Relatively Painless
By Dylan Brody
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"My only complaint is that I wanted more, which is a good complaint to have. It made me laugh and cry and then laugh again and then pee and then cry. Lots of fluids lost. But in a good way. A book to make you appreciate the tragically funny and beautiful horror of family."
- Jenny Lawson, Author Let's Pretend This Never H
Dylan Brody
Dylan Brody (they/them), MSEd, is a doctoral student at the University of Georgia. They are currently the graduate research assistant for the Department of Educational Theory and Practice, with a focus on critical studies. Dylan began working as a full-time teacher with infants and toddlers in 2010 and fell deeply in love with the complexity of teaching young children. They worked collaboratively with a coteacher in a setting that utilizes a continuity of care model, providing Dylan the space and support needed to build intimate and meaningful connections with children and their families over the course of a three-year cycle. This time allowed them to create a more deeply reflective teaching practice and mindful rapport with families through daily moments of trust building. Dylan’s primary research and teaching interests focus on ethics, equity, critical theory, mindfulness, and advocacy for fellow teachers who experience marginalization. They prioritize care practices and policies that allow all members of the community to feel safer to be themselves and challenge the barriers in place that might prevent success for all. Dylan hopes to work more closely in the future with early childhood teachers in the LGBTQ+ community and to further advocate for trans visibility and representation in the field. Dylan currently lives in Athens, Georgia, with their beloved cat, Bean.
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Relatively Painless - Dylan Brody
PRAISE FOR RELATIVELY PAINLESS
My only complaint is that I wanted more, which is a good complaint to have. It made me laugh and cry and then laugh again and then pee and then cry. Lots of fluids lost. But in a good way. A book to make you appreciate the tragically funny and beautiful horror of family.
— Jenny Lawson
PRAISE FOR THE AUTHOR
Dylan Brody is funny in ways that don’t remind me of anyone.
– David Sedaris
His writing is brilliant.
– Robin Williams
… the twists of his psyche are cathartic for him and thrilling for an audience.
– Richard Lewis
Also By Dylan Brody
BOOKS
_____
Laughs Last
A Manifesto of Radical Optimism
The Modern Depression Guidebook
The Warm Hello
A Tale of a Hero and the Song of Her Sword
Heroes Fall (novella)
CDs
_____
Writ Large
Chronological Disorder
A Twist of the Wit
True Enough
Brevity
Road Tested (coming soon)
RELATIVELY PAINLESS
DYLAN BRODY
atmosphere press
Copyright © 2020 Dylan Brody
Published by Atmosphere Press
Cover design by Ronaldo Alves
No part of this book may be reproduced
except in brief quotations and in reviews
without permission from the publisher.
Works
originally appeared in American Bystander #7. Comedy of Manners
originally appeared in American Bystander #6. Memory’s a Funny Thing
originally appeared in American Bystander #4.
Relatively Painless
2020, Dylan Brody
atmospherepress.com
CONTENTS
WEIGHT
VENT
SILENT
CATCH
FUNERAL
NOSTALGIA
HAIR
LAYOVER (ONE)
PLAN
WORKS
UNSPOKEN
LAYOVER (TWO)
COMEDY OF MANNERS
HUNGER
LATE
GIFT
MEMORY’S A FUNNY THING
LAYOVER (THREE)
TWO EMAILS
TRANSPARENCY
WEIGHT
Paul and Ellen said the last goodbyes at the Mathesons’ front door as the kids crunched down the walkway through the snow. Each step broke through the thin frozen layer. The soft powder underneath compressed with a gentle squeak.
Daniel pushed his hands into his pockets and kept his eyes on the slight depression that marked the pathway. Lindsay said, It’s not gonna be any warmer in the car.
Daniel said, Yeah.
Then, after another moment, They won’t be long.
Lindsay made a snorty noise that Daniel recognized as one she had learned from their father.
Behind them, Ellen laughed louder than could possibly have been warranted by anything short of a Richard Pryor punch line. She would have said Jack Benny. Daniel made the same snorting noise he had just heard his big sister make.
Lindsay chuckled at the sound, not having recognized it when it came from her own sinuses but knowing it instantly when it came from Daniel’s. She worked the latch with cold fingers and then pulled the car door open. Daniel climbed in, hands-and-kneesing across the pleather bench to the driver’s side. Lindsay took her own seat behind the empty front passenger’s seat. She pulled the door closed with a crunchy slam and they sat together in the cold car, waiting.
Daniel blew into his cold hands.
Lindsay fastened her seatbelt with a chilly click.
Beyond the glass, at the far end of the snow-frozen walkway, their parents had not yet turned away from the Mathesons.
I made Gary laugh twice at dinner.
