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"When you feel surrounded by darkness, the beauty of a single fraction of light is astonishing, but that light is not always gifted to us; sometimes we must create it for ourselves."
In a world increasingly full of "love and light" and happy, toxic- positivity, Cate
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Not Normal Things - Cate McMurray
Not Normal Things #1
Seeing & Hearing Dead People
Part I
My first experience of hearing and seeing spirit (that I can remember) happened when I was about five years old. Of course, I didn’t know that’s what it was then, and that’s probably why I wasn’t frightened either. As far as I was concerned, I just heard and felt people that didn’t exist, and I think at that age I didn’t really even question it; it was just something that happened.
It was subtle in the early days, an unexpected feeling of someone, or something, breathing in my ear when I was looking the other way. A voice I didn’t recognise that was loud enough to make me turn around but not loud enough to be real.
The first time I remembered it happening it was fleeting and gentle, and took place in one of the bedrooms in our house, which was a home vastly different to most people’s.
My parents had starting managing a snooker club when I was three. It was a live-in position, so we (my two sisters, my Mum and Dad and me) had moved into this grand, beautiful and vast Victorian building with the snooker room and bar on the top floor and the living quarters on the bottom, a couple of years previously. We wouldn’t have understood it at the time, but as we got older, this wonderful place become a veritable playground for my two younger sisters and I. Our large bedroom was on the ground floor at the front, and it had the biggest windows I’d ever seen! It was a lovely room, and one that my sisters and I shared together.
One particular morning I’d woken and I was sat upright about to get out of bed. Out of nowhere, I felt a breeze sweep across my face, and at the same time I heard someone call my name.
"Catherine…"
It was the soft and rather beautiful voice of a woman, not one that I knew, and I could almost feel her hand lovingly stroke my cheek as the whisper disappeared into the ether.
Looking back, I don’t really know what I thought about it at that stage of my life, but I do know that it didn’t scare me, or confuse me enough to tell my Mum, and I guess I thought it happened to everyone. It wouldn’t be long until that changed though, and very soon my experiences of spirit would become much more than whisperings or quiet breezes of air, and I would know what it felt like to feel very afraid of things that I couldn’t explain.
There were two staircases in the club. One was part of the main entrance hall to the building that the general public used as the entry and exit to the snooker club, and a smaller one, just for us, which led directly from the living quarters to the door of the snooker room.
The main staircase was imposing with its incredibly wide steps and beautiful sweeping oak banister. There were about ten steps down to a large landing before another, much longer, set of steps. The wide, always shiny, wooden banister swept down them all with the kind of grandeur that you would expect from a building that was enhanced in the 1870’s, and in the years that we lived there, my sisters and I flew down it on our bottoms, squealing with excitement (and a little bit of fear) many, many times.
The smaller staircase was encased by stone walls and had a door at the top. It couldn’t be more different from its sister staircase, and its small steps wound tightly around a corner before leading down to a second wooden door. When the door at the bottom was shut, the staircase was dark and whilst it may not have been very long, the trip down it felt uneasy and made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up, even if I was with someone else.
The snooker room was huge and housed two full size snooker tables, a few dart boards, and a stage for spectators to sit and watch the ongoing matches. There were little wooden benches like small church pews around the edges of the room. The windows were small and original to the building. They adorned both sides of the room, but not the back wall.
When it was busy it was filled with men (and the occasional woman) taking their sport seriously, and yet there was always laughter and a great feeling of comradery. I remember the blue chalk, the sound of the cues hitting the balls and the creaking of the ancient floorboards as people moved round the tables positioning themselves for their next shot. It was a fun place to be when we were allowed in, and the glass of coke and KitKat we always got, only added to the fun!
When it was empty, it was very different. It was cold, slightly foreboding and deathly quiet. There was a weird undercurrent of energy that made me feel uneasy, and although I didn’t understand why it made me so uncomfortable, I really didn’t like it.
The first time I ever felt really frightened of something I couldn’t actually see was in that room. I was about eight years old and I’d gone in there as my sisters and I were playing hide and seek. You might think that was a slightly odd place to choose to hide if you didn’t like being in a room, but the legs of the snooker tables were as wide as tree-trunks, and I could get underneath the tables and hide perfectly behind them without being seen. It was, of course, one of our favourite hiding places, but with the house being so big, it was one of many.
