Learning Not To Be First: The Life of Christina Rossetti
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Christina was the youngest of the four Rossetti children, born in England to Italian parents. Although she and her brother, the artist Dante Gabriel, were known as the 'two storms', Christina's passionate nature was curbed in a way that her brother's was not, as she submitted to the social and religious pressures that lay so heav
Kathleen Jones
KATHLEEN JONES was born and brought up on a hill farm in Cumbria and now lives with her partner, sculptor Neil Ferber, on the edge of the English Lake District. She has been writing since she was a child and has published ten books including six biographies and a collection of poetry. She lived for several years in Africa and the Middle East, where she worked for the Qatar Broadcasting Corporation. Since then she has written extensively for BBC radio and contributed to several television documentaries. Kathleen is currently a Royal Literary Fund Fellow. Her latest biography, 'Katherine Mansfield: The Storyteller' was published by Penguin NZ in August, and by Edinburgh University Press in December 2010. It is available on Amazon.co.uk She is best known for her award-winning biographies, but has also published poetry, feature articles and short fiction in a variety of national and international magazines and newspapers. Her short stories have been broadcast on BBC Radio and on radio networks in Holland, Germany and Spain. As a journalist Kathleen has written articles and reviews for the Independent, the Guardian, the Daily Express, and the TLS, as well as magazines such as SHE and Cosmo. A prize-winning, collection of poetry 'Unwritten Lives' was published by Redbeck Press in 1995 and a further collection 'Not Saying Goodbye at Gate 21' is being published by Templar Poetry in 2011. Kathleen is an enthusiastic blogger, writing an on-line journal 'A Writer's Life' and a book review blog. She is part of the 'Tuesday Poem' group, based in New Zealand. Kathleen Jones regularly leads creative writing workshops for fiction, poetry and life writing. In June each year she also tutors a residential writing course at Peralta in Italy with American novelist Mary-Rose Hayes.
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Learning Not To Be First - Kathleen Jones
By The Same Author
A Glorious Fame
A Passionate Sisterhood
Catherine Cookson: The Biography
Seeking Catherine Cookson's Da
Margaret Forster: An Introduction
Katherine Mansfield: The Story-teller
POETRY
Unwritten Lives
Not Saying Goodbye at Gate 21
As KATE GORDON
An Alternative Guide to Weddings
An Alternative Guide to Baptism and Baby-naming
An Alternative Guide to Funerals
Quotes from Reviewers
Best book of 1991
DORIS LESSING The Independent
Perceptive and carefully researched.
JAN DALLY Independent on Sunday
One of the strengths of the book is the way Kathleen Jones maps the links between Christina and other women poets of the time
WENDY COPE Weekend Telegraph
A Book Mill Publication
First published in Great Britain by The Windrush Press, 1991
Copyright © Kathleen Jones 1991
The moral right of the author has been asserted. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means, without the prior permission in writing of the publisher, nor be otherwise circulated in any form of binding or cover other than that in which it is published and without a similar condition including this condition being imposed on the subsequent purchaser.
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Jones, Kathleen
Learning not to be first: the life of Christina Rossetti.
1. Poetry in English. Rossetti, Christina, 1830 - 1894
I. Title
821.8
ISBN 978-0-9567303-2-9
The Book Mill is an imprint of Ferber Jones Ltd Bongate Mill Appleby CA16 6UR
CONTENTS
Acknowledgements
Introduction
PART ONE : Pricked to a Pattern
Chapter One
Chapter Two
Chapter Three
Chapter Four
PART TWO : Renunciation
Chapter Five
Chapter Six
Chapter Seven
PART THREE : Just a Fairy Story
Chapter Eight
Chapter Nine
Chapter Ten
Chapter Eleven
Chapter Twelve
Chapter Thirteen
PART FOUR : Tenacious Obscurity
Chapter Fourteen
Chapter Fifteen
Chapter Sixteen
Chapter Seventeen
Chapter Eighteen
References
Select Bibliography
Acknowledgements
Many individuals and organisations have given assistance to the author, granted permission to quote from manuscripts and books, or to reproduce illustrations, and the author gratefully acknowledges their help. Particular thanks must go to Kathy Henderson at the Harry Ransom Humanities Research Center, University of Texas at Austin, George Brandak at the University of British Columbia, David Burnett at the University of Durham, staff at the Bodleian Library, Oxford, the British Library, London, and Clifton Library, Bristol; to Macmillan Publishers Ltd for permission to quote from the Rossetti-Macmillan correspondence; to Carcanet Press, the Hulton Picture Library, the Mary Evans Picture Library, the National Portrait Gallery, and the Tate Gallery. Also to the family of Dora Greenwell, the Trustees of the Trevelyan Family Papers, Sir Rupert Hart-Davis, Jan Marsh, Mrs Gwynneth Hatton, Mr and Mrs R.A. O'Connor, Victoria Huxley and Frances Kelly.