Lindsay said, Gary’s a pig.
Daniel shrugged. I like him.
You like anyone who laughs at your stupid jokes.
Not just the stupid ones.
What?
Why is he a pig?
Lindsay shook her head in a way that suggested she thought Daniel was an idiot. He just sits there chatting with Mom and Dad while Louise brings out dinner, serves everyone, then after dinner, she’s up and clearing the table and he just sits there with Mom and Dad talking about what kind of scotch he likes. And then, and then she picks up his ashtray to empty like she’s some kind of a maid and—did you see?—he slaps her on the ass? And you don’t see why I think he’s a pig?
I don’t think she minded it.
Which?
Any of it. I think she was having a good time.
Lindsay said nothing then. Daniel knew she was mad at him now, but he didn’t understand why other than that he had disagreed with her.
Paul and Ellen had gotten halfway down the path now, but they stopped and turned back to shout a last remark at their hosts. The Mathesons laughed and waved them off. They went in and shut the door, closing the light inside. Paul held Ellen’s elbow to steady her as they made their way through the crunching, squeaking snow. He didn’t seem much steadier than she did.
He circled the car to get in the driver’s seat as Ellen slid in on the passenger’s side in front of Lindsay. She pulled the door closed and pulled the shoulder harness across her body, snapping it into its latch. Paul started up the car, turned on the heat and left it in neutral, gently pressing and releasing the gas pedal. He waited a full two minutes like that before the temperature gauge started to show a response. Then he put the transmission into drive and pulled away from the curb.
He drove in silence until the car slipped onto Route Twenty-Nine. After another thirty seconds or so, Ellen said, Gary said I look terrific.
Paul said, He’s gotten really heavy.
Louise is in great shape.
She runs. I see her on campus.
Running, you mean?
Yeah.
He really has gotten soft.
Then after a moment’s pause, Still, it was nice to hear that I look terrific.
I tell you that.
Yeah, yeah.
I tell you that all the time.
You have to say that. You’re my husband.
I have to say that?
Yes.
I had no idea. I was just saying it when I noticed how terrific you look.
Very funny.
Lindsay sighed.
Daniel said, I like Gary.
Ellen said, That’s because he laughs at your jokes.
Paul said, You were funny tonight.
Ellen said, Paul, don’t encourage.
The car fishtailed on the ice and in a tense moment Paul focused on the road, turned into the skid and regained control of the car on the dark, empty highway.
Ellen said, He was really flirting with me, I think.
Lindsay murmured, Jesus,
very quietly, her derision a small performance for Daniel. He did not know why she seemed so angry.
Paul said, Who could blame him? You look terrific.
Ellen punched Paul in the arm as he drove, not hard, not angrily. You think it bothers him that you haven’t—you know . . .
Gotten soft?
Yeah.
Lindsay said, now loudly enough to be heard from the front seat, Maybe they don’t obsess about the weight of everyone they encounter.
Paul said, I don’t think we obsess.
Lindsay made the snorting noise.
Ellen said, Don’t do that, Linds.
Paul said something then, but the rocking of the car and the slow-spreading warmth had begun to take its toll on Daniel. His forehead rested against the cool glass of the window for a moment and then he changed his position so he could curl up on the wide bench. His head rested on his sister’s lap and she allowed it.
She ran her fingers through his hair and then circled a fingertip gently against his temple.
The conversation from the front seat reached him as sleep muffled murmurs, but the words did not really matter. He had heard them many times before, the discussion as familiar as the smell of laundry detergent, as predictable as the Thursday night television lineup.
He did not fully understand what it meant to obsess. He did not know whether it was something his parents did or not. He knew that weight was what they talked about after visiting people. He knew that they spoke about Lindsay’s weight in a near whisper when she was not in the room.
He fought his way back to the surface for a moment, struggled to remain conscious and said to his sister, I think you look terrific, Lindsay.
Lindsay said, You don’t have to say that, Dan.
I know.
If you’re not going to sleep, I’m kicking you off my lap.
So, he stopped talking then and allowed the darkness to rise about him like water. In his dreams he was buoyant, floating. Paul and Ellen compared their own appearance to that of their erstwhile hosts as the car rolled up over the seasonal frost heaves, the gentle inclines. At the peak of each rise, the momentum of the vehicle nearly lifted it from the pavement. In those moments, head resting on his older sister’s sharp, dancer’s thigh, the delightful sensation reminded Daniel of Gary’s effortless, friendly laugh as he experienced just a taste of weightlessness.
VENT
They huddled over the vent, the Grunman children. Not for heat today but to listen. They crouched on the floor of their parents’ bedroom, directly above the kitchen, and tried to make out the words. The tenor, clear, terrified them. Much of what was said below came muffled, distorted by the hidden ducts. They strained against the echo and ring to find sense in the syllables.