The building was echoey, and you could easily hear the footsteps of people moving around. You could hear the pitter patter of shoes on the cold, hard, ancient flagstone floor that covered the dining room, and the same tell-tale sound also gave away any movement on the Minton tiled hallways and corridors – even those made by the quietest of tippy-toes. The smaller staircase would creak under the slightest weight, and there were so many doors that it was almost impossible to travel anywhere silently.
As I crouched behind the giant table leg of the first table in the room, I could hear my little sister making her way through the house on her mission to find one of us. I heard doors opening, and little shoes quietly running down the carpeted landing. From behind the table leg, I saw the door handle of the snooker room depress, and it opened slowly. Just as I expected her to enter the room, she must have heard something that convinced her to look somewhere else, and went the other way. The door was left door ajar.
I was sat with my eyes fixed on the door, waiting for someone to enter and discover my predictable hiding place. It moved and opened slightly, as if someone invisible had squeezed past it into the room and suddenly the air around me became icy cold. Before I even had time to wonder what was going on, I felt someone blow in my ear. It was the same way that it had happened many times previously, but this time it felt different - not at all gentle, and there was a sound with it too; laughter. I heard it as clear as day; a man, whispering a menacing laughter in my right ear. I could feel him right behind me, almost engulfing my small frame as I froze in fear. Every hair on my body stood on end, and my heart raced. I held my breath so as not to move. I didn’t know what was happening but I was incredibly scared. Some-how despite the overwhelming fear, I jumped into action. I clumsily scrambled out from under the table, hitting various parts of my body on the substantial and low table frame as I did, and ran towards the open door. The room was still icy cold, and I could feel him
following me. His energy was so strong that I looked over my shoulder as I fled the room, as if I would actually see a man running after me, but I didn’t. I ran back to the safety of downstairs as fast as my little legs would carry me to find my sisters, still trying to work out what had just happened.
Who was it? Was it all in my head? Maybe I’d been under the table too long and my brain had got bored and invented a story? Did this happen to other people too, or was it just me? I didn’t know the answers, but I was terrified, and the empty snooker room had just escalated it’s ranking from foreboding, to scariest room in the world!
I was just a child. Most people who are not used to a connection with spirit would find that a terrifying experience at the age of thirty, forty, fifty, and here I was experiencing it at an incredibly young age. I had no idea what to do about it either. I didn’t tell anyone, not even my Mum, despite our beautifully close relationship. What would I have said anyway - that I saw the door move and then heard a man laughing in my ear nastily and he scared me? People would just think I had a vivid imagination and tell me it was nothing to worry about, or at least that’s what I thought they’d say. So, I kept it to myself and tried to forget about it. As it turned out, that would prove to be a pointless task.
Time passed, as it does, and as I grew, spirit continued to make itself known to me more and more. I felt people brush past me as I was moving about the house. I heard noises that came from nothing, and smelt things I couldn’t explain. I saw shadows where there shouldn’t have been any. I heard my name called hundreds of times, over and over and over again. I felt energies around me, and by now I had worked out for myself that I could see and hear dead people. I didn’t know what to make of it all, and I knew that it wasn’t something everyone experienced either, so I kept it to myself in the hope that I wouldn’t have to do anything, and maybe it would just stop one day. Of course, it doesn’t work like that, but I was still very young, and it was the only plan I had.
There were areas of the house I didn’t like going anymore, and whenever I could, I avoided them. The small staircase was one of those. It totally freaked me out but I didn’t know why. Nothing had ever happened
to me there, I just had a weird and scary feeling every time I used it. Weirdly, the explanation for that would come many years later when I would be an adult, and meet someone who helped me fill in the blanks…I’ll get to that in a bit, promise.
The snooker room still held its title as scariest room in the world, and when I did have to go in there, I tried my hardest to make sure I wasn’t alone at least. Even when it was full with the men and women who came to enjoy their hobby in the evenings, I could feel the darker energy I had experienced (many times by now) and chose to stay at the other end of the room away from the door and stage area. Somehow it felt safer down there despite the lack of light from the solid stone wall. The energy was different, so I stayed in the shadows whenever it was possible.