Emily Dickinson's poems (nos. 512, 414 and 642) are reprinted by permission of the publishers and the Trustees of Amherst College from The Poems of Emily Dickinson, edited by Thomas H. Johnson, Cambridge, Massachusetts: The Belknap Press of Harvard University Press, Copyright © 1951, 1955, 1979, 1983 by the President and Fellows of Harvard College. Quotations from poems nos. 430, 646, 590, and 642 from The Complete Poems of Emily Dickinson edited by Thomas H. Johnson, Copyright © 1929, 1935 by Martha Dickinson Bianchi; Copyright © renewed 1957, 1963 by Mary L. Hampson, reproduced by permission of Little, Brown and Company.
Every effort has been made by the author to contact the copyright holders of manuscript material. In some cases no replies were ever received to communications sent. The author therefore apologises to anyone whose name has been omitted due to inadequate or out of date information.
Introduction
Christina Rossetti fascinates because she is an enigmatic figure, in life and in literature. She is often remembered chiefly as Dante Gabriel's sister - an austere Victorian lady of formidable piety, dressed invariably in black, who wrote children's poetry and religious verses. One of her poems, set to music by Gustav Holst, has become one of the most popular Christmas carols, though many people sing 'In the Bleak Midwinter' without giving a thought to its author. It was typical of Christina that she chose to write, not of mangers and pretty Christmas-card scenes, but of the bleakness of winter cold. This bleakness also epitomised her religious creed and appealed to something ascetic and astringent deep inside a spirit that otherwise yearned for sunshine and the warmth of human relationships.
The quality Raymond Williams (writing on the Brontes) called 'an emphasis of want' was the essence of Christina Rossetti's poetry. Her brother Dante Gabriel would have preferred her to write of the beauties of nature - that was, after all, what a woman was expected to write about. But she chose instead to deal with the realities of life as she experienced them, including loneliness, betrayal, despair, sickness and death. Her poetry was not always sad. There was also joy, both the joy found in human love and the spiritual ecstasy of the soul, the two often indistinguishably fused together in the poems, because she saw in one a reflection or extension of the other. In her 'Monna Innominata' sonnet sequence she wrote about her love for God and for Charles Cayley
I cannot love you if I love not Him,
I cannot love Him if I love not you.
Although Christina was surrounded all her life by either the unconventional characters of the Italian emigre community, or the extraordinary relationships of the Pre-Raphaelites and their friends, she herself chose to be sternly conventional like her mother and her sister. But inside that conventional exterior was a passionate, angry woman who refused to dress according to the fashion and wrote poetry whose sensuality occasionally embarrassed her brothers.
'Finding' Christina as a person is not an easy task for the biographer. Not only did she herself destroy large quantities of personal material, but she also asked her friends and relatives to do the same. Some of them complied with her request, burning letters and deleting journal entries which referred to Christina. They did this, not to hide a family skeleton, but to protect the saintly image that had been constructed in the public mind. Dante Gabriel's portrayal of her as the meek virgin in his painting The Girlhood of Mary Virgin, MacKenzie Bell's careful hagiography, Katharine Tynan Hinkson's Santa Christina and William Rossetti's own respectful memoir, all foster the image of Christina as a dutiful daughter, sister and friend, unbelievably patient and repulsively pious. Christina would have been appalled. She once wrote to her brother Gabriel that she did not want to be seen as 'too dreamily sweet'.
William Rossetti was a good publicist and his carefully laundered account of his sister's life persisted for a long time, hardly challenged by the selection of letters and papers he passed on to posterity. There is no way of knowing how many of these he destroyed or edited. Though he was an essentially truthful man, he would not have considered it wrong to conceal material he thought might be harmful to Christina's reputation, or that he found too personal.