Their mother’s anger rose to peak volume and then tensed to a feline growl. Then their father, his rage a clenched threat, gripped an apology between feral jaws. They had never heard this before, this fury in their home. So, they huddled. They listened.
Daniel, the younger of the two, said, Do you think—?
Lindsay cut him off with a look. Nine years old, she had already learned her mother’s warning glare.
Daniel’s eyes widened at her, an expression of urgency. She put a finger to her lips telling him that if he absolutely must speak, he should do it softly. He whispered. Do you think we’re not going?
They were both already dressed for the outdoors, for the cool spring day, for a promised visit to the carnival that had set up in the wide parking lot of the A&P in Saratoga Springs. They had started with the casual mention of the flyer they’d seen on the bulletin board at school, then escalated to carefully timed imaginings of what it would be like as off-handed dinner conversation. They had slowly, deliberately led their parents to come to their own decision that it would be a fun activity for the whole family. Perhaps over the weekend. Yes. Maybe on Sunday, late morning when it would be less crowded; so many families would be at church, they might nearly have the whole place to themselves.
Daniel mostly loved the rides. He loved the feeling of motion and danger although he never screamed and shrieked like the other children. He would feel a grin coming on as he reached the front of the queue and it would stay with him as he walked the shaky plank to the roller coaster car or the Ferris wheel carriage, to the Tilt-a-Whirl seat like a vinyl-booth diner bench in a tin bubble. He would nod at the young grown-ups whose job it was to lower the safety bars in front of him and then, as the ride started, he would shift into a mindset of analytical intellect. There’s no actual danger, he would remind himself in that sub-lingual way of inner soothing. The place would be shut down if people got hurt. He would sit as others screamed around him, feeling the shift and pull of the great centrifuge, the rise and peak of the squeaking swing cage, the time bomb ticking of the upward incline and the weightless drop of that first plummeting coast. He turned inward to find the muscle groups reacting to the unexpected banking left, the sudden lurching halt, the pressing shift of momentum. He loved each of these as though every moment was its own micro-adventure and he prided himself on his ability to enjoy the sensation without the screeching panic that took so many people as they rose and fell, as they rotated and revolved. As he stepped away from each, again the grin would take him, the sheer joy of it all, the anticipation of the next thrill that he might examine from just enough of a psychic distance that it could not touch him.
Lindsay had very little interest in most of the rides, save the Tilt-a-Whirl which she said reminded her of what she always wanted dancing to feel like. She loved the mazes and the fun houses. From the scare-at-every-turn spooky palace to the labyrinth of mirrors, if she could hand someone tickets to walk through a doorway, she would pay the price to enter the warren. Once, at the small amusement park at Kadyross Lake, Daniel had stood outside watching her navigate the house of glass. As others about her, kids and adults alike, took delight in bumping up against transparent dead ends and struggling with the low-level anxiety of claustrophobic disorientation, Lindsay walked the maze, head down, pace so steady she might as well have been coming home from school, text books under her arm. Once she started down a wrong corridor, stopped before reaching the end, retraced her steps and resumed her walk to the exit.
You didn’t look like you were having any fun at all,
he said to her.
It’s not as hard as it looks,
she said. Then, after a brief pause, I think most people pretend it’s hard, so they feel like it’s worth the price.
She headed immediately for a fun house with the slanty floors and the glow-in-the-dark perspective illusions and he tagged after his older sister.
The rides too. People scream like it’s scary.
She shrugged then. I like the mazes. Puzzles. You know?
He didn’t but he said, Uh-huh,
anyway.
Listening to the fight shouting and rumbling up through the branching, bending ductwork, Daniel and Lindsay could sense one another’s fear.
Their parents argued from time to time but that took the form of disagreements, usually about what the kids should or shouldn’t eat at what time of day or whether they were flush enough as a family to go to a movie opening weekend or if they would have to wait until the next paycheck came in. Whoever lost such a dispute would put up his or her hands in defeat and say, Okay, okay.
And then after a moment, But I get points.
The points supposedly could be cashed in on a future disagreement. They never were. Sometimes if Dad got his feelings hurt, he might take cruel verbal jabs at his wife over dinner, caustic jokes with an antiseptic sting. When Mom carried resentment over something, she took on an overly cheerful tone and chattered on about innocuous inanities as though she might paint over her displeasure in bright hues of desperate yellow. The very worst of arguments consisted of a few curt words and then an hour of silence underscored by the measured drone of National Public Radio’s All Things Considered.
Today, though, the conflict felt violent to the children, listening,