One of the most common occurrences for me at this time, was interaction with another child. She followed me around the house, she sometimes spoke, but I saw her often and felt her beside me daily. I didn’t know her name, and didn’t give her one. I could sometimes see her walking alongside me, and it was always in the same part of the house too. I wasn’t afraid of her but honestly, sometimes she annoyed me which was odd because she was happy, and smiley, and not in any way intrusive. I suppose at that time I just wanted to be left alone and be like everyone else. But I couldn’t, and I wasn’t, and maybe had I had a better understanding of what was happening to me and how to deal with it, I wouldn’t have found her annoying at all. All of these things were happening to me before the age of ten, and knowing that you can see and hear people that are no longer here is a really difficult thing to comprehend as a child. Obviously as an adult, or even teenager, you can access information yourself and discover what it is you actually believe you’re experiencing, but as a child that’s impossible without asking for help, which I didn’t do. My decision to keep it to myself, and my inability to talk to anyone about it, meant that for a long time I believed I was incredibly weird, and probably a bit mad.
When I was eleven, we moved house. We left the snooker club, and moved into a detached house just like everyone else’s, in the same town. It was a lovely house and although it had a much smaller garden than we were used to, I loved it. For a long time, there were no whisperings, no cold breezes, no callings of my name, nothing. It was quiet, and for a while I began to think that I’d left all of the dead people behind. Silly me.
Over the next couple of years, I developed a new skill and one that I didn’t like at all. I started having vivid dreams and was astonished by how different they felt to my usual ones. Sometimes I would wake up crying and feeling completely panicked about the things that I’d been shown during my sleep, and others I would wake in a calmer state, but with a weird sort of knowing that things weren’t quite as they seemed.
I lost count of the amount of times that I had a dream about a certain place, person and event during the night, only to wake up the next day and find myself unexpectedly living out the exact re-enactment of it all with that person, in that place, doing that thing.
I remember being about twelve and dreaming
that my Uncle phoned my Mum in the morning and asked her if we all wanted to go to a certain park for the day. I dreamt about the planning, the picnic, and the big green slide that was there. I dreamt about what my Uncle was wearing, and who went, and how long it took to get there, and every minute detail that you could think of. I remember the colours, the sand, and how it smelt when we were there, and I woke up the next morning knowing that the phone would ring, and it did.
There was a lot of planning. My Mum made the picnic. We went to that park. There was a big green slide. We saw and did all the things I’d dreamt. It smelt exactly as it had the night before, and it was really the first time that I fully understood that this was a very real thing that was happening to me, and not just a whole bunch of coincidences that had just fallen into a convenient line. I was twelve years old, and not only could I see, hear and feel dead people, but now, I also had prophetic dreams.
The darker side of that soon became apparent too. There was a night when I awoke from a terrible dream in which my older cousin had been mugged on the subway. I saw her hurt, and I was really scared. I saw it all happen in my nightmare and woke up very distressed and crying. I had a familiar knowing in the pit of my stomach, and that scared me even more. I went and woke my Mum, and through my tears told her what I’d dreamt. She comforted me, and told me not to worry, and promised she would speak to my Aunty to check on my cousin the next day. True to her word (as always) she called my Aunty who informed her that my cousin had been to hospital after being mugged on the tube the night before. She was ok, but obviously very shaken up. Neither me or my mum knew what to say, so we didn’t really say anything. She reassured me that everything was alright and told me not to worry. Looking back on it now, she must have been as freaked out as I was, and probably had all the same questions that I had too.
It wasn’t the last time that awful events I saw in my sleep would come to be replicated in life, but it was definitely the time that things started to feel more serious for me. The weight of knowing that I saw terrible events at some point before they happened was terrifying, but I knew there was nothing I could do to stop it from happening.
It had been a while since I’d spoken to, heard, or saw spirit, and with the prophetic dreams happening, I kind of forgot about that side of things. And then something happened that forced me to remember.
I’m from a very close family, and a big one too! My Mum has two brothers and a sister, all of who had at least three children each. We all grew up together and my sisters and I, and three of my cousins, spent such a huge amount of time together that we were more like brothers and sisters than cousins. My Nan and Grandad were right at the centre of our family, and we saw them a lot. My Nan was one of thirteen children, and was a very strong, dominant woman. In fact, she was pretty fierce and we didn’t mess her around. Despite her sometimes-scary nature, she was really loving and spent most of her time baking and cooking for us all. I loved her to bits. My Grandad was like her antidote. He was fun, and gentle and so mild natured. He always had a smile on his face, and a sarcastic quip ready for you when you walked in. Everyone adored him, including me of course, and he always knew exactly what to say, and when to say it.
My Grandad became ill at some point after we moved house, I don’t remember exactly when, or for how long, but it was hard and there came a time when my sisters and I didn’t go to see him anymore as it would have been too upsetting. My Mum went to see him all the time; they had a very special relationship, and she told us after one of her visits that he was gravely ill.
