he shouldn’t be saying son of a bitch,
no matter what he thinks about us, because, president or not, you don’t talk about people’s mothers. In a tweet, I wrote, My mom is a beautiful lady and she has never been a bitch.
But I was also proud. Wow. We got under the skin of the president of the United States. I was grateful. Even though he disagreed with us, he turned it into a worldwide conversation. Maybe he wasn’t willing to have a discussion with us about what we were protesting and why it mattered. No beer summit for us. But his comments did allow for us to go global with the problems of racial inequality in this country. He also brought the NFL family together, activating the brotherhood, as if his comments were some kind of NFL bat signal.
His mistake was taking on the whole NFL. Owners don’t like it when you tell them who to hire and fire, and you don’t talk about people’s moms. He also crossed a line—he is a habitual line stepper—when he said that the game has become too soft.
Everyone in the NFL, from owners to players, knows the toll this game takes on our bodies, and nobody who sees us after games or in the training room would dare say such a thing. In that moment I saw the part of the man that makes me feel pity: he has no ability to walk in other people’s shoes, to see the world from another perspective, from Puerto Rico to the NFL. He doesn’t care about Dave Duerson, Junior Seau, Kenny Stabler, or anyone who passed away before his time. He doesn’t know what it’s like to wrench your neck because someone faster and stronger than anyone who played even twenty years ago hits you like a truck. Yes, the rules have changed, but that’s because players are so big and fast now. There wouldn’t be any of us left if the head-hunting days were still in effect. I heard that part of his speech and just said, He don’t really know. You know?
Then on Sunday, September 24: history. It was the first time the national media had covered the anthem actions, and the protests hit every single team. You even had Trump supporters on the pregame shows—like former coach Rex Ryan, who had introduced him at campaign rallies—taking the president to the woodshed. The previous Sunday, nine of us players had protested during the anthem. Now we were talking 180 to 200 people: players, coaches, even owners. It was a league standing together to say that we were not going to be treated like this. More than any issue for which we had knelt before, now the protests were also about self-respect. Josh Norman, the cornerback for Washington, put it the right way, afterward:
It’s not about the flag, man.… Nobody is spitting on the flag or disrespecting it. We know you gave your life for it. We know that. And our gratitude to your services is deeply endeared. Understand that. But if somebody comes on your front porch and takes a piss, as a man, what are you going to do? Sit there and just watch him pee? Or are you gonna step outside and be like hey, what are you doing sir? You’re on private property. You’ve got to get off, or we’ll make you get off.
What a day that was. Some raised a fist, some knelt, some linked arms, and some stayed in the locker room while the anthem played, our absence being the strongest possible statement. That’s what the Seahawks did, and the team we were playing, the Tennessee Titans, did the same thing. Meanwhile, the woman singing the anthem, a country performer, took a knee. That made two anthem singers that Sunday who took a knee on the last note: a Black man in Detroit and a white woman in Nashville. In a divided country, we were forging unity: the unity of people who think we can do better.
What was so cool about the Titans also staying in the locker room was that it didn’t come out of a long conversation with the players on that team. We were all just on the same wavelength and did what we believed in. In that moment, we shared a blessed common direction.
On our team, it wasn’t easy to get to that place. The day before the game saw an emotional discussion. Everybody was expressing their feelings, talking about what they’d been through emotionally, physically, and spiritually over the previous twenty-four hours, and some people had different ideas about the protests. Trying to help all of us understand was not easy, and conversations definitely got heated. I can’t even say that we truly came together. We talked about all kinds of things we could do, and in the end, we had about 75 percent of the team buying into the locker room plan.
We also issued a statement that I’m very proud of, explaining our reasons. It read:
As a team we have decided we will not participate in the national anthem. We will not stand for the injustice that has plagued people of color in this country. Out of love for our country and in honor of the sacrifices made on our behalf, we unite to oppose those that would deny our most basic freedoms. We remain committed in continuing to work towards freedom and equality for all.
A big group of us worked on the statement, crafting every word. Different people picked apart and wrote certain sentences or pointed out what they wanted changed. There’s an expression, A horse by committee is a hippopotamus,
but I thought we ended up with a pretty cool hippopotamus.