All that is left of the 'real' Christina are her letters, prose pieces and poetry. That this poetry was 'very subjective' she freely admitted, and the fact that after her death she had over three hundred unpublished poems - many of them judged too personal for publication, confirms her statement. She wrote to a family friend that her poems were not only the 'fruits of effort', but also the 'record of sensation, fancy etc', and her manuscript notebooks often read like an emotional diary, charting her moods, her fears and her dreams.
However, it would be a great mistake to regard her poetry as autobiography without corroborative evidence and, even then, the process by which a poet converts personal experience into art takes the finished result into the public rather than the private domain and involves alteration or selection of the facts. A biographer must be careful not to fall into the autobiographical trap and, conversely, must not use the life to explain the work too neatly. Lona Mosk Packer, whose Christina Rossetti was published in 1963, constructed her otherwise excellent biography around the hypothesis that Christina had a secret, lifelong love affair with a married man, W.B. Scott. The spectre she created from what she admitted was a 'tentative hypothesis', has haunted all subsequent biographers. Professor W. Fredeman, the leading Rossetti scholar, dismissed her theory as being derived from 'circumstantial evidence' culled from the poetry, for which there is not 'a single scrap of positive and direct proof. What evidence there is on Christina's relationship with the Scotts actually supports Professor Fredeman rather than L.M. Packer.
Her reason for putting forward this theory was the conviction that the circumstances of Christina's life and her existing love affairs were inadequate to account for the impassioned poetry she wrote. L.M. Packer's extraordinary conclusion is completely unsubstantiated. She herself writes 'I have not considered it necessary to qualify every statement made in the course of my narrative, or to supply documentary 'proof for every speculation hazarded'. She also assumes too readily that the date of composition of a poem is contiguous with the event which inspired it. Where a link between an event and a poem can be tentatively established, there is often a long period of gestation before Christina puts pen to paper. Nor does L.M. Packer take sufficiently into account the capacity of what Christina called the 'Poet Mind' to create 'unknown quantities'. Christina's imagination, particularly at the beginning of her career, was very acute, fed by gothic novels, romantic poetry and the Bible.
I have tried in this account of Christina's life to strip away some of the literary accumulations of the past years since her death in 1894 and, by studying the manuscript material and first hand recollections, and by a close analysis of her work, to put forward a picture that is, I hope, as close to the truth as Christina herself would have desired it to be.
PART ONE
Pricked To A Pattern
We call it love and pain,
The passion of her strain;
And yet we little understand or know:
Why should it not be rather joy that so
Throbs in each throbbing vein?
CHRISTINA ROSSETTI
'Twilight Calm'
7 February 1850
Chapter One
When Christina Rossetti was born on 5 December 1830, Elizabeth Barrett was twenty-four, already a published poet, and Emily Bronte, immersed in the imaginary world of Gondal at Haworth, was twelve. Five days after Christina's birth Emily Dickinson was born in Amherst on the other side of the Atlantic.
These four women, the most frequently anthologised of nineteenth-century women writers, shared more than mere historical proximity. They shared the 'double mischief of the female poet', struggling for credibility in a century when even a gifted author like Willa Gather could write that it was 'a very grave question whether women have any place in poetry at all'.¹ Although they never met, they read each other's work and influenced each other more than has been previously acknowledged. They belonged to a wider community of female poets which included Jean Ingelow, Felicia Hemans, Laetitia Landon, Dora Greenwell and Augusta Webster, now unknown, but all celebrated at the time. They were all connected together by a complex web of references and borrowings that demonstrate a shared experience of female poetic art.
They were not, in Emily Dickinson's vivid phrase, to be 'shut up in prose'. They inherited a shared literary tradition and there are striking parallels, both literary and personal, in their work. The poetry of one illuminates the poetry of the others, and to read them all is to be conscious of how much they had in common. And when they subvert the masculine literary tradition for their own purposes it is an exhilarating experience. Ellen Moers, in her book Literary Women writes that reading the love poetry of Christina Rossetti, Emily Bronte, Elizabeth Barrett and Emily Dickinson together is like 'uncorking a bottle of rare wine'.