Some weeks passed and my Grandad was still with us. It was a day like any other. One of those totally unremarkable days where my Mum had been to work, my sisters and I had been to school and everything just happened as usual. You know the drill; home, tea, bath, bed.
I climbed into bed and went to sleep.
I heard my name, just once. I opened my eyes, and even with my head still on the pillow, I noticed an incredible sense of calm. I sat up, and there at the end of my bed, was my Grandad. He had a cup and saucer in his hands, and he was looking right at me. He had his burgundy knitted tank top on with its big horn buttons down the front, and his tie knotted at the neck of his shirt. He winked at me (it was one of his trademarks), smiled, turned his head and took a sip of his tea, and then he was gone. I knew at that moment that my Grandad had passed away. It was just before three o’clock in the morning. I didn’t feel grief, just an enormous sense of peace, so I laid back down and went back to sleep.
In the morning, my Mum came into our bedroom and told us she needed to speak to us. My sisters and I went into the dining room and sat at the table. It was then that my Mum told us that Grandad had died. It was a painful time, especially for my Mum, and of course we were all upset and incredibly sad to have lost him, but for me, there was a peacefulness too. Almost like I knew he wasn’t lost completely and was still with us even though we couldn’t physically touch or see him.
Our entire family came over that morning, and everyone gathered to share the grief, and to comfort one another. At some point I went upstairs to the toilet, and when I came out, my cousin was coming up the stairs towards me. He asked me if I was alright, and when I said I was fine he added that he was worried about me. I asked him why, and he said:
Because you haven’t cried yet and I’m worried you’re holding it all in.
I don’t actually remember what I said in return, but I do know it definitely wasn’t along the lines of:
No, honestly, I’m fine. I saw Grandad at three o’clock this morning because he came to say goodbye.
That truth was not something I felt able to share so we hugged, and went downstairs together to join the rest of our family. I couldn’t help but think about how seeing my Grandad that morning had had such a massive effect on how I was dealing with his passing. It was the beginning of me coming to terms with all the things that I saw, felt and heard, and the event that cemented spirituality into my life, even though I didn’t realise it at the time (thank you Grandad).
I kept seeing spirit, kept hearing and feeling things, and more or less kept going as I always had until I was in my mid-twenties. It was at that age when I met a lady who would turn out to become a really significant figure in my life. Her name was Sally, and she opened a shop in the town I had grown up in, moved away from, and had at this time then moved back to. It was my favourite kind of shop… one filled with quirky oddities, old pieces of furniture that had been brought back to life, and lots of vintage loveliness! I loved it, and used to visit whenever I had a chance.
Sally was an interesting woman. She seemed well travelled (it turned out she was), and she had an unusual way about her that intrigued me. She was a healer, and did what she called Cranial Sacral Healing
, something I’d never heard of before, which only heightened my interest.
I got to know her through visiting the shop and spending time there. There was a corner for customers to sit and have coffee. It had a sofa with a big purple throw over it and crazy artwork on the walls. She was friendly, and always made a drink when I went in, so we often sat talking, sometimes for hours and hours at a time.
We talked about all sorts. Spirit, healing, the human condition, and everything in between. It seemed that I had found someone who understood some of the things that happened to me, and it was reassuring and comforting to know that. I still didn’t talk about my own spiritual experiences much, I just listened to hers, and it helped.
One day I went to have a look around as I knew from a conversation we’d had earlier in the week that she had been on a massive buying trip. I loved seeing all the new things and where she’d put them. As she started showing me some of the newest treasures in the first room, I heard a strange noise from the bigger one next door. It was like someone had shouted loudly at us, and Sally heard it too. We looked at each other perplexed, and started to walk through to the other room quickly.
When we got in there, there was nothing to see. There was no one there, and no sign of anyone having been there either. There were no cars outside and not a soul to be seen. The lights started wildly flickering, and after more strange noises it became apparent that it was spirit. It was the only time I had experienced spirit making themselves known, and not be on my own. Sally’s eyes flickered and I remember her saying something like:
I’m not having that! They can fuck off if they think they’re gonna mess me about!
It was brilliant and hilarious. This woman was boldly and categorically laying down the law to an unknown spirit that had come in with something that she’d brought on her trip (that was what we surmised). It awoke a realisation inside me that the things I’d had no control over at all, were actually controllable, or at least it seemed, in some way.
As we stood in the room chatting and laughing, I suddenly had an overwhelming urge to find something. I didn’t know what, but I knew there was something in the room that I needed