One aspect of the experience that was really special was when our quarterback, Russell Wilson, stepped up in the locker room and with the media, in support of all of us. We’ve got some big personalities in this locker room, and up to this point Russell had never been at the center of it when the political fires were hot. But he got in front of the team, and I was just proud to know him. He was vulnerable. He was emotional. And he made clear that doing nothing wasn’t an option. He said to the press, later:
I was passionate about it because I am really more concerned about what is next for our future and for our future kids, and what we are going to do with the people [who] are going to lead this world someday. I pray for my kids every day that when they go to school that racism isn’t a thing that stops them from going where they want to go. It’s not just my kids, it’s your kids, it’s everybody’s kids, and I think that is really critical. That was on my heart, especially.
It meant a lot to the players, but it also meant a lot to the 12s,
the crew of Seahawks fans around the world. Russell is a superhero to both Black and white communities in our area. He’s an icon. His service work is unreal. And for him finally to voice his opinion on behalf of the people who look like him, who celebrate him but can’t afford to go to a game, was the embodiment of rising up when the times demand it. It’s a reminder not to judge someone for not speaking out but to create the space so that when their time comes, they’re ready. Russell shifted a lot of people’s perspective on the protests because he has a whole other audience. For him to say it changes a lot.
As for the games that Sunday, they were a blur. That’s how intense the reaction was. Every contest felt overshadowed. It was the first time in this country that sports operated on this elevated level, with everybody watching what we were going to do politically. That’s never really happened before. Ever.
It wasn’t perfect. There is no doubt that the original message of protesting racism in the criminal justice system, and showing solidarity with Colin Kaepernick, got a little lost. How could it not? Yet I think we just have to keep pushing forward. We have to keep going so more people can get involved.
A few weeks later a committed group of players was present at the annual NFL owners’ meeting in New York City. I was proud of what we were able to win: economic support from the league for some of our programs, in particular. But I don’t want us to fold so quickly just because the franchise owners chose to go with the carrot instead of the stick. In the meantime I’m going to keep sitting and using the space during the anthem to protest, because there are two parts of how things have gone down that feel wrong to me. The first is when Cowboys owner Jerry Jones said that players disrespecting the flag.… won’t play. Period.
That’s crazy to me: saying we’ll celebrate freedom by forcing people to stand. Then he explained that he was helping
us because we need consequences
in order to stand up to peer pressure. I’m a thirty-two-year-old man, father of three, and that’s the most patronizing shit I’ve ever heard in my life. If you think about what Jones said, it’s treating players like they’re not human beings. It reminded me of the Dred Scott case: you’re property, so you don’t have the ability to be a person first. It sends a terrible message to young people: that your employer doesn’t see you as a human being; they see you as a piece of property. We have every right, according to our union and according to the freedoms we are supposed to be honoring, to use that space to do what we like. This game has given us so much, but it also takes so much away: our health, our time with our families. It seems like Jerry Jones is on the hunt for our dignity and our humanity, too.
The second part that sits wrong with me is that I believe central to any conversation about standing for the anthem is making sure Colin Kaepernick has an opportunity to play in the NFL. Before we negotiate anything about whether we sit or whether we stand, we need those doors for Colin to open up, to stop the collusion against him. It felt so wrong for us to have the opportunity to be able to speak honestly with our employers but for the guy who started everything not to have a voice or a seat at that table.
Going forward, we know that the owners are driven more by the financial bottom line, while we have more of a social justice view, so trying to align those is going to be hard. I will say that the best way they can show that they are truly with us is—as of this writing—to sign Kaepernick. He deserves more than just a place on a team—he needs to be on the front lines of what we are doing. Any effort to erase him from this moment needs to be fought.
Some members of the media have been frothing like junkyard dogs throughout this whole experience, and fans—outside Seattle—yell things at us now that wouldn’t be out of place in the Alabama of the 1950s. But, truly, I’ve felt surprisingly chill through the whole thing. I’ve been studying Martin Luther King Jr. a lot, reading biographies and his speeches, and one of the bits of wisdom I’ve gained is that hate comes at you when you make any stand. It’s the price of trying to be heard. If that’s the case, and we accept it, then it’s a waste of emotion to react to the negativity. The hate, the rage that people throw at you only has power if you let it affect you. I know that’s easier said than done, but I want to enjoy every single day and feel great about the