Elizabeth Barrett Browning was the oldest of the group and held in such high regard that she was considered for the post of poet laureate when Wordsworth died. Her reputation could not be overlooked by the younger women. Elizabeth's art transcended her sex and situation. Her poetry exhibits the muscularity of a sinuous intellect and the fruits of a determined programme of self education. Her long poem Aurora Leigh casts light on the creative rage burning inside her contemporaries and, in particular, Christina Rossetti. The rage that divided Christina between the modesty demanded by her religion and her sex and her need to write and be recognised.
Like Elizabeth Barrett Browning's passionate heroine Aurora Leigh, Christina was both Italian and English. Christina's father Gabriele Rossetti was a political refugee who had come to England via Malta in 1824 after a dramatic escape from Naples disguised as an English sailor. He kept his Neopolitan nationality until he died. For Gabriele politics and patriotism were the 'permanent platform of life'. When he married in 1826 he was forty-three, eighteen years older than his wife Frances.
She was half-English, the daughter of Gaetano Polidori - another Italian exile - and his English wife Anna. Frances Polidori had been brought up in England, baptised as a Protestant and educated to earn her living as a governess. She was the epitome of the good Victorian wife - hard working, self effacing and modest to a fault, but it was dearly bought. Her son Gabriel told a friend that Frances Rossetti 'must have become an important figure in literature' if her remarkable intellectual gifts had not been stifled 'in some great degree ... by the exercise of an entire self-abnegation on behalf of her family.'2
There was a strong literary tradition within the family. Gaetano Polidori had been secretary to the Italian dramatist Alfieri and was himself an author. Frances' favourite brother, John, had been Byron's travelling physician and under the influence of Byron and Mary Shelley had written a gothic novel called The Vampyre. Gabriele Rossetti was famous in Italy for his patriotic verses, some of which were still being sung at the time of the First World War. He had also published controversial articles and books on Dante and Petrarch, all of which were banned in his native country as being anti-church and in some cases anti-Christian.
The newly-married Rossettis lived in London at No. 38 Charlotte Street, now renamed Hallam Street, a dingy cul-de-sac near Portland Place. It was a cramped terraced house in a rather run-down neighbourhood. Occasionally the more respectable inhabitants would make an effort to evict some of the dubious characters who lodged there, but without much success. The barber's shop, run by a 'local Figaro',was a source of much complaint, partly because of the indecent posters displayed in the window. But the street was cheap, and the Rossettis had very little money.
Gabriele held the post of Professor of Italian at King's College, London. From this and private teaching he earned only two or three hundred pounds a year. They were only able to afford one servant, though this was supplemented by a nursemaid when the children were small, and much of the housework and childcare fell on Frances, who was rarely seen during the day without what she called a 'pincloth' tied around her waist.
In the first four years of her married life Frances had four children. Maria Francesca in 1827, followed at yearly intervals by Gabriel Charles Dante, William Michael, and finally in 1830 Christina Georgina. They were all delivered by Dr William Locock, afterwards accoucheur to Queen Victoria. Gabriele insisted on the best possible attention for his wife, but, in spite of it, Frances Rossetti apparently had a 'fearful time' giving birth to Christina, which may explain why there were no more pregnancies.
All the children were baptised into the Protestant faith. Christina's godmother, whose name she was given, was a niece of the great Napoleon, Princess Christina Bonaparte, who was living in England at the time, and had married an Englishman. The Bonaparte family, including Louis - the former Napoleon III - were occasional visitors to the Rossetti household, bringing a little glamour to the dingy neighbourhood.
Other wealthy connections helped out with money from time to time. A friend of Coleridge, the Rt Hon John Hookham Frere, who lived in Malta and had helped Gabriele escape to England, sometimes sent fifty or a hundred pounds, and Charles Lyall, a Dante enthusiast living in Scotland, financed Gabriele's publications.
Apart from financial anxieties the marriage of Gabriele and Frances seems to have been happy: the only thing their children remembered them arguing about was religion. Gabriele was a lapsed Catholic, who although believing in the teachings of Christ did not believe in the 'supernatural and legendary elements' of the Christian faith. He was very free with his criticism of the scriptures and fervently anti-Catholic. William Rossetti remembered him holding forth on the story of Abraham, when he was ordered by God to sacrifice his beloved only son as a mark of his faith. Gabriele declared that if he'd been asked to do the same he would have replied, 'You aren't God, you are the Devil'.³
He loved his children, spoiling them with lollipops and sweets prohibited by Frances as 'trash'. He also wrote poems to them. One to Maria and Christina describes them as violets and roses, and beautiful 'turtle doves in the nest of love'. His main fault was what his son William described as that habit of self opinion 'which involves self applause'.⁴ The children sadly preferred their mother or their maternal grandfather Gaetano.
Frances, much stricter with the children than her husband, was very devout, and her husband's unorthodox views must have caused her some pain. Though her brothers were Catholic, she and her sisters had been brought up in the Protestant evangelical tradition of their English mother. They were later attracted by the High Church 'Tractarian' or 'Oxford' movement as it was sometimes called, based on the teachings of John Keble and Thomas Pusey. This movement saw the Anglican Church as a true branch of the Holy Catholic Church. Conversions to Rome rocked the movement to its foundations from time to time and engendered a deep distrust of Catholicism, particularly of its cult of the Virgin Mary. Family differences about religion and the continual divisions between Catholic and Anglican made a very deep impression on Christina as a child.
The family was otherwise a lively, unconventional and very Italian household. Although the children talked English to their mother, Italian was always spoken in the presence of their father and grandfather. William, the family historian, later recalled the house full of 'exiles, patriots, politicans, literary men, musicians. . . fleshy good natured Neopolitans, keen Tuscans, emphatic Romans'.⁵ They crowded into the small sitting room in the evenings, arguing and gesticulating. One of the more colourful characters who came to the house, a sculptor called Sangiovanni, was a bigamist and had apparently assassinated a man in Calabria. He made a paperweight for Christina which she kept until she died. Another friend from Italy brought her a locket of the Virgin and infant Christ set in mother-of-pearl.
The children were rarely asked to leave the room, whatever conspiracy was under discussion. They played on the hearth rug or under the table and were never segregated from the adults as other English middle class children were. None of the children grew up to be even vaguely interested in politics.
There was hardly any contact with other English families at all. The only children who came to the house were the offspring of Cipriano Potter, a friend of Gabriele's who was the Principal of the Royal Academy of Music. He was married to a pianist who moved in very fashionable circles and could have given Frances Rossetti an entree into society if she had wished it. Their two sons and two daughters were of a similar age to the Rossetti children, but they had little in common. They also played occasionally with the children of another musician, Signer Rovedino, who gave Maria singing lessons, but these occasions were rare. Like the Bronte children, the young Rossettis were dependent upon themselves for occupation and amusement, only one of the 'many points of resemblance' which contemporaries observed between the two families. The closeness of the children, their non-English heritage, their literary activities and the parallels between Branwell and Dante Gabriel can all bear comparison.
There was the usual sibling rivalry between the Rossetti children as their personalities began to develop. Maria, who could read Italian and English fluently by the age of five, was the eldest and most intellectually precocious of the four. She was also the least imaginative and was inclined to be jealous, particularly of Christina who was prettier and livelier than she was. Maria had a strong personality, a rich impressive voice and an imposing physical presence. She was dark complexioned, Italian looking - apparently taking after Gabriele's mother - and was considered to be extremely plain, even by her family. Christina nicknamed her Moon, or Moony, because of her round face and contemplative habit. Maria was very devout, even as a child, and shortly after her confirmation at the age of thirteen seems to have felt the call of a vocation. Religion became the chief concern of her life, her days revolving around prayer and little acts of service to others. Her brother William viewed Maria's influence on Christina with misgiving - feelings shared later by others. Maria's 'hard, convinced mind' and narrow outlook worked on Christina's sensitive and imaginative disposition in a restrictive way.
The eldest son Gabriel, who later chose to be known as Dante, was an engaging, spirited little boy who became the dominant member of the family, hot tempered and proud of his precocious artistic talent. His first sketches were made before he was five and the family decided that he should be trained to be an artist. He often teased Christina to the point where she was forced to call on William to defend her.
Gabriel and Christina were known as the 'two storms', inheriting their volatile Italian temperaments from their father. Christina was the more fractious of the two, passionate and given to terrible tantrums. But even as a child she had a special quality that caused adults to single her out. It was not just her fascination with and precocious use of words. In later life people who met her referred to her 'elusive fascination'. She was 'thoughtful, watchful, melancholy, wistful'. But none of the words used were adequate to describe the haunting quality she possessed, which her brother Gabriel tried to capture in his portraits of her as the Virgin Mary, the quality sought by Holman Hunt when he used her expression for the face of Christ in The Light of the World. Christina's grandfather Gaetano Polidori predicted that she would be the most brilliant of the four children - 'avra piu spirito di tutto''. Christina herself had no such expectations. She wrote in a letter to Edmund Gosse that 'I in particular beheld far ahead of myself the clever sister and two clever brothers who were a little (though but a little) my seniors. And as to acquirements, I lagged out of all proportion behind them, and have never overtaken them to this day'.⁶
William, only a year older, had a much more gentle disposition than Maria and was less volatile than either Gabriel or Christina. By nature affectionate and dependable, he also inherited his mother's modest demeanour and her capacity for hard work and self sacrifice. It was William and not Dante Gabriel who came to be regarded as the head of the family as their father's health declined. The effect of this premature responsibility was to make him more serious and pedantic than he might otherwise have been.
The Rossetti children invented fantastic stories - though nothing so exceptional as the Brontes' Gondal or Angria, and produced a family magazine called the Hodge Podge. They were also adept at a verse game called bouts-rimes where the contestants have to produce a sonnet using given rhymes. Christina and Gabriel vied with each other to win these contests and both developed a high standard of technical skill very early on. Christina was also a keen contributor to their other literary activities, composing her first poem before she could write, and later prose tales such as The Dervise and Retribution. They got many of their ideas from the stories and poems that Frances Rossetti read to them from her commonplace book, stimulating their love of literature long before they were old enough to read the texts for themselves.
The Hodge Podge and its successor, the Illustrated Magazine, were regular productions containing stories, poems and illustrations by the children. They wrote verses quite naturally. William could not remember a time 'when, knowing what a verse was, we did not also know and feel what a correct verse was'.⁷ His own published poetry, admired at the time, is now completely neglected.
Until Christina was nine, family holidays were spent in their grandparents' house near Little Missenden in Buckinghamshire. The journey by stage coach took six hours and became a major event to look forward to. At Holmer Green they had the freedom of the countryside and were allowed out for limited excursions unsupervised. Christina loved to wander alone in the garden, inspecting the small creatures who lived there. She told Edmund Gosse that
If any one thing schooled me in the direction of poetry, it was perhaps the delightful idle liberty to prowl all alone about my grandfather's cottage grounds . . . quite small, and on the simplest scale - but in those days to me they were vast, varied, worth exploring.⁸
Their grandmother Anna Polidori was a permanent invalid, confined to bed by one of those unspecified female afflictions that seem to litter the pages of Victorian novels. There was a son Philip still at home and described as 'weak-minded and rather odd'; a daughter Margaret, who appears to have suffered from nervous illness, and they were all looked after by the youngest daughter Eliza - an outspoken and unconventional woman who wore coal-scuttle bonnets twenty years after they had gone out of fashion and whose greatest comfort was that a day only lasted twenty-four hours.
Another brother, Henry, was an unsuccessful solicitor in London, despite having anglicised his name to Polydore. Frances' favourite sister Charlotte - the family nicknamed them 'Shadow and Substance' because of their respective sizes - was often away from home in Somerset working as a governess to the Marchioness Dowager of Bath.
Gaetano Polidori was more often in London than at Holmer Green. He rented two rooms near Oxford Street so that he could earn his living teaching Italian. He was a genuine eccentric, much loved by his grandchildren, who could be found translating Milton into Italian before lunch and indulging his passion for carpentry in the afternoon. He had apparently been present at the fall of the Bastille and had been rather disgusted by the proceedings. When given a sword by a Frenchman to dispatch any aristocrats he might happen to meet, he gave it away on the next street corner to the first unarmed Frenchman he came upon.
In 1839 Gaetano rented a house in Park Village East, Regents Park and moved his family there. This put a stop to the children's visits to Holmer Green and from then on they rarely left the city. Christina described herself as being 'pent up in London' and wrote of the 'delight reawakened' by the sight of primroses in a railway cutting at the age of fourteen - her